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On May 17, 2011, a tragic accident ever so suddenly took away our pride and joy.  We have created this memorial website to remember and honor Chris.

Our lives have forever changed by Chris' passing and our hearts are broken into pieces.  

We appreciate so much for everybody's prayer and support.  Our family will stay strong and get through this tragedy.  Please browse through this site and leave any memory you may want to share.

Christopher, Mommy, Daddy and Eric miss you so much.  We will reunite in heaven one day.  Until we meet again, bless all of your friends and family on earth, our angel...

December 1, 2016
December 1, 2016
Happy “24” Birthday! Dearest Grandson Chris!
     祝你生日快乐!我们的宝贝Chris,很久没有给您留言,您和公公过得好吗?真的是非常非常想念您和公公,今天我们三人去看太婆婆,公公和您,给您带了花和小气球,您爸爸在上海工作不能一起来,再次祝你生日快乐!奶奶Love You So So So------ Much!
May 17, 2016
May 17, 2016
Chris...My dear Chris....think of you often....I Love you and miss you!
May 17, 2016
May 17, 2016
Dear Chris,

Five years has passed since you left yet we all miss your presence, especially during any events such as birthdays of family members, holidays as well as the recent Eric's college graduation ceremony. 
The only comfort is knowing that you are now with Gon Gon by God's side and
surrounded by angels!
May 17, 2016
May 17, 2016
Hey Buddy:

Five years!! Can't believe it!!

Great news! Eric graduated from Rutgers and even Obama came to give the commencement speech. We are all so proud of him and hope he will find a good job. 

Miss you everyday. Hope you are having fun up there with Gongon, Grandpa Hans and all others you love. We will come to see you next week. Love you so much!!!
May 17, 2016
May 17, 2016
Dearest Chris: 我们的宝贝孙儿,真是无法相信,您离开我们已经5年了,您知道吗?我们都还是每时每刻的思念着您,失去你和公公的离开,都给了我人生中无比巨大的打击,比起来,您的突然离开,更是久久难以接受,对不起我的宝贝,原谅奶奶的软弱,报告一个喜讯,我们的Eric胜利完成了大学学业,毕业了,是我们家的大喜事,奶奶也去参加他的毕业典礼,他穿了毕业礼服,戴上了方帽子,真是神气漂亮,我们说Eric做得好!谢谢他!他将要走上社会,我们大家为他祝福,希望他一切顺利,能有一个他喜欢的工作,您和公公也一定为Eric的今天而高兴,您爸爸为了工作仍旧是经常上海纽约两地奔波,非常辛苦,您爸爸不在纽约时,您妈妈常常会来探望我,我们在一起时,就会回忆您小时候很多有趣的事,也似乎历历在目,今年是您的本领年,猴年,您今年24岁,我们家的白马王子,谢谢您陪伴和照顾公公,不日我们将相会天家,奶奶将再给你做您喜爱的Big Bow 面面,您百吃不厌的面面,Love You!Darling Grandson!
February 7, 2016
February 7, 2016
Dearest Chris:   My Darling Grandson:
    Happy Chinese New year!
    2016 year of Monkey! This is Your Year "Monkey Year",
    Thank You Take Care Gon Gon!
    Love You, Miss you so much!!!
January 16, 2016
January 16, 2016
My Darling Chris, We miss you so much. It is said time heals all wounds but I do not think that to be true. Know that we miss you and think of you daily. I hope you are showing Gon-Gon the ropes up in Heaven. Celebrate Gon-Gon's birthday! Love you! Mom
January 16, 2016
January 16, 2016
Darling Chris:My #1 Grandson:
   We so miss you and Gon-Gon, Thank you take care G-G,
To-day is G-G's 87 Birthday, Eric is here, I made " Big Bow m m",
you and G-G, 我们太想念您和公公,谢谢您!我们的宝贝!
January 16, 2016
January 16, 2016
Today marked a milestone for me: Eric went to Woodside by himself and even took Neinei shopping for a new sofa. I know this may not be seen as a big deal but was very emotional for me. Thinking about those thousands of trips to Woodside when you guys were kids......

He even had a "Big Bowl Noodle" in honor of Gongon's birthday. Great job!!

Love you and miss you,

Dad from Shanghai
January 10, 2016
January 10, 2016
Hey Buddy:

It's Gongon's birthday. We cut a cake and please do so as well. We always celebrated together. Going back to Shanghai next week. Take care and talk to you soon. Love you always and we all miss you terribly.
January 1, 2016
January 1, 2016
Dearest Chris:
My Darling Grandson:
     Happy New Year!Happy 2016!
        谢谢您陪伴公公,谢谢您,太想念您们了!
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
Hey buddy, you are 23 today! How time flies! Mom and I really miss you. Take good care of Gongon. We all love you so much. Will go to see you after I return home.       - Dad -
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
Happy birthday to you Chris! How time flies and you are now 23 in heaven keeping grandpa company. 
We all miss you very much but knowing that you are under the wing of our Almighty God in heaven and that we will all join you sooner or later lessen the pain somewhat. 
With love,
Dolly
December 1, 2015
December 1, 2015
My Dearest Grandson,
    Darling Christopher:
Happy 23 B-day to you! NeiNei Love you! Miss you! So------much!
   Thank you! take good care Grandpa, 公公是最最喜欢您的,如今您们可以在一起,就拜托您照顾公公,我不久就会和您们相聚,再祝生日快乐!我的宝贝孙子!
May 17, 2015
May 17, 2015
Dear Chris,
It is said "time heals all wounds" that is not true. Miss you every day.
Love you,
Mom
May 17, 2015
May 17, 2015
Dear Chris, time flies it's been four years since you left us, we all miss you so much and our love for you never cease. Now that you have grandpa to keep you company, sooner or later we will all join you and will never be separated again.
With much love from Dolly
May 17, 2015
May 17, 2015
Dearest Chris:  Darling Grandson:
您离开我们4年了,奶奶仍旧无法相信,总是感到您随时会出现在面前,公公离开我们了,我们特别选在5月16日将公公的骨灰安放在您旁边,由您照顾和陪伴,谢谢您我们的宝贝,有您在,公公会非常非常高兴,因为您是他心中的“特等公民”,他的一切,昔日我也会前来加入,再次谢谢!我们永远想念和记得您的一切,Love you! Miss you so much!
May 12, 2015
May 12, 2015
Dearest Chris:My Darling Grandson,奶奶很久很久没有和您谈心说话,很对不起,你好吗?您知道这些时候家中发生了太多事,奶奶一直提不起精神和你在这里谈天,但是我知道您一直在我身边,随时给我力量,谢谢您我的宝贝,这次公公不慎摔倒骨折并发肺炎,在医院ICU23天,很辛苦,最后还是离开我们了,您和公公在一起了吧!现在要您照顾公公了,谢谢您!我们的宝贝,Love you!
April 9, 2015
April 9, 2015
I remember meeting you second grade of Epiphany; playing wall ball (peg) you were the only one on our team that was left handed! I remember us talking in high school about dabbling in penny stocks and becoming rich. I will never forget always seeing you walk past my house on Gorge Road or through Boys Park. You're always in my prayers ole' friend, always. -Troy-
December 2, 2014
December 2, 2014
With each passing day we miss you more... Yesterday was your 22nd birthday and Daddy and I went to Outback. We thought you would approve and your buddy Shawn was our waiter. He gave us birthday cake minus the singing. Miss you so much! Mom
May 17, 2014
May 17, 2014
Hey Bro, how are you? Hope everything's awesome. Still miss you a lot buddy, hope you have an awesomely epic one.
May 17, 2014
May 17, 2014
The clock says it has been three years since you left us. My heart says you never did. I miss you and think of you daily. The funny thing is I can cheer myself up by thinking of you. Today is all about you!
Love you always,
Mom
May 17, 2014
May 17, 2014
Chris do you know the other day i was going back into time which is what old people like me do and i didn't that i had so many pictures of you and eric .do you know you were my holy water godson the only one i ever had ? just wanted to tell you that love your water godmother evelyn
May 17, 2014
May 17, 2014
Two days ago your parents and I were together and we found that time flies by so quickly and it's been three years since you were being taken to heaven by Our Almighty God. I reminisced our last "date" and the wonderful time we shared in Shanghai. We all miss you but will always keep the fond memories of your loving and gentle nature which brought happiness to all who knew you.
With love,
Dolly
December 8, 2013
December 8, 2013
Darling Chris: our#1 Grandson,  "Happy 21 Birthday," 奶奶忘了密码,所以到今天才给你道贺,对不起!您21岁“大小伙子”了,也是我们家的英俊美男子,清楚记得21年前,DR.IU将您平安的带到这世界开始了您美好的人生,您给大家带来无比的欢乐安慰,如今你不在了,每年的12月1日和5月17日,实在太难以度过,公公奶奶永远爱您,谢谢您18年的陪伴!
December 8, 2013
December 8, 2013
Hello Christopher,

I know you may not know me, but I know your amazing mom! She loved you dearly! Watch over her from above and may your spirit live on♥

With much respect,

Latrece
December 1, 2013
December 1, 2013
Happy birthday Darling! Today is your 21st birthday and I know you would have been jumping for joy! We plan to celebrate you this afternoon with your friends. We love you so much and miss you! People say time heals all wounds I am not so sure about that. Or it can be the hole you left behind is too big to fill. Love you always! Mom
December 1, 2013
December 1, 2013
Dear Chris,

Thinking of you especially on your 21st birthday, how we miss you since you left us so suddenly. My own experience tells me that the pain of losing a loved one will never go away. I try to find comfort knowing that you are happy under the wings of angel in heaven. 

Love you always,
Dolly
May 23, 2013
May 23, 2013
Ant just lost his mother. This is very tough time for him. I reminded him that she is in a better place, with no pain, no suffering, and perhaps is toasting a JD with you. Look after your friend. Love you, always.
May 18, 2013
May 18, 2013
Dearest Chris:  Our Darling Grandson: 
时间过得真快,您离开我们已经两年了,公公,奶奶又老了两年,我们依旧非常非常的思念您,我们只能在回忆中找寻您可爱的过去,以此找到点安慰,谢谢您,总是在我们身边,特别是公公在病中,谢谢您的陪伴!
  We miss you love you! every day very nice talk to you,!TY!
May 17, 2013
May 17, 2013
Today is the second anniversary of your passing... It seems like it was yesterday and at the same time it's been too long. The passing of time has just shown us how much you are loved - not just by us but by your friends. I miss you so much. God bless you.
May 17, 2013
May 17, 2013
My Dear Chris...we miss you so much ......always in our thoughts....Love you!
December 3, 2012
December 3, 2012
Hi my Dear Chris ....I know you heard us scream Happy Birthday Chris...I loved how loud they said it .....you see no matter where I am or what Im doing I will not forget you...I love you and miss you so much..
December 3, 2012
December 3, 2012
Your 20th birthday! We can't believe how time flies. Eric is doing well in school. Nei Nei and Mom are busy at work and I am running between Shanghai and home. Rushed back in time for your birthday. We love you so much and miss you everyday. Rest in peace, our angel!
December 1, 2012
December 1, 2012
Today we would have celebrated your 20th birthday. I remember this day with great joy - you brought us such happiness! It is hard to believe that you left us way too soon. We cut a cake in your honor and Gon-Gon blow put the candles. The days, weeks, months and years have been a blur since you left. We love you so much and we always will! Mom
May 18, 2012
May 18, 2012
Hey buddy. Your phone is still on. I just can't terminate the service hoping you would call one day... Missing you so much.....
May 18, 2012
May 18, 2012
My dearest Chris,
Yesterday was the one year anniversary of your passing. It has been a very difficult year... the pain I see in Nei-Nei's eyes, the realization that nothing will ever be the same, the sadness in Daddy's eyes BUT we feel your presence in our lives which gives us the strenght to carry on. We love you so very much!
May 17, 2012
May 17, 2012
Dearest Chris:
   Our Darling Grandson, 一年了,每每思念您,奶奶的眼泪仍无法停止,太想念您了,您喜欢奶奶的“BIG BOW"面面,奶奶好想做给你吃哦!
还好想听你说“Yes!Nai-Nai”,多好听的声音啊!We miss you and love you so much, Gon-Gon还要常常去买您喜欢吃的“甜面包”,他的记忆已经不好了,因为他的健康,在您离开后出现了问题,您知道吗我们每时每刻都是那么的想念您哦!永远!永远!
   you always in our heart, our babie our angle!
May 17, 2012
May 17, 2012
I remember vividly a year ago today our world fell apart as we lost our darling angel Chris who brought so much love, affection and joy to your family and friends.
The only comfort is that you are now happy and content under God's loving care and sooner or later we will all be together and never be separated again.
Love, Dolly
May 17, 2012
May 17, 2012
Dear Chris,
If u are with us today in Art HK 2012, I bet u would love all the contemperory art scene, it is so fun!
Thou It has been a year... And u are always with us!
We missed u,
Auntie Julia n Peter
May 16, 2012
May 16, 2012
Dear Chris, it's still hard for us ....we miss you so much. We love you! titi Maria
May 16, 2012
May 16, 2012
My Dear Chris...A year ago my eyes filled with tears, my heart ached for days..........Everytime i think about it I feel the pain and my eyes are filed with tears....But my heart tells me you are OK...I think of your smile ...your laughs... and how you would call me... I smile........I know how lucky I am to have you as my newphew-Godson... I love you and miss you, titi Maria
January 1, 2012
January 1, 2012
Dearest Chris:
新年快乐!
HAPPY NEW YEAR ! Happy 2012 !
we miss you so much,Love you so much!
Gon-Gon,Nai-Nai love you !
December 26, 2011
December 26, 2011
Merry Christmas... a day late! We miss you so much! Christmas was quiet this year... I love you and I miss you so much!!!!!!!!
December 25, 2011
December 25, 2011
hi chris we were thinking of you today and yeaterday alot . im sure you must know how much your mom and dad must miss you . do you know that your mom is really something .she is the greatest .always finds time to think of others like always . im sure you are looking down on her .keep her heart at peace let her know in your own way that you're o.k on those hard day .ev
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Dearest Chris:   生日快乐!  Happy Birthday!!! 
又到您的生日,我们把你的生日蛋糕,留到您爸爸回来时一起享用,你知道我们家的“作风和习惯”就是;有什么事都喜欢全家一起活动和享用!非常高兴,今年的圣诞节和元旦,您爸爸会回纽约,我们全家可以一起共度佳节,感谢上帝的恩赐和眷顾,这次的疫情袭击全球,让整个世界都变了样,人们的生活也与往不同,但是我们在神的看顾和恩待下,都平安生活在各自的“领域”,每两周您妈妈和Eric会来我处午餐,我们有“堂吃外卖”的活动,奶奶做一些家常菜,我们一起享用,然后再“打包带回”,您妈妈和Eric都在上班,Eric工作非常出色,他是个好孩子,您们兄弟俩是我们家的宝贝和安慰,感谢上帝!您和公公一切都好?谢谢您陪伴公公,圣诞节前我们全家会去探望太婆婆公公和你,到时会顺路去看看舅公公一家,顺便给他们送些“家常菜”,(因为疫情的关系,大家不便聚在一起用餐)再次祝您生日快乐!真的不敢想象,我们的宝贝已经过了30大庆,奶奶也接近90了!
多多保重!主内平安喜乐!
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December 1, 2014

Dear Chris:  我们的宝贝孙子!
你好吗?今天是您的22岁生日,祝你生日快乐!奶奶因为今天要上班,所以我们三人(您的爸爸妈妈和我)在前天就去您那里探望太婆婆和您,我给你准备的是白色康乃馨,给太婆婆带去的是粉红色康乃馨,我和公公征得您父母的同意,邀请您和我们同住我们的“新家”,现在您先入住,公公奶奶日后就来陪你,您的父母就在我们隔壁,所以将来我们会团聚一起,而由我们的Eric来照顾我们大家,你看如此安排可好?你知道我们有多么的想念您,每时每刻的想念,奶奶总觉得您一直就在我们身边,在公公病重住院时,奶奶每天来往于医院,诊所,家中,但是在忙中特别感觉到,您就在我们身边,在给我们加添力量,谢谢您!我们的宝贝!回想22年前的今天,您出生在纽约的Beth Israel Medical Center,是Dr Betty Iu 把你平安的带到这个世界,当时在Lab-Deliver Room有Dr Iu的得力助手Mrs Mak 在侧帮忙,她参与和见证了您和Eric的出生,并且给了极大的帮助,在您出生的那一刻,还有您父母的好友,Aunt Margaret 和Uncle Michael在产房外,等待您的到来,Dr Iu是纽约有名的华裔OB-GYN女医生,她是香港医科大学毕业,英国留学,美国考牌的著名妇产科女医生,在纽约华裔医务界很有名气,奶奶有幸就在她的诊所工作,一直到她退休,这次她得知您意外离开,她并同家人一同前往参加您的告别仪式,亲爱的Chris,再次祝你生日快乐!我们下次再谈!

永远爱您的
公公,奶奶, 

Happy birthday, Chris

December 1, 2014

You are 22 today!  How time flies.  We miss you so very much everyday.  Hope you are doing great up there.

So many tragedies this past year.  Your childhood friend Miles lost his life in a car accident.  Eric's friend Paul Kim has also left us.  So young and so sudden.  Our prayers and thoughts are with their families.

Eric is doing great at school.  He got elected as the Treasurer of his fraternity.  One more year and he will be graduated.

Gon Gon's health is not we would liked to see.  Neinei is working so hard to take care of him.  We hope he gets better soon.

Jonathan will be going to college next year.  He grew so big and tall. 

Mom and I are doing well.  We spent half a year apart but things are going well.  I hope she can come visit me in Shanghai next year.

I am still staying at Room 908, where I got the news and spent the absolute worst day in my life there.  My office is still there so I can feel your presence all the time.

Minx is doing well too.  He misses you very much also.

Happy birthday, our boy!  We will light a candle next Saturday.  Rest in peace!

Happy birthday, Chris from Aunties Dolly and Bessie

December 1, 2014

As much as we all miss Chris' presence we are comforted knowing that he must be surrounded now by Angels holding lit-up candles and singing Happy Birthday while God and Jesus are nodding and smiling at him fondly.

Chris is a privileged young man whose schoolmates, friends and relatives not only miss him but will always retain abundant love for him. 

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