This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Christy Malone (Brammer), 38, born on April 26, 1972 and passed away on February 17, 2011. We will remember her forever. There are no words to express how much we love & MISS her. She was a loving daughter, sister, aunt, mother, & wife. No matter what she was doing she gave 100%. She was always willing to help anyone and the first to volunteer when help was needed. She will fondly be remembered by all the friends she made in the various places she lived. She was a beautiful person who genuinely cared and loved her family, especially her son. She had a wonderful laugh and beautiful smile and the most gorgeous eyes. She could light up a room just by walking in and saying "Hello."
Though she had crohn's disease and other health issues she was always willing and ready to help others. She loved her parents & sister with all her heart.
One of the highlights of her life was to meet Ms. Patricia Neal who was one of her favorite actresses. She was in several movies but Christy's favorite one was In Harms Way and she stared with John Wayne. Christy was so excited to meet her and got her to autograph her copy of that movie. She said Ms. Neal was a very gracious and kind woman but most of all she was a "lady." She had her picture taken with Ms. Neal and was so excited!!! Christy loved to read and she loved older movies. She was so talented in so many ways and so creative.
She made us very proud and we will never be able to fill the void left by her passing. We do have many wonderful memories of her and we are so grateful for those. She will forever be: Always on our minds & forever in our hearts!!
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Leave a tributeI don't know how to get this hole in my heart to get smaller from the loss of you "our sunshine." You could always make us laugh and we knew we could deal with anything as long as we were together.. This Malone family. I still cannot believe you are gone. I still feel and remember how happy we were to find out we were pregnant with you beloved daughter. I never dreamed I would feel more pain when you were taken away than the pain of bringing you into this world. I love and miss you in so many ways. And, yes you were needlessly taken by those who deceived you....you always knew your "true" family loved you beyond words. Sadly, you are gone too soon, from the actions of others. I will love you until I die and beyond. Gone too soon, loved so much!!!
It has been a while since I have written and you know why. That does not mean I don't think of you each day with a heavy heart and such a sense of loss. I still do not understand why this terrible thing happened to you. You deserved so much better from the two people who were supposed to love you , protect, and cherish you. I miss you so much sometimes I would like to bury my head in the covers in the hopes it is all a terrible dream. I love you my darling daughter..until we are together again I love and miss you so very much!!!!
Sincerely,
Chrissy Marra Hoye
"The last page of your life book was written that day, then God ushered you into His glorious presence." Our butterfly angel you are missed each day. We love you!
too soon, we love & miss you so much!!!!
Wendy & David about things thewere doing. Zane was like
Alex & Casey, more interested in the paper than the gift inside. How sweet they are but you know that already.
The greatest was being a wonderful mother & giving us our first grandchild. You shared him with us to love & enjoy, thank you!!! Always on my mind, forever in my heart!
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Missing you
Dearest daughter there are no words to explain how I feel about you & how I miss you so much. Houses are decorated with beautiful lights & other decorations & I think of you & how much you enjoyed decorating for every holiday. You were such a wonderful daughter and caring person. I cannot come to any beginning of closure knowing things I know now about what you were dealing with each day. My precious child how I wish you had let me know. You know your family would have been there to help you in whatever manner possible. I know you are hurting by the way Casey is conducting his life but until he wants to come to those of us who truly love him as you do we just muddle along trying to survive & make any sense of all this situation. The pain is so deep losing you but we have lost him, too. I pray that you are surrounded by beauty, loved ones gone before, GOD'S blessings, beautiful music, & heavenly angels.
Until we meet again my dear daughter you will always be on my mind & forever in my heart. Mom
missing you
I know many people feel I need to "move on" & just remember the good memories. I wish I could do that but I can not "get over" losing you. I feared so many times you would leave us due to your illnesses ~ not the sensless, selfish way you left. I know you had been dealing with so many hard issues & how I wish you had shared with us & let your family help you & perhaps we would not have had such a tragedy to attempt to deal with regarding your death. So many un-answered questions---so few answers. Why did you have to go??? I think of you so much of the day & mourn my loss & what a deep ache I feel in my heart. Why do people do such immoral things & hurtful things to someone like you??? What would be so upsetting that a weapon would enter an argument???? All resulting in such a waste of a good life & good hearted person. I know I tell myself that you are in a better place with GOD & deep down I am sure that is true. But, selfishly I wish you could have stayed. I was looking forward to spending more time with you & Wendy, finally at last, after years of being so far apart. Not to be.........WHY???
Oh my sweet daughter you are always on my mind & forever in my heart!!!! I feel you were treated badly & endured so much emotional pain. Life is so unpredictable this is true. It is also true that a Mother holds a childs hand for a while but holds them in their heart FOREVER!!!!!!!!! You will always be our daughter, sister, & "auntie". What a loss for us of a vital part of our family chain & our hearts are forever broken.
Until we meet again my sweet daughter--I love & miss you every day. I wish things would have worked out differently. You deserved much better than you received.
Forever loved, MOM
Time Does Not Heal
Many times since your death people have said to me "It will get better, you will see, time heals all wounds." Well, I suppose at some point in my life I have said the same senseless sentence to someone else encompassed in grief. I never stopped to realize how empty those few words can be until we lost you our "butterfly."
My grief has not changed & time has not healed anything for me. The hurt, pain, disbelief, & sadness have gotten worse instead of better for me. Ever the true "Aries" personality and loving mother I have always been I cannot get past the loss of you from our lives.
Had you died from your illness it would have been difficult & we would have grieved for our loss. But, to know the emotional pain & sadness you were experiencing from 2 who should have loved you more than anything let you down. You died from a selfish, foolish act & I am sure you are in pain knowing what really transpired the night you died!!! There is no way to prepare for a sudden loss of a loved one and the loss aided by another or others is such a tremendous shock. The hope, the prayers, the denial, the anger & the final acceptance you are gone from us forever in such brief seconds. I know you are in a much better place with the "loving GOD". the angels, and surrounded by beauty beyond our imagination. What joy & love you must feel there!!!! I love you our angel butterfly!!!
GOD has work for you to do & you will be ready to do whatever HE has in mind to help those of us left behind & so many others. Fly high & free!!!!
I love & miss so many things about you daughter but I know you can see Dad, Wendy, her family & I love you more than ever & miss you everyday.
Until we meet again~~~always on my mind, forever in my heart!!!!! Gone too soon. I love you, Mom