From: Florence Oputa
TRIBUTES
It is indeed an honor and privilege to pay tribute today to a very special person. My father Justice Chukwudifu Akunne Oputa was remarkable in so many ways. I believe he lived his life to the full and touched so many people during his time here with us. We all have great memories that we will always carry with us - memories that defined Justice Chukwudifu Akunne Oputa; memories that we will always hold dear.
Allow me to share some of the special memories that I have of
MY PAPI that's what I call him.
As I look through Papa's life I see the many valued and meaningful roles that he played. First and foremost I see
Papa as the family man. He loved his family selflessly. He was a devoted father. He took all of these roles to heart and he strove to honor, support, guide and most importantly, love his family. He was at his happiest when he was surrounded by his family - even during those inevitable tough times that life has a way of throwing at you. His devotion to his family was the foundation of his actions - the anchor that defined and shaped his life.
Papi was a good friend to so many! He could be counted on and depended on always. Whether you needed sound counsel, an empathetic ear, a shoulder to lean on; companionable silence; he was your man. Ready, steadfast, willing and good fun. I remember all the times I was pregnant, how you will give me my regular shot of brandy to jump start my day, you said it keeps babies sharp, active, and happy. We were buddies I look out here today I see many, many friends and I know that they too will miss the friendship that
Papa brought into their lives.
I'm sure you all remember...
Papa was a man defiant and the champion of others. He lived a principled life underpinned by a strong sense of right and wrong. Papa was never a man to step back from a challenge; to let something wrong stand unchallenged. Papa cared enough to act - to take a stand. Who can forget.... Justice, Justice, and Justice all the way.
Papa continued to touch many others and as we look through the memories of his life. He shared his expertize with all his colleagues, he worked very hard and consistently remained a student of life. He never stopped learning. He never sat back and became complacent. He led by example and he mentored many.
Papa was a role model and an inspiration to so many. A look at some of the highlight in his career only serves to emphasize his contribution to the Judiciary.
Papa was a man of passion and an ardent supporter. He remained a keen sportsman and proud supporter of Tennis, Boxing and Football.
It is impossible to pay tribute to Papa without recognizing the important role that spirituality played in his life. He loved God, he had character, You never went to any event or appointment late, you get your suitcase ready a month before your travel date, you get to events at least an hour and half early, most times before the celebrant. No wonder you had a healthy heart . I want to be like you, time conscious, no procrastination, you do your thing right on time and sit pretty. I will keep that.
As we have traveled today through some of the wonderful memories in Justice Chukwudifu Akunne Oputa 's life - we come to realize that his quiet faith guided his actions, words and deeds. He strove always to be the best he could be - family man, colleague, friend and champion to others.
My Papi,
I miss you so much, but you know what ? We had an incredible time together, the last six months were MEMORABLE , you will forever be in my heart. We laughed and laughed, we danced, oooh your classical music, your hum our is indescribable in spite of the pain you were going through you made everyone around laugh.
You were very right about this statement "old age is a disease which no doctor can cure"
I'm glad I complimented your look every time I set my eyes on you, and you will blush and say to me ooh, that was when I was young. Thanks for the times we read the bible together. We had to form an exciting Army, members of the team were George, myself, Yvonne, Nancy, Leslie, Joey, Ashley, Not to forget Benjamin. One beautiful Sunday evening one of your Commanders Ashley read a bible passage to you, George explained further that passage of the bible, I can remember vividly it was the story of Mary and Martha in Luke 10: 38-42 you responded after the passage was read to you, your dept and insight of the scripture was amazing. This was your response
" ooooh Martha did not do well, she should have chosen to sit at Jesus's feet and listen to his teaching, Wisdom is food to the soul and the soul peaceful with God. YOU said that was most important at the time" I'm so glad I taped from your wealth of knowledge, every moment with you even when you were tired, weak,and in pain was a learning time.
God worked it out, that my family moved to Abuja for such a time as this, I feel very privilege taking care of you till your very last breath was taken away by God. Thanks for giving me the honor of cleaning you up, prepare your last meal, fed you, and talked you into bed. I ran into town, only to get a call from home a few minutes later that I needed to run back because your oxygen circulation was poor. By the time I got back you were GONE. You didn't wait to say good bye.
I was so sure you'd stay a little longer you promised when you get better we would all fly on your private jet to Oguta! You didn't tell me where it's packed.
My Papi YOU NO TRY, YOU FOR WAIT SMALL
It is very hard to say goodbye. You leave an amazing legacy behind. Papa left the world a better place than when he found it and for that we always be grateful. Papa I miss you greatly, and I know that everyone seated here today will miss you, but we remember you fondly and always.
I love you.
Florence Oputa