ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Claudette Coke, 58 years old, born on August 12, 1962, and passed away on March 11, 2021. We will remember her forever.


Please join us for her funeral service on:Thursday April 22nd 2021

Full details below.........


                           Funeral Service

The Church Service will be streamed live at 11am and is to be held at: 
St Hilda’s Crofton Park
Courtrai Road
Brockley
London
SE23 1PL

http://bit.ly/ClaudetteLiveStream

Funeral Programme link below

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1p7rcJQCnYc8AaTwRS...



                             Cemetery

The Burial will be streamed live at 1:30pm and Claudette (Pat) will be laid to rest at:

Grove Park Cemetry
Marvels Lane
London
SE12 9PU

http://bit.ly/ClaudetteLiveStream

Funeral Programme Link

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1p7rcJQCnYc8AaTwRS...

Posted by Catherine Dare on April 21, 2021
Claudette, I still cannot believe that you are gone! You shaped my practice as a social worker and honed my professionalism to an exacting standard. You are all about providing the best service to children, families and foster carers. You will be fondly remembered by your motto -"Not on my watch".
I appreciate you as my manager, friend and a mentor. My deepest condolences to your mother, husband, children and the extended family. May your compassionate soul rest in perfect peace amen.
Posted by Naomi Brown on April 21, 2021
Claudette, I was fortunate to meet you a handful of times through Leroy and you were always kind and welcoming.
I have been around your family many times and they are a tribute to the morals, kindness and values you have instilled into them. I know that they will carry these forward in your memory and honour. 
May you rest in eternal peace.
Posted by Kyerron Dixon-Bassey on April 21, 2021
Hi Nan,

There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think of you. You always have been a huge part of my life, and without you now, I feel a deep hole has been left in both me and our family. You were the glue that held us together, and your memory will continue to do so.

I love you nan,
Kyerron your first and favourite grandson
Posted by Asha Phillip on April 21, 2021
An angel left us to soon... I will miss our monthly conversation, the banter with you and Marcia. Very outspoken person you are.. Will miss you dearly.. Rest now my dearest Claudette.,fly with the angels
Much love to you
Posted by Roy Thomas on April 21, 2021
Words cannot describe how I feel right now
Claudette will always be in my heart ❤️
My wife my friend soulmate my drug the list just goes on prepare my kingdom in mount Zion my Queen until we meet again love you always
Shabba Xxx
Posted by Wen Sun on April 20, 2021
You have raised beautiful daughters and sons!
Some truth in life are hard to accept. Your memories will never be forgotten. In the arms of the angel, fly away from the earth, Rest In Peace!
Posted by Izana Jones on April 20, 2021
Aunty Pat, who will I catch jokes with at family events now!? You welcomed me into your family and home, always looked out for our children and were such a loving, kind, beautiful and genuine woman. I wish things could of been so different, but will forever cherish the memories we have of you. Remembering the great times will always make us smile - we love you x
Posted by Rosemarie Gayle on April 20, 2021
When someone you Love becomes a Memory
That memory becomes a Treasure
Rest In Paradise Pat
Nuff Love to cousins Evon n Leroy Stay strong
Posted by Chavel Gayle on April 20, 2021
Claudette
May your soul rest in eternal peace, mum smiles when she mentions your name with Memories from Stockwell days. Your name will forever live on in love and light. From all of us x
Posted by JM Paisley on April 19, 2021
I never got to share many experiences with Pat. Now I'm learning so much about her character, humor and her compassion toward others, from those she loved, those she impacted and those that carry her legacy...but oh, there is still eternity
Posted by Andrea (Campbell) Downie on April 19, 2021
It is clear to me we had a lot in common, we had our first child young, we were both Social Workers, we LOVE holidays, we value family and family values.... Cuz. If I'm half the woman you were I will be honoured.

You are an inspiration for all. Your legacy lives on in your children, who are a credit to you.

Rest in heavenly peace my beautiful cousin.
Posted by Melissa Smith on April 19, 2021
Claudette - your wisdom, your wicked and naughty sense of humour, the laughter you generated all around you, it's so hard to let you go. But what a life you lead! Such achievements! Such accomplishments! So many people you nurtured and supported! The interest you took in people's lives, the way you made us feel special and our work meaningful. I will treasure your memory and take inspiration from your life. I know you live on in spirit, in freedom and joy.
Posted by Rita Nwamadi on April 19, 2021
To an amazing person who was well-respected and who I was fortunate to be able to work with in the Fostering Service. Your words of wisdom and encouragement was always appreciated and your no-nonsense attitude admired. These and many other qualities made you stand-out from the crowd. You are one of a kind. May you rest in everlasting peace.
Posted by A Hughes-Elliott on April 19, 2021

When we were alive , they told us that when we died we'd go to heaven. And they said that heaven was a place of joy and glory and we would spend eternity in the company of saints and angels, in a state of bliss. That's what that's they said. And, that 's what I wish for you, Claudette.
Posted by Carolne Evans on April 19, 2021
Claudette, Sorry that you are gone. You always lighted up the room when I worked with you for several years working with you as one of the managers that I worked for as my role as an administrator. I will miss your laugh. I also will miss your no -nonsense attitude which I loved.

RIP xxx
Posted by leanne white on April 19, 2021
Gosh Claudette was a fantastic social worker and a wonderfully supportive person , she was kind and generous with her time to me many many years ago as a worker in Lambeth, I was a long way from home and she made me feel welcome . Greatly missed. My thoughts are with her family xx
Leanne
Posted by Julian Harvey-Lyons on April 19, 2021
I really can't believe I'm even writing this!!!! You called me on 15/1/21 and we spoke for over an hour!!! Aunty Cee if I knew that was going to be our last conversation I'd have willed us to talk for longer!!! I had to call your phone and message you when I got the news that you were gone!!! Not my Aunty Cee....no not Aunty Cee, the bedrock of her family!! But you are gone....Aunty Cee you were my manager in Safeguarding, and from your very first day we had a connection. You helped to mould me into the Social worker I am today,and I carry all the lessons learnt with pride and honour! You became a friend and were such a support to me when I was pregnant..you even came to the hospital after work, when I was in labour, you made me laugh through the pain! You quickly adopted Cayds as your bonus grandson....you took the time out to take dinner for us on Sundays and you forever checked up on us...Aunty Cee I could go on forever with all the memories and tokens of love you Gave to me by just being...I know how much you loved your children, and your grandchildren, and how proud you were of them; as every single one of our conversations wouldn't end without you talking about how they were doing and their achievements (no matter how small), I could hear how your tone changed when you spoke about them- the pride, and absolute joy that gushed from you ❤....I'd like to let all your children know (although I know you all already know), your mum loved each and every one of you fiercely!!! She has shown me how to love my child unconditionally, and for that I'm eternally grateful !!!! I could go on forever, because such Is the impact you made in my life...But before I end I must talk about how absolutely hilarious you were!!! We never had a conversation that didn't have me experiencing some proper belly laughs!!! Even when you were my manager - and when things got a bit 'sticky', you ALWAYS had a way of easing my tension and anxieties to the point of laughter. Aunty Cee I will forever hold my memories of you sooo dearly and I know I'll be snickering when particular memories of you pop in my mind....rest now Aunty Cee, and although I've repeatedly asked why you? I also know that some things we will never understand....so all I can do is hope to see you again and just know you will forever be ♥️...I miss you soo much....GONE TOO SOON
Posted by Viviene Scott on April 18, 2021
Claudette and I attended confirmation classes together many years ago. Since that time, I have found her to be a very friendly and pleasant person.  She never passes me on the street without having a chat.
It is sad that she has left us at such a young age.
May Claudette Rest in Peace and Rise in Glory.
Posted by Beverley Gayle on April 18, 2021
I have the fondest memories of us together when we were young and the conversations we had about our wishes and desires for the future.

I’m so sad to hear you’ve left us so soon Pat. May your soul rest in everlasting peace x
Posted by Jackie Smith on April 18, 2021
Dear Sister (for we are each other’s keeper).

We have never met in person but I know your daughter Yvonne and from that the strength of who you are.

May your children and family continue to walk in your grace and be the legacy of your actions both in mind and thought.

Rest in eternal peace.

Jackie
Posted by Lynette Afflick on April 18, 2021
Pat,I will always remember you being a graceful force in my younger years and integrating me as part of your family. I always admired how you lead your family. I will truly miss your thoughtfulness in acknowledgement of special occasions in my adult life. You will never be forgotten may you rest in peace. X
Posted by Jonathan Sinclair on April 18, 2021
Dear Aunty Pat,
Thank you.
Thank you for being the bedrock of our family.
Thank you for Christmas meals.
Thank you for treating every person as a true individual.
Thank you for the values and unity you instilled in every one of us.
Thank you for your children & grand children.
Thank you for providing the space, to make my childhood - a happy place.
Amen
Posted by Colette Njoteh on April 18, 2021
Dear Nan, I am still in shock. I will miss you dearly, thank you for taking me in as one of your own. I will never forget the fun memories we have together on those church trips and even at your house. I know you’re in a better place now filled with peace and serenity.

Love, Nkechi xx
Posted by Joel Shobande on April 17, 2021
May you rest in eternal peace and continue to watch over your family ❤
Posted by Sharon Henry on April 17, 2021
Love Lives On

Those we love remain with us
for love itself lives on,
and cherished memories never fade
because a loved one’s gone.
Those we love can never be
more than a thought apart,
far as long as there is memory,
they’ll live on in the heart.

You will always lives on in the heart, in lives your children and grandchildren.

May you soul sleep in perpetual peace.
Posted by Leroy Dixon on April 17, 2021
Mum I will never stop missing you,

The tears fill up my eyes every time I think of you and all the happy memories.

I’ve been living life like it’s never ending but now I’m on a mission to do and achieve everything that you believed I was capable of.

You’ve made me the man I am today and I promise to continue making you proud. I know you will be watching over me

Your legacy will live on you all of your kids

Love you Mum
Posted by Siobhan Dolphy on April 17, 2021
Whilst I never had the privilege to meet you when you were here I can truly say your Children are a blessing and I'm sure a real reflection of yourself, your legacy will live on through them. May Your Soul Rest In Perfect Eternal Peace. ❤❤❤
Posted by Cherry Largie on April 17, 2021
I am going to miss you, I am going to miss your dry sense of humour the way you alway find some ways of making me laugh every when I feel sad. When I see rain you saw rainbows when I saw endings you saw beginning. You never give up on anyone you always find something positive in them, that is rear gift that God gave you. I am so thankful that I knew you and I thank you for being in my life. I am going to miss you so much.
Posted by Pauline Scott on April 17, 2021
My dear cousin/sister Pat, my heart is fill with grief for you and your children. You’ve left us way too soon. I know that your fight was difficult, but I also know that God has called you home for a reason. This is not the end, we will see you again in our father’s house. May the Lord bless you and keep you, may his face shine upon you and be gracious to you. Thank you for my beautiful nieces and nephews, and grand nieces and nephews, some of which I haven’t met yet. Your legacy will live on. Rest well my dear until then. We miss you and love you dearly.
Posted by Jude Onye on April 17, 2021
Posted by Josephine Nonyelu on April 17, 2021
Only the good die young. Claudett, you did far too soon. We would have loved to have had you a little longer with us, but like all the good people like you who died so young, you have finished the work God Almighty sent you to do.

Return then oh beautiful one to your maker, and rest in peace until we meet again ❤
Posted by Stacy Mensah on April 17, 2021
You always had such a warm presence about you. I saw you as the perfect piece that brought the whole family together. May your legacy be established, and let the continued generations of your family never forget who you were. You will indeed be forever missed. Rest peacefully Aunty Pat.
Posted by Marcia White on April 17, 2021
Such a strong, beautiful and loving spirit. You will be missed by the many lives you touched. I'm grateful to have met you a few times but I know your memory will live on through your family. May you rest in eternal peace.
Posted by Patrick Egege on April 17, 2021
Rest in perfect peace mama ! May God grant your children the profound fortitude to bear the irreplaceable lost of their lovely mother. Yvonne has been a friend and a support through thick and thin.she always see the goodness in every people, a legacy you have bestowed upon her.I also had the opportunity to work with your son Erron- calm, focused, respectful and professional young man .
Respect always
Posted by Sheryl Beckford on April 16, 2021
Cousin Pat
Remembering the things we did together put smiles on my face and happiness in my heart even if we don't see each other often we have some lovely times in Jamaica and England those memories always keep us in touch. SIP MY COUSIN..
Posted by Alicia Gordon on April 16, 2021
RIP Aunty Pat


I will always remember the constant motivation you would give to us all whilst we were growing up as children. Always reminding us how important it is to achieve the best in life and make a success out of anything that we were doing. Thank you, you are appreciated in so many ways.

You will be truly missed by us all.
Posted by Darren Johnson on April 16, 2021
Yvonne has been my friend since primary school and it was a sad day when she told me about your passing. I remember you as a youngster but never got to see you in adult years but I know you were a great woman just by the way your children have turned out. You did right by them all these years and know you will continue to watch over them from up above. You will be missed dearly. RIP
Posted by Vicky Akuagwu on April 16, 2021
Dear Claudette,
Words can’t express how sad I was to learn of your passing on from this life but I was also happy to know you are no longer in pain.
You fought a good fight and won the race for your spot in the heavenly space where you won’t be struggling and fighting for ever breath.
Don’t worry about those you left behind because you left them fully equipped to deal with come what May, and when it’s our time we shall surely meet again in that heavenly space where there is only laughter and love always.
Rest in perfect peace
Posted by Shamma Oduor on April 16, 2021
I didn’t know you Pat but your light shone through your beautiful daughter Eve. May God envelope you in his arms till resurrection day. Peace and love for your entire family. My sincerest condolences
Posted by Clevan Johnson on April 16, 2021
Dear Aunty Pat, so sorry to hear you’re no longer with us. Thanks for bringing such joy, love and care to me and everyone around you. You are now at rest and shall be missed always.
Love Clevan xx
Posted by Leah Ferlance on April 16, 2021
Dear Aunty Pat,

I never imagined I would be writing this, and it's so hard to find the words, but I know for certain that heaven has gained another angel, and the sky another star.. Your amazing children and grandchildren will always make you proud, and I am reminded of you everytime when I see them. 

Your legacy will forever continue.

Your smile I will never forget.

Rest in perfect peace Aunty Pat, love you lots,

From 'Leah Beah' ❤️
Posted by Nicky Davis on April 16, 2021
Claudette was very warm, welcoming and encouraging. She would always offer words of encouragement and positive affirmation, which was very inspiring. May her beautiful soul rest in peace. ❤
Posted by Christine Drewett on April 16, 2021
I’m so sorry I didn’t get a chance to speak with you but after knowing your amazing daughter Yvonne, I can imagine you were the proudest mother in the world. Watching how beautifully close and kind all your children are and how strong their faith is credit to the beautiful human you were. I know you will be watching over them forever. Rest in peace Heavens angel. Xxxx
Posted by Peaceman Inem on April 16, 2021
Heaven has certainly gained a beautiful heart and person. Death is inevitable but the memories and legacies you left behind will remain with us forever. May her gentle soul rest in peace.
Posted by Janice Beckles on April 15, 2021
May her soul rest in Eternal Peace. Janice Beckles
Posted by Donna gayle on April 15, 2021
Dear Pat... it is with great sadness i write this tribute in honour to you, I always and will always regard you in great honour, strength and love. You were the rock for your family and all your blessed children, you will be greatly and sadly missed by all.
I know all of your children and extended family will live on and forever uphold your legacy and continue to keep you proud with all they do
Rest In Eternal Peace

Ps this tribute is one of a kind and so beautiful.. the pictures are absolutely lovely ❤️❤️
Posted by Nichola Obande on April 15, 2021
Your mum is and will always be a wonderful, strong and impressive woman. All her memories will remain in your hearts forever. This is a sad time but we are all blessed to have met this amazing lady. RIP.
Posted by Ebidu Koroma on April 15, 2021
Evonne and your family, your mums love and legacy will live on. You will always carry it with you. May she continue to rest in eternal peace. My prayers are for you and the family. She will forever be missed but will always live in your heart. All my love x
Posted by Pauline DAWSON on April 15, 2021
The most painful goodbyes are the ones for family. Life forever changed. I can't imagine the void left with the passing of one of God's angels. Rest in peace. 
Posted by Celina Grant on April 15, 2021
RIEP Pat, I did not get the opportunity to know you as well as others. Although i feel like I got to learn some great things about you, leading up to your passing. You have a wonderful family and great friends. As a friend of Yvonne, I have come to recognise where she gets her strength, worth ethic, love for children, safeguarding, sheer determination and love for the Lord from. Your legacy will truly live on though your children and grandchildren. Sleep tight. With love Celina and family Xxx
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Posted by Icyline Howell on May 6, 2021
Dear Paulette I hope you’re doing well I know it’s a difficult time for the family, loosing your love ones and at such a young age, please accept my deepest condolences. I pray God will continue to strengthen you and the family I know the feeling of loosing and missing a love one, but we know that we will meet again; so let her go to rest in the arms of her savior Jesus Christ. Blessings to you always ‍♂️❤️Xxx
Posted by Kiesha C on April 24, 2021
Sleep on, and take your rest;
Lay down your head upon the Saviour’s breast;
You were well loved, but Jesus loves you best;
But we remember because your soul was love itself

Love and best wishes to all the family.
Stephen & Kiesha
Posted by J Mckenzie on April 22, 2021

Claudette, I wish that I could have been there today to pay my respects to you.
Losing a friend at any age is hard but becomes even more so in your later years; so many memories and so much to reflect on since we first met so many years ago. I am still grieving for the loss of you but can honestly say that I find some comfort in those memories of our times together and know that as times goes on these memories will become even more precious.

You were truly a remarkable woman and although I know it was never up to me I think you left us too soon. I know how much your family have lost with your passing. My love and prayers are with them daily and I hope with each passing day that their grief and sadness becomes easier to bear.

Rest in peace my dear friend; missing you now and forevermore. Love Janet
her Life

Early Years

Claudette was the 4th born child of Albert and Ruby. She was the first child they had when they moved to England from Jamaica. She grew up in the church where the family built many bonds and her and her siblings spent summers with their cousins the Pennants. As a child she loved to read and she always had a keen interest in her Jamaican heritage.

The life of a Mother

Claudette had her first two children Yvonne and Leroy by the time she was 18. Years later Erron and Sunitta joined the fold and in addition to being a bonus mum to her nieces and nephews, she brought her Goddaughter Nathalee over from Jamaica and went on to adopt her youngest daughters Shanika and Shanae. As a mother she was dedicated to raising her children the right way and continued to support them in their endeavours until the time of her passing

The life of a Grandmother (Nanny)

If she was dedicated as a mother she was even more so as a Grandmother. Insisting that ‘granny or grandma’ were titles beyond her years, all her grandchildren knew her as Nanny. She was blessed to love and be loved by her grandchildren Kyerron, Shana, Joseph, Darrion, Keon, Kamiah, Kaliyah and Zariah. Present at the birth of each of her children’s ‘firsts’ Claudette ensured she helped guide her children to be the best parents they could be and continue to build a close and tightly bonded family
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Pat my little sister

Shared by Claudette Sinclair on April 24, 2021
Pat, you were 3 years old when I first met you, my little sister. A cute, pretty, sweet little ball of fun.  I had the joy of taking you and Marcia to nursery in the mornings holding you with one hand and Marcia with the other, keeping my 2 little sisters safe but I better pray that it did not rain the night before, because in true Pat's style you would drag me to any little or big puddle that you could see and you would jump in. You enjoyed a splash. I watched you grow up from that little girl to become an adult. Mother of my fantastic nieces and nephews, grand mother, and "auntie Pat" to all of your siblings children. We have shared so much fun, so much laughs and so much love, along the way.  55 years we spent together Pat and with so many stories to tell of our lives together growing up, I could write a best selling novel. As siblings we all talked with our eyes, shoulders and feet and we will continue to do that for you. I know that you will be the secret listener at our conversations and when we laugh, you will laugh too clapping your hands as you laugh along with us, because "those we love don't ever go away".
It seem unreal to ever think that you are not here. I wanted to keep you here but you are needed in heaven. I miss you and my cheeks are wet as I write but each tear is a prayer and my grief is expression of love.
One more step along the world you go little sister. You have moved from the old things to the new and one day we will meet again. Until then sleep well and rest well Pat.
Love you Pat. 
From Peggy 

Our private jokes

Shared by Tina Francis on April 22, 2021
Dearest Claudette,

There are so many 'misses' that will no doubt make my eyes leak. We have shared many a funny joke, I am going to miss that. I will miss your  no nonsense but caring approach. You was so talented and will be a great loss to everyone you touched.

I am so sorry you did not beat the 'trussed up Turkey' and that we did not have another chance to speak.

Just had a chuckle that instead of resting you would be organising! God bless you my lovely.


Tina xxx


I will miss you

Shared by Michelle Mcdougall on April 22, 2021
Thank you Claudette for the time that I was allowed with you. As a dear manager, confident and friend I can say I will sincerely miss you. You taught me so much and always beloved in me. I made you a promise and I promise that I will make sure it happens. You will be missed dearly by all of us in Southwark and your legacy will go on. SIP