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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Clement Gwandiku, 78 years old, born on January 1, 1943, and passed away on September 24, 2021. We will remember him forever.

Clement Fon Gwandiku aka Ba Nkom Tita Gwandiku,  born on January 1, 1943 in Bali Nyonga took his final breath and transition to meet his creator on September 24, 2021 in Douala Cameroon.  The Gwandiku and Mbelli family give thanks and glory to God for the blessing, guidance and leadership he blessed them with during the 78 years lifespan of Ba Nkom.
As a dedicated father, Ba Nkom nurtured his children and family with love, humility, meekness and discipline with devotion to God Almighty.
As a notable and leader in the Bali Nyonga Fondom, Ba Nkom led a life of service embodied with truth, hard work and loyalty.
As he joins his creator, he will be remembered for his passion for education and love for Christ.
Ba Nkom leaves behind his wife, children, grandchildren, family and friends to carry on his legagy.
Being the caring, thoughtful father and leader he was, is and will forever be in our memory, he left us with these words of wisdom:
-          Stay strong in the Lord and pray continuously
-          Give your life to Christ
-          Love one another and share in each others` problems
-          Do not break your corn but remove it line by line so as to have equal share
-          Give your life to Christ “ Do not forget God and keep praying”.
November 5, 2023
November 5, 2023
I will always miss you my freind and father. I know God is good to you. I love you Dad and know your always hearing my prayers and thougths. May your soul continue to rest in the Lord. Give us wisdom to carry on. Your children are striving, to God be the glory.
September 24, 2022
September 24, 2022
Today marks a year since Ba Tita Gwandiku slept in the Lord. We just wish to say Daddy we love you but God loves you the most. We miss you deeply and it's with tears that we submit to the will of God for your life. Rest in the Bossom of the Lord. We shall surely meet again. We remain Grateful to God for your life was well spent on the planet earth. You sowed so many good seeds that lives a good memory that will linger for generations. You were a father to all. Your heart was kind and generous. You were a warm and generous leader. You were a patient and loving husband and father. You were the man at the gate who donated an encouraging smile to the stranger. The Balm that calmed all agression. You were a loyal and honest servant to your roots and most of all you remembered your God in your youth and submitted to him totally in your age. You left us in peace with your kind words of wisdom.
1. Love your neighbor as yourself
2. Give freely: be your brothers keeper
3. Serve your God with all your heart
4. Pray and submit all to God
Dad you will be for ever remembered as we thread our path of live.
Good night Pa may our God preserve your soul and show us our Salvation
November 18, 2021
November 18, 2021
January 1, 1943, Ba Gwandiku III came, did his part on the stage of life and went home to his maker on September 24, 2021. He was a force of good and a living testimony of what it takes to be that force. In just one word, Ba was a humanist--- a believer in the primacy and sacredness of human life. To him, that primacy is reason each individual deserves a humane, just, compassionate and fair treatment --- from fellow man and from a society that takes care of its own. No doubt, we see this philosophy of his in sync with his works, his roles and his activities as a father, family man, school teacher and a luminary of Chamba traditions. He had special advisory functions at the Bali Nyonga palace when it came to tradition governance.
Above all, Ba was a child of God with unwavering dedication to adding value to the human condition around him. He was a strong advocate of the fair treatment of others; He believed that a fellow man in need of support was not just one of those he called his own, but also those in the larger society we all as humans share.
Ba taught me in infants 2 as PT Teacher (Pupil Teacher) That was in the then Bali Native Authority School (NA) Upon graduation from advanced teachers training colleges, and finally became Grade l teacher he also taught in many school districts of English-speaking Cameroon. In that capacity he was quite contributive in helping to grow talent in some of the current crop of civil leaders we know today. 
As a Nkom Mfon, the hereditary traditional accreditation passed down to him from his predecessors, he served his Bali people with loyalty, pride and magnanimity, much like his Father and Grandfather, (Gwandiku l and Gwandiku ll) He, like them, loved Bali Nyonga with all the fabrics in his being. You could say the twin cultures of Bali Nyonga and Bali Kumbat (of Cameroon) were ingrained in his DNA --- He spoke the languages of the two kingdoms with fluency and beauty.
Today, Ba Nkom Gwandiku lll is no more. Family, friends and others whose lives he touched, for the better, will miss his grace. They will miss his selflessness; they will miss his warmth and they will miss his very calming and unassuming nature. Inside Ba’s very huge family of the BaBouti clan, he was always the consensus guy. Very caring! Simple and easy going. But that was not all! I want to say that this amazing man was a shock absorber too. He needed to be one, if he had to appease the growing, competing and sometimes controversial liberal forces in a family so large and rooted in the twin cultures of the two Balis.
Ba Gwandiku spoke little, listened more and always found the wisdom and a space in his big heart to go along with others, even when he disagreed, as long as doing so would bring peace. He was a prince of peace: He spoke about it in family; to belligerent school kids; and he spoke about it in assignment as Bali Nyonga’s traditional spokesperson. Even though an agent of peace, Ba knew just when and how to toughen up, or when to be decisive in a push-back response action when he saw that need.
The legacy this fine man leaves behind for us would always be a reflection of the good, selfless live he lived as God-fearing family man and teacher of western and traditional Chamba education.
During his remaining few hours with us, Ba advised family to “……bond together, love and support one another; share what is ours equitably and remain in alignment with God and the things of God.” He was speaking to all of us here in this house too.
Ba Nkom was my brother, my father, my grandfather, my infants 2B teacher and, he was my mentor. He will forever be missed, but the shine on his legacy of dutiful life will endure forever. Tonight, I am in this place to bid him goodbye. Family may never find closure, but that’s how God’s will works. May he journey in peace to eternity.

                Ba Patrick Fongod



November 16, 2021
November 16, 2021
My earliest memory of you Dad is when we met physically 2011/2012 in Bali. I was a bit nervous because we had only ever spoken on phone. But you quickly put me at ease as you told me I was just one of your daughters. You gave me the name Nahsalah and my husband explained to me it was a sign that you loved and accepted me wholeheartedly. Each time you called me, you spoke some few words in Lamnso to ease any tension between us. I’ll greatly miss you Dad, especially your calls with the lots of fun that accompanied it.
Unfortunately, we were never opportune to meet again physically, apart from this one time in Bali. But you called frequently to find out how we were all faring.
We will greatly miss your voice, your soothing words and all the wisdom you shared with us.
It’s with a heavy heart that we say Adieu Dad, till we meet again.
November 14, 2021
November 14, 2021
Ba Nkom, Ndeeh! Ba i knew a day like this will come but i never knew that day was going to be this soon. I still can't believe that you are gone forever. Ba thank you very much for making me who i am today, without you being there to support and trained me like i don't know where i would have been today. If i have forgotten to show my gratitude for all the things you did in my life like I'm thanking you now. I miss you so much Ba and i wish this was a nightmere not a reality, i wish you could call me one more time like you always called when i stay without calling you and when you called me, you will be like " how are you doing, how is your mother and children? i just called to greet you, i don't have enough credits" and i will tell you to dropped the call so that i can call you back. Growing up around you was fun Ba and i will forever miss you Ba. You will forever be in our hearts and May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace Ba

Edith Gwandiku
November 11, 2021
November 11, 2021
Dad, Prince, this is the Prince's Grandma - Kahtita as you fondly called me. You were my best friend as a toddler and I couldn't bare to be separated from you for a second. You taught me how to sing and get my notes rightly. "Albee stop breathing too heavily at intervals!" You will say.
As a wild teenager, you were my guidelines. As an adult, you have been the sturdy wall that gave me solace through EVERY storm and tempest of life. You tampered me down, instructed me in patience, yet encouraged me to be BRAVE! When you came to bit me farewell, I told you I wasn't ready because I saw the storms ahead, yet it was night and your eyes were heavy with sleep!
"EVERY battle unjustly declared, hand over to the Lord to fight" were your last instructions Daddy.
Ba Tita, Prince of Gangsin! My eyes, heart and my soul are blinded by tears but my spirit rejoices for you because I saw clearly your glorious journey to the Golden City. I know you watch over us JEALOUSLY. Work with the Lion of the tribe of Judah to make our apartments in the New Jerusalem favoured ones Lion son of lions! We miss you so much Dad!
November 11, 2021
November 11, 2021
Pa, my daddy

You are worshiping with the angels. I want to live my life so I can see you again.
My joy was praying with you in those last hours.
Because I know you made it , I’m comforted. We miss you and sometimes it does not even feel real. You have rested and you don’t have to deal with the craziness of today’s world. You died saved, you died human, uncorrupted.
To live is Christ, to die is gain.
You loved me unconditionally and showed me what a father was like. You gave all of us a stable home with two parents a rarity in today’s world. Pa you were our hero and we will always miss you. May we all live by your last words. Give your life to Christ. Live in unity.
We heard dad.
Rest In Peace prince of Bali Ngonga.

Your first daughter ‘doctor’ as you always called me.
November 9, 2021
November 9, 2021
Daddy I know you rest in the Bossom of the Lord. You love to see me dancing. So anytime I wish to see your handsome encouraging smiles again I Will stand and dance for you. I know there is another fellowship in heaven. We shall dance again. Together someday This time in the presence of the most high God.

Goodnight Daddy. May your loving and encouraging soul rest in peace. I learnt a lot from you . You were a wiseman, a skillful leader most cherished by many. You were very loyal to your heritage a servant leader, a man of few and kind words. A Great inspiration to the son and daughters of Bali. You mentored so many children to fruition. Your doors were always Open to all. You thought us how to share even the little the Lord has given us. Up to your last moments you stood courageous and left us kind words. NDEH...Ba Nkom Mbani...Hmmmmm my Hero has fallen. My eyes are still very heavy. It's yet a dream though a hard reality. The painful hand of death has punched me hard. It's hard to swallow, my soul mourns. But the will of God be done. I submit to the hard reality Dad for you have courageously thread the path of the saints. Rest in the Lord, rest in peace father for you have done so very well for us.

I love you Dad and you will forever live in me as long as I live.

I remember our last Agreement the morning of your departure when the angel of death stood before you, We agreed you should fear not, close your eyes and pick a song of praise let's keep praising God until alas you slept peacefully. I know you entered our Gods court with praise for that was the day that the Lord had called you and you obeyed the father...,.keep rejoicing till we meet again Dad.
November 8, 2021
November 8, 2021
As you always said" you will understand me when you are grownups" . Those were his words when I asked him challenging questions. Leave your dreams. Do what you have to do but don't get in trouble to satisfy me he said. I am happy if everything works for you. Rest in peace Daddy. My friend. Who will understand me. God help me and my family. 

                    son
                  Anthony M. Gwandiku
November 6, 2021
November 6, 2021
Ba Tita .
We lived together as brother and sister, as twins sharing our joy and pain together .There was no powers that could stand between us but with great shock death has done it. God is the only one, who will be able to fill the gap.Rest in the bosom of the Lord till we meet at His feet.  
                       Beloved wife
                    Julliet Gwandiku nee Mbelli
  
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Daddy, Ba Tita Gwandiku, grandpa, you were a rare Jem, you and your God given wife showed us true love for family seeking to know where and how everyone lives. You always seek to ensure that all is well with each member of your clan.
May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace Ba. You will forever be in our hearts ! Farewell grandpa!

                         Na Jalla Justine Njafuh
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
May your soul rest in peace. You had leave a good life granddad and gone like a champion.We will fowever miss you.
                         Ni Francis

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November 5, 2023
November 5, 2023
I will always miss you my freind and father. I know God is good to you. I love you Dad and know your always hearing my prayers and thougths. May your soul continue to rest in the Lord. Give us wisdom to carry on. Your children are striving, to God be the glory.
September 24, 2022
September 24, 2022
Today marks a year since Ba Tita Gwandiku slept in the Lord. We just wish to say Daddy we love you but God loves you the most. We miss you deeply and it's with tears that we submit to the will of God for your life. Rest in the Bossom of the Lord. We shall surely meet again. We remain Grateful to God for your life was well spent on the planet earth. You sowed so many good seeds that lives a good memory that will linger for generations. You were a father to all. Your heart was kind and generous. You were a warm and generous leader. You were a patient and loving husband and father. You were the man at the gate who donated an encouraging smile to the stranger. The Balm that calmed all agression. You were a loyal and honest servant to your roots and most of all you remembered your God in your youth and submitted to him totally in your age. You left us in peace with your kind words of wisdom.
1. Love your neighbor as yourself
2. Give freely: be your brothers keeper
3. Serve your God with all your heart
4. Pray and submit all to God
Dad you will be for ever remembered as we thread our path of live.
Good night Pa may our God preserve your soul and show us our Salvation
His Life

THE BIBIOGRAPHY OF BA NKOM TITA GWANDIKU lll

October 17, 2021

Ba Tita Gwandiku Clement Foncham was one of many children born to Ba Tita Gwandiku II and his four wives.  In the 1930s it was customary for family heads to have many wives, some living in the village resident and other in the farmhomes. Tita Gwandiku III's mother resided at Mbutu in one of the family’s farm homes in Bali Nyonga: It was there that Ba spent most of his childhood. As he became a teenager his mother handed him over to her co-wife (his stepmother) Na Lebsia who resided at the main village compound with their father. While in the compound with his stepmom, Ba Gwandiku tendered his father’s domestic animals (goats, pigs etc.) He also assisted his father in many chores and cash crop farming, harvesting, processing and selling, coffee especially. To earn income, he sold staples and foodstuff like fried groundnuts at times. He also made and sold chairs, and other craft works. At the expense of engaging in all this, Daddy did not get enrolled in school until his late teenage years. Upon graduation at standard six with excellent grades, he was retained by Council School Bali Nyonga as a pupil teacher (PT) in 1964. He later taught at Bambui. With burning enthusiasm for a vocation in education, he sort and earned admission into the then prestigious Teachers Training College Tatum, in Banso. He eventually graduated and passed his teachers’ grade lll exams. In 1968 he was posted to Council school Santa.

He later enrolled in the Higher Teachers Training College in Batibo which he completed in 1973 and became a grade ll teaher.  Suffice to note that during those years as a youngman in pursuit of higher education, Daddy became interested in soccer and sports in general. He eventually was an avid athlete, and at one point, captain of the popular Bali United soccer team.
As a trained school professional, he came back to teach in his native Bali Nyonga and in neighboring villages, including Pinyin, Santa etc. In the early 1980s he was transferred to Bosa town and later transferred back to G.S Bali town 1. While at GS Bali, Ba had the opportunity to teach some of his own biological children and those of family folks. He became renowned for his mastery of Rural Sciences, Crafts and Agriculture, all of which he taught with devotion and pride. He always took his job for a calling.

In the 1990s he was promoted to the Sub-Divisional Inspectorate of Education for Bali as chief of staff. From that duty post, he retired from the civil service in 2003, to spend time helping with his large sub clan family, grand kids; as well as continue with his hereditary traditional functions as a ‘Nkom Mfon.’In this traditional role, he was Advisor and public communication point person for the royal palace of Bali Nyonga Fondom.

Ba Nkom had inherited the leadership of the Gwandiku family and became Tita Gwandiku III when his father died.  The title ‘Tita’ is a princely, hereditary accolade conferred on him as second successor of Prince Gwandiku I, a lead migration war hero who accompanied Bali Nyonga’s first Monarch, Queen Mother Na Nahyonga l, to settle Bali Nyonga in its present location. As a hereditary Nkom, Ba Gwandiku served as close advisor and spokesman of the Fon and of the Council of Nkoms. He partook in ceremonial roles for the behalf of the palace or the Fon. And, as a blue-blood son of the soil, Ba manned these roles with magnanimity, pride, humility and love for the Bali people he so loved. He Cherished being Bali and believed in the legitimacy and exceptionalism of the Chamba tradition and people. As a custodian of the Bali Nyonga history and culture, Ba Nkom hosted numerous students, historians and visitors. He carried on with this role until his last days, despite being handicapped in the last 10 years following a motor vehicle accident.

As a young man, Ba Nkom found faith in Christ and became a member of the Roman Catholic church.  He became a member of the Christian Men's Association, CMA, and served as President of the diocese (Mbengwi, Batibo and Bali) at one point.  He continued to grow in his faith maintaining membership in the Roman Catholic Church until his departure to meet his creator. 

His last words to family, friends and acquaintances:

- Stay strong in the Lord and pray continuously

- Give your life to Christ

- Love one another and share in each other’s problems

- Do not break your corn but remove it line by line to have equal share

- Give your life to Christ “Do not forget God and keep praying”.

 Ba Nkom leaves behind his wife Na Juliet Gwandiku nee Mbeli, children, grandchildren, siblings, and a large family to carry on with his legacy.

 Pa's Career path

1964: PTA teacher Native Authority Bambui.

1965-1968: Teacher Training Center Tatum.

1968: Married in Santa

1968-1971: Grade III Teacher at (Native Authority) Council School Santa.

1972-1973: Higher Elementary Training P.T.T.C Batibo.

1973: Teacher Grade II. Teaching at Council School Bali (later known as G.S. Bali Town.)

1983: Had his Teacher's Grade I Certificate externally.

1997: Teacher at Bossa.

1998-2003: Inspectorate of Education Bali.

2003: Retired from civil service.
01.01.1943, †24.09.2021.

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October 20, 2021
2018 - Dad visited us, this was his favorite afternoon seat. This day i came home he was sleeping. I tiptoed got the camera and caught his gentle relaxed self. Was a blessing having him around then and we created so many memories that will last beyond a lifetime. 

We proned the flowers, lay stones around the flower beds, repaired (nailed) a broken bed. You never forgot to teach us your humble beginnings of nailing chairs and farming. Today when i drive out and in or walk around the house, I see the memorial stones you and Ni Peter spent a joyous saturday afternoon laying. This is our memorial stone to use in telling your story as the Isrealites did when they cross the red sea with Moses.

Thank you Dad.

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