Many years later he was blessed with another sister, Erica.
From the moment he was born Cody was very quiet. He never cried much and was very content to play alone and was so laid back. That stayed the same for his whole life. He was so soft spoken that he was forever being told to speak up.
Cody rarely met anyone he didn't like. If he had differences with someone they got it out of the way and it was over. They were friends.
Cody had a wonderful heart. He was kind. Most people describe him with that word and we are so proud of that. Cody loved anything that had parts to it. He once took our brand new VCR when he was a kid to see how it worked. He couldn't understand why I was upset. Then he put it right back together. He stayed just like that. He took his love for that and helped many people. We're especially proud of how many elderly people he helped and never for a dime. And we cant get started on the cars and what he did with them. He could've been a millionaire with his talents but he chose to be kind and never charge anybody. He was definitely not materialistic. He had less than many and he really didn't even see it or didn't care. The only things I ever knew him to really want were the Alabama championship hats and shirts. He was a HUGE fan.
Every one of his siblings will tell you that he was their best friend. And he was. He had a special relationship with each one of them. He was a good everything. Son, Daddy, Brother, Uncle and a great friend. He had most of his friends for his whole life. Later in life he welcomed his children. Callie, Noah, who he was extremely close to and Dylan that was only 3 weeks old when Cody left us.
He was funny and family was meant more to him than anything. His best friend for a million years has been JT. He was adventurous and did a lot of things in his short time on earth.
With all of the good about Cody, he was no saint like its sounding. He made mistakes like all of the rest of the world. He was just human. We love him so very much. We will forever miss those beautiful blue eyes and that sweet smile. He is still in our lives and always will be. We will love and miss him until our last breath.
Tributes
Leave a tributeWhat an emotional week. We got the murderers parole denied!! Me and SD and your sisters were there. Tommy wrote a letter and we felt that was best for his well-being. We don't have to worry about him for 5 more years.
And today is Father's Day. We sure do miss that good-looking face of yours. And everything else too. Especially that big heart.
You would never have to worry. Even after I am gone, you are in good hands with Tommy, Jamie and Erica.
I love you so much,
Mama
XOXO
Only God could know how much I miss you and love you. 8 years yesterday and I'm still stuck on stupid wondering how in the world you could possibly be gone?????
I am so broken hearted and angry and everything all over again. I'm not sure it ever went away.
Kolton graduated yesterday. I'm really proud of him. It did fill up our day so that we didn't have to think so much. Selfishly, I was glad of that. It was a good time and we were all there, even Tommy.
Today, it hit hard and I have sat on this couch and cried for 13 hours. Now I am going to have to go talk to God to get me through it again.
We also have not stopped fighting for justice, and we had a big win last week. I will never stop. None of us will.
I miss you son. I just keep repeating myself because there are no words.
I love you forever and ever,
Mama
XOXO
Another Mother's Day yesterday. I don't need a day to remind me that you are gone. That normally isn't what that day means but it does. I just keep repeating the words because nothing ever changes. I miss you and I love you and it hurts like hell. IT NEVER CHANGES.
I love you so much son.
Mama
Its just me again. In a few minutes it will be Easter, the very best holiday.
I'll be missing you just like I always do. I always will.
I wish so badly that you were here.
I've been working hard on all of the April stuff we do every year. One would think everything gets easier with time...only it doesn't.
I'll see you when I get to heaven.
Love you always,
Mama
XOXO
We got together for your birthday. We had hot dogs and released balloons for you. Just maybe you could see them.
How I wish you were here. Love, Mama XOXO
Love you,
Mama
XOXO
Love,
Mama
XOXO
How many times have I been on my knees or rolling on a floor because I miss you so much. 7 years later and most days I feel like I'm going to lose it. Nobody could IMAGINE THE PAIN. I would never want you back from heaven because I do love you so.
Today is Father's Day. I look at these kids and I know you never would imagine them this grown. You would be so proud.
Noah has his license and is working. I'm so proud of him.
It's not fair that you weren't here to take him. That you aren't here for lots of things.
You are in our hearts until the last breath we take.
I'll see you when I get there.
I love you until the end of time.
Mama
XOXO
I love you forever and ever.
Mama
XOXO
You had another birthday last week. We surely didn't forget it. It was on a Wednesday this time. My hands were full so it wasn't the day I wanted but thats ok.
I remember the night you were born so clearly. Honestly it doesn't seem that long ago. You would be 43 today. Wow. But you will forever be 36 and remain so young and handsome. I'll know you in less than a sec and I hope you'll know me too. Lifestyle and age hasn't been so good to me but I'm grateful just to be here.
Oh how much we miss you. Words are almost silly because there are no words since you've been gone.
I miss you and love you so so much Son Son.
I always forget to hit send on everything.
I'm sitting here watching the Tennessee Titans. I'm trying to get them to the Super Bowl. Of course, made me think of you. Of course I do every day anyway. We sure do miss you. All of us. I wish you could see all of these kids. I hope you do. They surely know you. We love you ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
It's that time of year again. I wish I could say it's different but it's like this for a few of us all year. This time of year we can't try to put it away for awhile or push it down.
I was looking at pictures of our last Christmas together. It was the last one we had with Tommy too. Thank God he will be here this year. You will not and it is a big hole in our face that we cannot look away from.
You are so missed every second. It is shocking how deep pain can last forever. Time passing does nothing for the pain. In ways it gets worse. I would give anything to have you here again. I know it's selfish because you are so much better off than we are. We just miss you so much.
I pray I get to heaven to see you again.
Love you so much
Mama
XOXO
Roll TIDE CODY. WE MISS YOU AND LOVE YOU ❤
Mama
XOXO
Mama
XOXO
I love you so much,
Mama
XOXO
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Uncle Duke
Uncle Duke
Love
Jamie
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MISSING YOU SO MUCH
We never gave up.
Love you always, Mama XOXO
Simple things
You know, it's funny how the simple things remind you of certain things or certain people but I swear that there is a parking spot that reminds me of Cody every single time I pass it, which is probably 3 or 4 times a week at least. A parking spot beside a little building.It was the very first time we ever went tailgating for a Bama game and we parked at this particular spot and had to walk a country mile. We all took a picture together in the parking lot and I have a blow-up of that picture in my Bama room. Simple stuff. I sure do miss you Cody! We've got that tailgating thing figured out now. You would love it!. I love you!
Uncle Duke