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April 19, 2021
April 19, 2021
I only got to spend a little time with Cody, but even with such a blink of an eye of time with him, his passing away had a greater impact on me than I could have ever imagined. He was a unique individual, and I am thankful that both he and Kristy entrusted us to care for their daughter.

I had the day off work today, so I spent a lot of time with her today, and she is so sweet, so caring, and so loving. She does look a lot like him as she grows older.

Rest in peace, dear friend. Molly, as you would have called her, would make you feel incredibly proud. Of that, I am certain.
April 13, 2021
April 13, 2021
THIS IS A MESSAGE FROM CODYS FRIEND HE MET IN JAIL RIGHT BEFORE HIS DEATH!!


You gave him the years of his life and put the spark that him the man he was. I liked to give him hell and a hard time about you cause he never shut up about you but do not put any of this on your shoulders you were his world and who knows the reasoning behind what he did I think it was just a foolish mistake thinking he could pick up where he left off and it was just too much and by the time he realized what was happening it was too late. If I were a betting man I would lay my life that your face was the last thing that went through his mind. He had things he would say and shout in jail that was repeated by everyone. We would yell and scream and Hollar across the kitchen make fun of people and have real talk when we needed an ear. We had a good time and till the day I got out I continued our ranting and kept his memory alive although it hurt and I would wager fuckers are still repeating his funny little two liners and laughing and remembering. I do not get along with a lot of people and there is quite an age gap between us and neither one of us could figure out why but we were like peas in a pod and I wish I would have had the opportunity to know him out here. Hey had a youthful and wild spirit but a strong and compassionate heart. If you could let me know where they are taking him I would really like to cuss him out personally for being such a dumbass lol. He made his choice. You were his everything take comfort in knowing you were the best thing that ever happened to him and he has no regrets and he will be waiting for you on the other side. I'm sure he has the angles rolling right now looking down at us saying don't focus on his ultimate mistake it will all work out he is fine life goes on but better not ever forget what a beautiful hunk of a man he was lol!! He wanted to hook up on the outs so bad he gave me your phone number which I know for him was huge and I poured it on every day and every day he would have to ask me and confirm I would not try to hook up with you. I miss giving him he'll every day. He wanted me to help fix up that RV and teach him carpentry and travel around the country. I never take serious what people say in jail but whatever it was between us we both knew we weren't bullshitting each other. He opened his arms and heart to me and offered a home and companionship and I had no hesitation in accepting and we both knew it was true......... I truly believe it was a horrible mistake realized too late. I will keep him in my heart and keep you and your children in my prayers. Someday I will visit him and give him the ads chewing he deserves and perhaps meet the woman who had tied down one of the biggest egos I have ever met. I choose to keep the good memories and everything happens for a reason it's nobody's fault it just is. I once had to mourn the loss off my fiance and true love and it took a long time to accept it but today the pain is not so bad and instead of tears her memory brings a smile to my face and I can honestly say I would not have changed anything and it truly is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. Perhaps true love is too intense to withstand this world and that is why the best of us get taken early and God left us to bear the pain because he knows we are strong enough to survive. Keep your head up and keep moving forward Cody was a huge bundle of life and I am sure he would want nothing more than for you to be happy for the rest of yours.


THANK YOU JAY!
April 13, 2021
April 13, 2021
I miss you more and more each day cody!! I hope heaven is everything we talked about! Can't wait to see you again!!
March 5, 2021
March 5, 2021
Cody James , I remember when you were first born and got to hold you ! You were as all your brothers were such skinny scrawny , longed leg and long fingers and the blackest hair! You were so cute I loved all you boys at first sight you were all such good loving boys. I remember the day you left with your mom and brother I was so sad , I always thought about you boys and I always kept in contact weather it was with you boys , or your aunt or mom I always dreamed of the day I got to see you boys again , I remember when you called and asked me to pick you and Maurissa up and watching your handsome face come off the plane ! My heart and soul were whole again for you ! I know things were good and bad for you here ! I knew you were struggling with life . I’m so sorry it didn’t work out here for you here but I knew I had helped all I could you just weren’t ready for the help yet ! I’m so sorry Cody that life turned out the way it did for you !my heart breaks for all of us that are left behind but now your at peace in a beautiful place we will always and forever miss you ! Zack will take care of you in heaven and I no you will watch out for all of us here love your Aunt Michelle and Uncle Mike
March 4, 2021
March 4, 2021
CJ will forever be remembered by us, His Mom's side of the family we have alot of wonderful memories and pictures. Were sad that we didnt get to say good-bye. I will always remember my nephew with his good looks and Big heart and his rebellious ways Lol......I also want to send My condolences to everyone else who knew him and loved him. . . Until we meet again CJ we will forever miss you and you will forever be in our hearts.....we Love you CJ. . RIP

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