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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Cole Smith, 21, born on July 9, 1992 and passed away on August 26, 2013. We love him and will remember him forever.

Memorial services will be held Friday, August 30th at 11:00am at

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints
30522 Vía Con Dios
Rancho Santa Margarita, CA 92688

Google map: http://goo.gl/maps/mA6up

You can contribute to his memorial fund in lieu of flowers. All funds raised will go towards Cole's memorial expenses and any excess funds will be donated to the Surfrider Foundation. His family is grateful for your support during this difficult time.

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August 23, 2021
August 23, 2021
Hi Sweetheart - Once again.....we are coming up on your Angelversary. How is it that we have lived without you for 8 years? 2920 days without hearing your voice, your laugh, feeling your hugs? Years ago, I remember thinking, I could never ever survive losing a child. And yet, somehow I am still here breathing. Not a moment in the day goes by where you are not in my thoughts. I miss you with every passing second and I love you beyond measure. 8 more years, closer to seeing you again. I love you baby - stars, moons and universe
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
Thinking of you and your family and are always in our love and prayers.  They say time heals all wounds but as a father of four I am not sure I would agree.  May peace be in your heart and soul.   Much love to you all.
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
Dear Cole and Family.
I don't know you nor have I ever met you but in August of 2013 when I heard about your accident being a resident of Rancho Santa Margarita it was very upsetting to hear the news such a good looking young man I have a son the similar I was just heartbroken for your parents and your young life over. RIP Cole
August 26, 2020
August 26, 2020
Hey Sweet Coley-

Thinking of you today. I hope you are celebrating your Heavenly birthday in a big way. Make sure to visit your mom and dad today. <3
August 26, 2020
August 26, 2020
To my dear sweet grandson Cole with the magnetic smile~who left this
Earth much too soon! You were so loved and still are. You truly cared
about your family and friends~it was so obvious.
I've learned that being a grandparent is God's compensation for growing
older. I only wish I could have been your Nana much longer!
I Love You Cole,
Nana OX
July 9, 2020
July 9, 2020
Happiest of birthdays to you in heaven today Cole. You are thought about, talked about, and missed immensely here. I hope you celebrate up there with a bang!

P.S. Make sure to invite Hailey to your party. And have lots of Lays potato chips!
August 26, 2018
August 26, 2018
Hey Cole- Thinking of you and your family today. I’ll bet you are so excited and proud of the Foundation your family created in your honor. It’s so beautiful and is going to change so many lives. Send your family a beautiful sunset and give Hailey a hug for me.
July 10, 2018
July 10, 2018
Happy Birthday Baby ~ Celebrating your "birth" day without you here never gets easier. I have no doubt you were surrounded by special souls yesterday. I count the moments until we can be together again. I love you Coley ~ "stars, moons and universe". 
Mommy xo
August 26, 2016
August 26, 2016
Dear Cole, this is the day that I'll always remember as hard as any day I'll ever know. The beauty is life is eternal. This day was the beginning of your new next life. We know you are doing good and great things in your life after earth. We love you, the Lambs
July 10, 2016
July 10, 2016
Hi Cole and Happy Birthday from all of the Lambs! We think of you so often, it's a good habit! We know you are watching over your family. You're such a hard worker, keep up the good work!
Love, Marilyn, Scott and kids
July 9, 2016
July 9, 2016
Happy B-day Cole! I hope you invited Hailey to your party. (Just make sure you have lots of Lays chips for her!) Also, make sure to send your family a beautiful sunset today. They really miss you. <3
July 9, 2015
July 9, 2015
Happy Heavenly Birthday Cole! Cade is rock climbing this week at Nationals and I am sure he will be honoring his awesome brother today as he competes. He is amazing and is really excelling at his sport. Just like his older brother!
July 9, 2015
July 9, 2015
Happy Birthday Cole!

I still can't believe you're gone. Every time a Blink 182 song comes on I can't help but think, "To face this on my own, well I guess this is growing up." I still miss you and all the crazy fun we used to have. Can't wait see you again.
August 26, 2014
August 26, 2014
Hey Cole- Just want you to know how much your family misses you. We'll be there tonight to show them our love and support. I hope they feel your presence. (Give Hailey a hug for me.) <3
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Hi sweety! I hung your stocking last night. I keep waiting for you to walk in the door from school.....hoping to hear you say "Mommy" or "Puppy". I wish I would have bought you that sweatshirt you were wanting this summer. I'm sorry. I love you ~ Stars Moons Universe. For ETERNITY.
December 5, 2013
December 5, 2013
Cole, I think you KNOW how much your family loves you!!! You were blessed with a wonderful, sensitive, caring, and STRONG family.  They are doing such beautiful things in your honor - I am sure you are very proud of them. And by the way, thank you for the most amazing sunsets lately. You will ALWAYS be remembered!
December 4, 2013
December 4, 2013
Hi Baby ~
I pray Heaven allows you to read all these beautiful tributes. Your always in my mind every second of the day. I hope you know that. My heart misses you so much. I miss you walking in the door and saying "Mommy", I miss you leaving your Ben and Jerry's on the coffee table, I miss the fishing hooks in the dryer. I miss your beautiful smile that got you out of trouble with me, every time. I miss you trying to lift me up and carry me....(now Cade does this). I miss worrying about you. I miss your smell. I miss your friends coming over and hanging out here with you. I miss every single thing. I hope you know how very very much I love and adore you. From the second you took your first breath, until the day I take my last. You will always have my eternal love.
September 25, 2013
September 25, 2013
I'll never forget the times riding in your car listening to party in the usa by Miley Cyrus (before she went crazy), you were obsessed with her! So many small, fun memories with you dude. Wish every day that I could have you back here
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
I remember you would always come and say hello when I was out tanning on my deck. You'd play songs your friends made and talk about surfing and how you could shape me a board for pretty cheap. You always had a goofy smile on your face and kind words to say. Lately I keep seeing people out on the water and catch myself thinking it's you. I know you're there in spirit. Rest easy, miss you
September 8, 2013
September 8, 2013
You are incredible cole & I know I told you a million times but I love you very much. Thank you for the precious moments we shared, for those late night talks under the stars, for cuddling for hours, for every sweet kiss, for every warm hug, for every laugh, inside joke and silly moment, for showing me how to love another human being, for making me feel special. I miss you every second xox
September 3, 2013
September 3, 2013
Cole used to come over to my house for tutoring. He hated to type on the computer and would beg me to type for him, mostly in an attempt to get me to write the papers for him. I did everything I could to keep him on task. His favorite paper was about his obsession with Hannah Montana. Most of our time was spent talking about his teenage woes! Man, I miss that handsome face!
September 1, 2013
September 1, 2013
Cole, you were the love of my life, my soulmate, my future, and my everything. I am a wreck without you my love and I would give anything to have you back. You are and will always be my butthead and I had the most passionate, incredibly amazing years of my life being with you. I am the luckiest person to have had you as my forever, my best friend, my Ocean! I know your shredding waiting!
September 1, 2013
September 1, 2013
All my memories are of little bitty Cole. I'd stop by to play with him after school every day (or so it seemed). We spent pretty much all our time outside. Water was involved whenever possible, either little swim pool, or sprinklers, or even just dumping his water out. He wanted to be wet. He was such a cool kid, I only wish I could have known the adult version.
August 30, 2013
August 30, 2013
I have had the pleasure of knowing you these past few years, those of which have been the best years of my life. I couldn't be happier to have shared them with such a true friend. I met your wonderful family today and they helped me realize its too hard to mourn your loss when there are too many memories to celebrate, laugh, and smile about. RIP Cole love and miss you man. See you soon <3
August 30, 2013
August 30, 2013
My Dear Sweet Nephew Cole
I Love You Always & Forever
Your presence in my life made every day special
Connecting to Your Joy
Heart Wide Open
Love You, Auntie Juju
August 30, 2013
August 30, 2013
Dear Cole, you are in a better place now... One that has continuous great fishing and surfing. We know that you will always be with your loving family in spirit. I promise to do what I can to comfort your sweet mom. Rest easy. You will be remembered with love.
August 30, 2013
August 30, 2013
I will never forget one day at church when Cole and Steve came into a Sunday School class I was in. They had just been together at the temple. Cole bore a powerful testimony of his knowledge that families can be together forever and of the spirit that he had felt at the temple. That left a strong impression on me.
Thank you Cole.
August 30, 2013
August 30, 2013
Beautiful service today. The tears, smiles, and funny stories were a testament to how many lives Cole touched. Kristen and Steve, your limitless love allowed for this young man to be the man he was.
August 30, 2013
August 30, 2013
I came today to his memorial. I saw his story on FB and my family knew of him.I cried when I heard this news and saw his pic days ago. WHY? many people die each day. My heart ached for days. I looked again at his pic, and knew.. he is a light..he is all goodness..his family raised him unscarred and he had much to give back just by his mere presence. A light we all lost. Travel the cosmos
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
I learned many different lessons in loyalty, positivity, kindness, and love from you. Your drive in life was only matched by your generosity. I wish now more than ever that I was able to spend more time with you. I'm very happy to know how rich and exciting you made your life, and it is an example of how we all should have such an appetite for existence. Nothing lasts, but nothing is lost.
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
You are in our thoughts and continual prayers. This is such a heart breaking situation and we are so very sorry for your loss of Cole. My family lifts you up in prayer and we pray for God to put his arms around you all and that He hold you up through this difficult time. Rest in peace Cole, you live on in our memories.
Maria, Jeff, Zach & Kira Fenske
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
This is heartbreaking! May Cole surround you with his spirit at this difficult time and the memories get you through!
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
First memory of Cole - as the cutest 4 year old I had ever met running around with his darling sister Hannah - the boy with the grown up vocabulary and heart of gold. Cole, you will be greatly missed by all who know you. Watch over your family - they will be needing you. We will watch over them too!
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
We are devastated by the loss of our neighbor, classmate and teammate. Our hearts ache for you.
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your sweet mother Kristen and loving father Steve. I don't know if I ever had a conversation with either of them when they didn't have a story to tell me about you. Always so full of life. Living every moment. Hugs go out your beautiful sister Hannah and little brother Cade. You are their angel know. Look over them and surround them with love. R.I.P Cole
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
Cole was always such an "old soul". It was so rewarding to be counted as one of his friends. I admired his kindness and big heart. I can picture his smile and feel of his love and I hope the Smith family knows that he will ALWAYS be a part of the Gardner's memories. We love you Krissy, Steve, Banana and Caders. Kim and Aaron Gardner
August 29, 2013
August 29, 2013
Kristen and family - my heart is heavy with sadness from the loss of your beloved boy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. With love from Meryl and family
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Smith family,
My heart is aching for you. Words can not begin to express my sorrow. There is nothing I would like to do more right now than give each of you a hug and take your pain away. Your dear Cole was such a gift.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Dear Steve and your beautiful family,
With much sadness and a heavy heart, I send my deepest sympathy. I lost my sister when she was 21, and I really know how you feel. All of you are in my prayers.

Christine Clark
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Steve and Kristen, our hearts and prayers are with you and your family. We were so saddened to hear about Cole. We have many memories of him and your family when we were neighbors. Rock and Rosie Wagner.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Cole, you touched many lives and will be eternally loved. Your short life was filled with passion and well lived. Your parents provided the most loving and caring environment for any child to grow up in and from that you gained a zest for life and lived it fully. It comforts me to know that you had an adventurous, wonderful life and are now exploring another new and amazing place. Miss Kim
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Cole... We never met but you are my neighbor. I have a 19yr old Son...Your death hits home...My heart is sad for your Family.... Rest in Peace young man.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Kristen, Steve, Hannah, and Cade -
Our hearts and prayers are with each of you. I wish I could change this because it hurts us so much. I can't begin to imagine how difficult this is for you. Cole is such a great young man! We will always remember our fun times together and want you to know there is nothing we would not do for you - at any time of the day or night.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Cole as much as we lost touch when you went to highschool.. I will never forget how you came up to Verona every day to hangout with everybody here because Calabria was full of adults and no kids! You were like an older brother to all the younger kids on my street. You will be forever missed. You and your whole family are in the prayers of myself as well as my whole family too.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Dear Smith family,
I am absolutely heartbroken to hear of your loss. I can remember Cole sitting at his desk with that most wonderful smile. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
We are so sorry, with heavy hearts our deepest condolences.
Thoughts and prayers for the entire family!
Buhler family
August 28, 2013
August 28, 2013
Cole was one of those students you never forget because of his wonderful smile, joy and enthusiasm. I also remember the love the Smith family had for one another. My heart breaks for you all.
August 27, 2013
August 27, 2013
Steve and Kristen,
I wish there was something we could say or do to ease the pain. Just know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. We will always remember Cole for the great young man he was. Anything we can do just let us know.
Bryan, Sandy & Jordan Small
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August 23, 2021
August 23, 2021
Hi Sweetheart - Once again.....we are coming up on your Angelversary. How is it that we have lived without you for 8 years? 2920 days without hearing your voice, your laugh, feeling your hugs? Years ago, I remember thinking, I could never ever survive losing a child. And yet, somehow I am still here breathing. Not a moment in the day goes by where you are not in my thoughts. I miss you with every passing second and I love you beyond measure. 8 more years, closer to seeing you again. I love you baby - stars, moons and universe
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
Thinking of you and your family and are always in our love and prayers.  They say time heals all wounds but as a father of four I am not sure I would agree.  May peace be in your heart and soul.   Much love to you all.
July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
Dear Cole and Family.
I don't know you nor have I ever met you but in August of 2013 when I heard about your accident being a resident of Rancho Santa Margarita it was very upsetting to hear the news such a good looking young man I have a son the similar I was just heartbroken for your parents and your young life over. RIP Cole
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Memory lane...too many to count

August 28, 2013

I can't possibly choose just one specific memory or time with you cole...We met when I was 15, you 14. We became friends in school having no idea our little siblings Madi and Cade were bestfriends in their Kindergarten class, causing our moms to become friends. One day we all made the connection!  What a small world.  I miss spending after school days hanging out and messing around with you in the quad and library.  I'll never forget Cade's birthday with the bounce house and us falling asleep on your couch watching Star wars together.  It was then that our moms got the bright idea..."hey you guys should just get married when you're older!" Eventually your mom got my mom into home schooling and I was enrolled second half of my junior year and got to spend it with you! Time went on and we both went different ways, school and life wise,  our moms still talking everyday.  I got a phone call one morning for an interview at none other than your dads office where I've been working ever since! We share an office and I must say you are one lucky guy to have the family that you do.  You would come in time to time...when I wasn't there I would return to foot prints on my wall and my chair all turned around..this always made me laugh.  Everyone you touched misses you so very much.  Your family is a family to everybody and you all are truley amazing people and I consider myself lucky having all of you in my life.  Surf big up there...I know you're in paradise.

Cole is awesome

August 27, 2013

Cole and I had been in the Boy Scouts together and during that time we had the opporutinity to go camping and have a bunch of adventures. I remember when we went to Beaver that it was pouring rain on us all the time every night but during the day it was dry. So being the awesome boy scouts we were we would try and make a fire out of matches and white gasoline. Never in our lives did we know the dangers of pouring white gas on to a flame. Cole being the take charge guy started pouring the white gas and instantly a flame went from the fire and burnt his leg hairs off! For the rest of the day all I could smell were his non existent leg hairs, we had such a blast downing each others tents being the young crazy guys we were. Cole felt most at home on our lake campouts, the guy was born to be on the water and loved everything about it. He had so much knowledge of the water and boating he knew more than the leaders. Cole you are an amazing brother and friend and will be sorely missed.

Wrestling with a missionary

August 27, 2013
I served four and a half months of my mission in the ward where Cole and his family lived. One day my companion and I were having dinner with his family. He found out that I wrestled in high school so he challenged me to a match. We had a wrestling match in the living room it was such a fun time. I beat him but that was because I had fifty pounds on him but we both had a great amount of laughs afterward. I truly loved the smith family while I served in the foothill ranch ward. They were always welcoming to us whenever we would stop by for something as simple as a glass of water or just a quick stop by as we were out working. My heart and prayers go out to the Smith family. Love, Nik Nielson aka... Elder Nielson

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