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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved Colston Richard Westbrook, who transitioned too soon.  At the prime of 50 years old, born on September 14, 1937, you passed away on August 3, 1989. We will remember him with love forever.
September 15, 2022
September 15, 2022
Happy birthday in heaven. Colston. I hear your boisterous laughter all across the horizon with the twinkle in your eyes. You gave so much and time doesn't stand still. We love you forever
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
September 14th, your birthday, brings tears to my eyes, but I thank God for you, Colson. I am thankful that you are my brother; I am thankful for the many ways you helped others and me throughout your life; I am thankful that you were an excellent father figure for my son, Mitchell; and I am thankful for happy memories of you that I share with others. I love you dearly, Colston, and I always will. God bless you!
August 4, 2022
August 4, 2022
Colston! August 3rd came and l was wondering what class you are teaching in heaven or if you were playing your saxophone or cheering our children in their respective academic and sports activities of basketball, football, softball or baseball teams. I smiled to myself at your contagious laughter of music and dance . Oh yes we worked and played and really enjoyed our family life. I hear your boisterous laughter all over. I feel free and happy.
August 3, 2022
August 3, 2022
Colston, my beloved brother, you are forever missed by me. In remembrance of you I have visited the grave in which your body rests a few times every year. So far this year I have not been able to do so because of my physical condition, but I speak of you often. This weekend I will arrange flower bouquets for your grave and Mitchell's. Weather permitting, my caregiver and I hope to visit next week. This evening, however, I will reminisce about you and look through my album of pictures because I love you very much.
June 19, 2022
June 19, 2022
Colston, my beloved brother, today (June 19, 2022) is Father's Day, and my thoughts are of you and our brother, Cody. In my opinion, both of you were great fathers who dearly loved your offspring and who were father figures for my son--i.e. your nephew, Mitchell Franklin Martinez. I thank God for both of you and I love you. Thank you for being not only my brother, but my friend.
September 14, 2021
September 14, 2021
Happy birthday Colston. How time flies. I know that you and the family are having a grand ball enjoying yourselves. We are doing well inspite of the COVID pandemic. Our kids are doing well with our grandchildren and our smart great granddaughter is everyone.. We miss you. We will meet again l know that you are making speeches up there .
September 14, 2021
September 14, 2021
May your birthday be blessed, Colston. I like to think that you are joyfully celebrating it with Mom, Cody, Belle, Tanya and a host of friends. Your picture is on the wall of my study between pictures of Mom and Cody. I look at your smiling face and reminisce. Memories of you are precious to me, Colston, so sometimes (like the present) my eyes fill with tears. I love you, brother.
August 4, 2021
August 4, 2021
32 years seems like yesterday since we heard your boisterous laughter. Your spirit lives on in your children. Colston. Thank you for being a wonderful husband, father and the best teacher ever. 
August 3, 2021
August 3, 2021
Colston, in spite of the fact that you transitioned into the spiritual world 32 years ago, you are with me still. I think and speak of you quite often to my friends (including my caregiver). Your picture is on the wall of my study, and I see your smiling face every day. I love you, Brother, and I always will. God bless you!
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Happy Father's Day, Colston! I wish your offspring would pay their respects to you because you loved (love) them so much. Be that as it may, I love you, Brother, and I speak of you often, reminiscing about good ole' times and being thankful to you for all that you did for me--e.g. being a father-figure for your nephew, Mitchell, and an excellent teacher to countless others. About a month ago Dusty (i.e. my caregiver) and I placed a bouquet of flowers on the grave where your body is buried to honor your memory. God bless your soul!
December 24, 2020
December 24, 2020
It is Christmas Eve, Colston. Earlier today I looked at a photo of you, Mitchell, and Cody. What a beloved trio that was--i.e. my brothers and my son. I not only miss the three of you; I miss our mother, our grandmother, and our sisters. At times nostalgia temporarily eases the grief, but not during the holidays. When the weather permits I will drive to Rolling Hills Memorial Park and pay my respects. I love you, my brother. 
November 26, 2020
November 26, 2020
It is Thanksgiving evening, Colston, and I am thinking about you, Mitchell, Cody, Belle, Tanya, Mom and Grand (i.e. our grandmother, Eliza Jan McMullen Colston). I thank the good Lord for all of you and many others. But, Colston, you were more than my brother; you were my friend, my advisor, and my encourager. I believe that you influenced Mitchell greatly because he, too, was an advisor and encourager; he, too, loved you unconditionally because you were not just his uncle, but his father figure. Thank you, Brother. I love you.
September 14, 2020
September 14, 2020
Happy birthday to my awesome first husband and friend. I know you are up there smiling and having a wonderful time with other members of the family.  Our kids and grandchildren are beautiful and healthy. Sister Naomi is a symbol of strength. Her faith in God is unwavering.  Enjoy yourselves.
September 13, 2020
September 13, 2020
My caregiver, Dusty, can testify to the fact that I have thought about and shared memories of you. She seems to enjoy my reminiscences about you and Cody--particularly you, though, because she was born on September 9, 1970. God knows there is much about you to share with her and others. You were (and are) an extraordinary man, a peacemaker, in whom I will always take pride--not just because I love you, Colston, but because you loved your wife, family, students, and people in general. In less than 15 minutes September 14th will arrive, and I wish you were here so that I could celebrate your birthday with you and your family. God bless you, my beloved brother.
August 3, 2020
August 3, 2020
Colston, I think and speak about you often, reminiscing about things you did and said. God bless your soul. I hope that you, Cody and Mitchell are reminiscing, as well, and I hope you know how your lives had a positive impact on my life and the lives of countless others. Although my friends never met you, they know you quite well. They know that you were (are) more than my brother; they know you were (are) my friend and my mentor. I love you, Colston.
June 22, 2020
June 22, 2020
Happy father's DAY to Colston, an awesome father. I know that you had a fabulous day in heaven. We continue to miss you. Rest on my dear husband.
June 21, 2020
June 21, 2020
Today is Father's Day, my beloved brother, and I remember how much you love your children.  In a sense, you were also a father to many of your students. I love you and I am proud of you, Colston; I always have been and I always will be. 
September 15, 2019
September 15, 2019
Today is Colston's birthday. As I sit at my computer typing I raise my head and look at family pictures on the walls of my study. One is a picture of my beloved brother, Colston, with his sparkling eyes and congenial smile. I gaze at it and say: "Happy Birthday, Colston! I love you dearly because you were always a blessing to me and to my son. God bless you!"
August 3, 2019
August 3, 2019
Today (August 3, 2019) is the 30th anniversary of Colston's passing, but it does not seem real to me because I think and speak of him frequently. In my mind's eye I see Colston's face and remember his love for family, friends, and his students. Just about everyone who knows me can testify to the fact that I reminisce about events in my brother's life and express my great pride in his character and accomplishments. I love you, Brother. God bless your spirit!
September 15, 2018
September 15, 2018
Colston. You went too soon, but you accomplished more than most people can ever dream of. I am sure you are doing well among all the angels.
September 14, 2018
September 14, 2018
Had he lived today (09/14/2018) would be Colston's 81st birthday, and I would be celebrating it with him because I loved (and still love) my brother very much. Coincidentally, this afternoon with great pride I told Medical Social Worker McCord several memorable things about Colston--not that speaking of him is unusual. I speak of Colston, Edward Cody (our brother), and Mitchell (my only offspring) often because there were and always will be my kin, my friends, and my heroes. Their pictures (along with other family members) adorn a wall of my study. Colston blessed my life and the lives of many others, and I thank God for those blessings.
August 4, 2018
August 4, 2018
29 years seem like yesterday. Our children are adults and we have 5 grandchildren and 1 great grand daughter. You will never be forgotten. Your genes are everywhere. Smile.
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
Today is the 29th anniversary of Colston's transition from mortal life to the spiritual life, and I miss him and will continue to do so until my own transition date arrives. I love both of my brothers (i.e. my heroes); but Colston and I lived in California in nearby cities, so our family ties grew stronger during the latter years. Colston loved teaching and he was great teacher, who spoke seven languages fluently. He was a proud father, a devoted husband, a faithful friend, an exceptional mentor, and a wonderful brother. After all of these years I still think and talk about him. God bless you, my dear brother!
June 24, 2017
June 24, 2017
Colston, June 18th was Father's Day, and I am pleased that my caregiver, Teresa, and I were able to visit your grave and place flowers and a flag on it on June 17th. You are one of my respected heroes. I love and honor you, my brother. I know how deeply you loved Mary and your offspring, and I am proud of you and always will be. God bless you.
September 14, 2016
September 14, 2016
Today is Colston's birthday. I looked up at his picture on the wall of my study, focused on his sparkling eyes and his smiling face. "Happy Birthday, Colston, and God bless you always," I said. Colston was more than my brother; he was my friend, one of my key encouragers and mentors. I will always love and honor him.
August 3, 2016
August 3, 2016
I thank God for every moment of the lives of all my beloved family members and friends who have passed from this world to the spiritual one. Colston's passing is particularly memorable to me because I was at the hospital when my honorable brother passed away. He, our oldest brother (Cody) and my son (Mitchell) were my heroes. I cherish their memories and trust that they are blessed to be in the presence of God.
November 26, 2015
November 26, 2015
It is Thanksgiving Day 2015. One of the greatest blessings God gave me was my brother, Colston. I love you, Brother!
September 23, 2015
September 23, 2015
If my computer hadn't crashed on September 11th, I would have acknowledged my brother's, Colston's, birthday on September 14th. However, Colston always has a place in my heart and memories because he was more than my brother. He was also a dear friend, an instructor, an encourager and an advisor to me. In short, I loved him and I will always love him.
September 14, 2015
September 14, 2015
Happy Birthday Colston!!! Thanks for leaving such great memories with me! Kip
August 4, 2015
August 4, 2015
It is amazing that 26 years have passed since you went to be our heavenly father. God is wonderful to create us all to love, share each day, then one day a dear one leaves this world to another world with God. Twenty six years seem like yesterday. Time is relative indeed.
August 3, 2015
August 3, 2015
Colston is always in my heart, and I remember and share things about him with other people because I loved him and I was very proud of my brother. My love for and pride in him have not changed and will not change. Colston, Cody (our brother), Eugene Mitchell Hill (our stepfather), Mitchell Martinez (my son), Rev. Eugene Farlow and Edward Barner were and remain my heroes. I thank God for these men.
June 16, 2015
June 16, 2015
Colston loved being a father and he loved and was very proud of all of his children. Granted, I usually visit my brother's grave and my son's grave every two weeks, but Father's Day is June 21st. I have arranged flower bouquets for both graves and I will take the bouquets to Rolling Hills Memorial Park this week. Colston blessed me by being a father figure for my son and by being a wonderful brother and friend to me. Needless to say, I loved him dearly.
June 15, 2015
June 15, 2015
I miss colston too. I am a relative. I was a small child when I met him. Turns out my life is languages and cultures and I wish I could talk to him about them. I still remember his amazingly wonderful laugh and his beautiful smile. I would love to.say.hi to his sister naomi. She probably will remember me. I share a lot in common with colston. It is incredible. I think about this all the time how languages and culture are my life and colston is the only one I.know in my family line that was. Internationally and globally inclined like I am. I have lived in five countries and collected over 1,700 languages. I am a true artist and love teaching.
December 24, 2014
December 24, 2014
My love for my brother, Colston, endures because he was and always will be my friend and one of my heroes. (My brother, Edward Cody, and my son, Mitchell Martinez, are my other heroes.) I remember all of the good he accomplished in his lifetime and of the help he was many others--including me and my son. So, just as I usually do every two weeks, I visited Colston's grave yesterday and trimmed the grass around it, which is my way of honoring my beloved brother. May your spirit soar in the blissful bosom of God, Colston.
September 20, 2014
September 20, 2014
Colston's birthday was September 14th. A problem accessing this site prevented me from leaving a tribute to my brother on the 14th. Colston was a "people-person"--an amiable extrovert. He traveled extensively throughout the world, spoke several different languages fluently, meshed well with people of diverse cultures and enjoyed teaching his college students. Colston was a loving, loveable man with a rich sense of humor. He was father figure for my son (Mitchell), who loved and respected his uncle. I cherish the memories of Colston and my son and visit and tend to their graves every two weeks to honor them. On most occasions I sing or hum the song, "I Can't Stop Loving You".
June 15, 2014
June 15, 2014
Colston knew what being a father meant. When he was with his family, he gave limitlessly.  He was a wonderful, devoted and loving father, brother, son and grandson. Not to talk about his friends who continue to miss him till this day. 

Like his uncles, he embodied fatherhood with pride. His children and grandchildren, will always carry their heads high knowing that they had a father who loved them beyond measure. That is quite a legacy to leave behind. The legacy continues. His boisterous and infectious laughter can be heard on and on, memories to live by.
June 15, 2014
June 15, 2014
Sunday, June 15, 2014 is Father's Day. I thought of loving, honorable fathers. Naturally, my beloved brother came to mind. Colston loved being a father and dearly loved all of his children. In addition, Colston was a father figure for my son, Mitchell Franklin Martinez, who loved his uncle. My brother and son passed away some years ago, but they will never pass away from heart and thoughts.
March 11, 2014
March 11, 2014
Uncle Colston was a man who helped inspire others and guided me to further my education and always was there for me when I attended Contra Costa College. I followed his example and graduated from UC Berkeley in 1993. Uncle Colston will always be in our hearts a true scholar and gentleman.
January 7, 2014
January 7, 2014
I cherish the memories of my beloved brother, Colston, and I feel blessed to have been a part of his life. I visit his grave site regularly and place a new bouquet of flowers on it to honor him, for he was one of my three heroes. God bless his soul.
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
Many thanks for the anonymous sponsor of this website. Colston's family wishes to acknowledge this generous gift with love.
January 3, 2014
January 3, 2014
God gives us many gifts, the most of these gifts are the family and others who share our lives. Colston understood the importance of cherishing his family, friends, colleagues and students. His energy was contagious, he could do so many things and do them well. He knew that life is not perfect and he tried his best to leave his mark on life..
September 14, 2013
September 14, 2013
Colston's birthday is today, and precious memories of him filled my thoughts more often than usual. I remember that he experienced life fully. Most of all I remember how much I loved my brother.
August 6, 2013
August 6, 2013
Life is a creative process. While we are alive we keep moving forward, one leg after another. Love, laughter, courage, that is what we remember.
August 3, 2013
August 3, 2013
After all of these years I still miss my brother and visit his grave every two weeks to place a bouquet of flowers on it to honor his memory. He remains in my heart and on my mind, so I often tell others about him.
January 18, 2013
January 18, 2013
Colston, my memories of you are strong. I have not forgotten you. You were a positive influence on me. I learned a lot from you about the world, and specifically about our people. Thank you.
January 4, 2013
January 4, 2013
Forever missed, Colston Richard Westbrook was not just the younger of my two beloved, charismatic brothers; he was also friend, mentor, advisor, & teacher to me. A linguist and teacher, Colston spoke 7 languages fluently. I remember his rich sense of humor and his love for all ethnicities. In my mind's eyes I envision his facial expressions & I can almost hear his voice and laughter.
September 15, 2012
September 15, 2012
Love never ends. After 23 years, we continue to remember you and all the things that you did and how the lives that you touched; although you were with us for such a short time. Time has healed the wounds and God has replaced them with blessings of grandchildren, continued close contact with family members, and friends, we continue to share our memories of you, we will never forget you.

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September 15, 2022
September 15, 2022
Happy birthday in heaven. Colston. I hear your boisterous laughter all across the horizon with the twinkle in your eyes. You gave so much and time doesn't stand still. We love you forever
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
September 14th, your birthday, brings tears to my eyes, but I thank God for you, Colson. I am thankful that you are my brother; I am thankful for the many ways you helped others and me throughout your life; I am thankful that you were an excellent father figure for my son, Mitchell; and I am thankful for happy memories of you that I share with others. I love you dearly, Colston, and I always will. God bless you!
August 4, 2022
August 4, 2022
Colston! August 3rd came and l was wondering what class you are teaching in heaven or if you were playing your saxophone or cheering our children in their respective academic and sports activities of basketball, football, softball or baseball teams. I smiled to myself at your contagious laughter of music and dance . Oh yes we worked and played and really enjoyed our family life. I hear your boisterous laughter all over. I feel free and happy.
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August 4, 2019
Colston loved to be among people.  His laughter was infectious.  We used to enjoy music of all genres from African drum music to African american jazz blues and popular music.  He played the saxophone and piano.  An excellent dresser.  He loved life and accomplishment so much in such a short time. 
January 19, 2013

My brothers (Colston and Cody) and I attended Chambersburg Area Senior High School in Chambersburg, Pennsylvania.  They were upper classmen; both of them excelled in sports (e.g., football, baseball, basketball, etc.); and both were very strong.   

I'll never forget the many things Colston did for me, but I will share one memory at this time.  Picture it.  The year was either 1953 or 1954. I was the only African-American in one of my classes.  I forgot his name, but a heavy-set, tall bully sat at the desk in front of mine, a bully who regularly called me the "N" word, made other racial slurs, pushed and shoved me, and even punched me occasionally whenever the opportunity presented itself.  I could not tell our mother what was happening at school because I was afraid that she would go berserk, come to high school and thrash the bully, the teacher, and anyone else who dared to interfere during her tirade.  However, I finally told Colston about my ongoing trouble, and he solved it. 

Colston told me he would stand in the doorway of my classroom the following day shortly before the class was dismissed and he instructed me to tap the bully on the shoulder at that time and deliver a message.  

Well, Colston, who (figuaratively speaking) had muscles of steel, appeared in the doorway and I followed his instructions. The bully turned around sharply and barked at me:  "Why are you touching me, "N"?  I smiled, proudly pointed to Colston and gleefully relayed the message, which was:  "That's my brother, and he said he would kick your butt if you ever bothered me again."  Colston rippled the muscles in his arms and chest and glared menacingly at the bully, who actually trembled with fear, averted his eyes, and lowered his head.  From that point forward the bullying and namecalling ceased--all because of Colston.

from "Kip"

January 18, 2013

Eposi.....Thank you so much for honoring Colston here on the internet. This is a beautiful memorial. I've always admired what Colston has done for the people. I remember once, while taking his class, he gave me the assignment of writing an essay on Africa. In that essay I wrote that it was my destiny to work towards building a unfied Africa, under the banner of Pan-Africanism. I wrote that it would be a powerful Africa that would take control of its resources, using them to remove poverty from the continent, and then the diaspera. After reading my essay, Colston told me that I was someone special. That I was an asset to our people, and that he'd hope that I could accomplish that goal. His words gave me a strength that still reside with me today. Colston will always hold a special place in my heart. He was special to us, and now that you've posted this memorial, others can learn (somewhat, because they didn't have the pleasure of meeting him) how special he was by reading about him. Colston was one of the greatest minds that God could have ever brought to this planet.

 

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