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With deepest sorrow, we announce that Connor Matthew Imus, age 17, our most beloved son, brother, family member and friend passed suddenly on May 5, 2019 in Montrose, CO.  Those that knew Connor, even just a little, lost a shining light in their lives. Connor will be missed everyday by his family, members of the community and many greats friends.

Connor grew up in Lake Forest, CA until he was 7 years old.  It was there, at Mariners Christian School, where his mom and dad both worked, that his love for Jesus Christ, sports, and academic excellence started.  He would spend his days and nights hanging out in the gym and on the field with mom and dad and good friends. He continued his growth and passion for life in Montrose, CO and was a Junior at Montrose High School. He loved all sports, but his passion was for soccer and basketball.  If he was not at practice with his teammates, he was at the rec center working out and shooting.  He aspired to play basketball in college and was actively pursuing his dream.

His brother and sister looked up to him, and he loved them very much. He was the best of US!  His kind, generous, fun-loving heart showed every day in his choices and how he lived his life.  He was a full time student athlete who still found the time to give back to the community by helping with youth sports camps and as a youth sports referee and also working at the Bridges Golf Course part-time. In his limited spare time he liked to hang out with his family, his dog Bella, and play video games online with friends and his brother and pestering his little sister.  In-spite of his numerous academic and sports awards, we are most proud of who he was as a person, how he treated other people and the young man of God he had become.

May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
To Conner and the Imus family-
Conner, we may have not been very close or shared a lot of memories but I remember growing up with you around. With your father being my teacher I remember seeing you and witnessing your kind heart. I remember watching the basketball games and thinking “I hope my brother has that much ambition when he plays in high school” as I watched the memorial service I couldnt help but shed tears wishing I could have made more memories with you. Thank you for being such an amazing feiend to many and always being kind and demonstrating what a true man is. To the rest of the imus family, thank you for giving us all the opportunity to have met Conner and witness his amazing self. He will forever be remembered and loved. He will not be forgotten. Fly high #4 you will be greatly missed. And we will forever honor you. ❤️ May god keep you wrapped in his arms
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
I got up at 4am to watch Connor's service live from Nepal. While it was painful to watch, to experience your pain and honesty with it, the love you have for Connor is beautiful to behold. I didn't know Connor but got to experience the great guy he was. I wish I could have known him.
My heart is broken for you both.
Love is supporting you and your family from around the world. Sending love from Kathmandu.
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
To the Imus family,
you have/had raised an amazing son❤️ he always was someone I could talk too. I had Econ with Connor and he would always tease me, and it would always make me laugh and smile. He always had a smile and some kind of story to brighten my day. Thank you for blessing all of our lives with Connor and I’m so sorry for your lost and please keep God in your heart ❤️
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
Matt and family; I did not have the honor of knowing your son, but I am grieving for you and the fine boy you raised. My daughter, husband and I just watched his beautiful ceremony and we have renewed hope in what is to come. We heard your words, we want to cherish all that we have. Jaiden (monkey to you) wants you to know that she is praying for you all. We will continue to lift your family up in prayer. The Bresett / Cross family
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
To the Imus family, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I’m sorry that you have to know this type of pain and sadness. We grow up, have kids and it never occurs to us that “it would happen to us.” 
Earlier this week, Dane, Joanna, and I were sitting at the dinner table talking about Conner and Georgia. They were the same age and played basketball and soccer together. We talked about what a nice kid Conner was and how heartbreaking it is to know that you and your family will be faced with some tough times. Sebastian, our eight-year-old, spoke up and asked if Conner died. We told him that yes, unfortunately Conner did die. Sebastian immediately spoke without hesitation, “Well, Georgia was up in heaven to meet Conner with a basketball!” We all looked at each other and agreed! We gave him a teary-smile and I gave Sebastian a big hug. Kids are so pure and innocent and have such a simple yet profound understanding of their faith, God, Jesus, and heaven. 
Jesus tells us that we are to have faith in God and also in Him. He tells us that in his Father’s house there are many dwelling places and that He has gone before us to prepare a place for each of us. We must have faith in the certainty of His promise. We must have faith in our heavenly Father that he will not abandon us, especially in our times of greatest need.
Many hugs and prayers to you all!
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
When I look back on Sunday night and was told by my daughter he was missing, I didn't believe what she was telling me. I felt like it was a bad dream that we all were in and wanting to wake up from. I truly am sorry for the loss of such a wonderful soul. Connor was a young man that truly has touched so many in his 17 years of life and that speaks to the family that has raised him. I can remember the years he had played soccer and basketball with Bronson. I remember so many games that he would be there for my son through some difficult times on the court. I have always respected him for that. He always seem to put others first. To look back on his years with my daughter, Madison, and the memories they share as classmates will be everlasting memories for her and all of us. I know there are many of us that wish we could take the burden of your pain for the loss of Connor. We are here for you all in months to come. Thank you young man for touching so many of us. You truly lived your life selflessly and it shows.
You were God's example of LOVE.
Love BIG with all of your heart - every day.
Hug them all more - every day.
Tell them you love them - every day.
Give grace - every day.
Forgive - every day.
Be more of who YOU were created to be - every day.
Shine your love - every day.
❤️ 1 Corinthians 13:4- 8
Fly high Connor and rest easy now. We will see you again. #playforconnor

~Love the McCombs', Bronson and Madison Satterly
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
What a beautiful and incredible poem above. Connor, Dusty and I are so lucky to have been graced by your spirit. You clearly touched so many of your friends and left them with such warmth. Matt, you and your entire family are being held tight in our arms. We will, together always cherish and remember Connor together.
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
My heart broke the moment I heard ... I only knew Conner as a basketball player and a classmate and friend of my grandchildren...The truth is he was always one of my favorites to watch on the court, he played with such intensity and love of the game...I remember seeing him smile in many of their games and thinking what a beautiful smile he had...
Matt, Emily, Jackson, and Sarah just know that because the Son and Brother, along with his buddy Bella are now in Heaven you will always “Have a little bit of Heaven in your home”....❤️
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
To the entire Imus family. Few things hit home as hard as a loss of a child will. As I read the notice my son Aiden posted about his friend on Sunday, my heart dropped for your family.
I pray and will continue to pray that God helps you find peace, whatever form it may be in. 
No words can express our condolences for your loss but may God watch over your family and your precious son.
Rest In Peace Connor. I know Aiden will forever remember you.
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
Connor meant a lot to so many others, but the impact he had on my littles was huge in his short time he spent with them. And these may seem like small, minute moments in our small corner of the world, but he mattered and his memories matter to them. When asked what they loved most or what they will miss most of Connor...
•He played knockout with us and even though he could cream us, he let us win all the time
•dirt biking in the yard
•letting me ride in his cool car and listening to music with his big speakers
•He always shared his gum with me and I love gum just like Connor
•playing NBA2k together
•when we went golfing together and had so much fun
•he waves to me at the games
•he was like the coolest nicest kid that I looked up to
•we had a movie marathon with all his good movies
•he let me come over and show him all my stuff and just talk to him
•he told us really bad cheesy jokes that everyone’s knows
•he never made fun of me even though I used a nightlight
•he tucked us in at night, like really tucked us in and told us good night...not like other babysitters
Connor was able to show them how to be kind, polite, work hard, save for things, be silly and not be so serious! I love that he gave my kids his time even if it wasn’t always “cool” to be seen with a little kid. Connor gave me time with my husband even if it meant hanging with my zany kids who were crazed Connor fanatics everytime he came to the door. The things Teal and I love most of Connor are his gratitude, humbleness and that big giant smile.
Love, The Warthen’s
May 10, 2019
May 10, 2019
Conn Conn, as I lay awake for another night missing you, remembering you. The pain is crazy, that anger is real. I am constantly reminded of you in everything, but I know I will see you again and that you will be there to welcome me.
It’s been on my heart to share this poem with the world that a former student wrote for you and I, she meet you a few times. Avery G. Is currently in 6th grade, thank you for the blessing Avery. Here it is:

What do You See
We all see the world as cruel
When you left, we all found the kindness inside
You brought us all together
And you held us strong
What do you see?
In the next world, is it full of regret,
Or love?
What do you see?
Are the mountains higher?
Are the rivers prettier than here?
Do hearts beat louder there,
Louder than they do here?
We miss your smile
We miss your joy
We miss everything about you now
What do you see?
Are the people kinder?
Do the stars shine brighter?
Do the waves crash louder?
Are the cities as elegant as here?
Do the clouds look different?
Tell me please, what do you see?
Tell me, what do you see?
Is the world less cruel?
Do words come out right?
Are mistakes fixed immediately,
Or do they make you cry?
What do you see?
What a world you left behind
Now everything seems wrong
Do you see inside your father’s eyes,
Do you see his fears inside,
Do you see his tears?
They are there whether you know it or not
We are heart broken
Can you see the light that has spoken?
Can you see us pray for you?
What do you see?
Do tears dry up,
Or do they produce faster than ours?
Can you see us here,
Way down here,
While you’re in the clouds dreaming,
Having the time of your afterlife,
Enjoying the freedom?
What do you see?
-For Mr. Imus’s son and their beloved dog
By:Avery Gill

Thank you Avery for blessing us in such an incredibly hard time.
I LOVE YOU CMI, and I hope other will share so that in the middle of the night when I can’t sleep I can read about their memories of you and how you touched their lives. It will bring tears to my ears but a smile to my heart knowing that you touched the lives of others. I just pray that God uses this pain to help others somewhere, some how! Goodnight CMI, I love you.
Dad
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Happy Heavenly 21st CMI!

Wow! I can’t believe how fast time flies!

I’ve been thinking about you this summer a lot especially! I got to cover AAU basketball this summer and just kept thinking about Motown madness and getting to watch you grow up on the court! Those were the best times. The last time I got to see you play, I was home from college and was so proud of you! You truly were such a light on the court!

You impacted the lives of so many people around you and were always so nice to everyone! I always admired you for that!

I am so thankful to have known you and got to grow up with you! I wish I could be celebrating with you tonight! Oh middle school us could only dream of the day of being 21! I hope heaven is being good to you CMI! I miss you so much!
August 16, 2021
August 16, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday Connor Matthew, we miss you so. You would have been 20 today and heading into your 2nd year of college. I know that you are with us today as we drop JT off for his next adventure at CSU and Cooper went to his 1st day of preschool. You would be so proud of them both. It's been 28 months and you have missed at so many events and sooooooo many people miss you. Say hi to grandpa for me and kiss his face off. I love you son.
July 13, 2021
July 13, 2021
Hey cmi.. it’s been a while. I dreamt about you last night, I dream about you a lot actually.. but this time you were here. I thought you were gone but you were here. And I’ve never felt so much joy. I’ve never known the feeling of your heart calling you home, but that’s what it felt like last night. I saw you. And I knew you were forever. I wish we could go back, I miss you so unexplainably much Conman. I feel very lost without you, but I’m learning to turn to God and to trust him. Until we meet again.. Keep us safe angel❤️
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August 16, 2022
Sure miss you son. Wondering what today would have been like? What would we have done? Where would you be right now? What would you be doing with your life? I will miss sharing your accomplishments! Bragging about your success. Your little brothers will never get to know how truly special you were. Yes, they will hear stories, see pictures and videos, but they are missing out on so much of who you were :( Cheers to you, and knowing that I will get to see and hug you again someday. #Live4Connor, #Play4Connor

3 years

May 5, 2022
3 years ago as we talked about the plans for Sunday, May 5th 2019 I wish I would have made Connor Imus ref with me. Instead, our lives were changed forever. I haven’t posted much lately, I keep having memories that pop up of all the things that we used to do. Instead of posting all the new things we are doing. We miss you #4CMI and it hurts to post updates and pictures when you are not in them but here goes! Jt is living in your (his) Montero and traveling to National parks, hiking and being outside on his own and seems to be loving it. Sarah is just like you and driven to do her best, she almost beat your SAT score. Cooper and I look at pictures and talk about how you get to live in heaven with God right now, he is brilliant and has your memory. Colten is such a happy boy and just starting to walk. We are headed to Newport in a few weeks and will visit your 1st friends and Mariners Christian School. 

Your memorial site still does not have engraving. I keep putting up the program from your memorial. I just can’t make myself go in with your mom and make it final. Not sure if it’s fear of making it final that you aren’t here with us in body anymore but we will do it soon. We will award more scholarships in a few days to kids in your Honor and pray that they will make an impact on others as they strive to catch their dreams. 

One of the things that I miss the most is your smile, and opening my phone to see the countless goofy selfies you would always take! Here are just a few. I miss you son, but am glad that I had so many wonderful days and memories with you. #play4Connor #4CMI
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December 25, 2021
As you celebrate with our King I miss you CMI. The days are never the same without you here to make more memories. We have eternal hope because our Jesus was born to cover our sins. I am glad that you know your Father in Heaven and get to celebrate and be with us all. Your brothers and sister miss your smiling face and fun spirit, I miss your hugs, you smile, and the warmth you brought to a room and how you would have been such a great big brother to them all, although you were always a great brother even when you were pestering JT and teaming up against him with Sarah. The days are long, but knowing that you are in Heaven gives us peace as you patiently wait. Enjoy the celebration in Heaven son, I love you and miss you like crazy. #Play4Connor #4CMI

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July 24, 2021
It was my sophomore year when I played basketball... We were in the middle of a hard practice and I was on the sideline of the court watching practice I was frustrated and angry for whatever reason and Connor comes up to me and says " what are you doing here you need to be out there practicing your to good to be feeling sorry for your self". And continued to encourage me and lift my spirits up for the rest of practice. This is just one of many examples that showed how great of a teammate Connor was. he always pushed us to be our absolute best and lifted us when we were down. Coming up as freshman I wanted to be just like him the way he played the game and the way he carried himself of the court truly one of a kind I will remember you always Connor.
August 21, 2020
Hi CMI❤️ I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately, I have the cutout from the MHS yearbook of you in my car to keep you here with me on life’s journeys. I hope heaven gave you a wonderful birthday and so badly I wish you were here. The last time I saw you was at the rec center... I still have the workouts you helped me with in my texts. I have been visited by passed loved ones in my dreams and last night I had the privilege to have been visited in my dream last night by you. I couldn’t see your face but you had red socks on, basketball shorts, and sneakers, but it was you. I was thinking about all of the reasons why I am majoring in sports journalism and a lot of my success is dedicated to you. You see I never played a sport, but it was always a community I wanted to play a part in. I read a quote from an NBA player and he said something about the bubble being a huge AAU tournament and I ultimately thought of you. I remember being new to Columbine and your class made my heart whole and welcomed me in ways I have never felt so loved before. I would get to school just to see you and everyone early and then spent every moment with you all. Dairy Queen Wednesdays and then you would always leave in an hour to get to practice. I got to hear the inside scoop of what was going on outside and inside of the team and then watch you all just play your heart out at your AAU tournaments. You really are a big part of my career choice so thank you. I remember coming back from college after you passed and at a game I kept looking for your spark on the court. Although you aren’t here physically I still see your spark. You were you in my dream last night, but you were glowing and happy. I miss you so much and thank you for impacting my life in so many ways. Love you lots CMI

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