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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Cosimo Paul Crimi, 55, born on December 12, 1957 and passed away on March 18, 2013. We will remember him forever.

December 12, 2023
December 12, 2023
Happy birthday , miss you everyday. Think of you often. Love you til my end of time. Rip always baby brother.
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
My sister, Donna & I were just talking and reminiscing about Coz the other day not realizing his birthday was near. Maybe it was a sign. Thinking fondly of Coz and happier days. Love to you. Patty
Kathy Egan Clifford
December 12, 2022
December 12, 2022
Happy birthday , 65 Coz, who would have thought you wouldn't be here to celebrate.  I think of you so often and miss you. Thanks for the great times and a litte aggravation.  You are forgotten by few and remembered by many. ILU
March 18, 2022
March 18, 2022
Remembering Cos fondly ....and his Angie and brother Joe and sisters Patty and Vicki. Think of you all often. All the best.
December 12, 2021
December 12, 2021
64, who would have thought.  Sometimes I think about you and laugh other time I cry.
I miss you and Joe. I love you till the end of time. HAPPY BIRTHDAY baby brother.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Thinking of you baby bro.  Miss you and love you until the end of time. RIP. 
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Hello Cos,

Life isn't quite as rich without your presence. You truly were a gift. I only regret the time that we didn't get to spend. And yet, I'm pleased that even in death, certain connections can get the fabrics of time to bend and I'm thankful that we can still share those perfect moments. I'll continue to hold you close, and think of you always. And I will continue to blush and a smile will cross my face. With your jokes about our secret engagement. Feel like we really lost out, especially when I think that we cage the same demons, and oh how I wish I could've helped you let them out. So long for now, without a doubt, we will meet again my friend. I love you Cos, and I miss you and your Cosspell. And for now and for always, you will always have your Bella. 
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
My brother, I think of you often as I do joe. I miss you. I'm so sad your gone especially under the circumstances you left.  I so wish I could have healed your heart and mind. You are where you want to be, joined with Ulysses. I wish you peace, comfort and all the love you can hold.  I love you and will miss you until the end of time.
December 12, 2020
December 12, 2020
Happy 63 baby doll. I miss you with every beat of my heart. I think of you most of the time with joy and other times, deep sadness. See you when I see you brother.  Xo
March 18, 2020
March 18, 2020
Seven yrs, omg. Seems like just yesterday.  Miss u and think of you often. I love you coz. RIP baby brother.  See u on the other side. Xo
April 5, 2019
April 5, 2019
Hi Cos, Missing you. Thoughts of you often. Miss your face, smile and laugh. Rip baby brother..xo
December 12, 2018
December 12, 2018
HAPPY BIRTHDAY COSS,
Thoughts of you always. Love and miss you. xo
March 18, 2018
March 18, 2018
5 years: Miss you and love you. Hope you found the peace you were looking for. RIP brother.  Love always.
December 12, 2017
December 12, 2017
60 today....Wow catching up with your siblings...
Wish you were here to celebrate the big one....Miss you and love you tons and tons...Happy Birthday Little Brother...
March 18, 2017
March 18, 2017
Time may pass, but I will not forget you. I miss you and love you always. Four years today.... time has gone by so quick.. rip xo
February 27, 2017
February 27, 2017
I found out that your gone to Heaven, I thought you would of made it to the top of the world, Renee Luzzi will be just as saddened by your passing. I sit here wishing you had my phone number, we could of talked, you are missed by all.
January 23, 2017
January 23, 2017
Thoughts of you today. Missing you, Love you. We are the same age which was your favorite time to take our "same age pic". The ache in my heart seems like yesterday. Never goes away. Love you. rip.
November 11, 2016
November 11, 2016
You came to me in a dream. You were ok, just moved away but would not tell me where. " I am doing fine", you said. That is all I needed to know. Love you and miss you will the beat of my heart. xo
May 28, 2016
May 28, 2016
So much time has passed, thoughts of you always. Miss you baby bro. Hole in my heart. Love you with all my heart until it stops beating. rip until I get there and slap your face. xo.
March 17, 2016
March 17, 2016
Little Brother I cannot begin to tell you how much you are missed..3 years and it seems like yesterday...I can only hope and pray you are now resting peacefully... Love you from here to the moon and back.
March 17, 2016
March 17, 2016
My baby brother, How I miss you. Tomorrow will be three years you have been gone. I still have nights I lay awake and see you for the last time, my hand on your chest feeling your faint heart beat and then, gone from us. I only hope the memory of you stays with people who's life you touch. It was not a nice way you left us. I try with all my heart and, with time, to understand. May you be free from all your sadness and stress. I love you with all my heart and I am a whisper away.
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
Thoughts of you today, missing you and loving you with all my heart. See you at the east gate.xo
December 12, 2015
December 12, 2015
Happy Birthday babe bro, Kisses and love to you. Miss you, xo
November 28, 2015
November 28, 2015
Happy Holidays little Brother....I must say you are the lucky one...You have more family with you than Pat and I .....I Love and Miss you forever and always
November 26, 2015
November 26, 2015
Thought of you and U today... Miss you both so much. Wish you were here to see your smile and hear your laughter... Love you baby bro.xo
September 3, 2015
September 3, 2015
two and a half years just about, seems like yesterday. Miss you. Think of you often w/ both joy and sadness. Life goes on and each day getting closer to you. love you baby brother.
July 26, 2015
July 26, 2015
My baby brother, you take my breath away w/ sadness when I think of what could have been. Yes, life goes on but in some respects it just stands still. Missing you and loving you always. xo
March 20, 2015
March 20, 2015
ALWAYS thinking of you in the early morning... think of you everytime I see a leaf falling... and a beautiful sunset.. and witness acts of love and kindness.. you're still here; ALL WAYS.
XOX
March 20, 2015
March 20, 2015
My sweet Coss *

These past few days, something was different... a feeling... something amiss... And then I realized what yesterday's date was my love...
Do forgive me, old friend... It's taken this long for me to gather my courage to be (here)..
I MISS YOU AND U.
My heart still aches at the thought of never hearing your voice again... Never being greeted by that beautiful warm smile.. That GI-normous Coss hug and that huge leather bag..!!!!!haha!!!!
I hope you know how truly special you (still) are... And PSST!! I FOUND THAT CRYSTAL YOU LEFT FOR ME!!!!!
March 9, 2015
March 9, 2015
I think of you often as we closer to the two year mark that you have been gone. The letter:
I had a wonderful life, the best. When I took Ulysses to Sibley hospital on April 7th 2008 and he died April 16th destroyed me. I have been walking around like a zombie the last 5 years. I have to much to do and I am all alone. My mind aches, my body aches and my heart aches. I die here with him today. I love you all Pat.  Cos April 16 11:59am.
I spoke w/ you that evening, I never had a clue. You didn't give me a hint that it would be the last time I would ever speak w/ you. I can not say enough how sorry I am that I did not feel your fear, your pain. I am sorry I could not help you or make you feel safe. I love you brother Cos. You never realized you mean't so much to so many. You should have stayed in DC where your real friends were. Missing you and loving you always. xo
January 23, 2015
January 23, 2015
I made a big mistake tonight, I reread the note you left me and your autopsy report.. God how sad you make me. I can except death, but the way you left this world, you left me heartbroken. I play those days prior over and over in my head, " what could I have done different, why didn't I see" I'm so sorry Cos. I new you were in pain but not as deep as it ran. I can't even express my self to anyone. The sadness I feel. I love you and miss you. I hope in gods great mercy you are where you wanted to be... Always in my thoughts..xo
December 14, 2014
December 14, 2014
It is such a very sad way to leave your family and friends, Cos. Wish I understood more and reconnected better since both our returns to Syracuse. So very very sorry.....
December 11, 2014
December 11, 2014
Little Brother....Tomorrow is you B'day. More than anything I wish that you could be here with Pat and I. Miss you terribly. I hope that you and Ulysses are celebrating more than ever. You are now together again. How joyous you must be. You are now at peace and where you want to be...Love you Little Brother....From here to the moon and back..
November 26, 2014
November 26, 2014
Year two with out you this Thanksgiving. Miss you baby brother. I do think of you often, sometimes w/ a smile most of the time w/ tears. Sad that your gone before your time. But our time is not necessarily God's time. I'd like to think your at a place w/ a big smile, laughing and flood w/ security and peace in your heart. Love you Cos..xo
June 4, 2014
June 4, 2014
Thinking of you today with a little sadness. Even called your phone so your picture would pop up. Hoping you are at the place you need and want to be. Love you Cos. Can not even share a small talk w/ brother Joe just to give me a lift. God bless baby bro... until ...xo
April 5, 2014
April 5, 2014
Thoughts of you today. I think of you everyday, some days just a quick thought and others you linger all day. Miss you. Was looking at your coats and Ulysses wondering, What do I do w/ all this sh.....? I found your sympathy cards. Can not re read them right now. I did read the note you left me after you death. Looking for something different I guess. It wasn't there. Just put zing w/ some of your things.  Makes me feel closer to you. Miss you honey... love you
March 18, 2014
March 18, 2014
One year ago today little brother you left us. Who would have thought. The family you left behind Misses you so. The family you joined are rejoicing. I pray that you are at peace now. We miss and love you tons and tons...From here to the moon and back. Hugs and Kisses to You, Joe, Dad, Mom, Jeff and Ulysses...
January 13, 2014
January 13, 2014
May your spirit soar in freedom
From the fears that gripped so tight.
May you find the peace your searched for
As you wandered, lost, in the night.

May your tortured mind be clear and calm
And your tender heart be warm.
May you have no need for strength now.
May there ne'er be another storm.

May the music of the angels
Be the sweet sounds that you hear.
As you're rocked in Heaven's cradle
May you ne'er shed another tear.

I'll wear your memory proudly,
My brother...my true friend.
May my love for you reach Heaven above
Until we meet again.


Missing you Cos, Love you, your sister Pat
December 12, 2013
December 12, 2013
Happy birthday my good friend. World sure feels like a different place without you. It's doesn't seem fair at all.
November 28, 2013
November 28, 2013
Although you are not here in presence, you are here in spirit. May your journey continue and may you be at rest, made whole again. I love you and miss you this Thanksgiving Day. I wish I could say I am thankful for so much this year but it would not be true. I am sad you and brother are gone. Its been a painful year. Only God has the answers. Love you Cos.
August 8, 2013
August 8, 2013
Thinking of you and Joe something awful today little brother...Miss talking to both of you. Life is not the same without the 2 of you...I hope you are finally at peace and in the arms of all of your loved ones...Dad, Mom, Joe...And of course Ulysses...Love you Lots ... You can now rest.
August 2, 2013
August 2, 2013
I thought of you today as I do every day. "you were crushed by this world" I am so sorry. I feel so much regret, guilt whatever it is. What could I have done for you to make you feel safe and secure? Did you know I would have done anything for you? Did you know that by doing this to yourself would be a cross I carry forever? I am so sad Cos. Love you and miss you always. RIP
July 15, 2013
July 15, 2013
As time goes by, almost 4 months now your gone and 6 months for brother Joe, I look back at life. the joy, laughter, tears we all shared. I am so grateful we had each other. I am sad we can't grow old together. How much we will miss as a family, the four of us. Tears come out of nowhere everyday my only comfort is my belief in god that we will rejoice again someday. Love you.
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December 12, 2023
December 12, 2023
Happy birthday , miss you everyday. Think of you often. Love you til my end of time. Rip always baby brother.
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
My sister, Donna & I were just talking and reminiscing about Coz the other day not realizing his birthday was near. Maybe it was a sign. Thinking fondly of Coz and happier days. Love to you. Patty
Kathy Egan Clifford
December 12, 2022
December 12, 2022
Happy birthday , 65 Coz, who would have thought you wouldn't be here to celebrate.  I think of you so often and miss you. Thanks for the great times and a litte aggravation.  You are forgotten by few and remembered by many. ILU
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A quintessential introduction to Coz

May 8, 2023
I first met Coz on a sweaty day in August 1994 in DC when I walked into Chief Ike's Mambo Room for a job interview. I got about 20 feet into the bar when a pint glass when whizzing past my head and shattered on the wall next to me. Coz was apparently less than impressed with the cleaning job by the previous night's bartenders. Somehow that didn't deter me (I was a 24-year-old graduate student desperately in need of a job) and I soon became Coz's weekend bartending partner for the next 13-14 years. So many wonderful and crazy times. He was such a loyal and supportive friend and a handful at the same time!
I'm sad that he never met my daughter who was born in 2011--they would have enjoyed each other immensely and I think he would have loved the fact that I even tended bar for a while after she was born--pumping breast milk in the nasty-ass liquor room in the middle of a shift. 
Coz and Ulysses often come to mind when I think about my 20+ years in DC and we were all the better for knowing them. 
Heidi Schultz

I had a dream

June 23, 2019

I  had a dream I was standing at the sink washing dishes.  I was thinking of you and started to cry while washing.  The  tears were rolling down my cheeks. I looked up and you were sitting on the counter right next to me.  You said "why are you crying"  I replied, Because I am sad you are gone and I miss you and worry about the way you left this world.   You put your arms around my neck and your head on my shoulder and said " don't worry about me, I am where I should be and I am fine."

Thanks Cos, I did so need that. 


January 4, 2015

We were acting so silly here, trying to be serious and not smile.. what a joke... Miss you as we come close to your two year of your sad death.  Memories always w / me.. love you

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