Cousin, childhood playmate . . . Summers, Mun Lun Chinese Language School, sewing classes, your first teen BD party in the garage, your and Frank’s visit with us in Redmond WA. Thank you for all of the shared memories and your most thoughtful e-BD greetings on August 12th! Aloha, I miss you.

How blessed we “Wong Cousins” are to have shared a childhood of wonderful memories! As one of my “older cousins” , I admired Sue and lived vicariously through her adventures. I treasure those memories as well as the get-togethers whenever our mainland cousins came to town. She was missed when she moved to the Big Island. She will be deeply missed in our presence now, but those precious times will warm my heart when I think of Sue.
My prayers and deepest sympathies to Melanie, Bryan and family. We will meet again in Heaven.

Dear Auntie Sue,

I have such fond memories starting from childhood visiting your house to see you and Uncle Frank, and to play with Melanie and Bryan. As we grew older, you were always kind, warm and generous with your hugs, your laughter. I'm so thankful and lucky to have had you in our lives, even though we did not get to see you often. Now, when I think of you and Uncle Frank, it makes me smile. I miss you.

Aunty Sue, I miss you and know you're looking down on us. You're going to be missed by so many people, but we celebrate your life and the joy you brought to those around you(just how you would have wanted). Thank you for all the love and laughter. 

We were so lucky to get the chance to know Sue these last couple of years. She was a fierce competitor at our weekly mahjong games. She never let Joe feel like he had the upper hand even when he was winning(which was pretty much always). Sue was always laughing and having a good time. I learned Sue's ingredients for a good time involved ono food, cold wine and some type of game usually mahjong. I'm thankful for our time together, she will be dearly missed.

From Nan:

I only had the pleasure of knowing Sue a short time. Too short, but I know that I will remember good things about her for a far longer time.

Dear "Sister Sue",
  While your earthbound presence will be missed, you will always be present in our hearts. Thank you for everything!

Mel, this is such a lovely tribute to Sue that you have created. Even though I didn't know your mother, Sue, very well, I felt like I knew her essence very well. 
I can explain this by relating some stories and memories of my visit to Honolulu in 2018. Sue was kind and generous enough to move out of her apartment in the Roller compound so that I could stay there during my visit. It had air conditioning, and she wanted me to be comfortable. My immediate sense was that Sue was a serene, loving, laid-back lady, and I loved being around her. She and I enjoyed our glass of wine in the evenings, and to this day, I still think of her when I drink a glass of Lindeman's wine. My visit was not just for pure vacation pleasure. My sister, and Kent's mother, Avery, was slipping into full-fledged Alzheimer's and there was much turmoil and chaos during my visit. Sue was a rock, and anchor through it all. She was such a sounding board for all the concerns that we were going through to come up with the best solution for Avery. She listened through all the scenarios, and while never inserting her opinion on the situation, always supported us with a loving kindness and care from her heart. I watched Sue, and thought to myself, I want to be more like her. Perhaps that is the bet tribute one can give, or receive. Mahalo Sue, God rest your soul.

Sue drank of life fully and shared her love and laughter generously.
She will be so very missed.

Love,
The Douglas Family

We met Sue a couple of years ago, through our good friends Joert, Brian and Melanie.  Many Mahjong games, holidays, parties and good times.  She was the dearest to us and and our children, and will be very missed. Sue, thank you, we love you and will one day play Mahjong again! 

Love, Adam, Amy, Lucas, Andrew and Rosalie

Dear, Dear Sue,

Bob “Red” and I are very thankful to have shared a part of your life. You brought sunshine with your smiles, that contagious laughter, wit and can’t forget the food. Your love , and ours, for playing mahjong brought us hours and many days of mahjong, mahjong, mahjong along with the good eats... 
Long story cut short, we love you, miss you, will always keep you in our hearts! It is hard to say Aloha to friend who touched our lives for such a short time. 
To all your Ohana and Joe, our heartfelt condolences.

A Hui Hou,
Me ke aloha pumehana,
Jarnell and Bob

From Neighbor Bea Chu

Whenever Sue went on her walks and she saw me outside, she would stop by and we would end up talking until she realized that she had to resume her walk. She was always cheerful, friendly and inspirational. When she came to Oahu in January, we did not have a chance to get together but only talked on the phone.

Life is so short and unpredictable. Sue's friendship meant so much. She was a beautiful, kind and loving person and I will miss her dearly.

Rest in peace until we see each other again.

Hi Mom,
You know I’ve always thought of you as…”Mom”… before Sue…and that will never change. I’m blessed and grateful to have shared life with you. Mahalo for embracing and enfolding me in your love, and all the good fun times…eating, partying, playing mah jong…but mostly laughing until we cried. Your quick wit, hearty laughter and smile is what I’ll always remember…and what I'll miss the most. And for taking me on your journeys in your new life, with Joe and all the mah jong ohana on the Big Island…although sadly, short-lived. I will miss you with all my heart, my “TWINSEY” but know that you are in a better place…beating Dad at mah jong or cribbage…hahaha!

To Bryan, Mel, Aunty Mei, Sheena, Bryson, Bryt, BJ, Joe and all the Ohanas…my heartfelt sympathies. Yes…sadly…another good one…gone too soon !

Mom, until we meet again…me ke aloha pumehana…luv ya always!

Your twinsey and as you always called me…sassy brat.
With much aloha and mahalo and love,
Gerri

From Harriet Iona:

I'm so saddened to Sue's passing. My heart goes out to her daughter and family for strength and understanding. Met Sue thru Joe, at the Merrie Monarch Craft Fair. Although I didn't get get to know her that well, she was a wonderful person. She's in a better place. No more suffering. May she rest in peace. My prayers go out to the late Sue's family and friends. May her memories live on.

Aloha,

Harriet

I met Sue last December for Melanie and Brian’s wedding and also for Christmas. Although I didn’t have much time with her, I found Sue to be such a caring and personable woman and extremely easy to get to know.

I’m so sorry that I never had the chance for her to teach me the game of mah jong as we talked about, as it was obvious she enjoyed playing it very much. 

My sincere sympathy goes to all of her family and close friends. I’m sure she was deeply loved by all and will be greatly missed. 

Sincerely,
Diana

We really miss Sue because she was so enjoyable every time we were together. We enjoyed her laughter and quick wit. Her laughter was contagious and we know she is still smiling. We never know the plans the Lord has for our life, so Sue always wanted to live her life to the fullest with no regrets. She is at peace and complete rest now. We pray that the Lord's presence will remain with her family during this time of mourning. We want to send our family's condolences to the Oasay family in the lost of wonderful Sue.

Tribute by Ruth HIrahara, Spiritual Group Leader

Sweet Sue was a member of the Manoa Meditators along with Mei and Cliff for many years. We loved and enjoyed this very intuitive, compassionate, fun and food loving sister! Our monthly mediations meetings followed by pot luck lunches were awesome! We will always miss her presence but we know she is happily united with Frank and her parents. She is now our Guardian Angel!

Dear Sue,
When I signed up for mah jong,I immediately enjoyed learning the game. Then one day, I sat and played at your table...class went from fun to pure joy! My mission when playing with you was not to win, but to be as witty as I could, for your laughter was so hearty; I loved hearing you laugh . . . I shall miss our Fridays . . . 
Can believe that I've had the pleasure of knowing you for less than 2 years. You were such a compassionate and spirited friend. I miss seeing you...talking to you...laughing with you, Sue. I shall not forget you, my dear Sue. You left much too soon, but I am contented to have spent time in your company.
To Sue's family: My heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your mother, grandmother, sister, aunt. She was truly a wonderful person.

Sue is one of my cousins who I have always enjoyed. She always had a smile and I am happy we stayed in contact over the years. Her openness and friendliness were qualities that were so genuine. I will miss her and I know we all have wonderful memories of times we shared with her.

So sorry to hear of Sue's passing. She was such a friendly, caring person. I will miss her. I first met Sue at one of my mahjong games. Even visited her (with Norma Hacsi) in Hilo when she first moved. I always enjoyed her company. She is in the hands of the good Lord and he will keep her safe forever! My prayers are with you all. Love and Aloha, Elaine ❤

From Susan Olivia:

Your mom was loved by many. She was a beautiful person with a beautiful heart. She touched all who knew her in a special way. We are saddened as she left way too soon. I felt her love and kindness immediately upon meeting her. God bless you and family and her many friends and Joert, my brother who also loved very much.

Heavenly blessings Sue,
Susan

For the short time that Sue was with out mahjong group, everyone really enjoyed her company. Sue really enjoyed the mahjong games and was a quick learner of the new ways of playing the game. I will miss her hefty laugh and company in our mahjong games. We will always cherish the memories of the good times we had with Sue and will dearly miss her.

Mahalo Melanie for contacting us about your Mom. Sue was fairly new to our HKMJ
group. She was well liked, enjoyed Mah Jong, a good player, eager to learn new ways to play MJ and yes, most importantly
to eat and enjoy food. I was sad when she decided to move to Hilo. But she found the Senior Center there and became “Top Dog”
MJ player. Even when quarantine started,
Sue had a close group that played several days a week at 3 different homes. Sue loved Mah Jong and her children, Melanie and Bryan. Love you, Sue.

Today we lost a beautiful and wonderful person, too soon and too early for most of us. She came into my life 21 months ago and she was my partner in life, partner in mahjong, and was my life. She was a wonderful mother, parent, and friend. She was beloved by all who met her. She always enjoyed life to the fullest, laughing and smiling was her trademark. She was funny, humorous, gracious, and generous. Though her passing saddens me, pains me, the hurt, I will always remember who she was and what she stood for. Full of zest for life, cherished and embraced the moments. Love, funny, laughter, and humorous. I for one will remember all those thoughts. In my mind, in my heart, and in my soul. Rest in peace my beloved Sue. To the Oasay family, please accept my sincerest condolences.

I didn't know Sue for very long but felt very close to her. I missed her terribly when she left for Hilo, this news was devasting. I was looking forward to hosting her back in Honolulu for a mahjong weekend. I'm so happy to have met Melanie. Sorry I never met Bryan. I will miss Sue dearly.

Sue was such a wonderful addition to our family. We were blessed to have her in our lives and so fortunate that we could spend a lot of time with her this past summer. We will miss you terribly and hope you know how much we loved you.

Thank you for the moments we got to share...although you're not here on this earth, you will always remain in our hearts. My heart goes out to your family during this time. I know you wouldn't want us to be sad but to be strong for one another.  You will be missed always and forever.

"I have fought the good fight. I have finished the race, I have kept the faith"
--2 Timothy 4:7

My "One and Only" Sister. We had a great "Sisters" journey all through our lifetime. We shared many wonderful experiences and created many memories from our childhood until now. I miss you.