Dakota Joe Harr
  • 19 years old
  • Date of birth: Nov 3, 1995
  • Date of passing: Aug 28, 2015
Loved but never forgotten. You are now our guardian angel.

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved son, brother, fiance, and friend. Dakota Harr, 19, born on November 3, 1995 and passed away on August 28, 2015. Dakota lived in Ellsworth, KS. He shared his life with Khali Marie Anderson, who was the love of his life and mother to their children Landen and the twin girls that are arriving soon! He loved being around his brothers, sisters, parents, and friends.  We will remember him for the way he made everyone laugh and smile. No matter how bad there day may have been, he knew how to turn everyone's frown into a smile. He had the most kind loving spirit. Dakota was a hard worker and always found ways to provide for his family. He loved to lend a helping hand if someone was in need. Dakota had a great love for mechanics, his cars, and bikes. We will dearly miss him and his free spirit will never be forgotten. Love you Dakota Joe.

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Pateicia Andersonashmarie2 on 28th August 2017

"Well my ,its been 2 years now..wow! Time has sure passed fast,we still have your picture up on our wall an are spoken of frequently, we all miss an love you dearly,Maddix an Ashley are growing up nicely,he misses the times you took him fishing an would play around with him . am glad you are watching over everyone especially Khali,Landen,Sophia an LEXUS..."

This tribute was added by Carrie Hansel on 3rd November 2016

"Hope you are having a great Birthday  in Heaven!  Miss you,  but we know you are looking in on your loved ones always!  Loves"

This tribute was added by LeeAnn Jenkins on 28th August 2016

"It's hard to believe it's beven a year! I miss you but I know your in a better place but it doesn't make it any easier.  We all still want you here but we know God had other plans for you.  I know your looking over the whole family you have three of the most beautiful children and a gorgeous fiancé.  She is strong baby just keep watching over your family, and give them peace.  We love you and miss you Dakota Joe forever in our hearts.  Love Aunt LeeAnn"

This tribute was added by sue ledford on 28th August 2016

"I wish I could be there today but you know why. I think about u everyday and I love your children keep watching over all of us love you memaw"

This tribute was added by sue ledford on 3rd November 2015

"happy birthday sweetie I think of you all the time and miss you I will see you again you are in a good place with a lot of good people love you memaw"

This tribute was added by LeeAnn Williams on 3rd November 2015

"Kota Joe I miss you so much. Wish I could pick up the phone to tell you happy birthday but they don't have phones in heaven so instead I'm saying a prayer that you are surely without a doubt missed so much. I will think of you often today as I do everyday. I know you have peace and I know you watch over us all I miss you so much and I love you until we meet again baby love Aunt LeeAnn"

This tribute was added by Pateicia Andersonashmarie2 on 3rd November 2015

"Happy Birthday Kota ! Am trying to think of memory as there were many,but the best one I believe was when you took Maddix to fish. At Stone sand pit,you were so patient with him as he was bouncing aroundcalot back then ,and all the food times we had at the State fair with us ,oh my goodness an working with papa there were so many days , how you are missed , but you are always in our hearts an thoughts ,Have a great Day today,from gradma papa Ashley an Maddix..sending a balloon this afternoon filled with lots of hugs an kind words...."

This tribute was added by sue ledford on 16th September 2015

"I miss this boy I surely do love you and will see you again"

This tribute was added by Khali Anderson on 2nd September 2015

"Oh boy !!! I could write a whole story or book even about all the memories and love and everything I've shared with you for the past 3 almost 4 years. You was such a goober at times funny hard working never could sit still always had to be doing something ! You made sure your family was taken care of and that your baby boy had everything he needed even when money was tight you still found a way to get money to get things we needed. You was the love of my life my best friend my partner in crime my fiancé  basically should just call you my husband even though we didn't make it to that point we was pretty  much married anyway !♡ this has been one of the hardest thing I've had to do ever in my life is say goodbye to you. But like I said and told your mom it's never a goodbye it's a see you later. I can't wait for that day when I get to see that smile on your face and feel your big hugs again ♡ I miss you Soo soooo much and I'm never going to let go of you ♡ you ment everything to me you made me melt after 3 years I still got little butterflies in my stomach like I did when I first met you ♡  REST IN PEACE HONEY and I can't wait tell I get to see you again ♡"

This tribute was added by Shana Reed on 1st September 2015

"Going to miss you Kota. I'll never forget all the fun we had. I'm sorry we drifted apart after sophomore year. But thank you so much for treating Khali like a queen and giving everything you could to those babies. You guys made such beautiful children. Have fun up in Heaven man."

This tribute was added by allison dowty on 1st September 2015

"I know it's been years since I last saw you. And to be honest I don't
Remember much about you cuz I was so young. But I when I was told that you had passed away I started to cry. I knew u and still remember some things about u. I remember playing in the cornfields by ur house and a little wooded area as well. I know it's not much but it's still something. U will be forever missed."

This tribute was added by jake jones on 1st September 2015

"Dakota I know it's been 10 years sense I last saw you, but it's definitely hard to hear that you seem to have so much going for you and then it end like this.... I'm sorry you had to go. A lot of people are Gina miss you."

This tribute was added by Melissa Miller on 1st September 2015

"Never forgotten"

This tribute was added by Austin Tanner on 1st September 2015

"Idk how many of y'all know how close Kota and I were from 5th grade  on but we were my name is Austin Tanner this kid was a great person seen to me as a brother  and the best friend ever  I'm gunna miss u buddy I now know I have an angel up there now"

This tribute was added by Doris Haney on 31st August 2015

"Sue I am sorry for the loss of your grand-son no words will ease the pain but God says in his word that he will be your comforter if you ask Prayers going up for the whole family .
love you both"

This tribute was added by angus dufon on 31st August 2015

"I love you brother, you always had my back and you always will. Ready easy man"

This tribute was added by Kevin Rhamy on 31st August 2015

"hey buddy I miss u.. u were a great friend an even better father. u made everyone laugh and smile it seemed like it was ur life goal to put a smile on everybodys face every sec of the day for for that I will always miss u and remember our great times"

This tribute was added by Katy Tanner on 31st August 2015

"I know we had our ups and downs but if anyone ever needed some one to talk to you were there. You will always be missed and loved. And as for those babies they will someday find out how great of a man you were."

This tribute was added by Kelsey Kralik on 31st August 2015

"Dakota, I will miss you so much, we use to be so close, but then as we grew older and started families we slowly lost contact. You will always be one of my best friends, I will do my best to help Khali and those precious babies. I know you are watching over them. Miss you bunches.  Rest in peace, my good friend, I will see ypu again one day"

This tribute was added by Courtney Wolting on 31st August 2015

"Dakota, you were one of the goofiest guys that I have ever met, always made people smile, you were also one of my best friends several years ago, and I also remember you stealing my white sunglasses with pink stars in the side, you lost them at the river that night. I'm so glad I got the chance to meet you, and become friends. You're an amazing person,   fiancé to Khali and a wonderful father to those babies. I know you are watching down on all of us. Rest in peace Dakota, see you again someday."

This tribute was added by Carrie Hansel on 31st August 2015

"My Coco Puff I am missing you words do not describe it. As one of your  Aunts. I was so proud of the man you had become, Wonderful doesn't even come close. I choose to remember all our fun times, laughter, and hugs. Love You!!!!  Til I see you again. R. I. P."

This tribute was added by McCloud Nicholas on 31st August 2015

"I keep looking through our messages you asking everyday if we were going to ride today or if you could come work on your bike at the shop! No matter what happened that day riding always put a smile on your face I love you an miss you man! If one day speed kills us don't cry because I was smiling"

This tribute was added by patti dunlap on 31st August 2015

"Dakota, you and my son have so many memorys together. I remember you as a little boy hanging out with Kevin and Mike. Where every they were so were you. Heave has been blessed with amazing person..RIP"

This tribute was added by LeeAnn Jenkins on 31st August 2015

"Dakota I will miss you so much. You always thought about everyone before yourself. I'm so proud to be your aunt. I will never forget you and until we meet again May God watch over you and be at peace knowing that your family is watching out for Kk and the babies. Rest in peace Kota Joe love Aunt LeeAnn and Sammy Jo jenkins"

This tribute was added by Kim Keller on 31st August 2015

"I don't even know where to begin Kota was Kota if you meet him you instantly liked him he was such a sweet caring loving boy he would do any thing for any one no matter what he would call me every day just to say whatcha doing mom I called to say I love you mom I miss those daily phone calls already still waiting for my phone to ring and here his voice telling me he loves me he was the best son father brother nephew and uncle all kids loved him he was such a happy care free kid no matter what if u got mad at him he could make you laugh even me as his mom let me tell you he mad me spit flying mad some times but he could still get out of it cause he was such a card and make me laugh I miss him like crazy I will forever have a whole in my heart Khali Landen and his girls will keep me going he lives on in his children Khali and the kids was the light of his life I love you so much Kota I will never get over this"

This tribute was added by Debbie Mai on 31st August 2015

"Dakota, thank you for loving Khali and the babies.  I can tell by the way she talks about you the love you two shared.  When you got engaged Khali told me you told her to ask her Aunt Debbie to watch Landen so you two could celebrate, you won my heart before that, but that meant the world to me.  We will do our best to take care of her and the babies, rest in peace Kota."

This tribute was added by sue ledford on 31st August 2015

"My grandson who always makes me laugh.I love yoi"

This tribute was added by Danetta Gochanour on 31st August 2015

"Didn't know you personally but seen tons of pics of you and ur family through your mom !! May U rest in peace , God bless the babies you left behind knowing they have a great momma and family to help!!!"

This tribute was added by TJ Roediger on 31st August 2015

"You were my best friend. I still can't get over the fact the the next time I come home, you won't be there to greet me like you always were. You and Mike were brothers to me. Your mom was like my second mother. You always did everything you could to help me and would go out of your way to help anyone. Even if they didn't ask for it. I hated sharing but you and I shared everything. Bikes, skateboards, we even dated some of the same chicks haha. You were an amazing guy. You never let me down. I've cried on your shoulder and we shared things with each other that no one else knows about. I miss you buddy. I'll miss you until the day I see you again. I know you'll be watching out for me and I couldn't ask for a better guardian angel. You have a beautiful family that I know you will be looking over too. Dakota Joe Harr, you were hands down the best friend that I could have ever had the privilege to know and love. I love and miss you so much buddy. Rest In Peace Brother."

This tribute was added by Christine Keller on 31st August 2015

"You will be missed more then words can even start to describe Dakota. You were an outstanding father, fiance, son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend. You lifted everyone's spirts. Always so happy and funny. I'm so glad to be your aunt love you.  RIP some day we will see you again."

This tribute was added by Nathan Gfy Bosquez on 31st August 2015

"God man, I'm still waiting for you to call me like you always did almost everyday. You would just call no matter what phone you had access to just to see what was up. It was just the day before when we had the bikes in the "build-a-bike" work shop installing lights on my bike. And the random 75 mile you and I took around the country side. Its not the same riding without you, but I know you up there riding that ducati you always wanted. I love and miss you bro. Till the next ride, rest in peace brother."

This tribute was added by Michael Harr on 31st August 2015

"I love you Dakota Joe I will miss you so much we all will. You were an amazing brother,father, son and fiance and we will miss your funny personality"

This tribute was added by Vanna Harr on 31st August 2015

"Dakota you were such an amazing person who is going to be missed terribly. Thank you for all the wonderful memories we now can share. Rest In Peace my friend."

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