I echo all of Trent’s sentiments about our Dad and State Farm.I also worked at State Farm during a few summers when I was in college and I was amazed at how he literally did know everyone’s name in an office of thousands and was so well liked and respected.
Outside of his long and successful career at State Farm, he was an amazing dad.Many things that he did at the time, I took for granted as something that all fathers do, but looking back I know that was not the case.He went above and beyond, and I know how lucky I was.I started off being a “Daddy’s Girl” from the start.As my Mom tells it, when Trent was born, I was fine if my Mom was holding Trent or paying attention to him, but I didn’t want my Dad to have anything to do with this new interloper and was always trying to distract him to come and play with me when he was holding Trent.
I recall our long hikes through Brandywine park with his walking stick, our trips to Dairy Queen or TCBY (because of course the kids wanted to go, not because of his sweet tooth), him being at all of my softball, basketball and lacrosse games, practicing softball with me for endless hours in the yard, fishing in Mississippi (he always baited my hook and took off the fish), him going down the water slide at Pep’s point with us over and over again because we went faster if he was on our mat, him teaching me to drive on the country roads in Mississippi long before I was 16 (I aced driver’s ed in high school when all of the other kids were struggling) and him helping me with all of those school projects.
One of the true “dad moments” that we still would talk about many years after the fact was the infamous “Spider Incident”.In high school, I was driving my car when I felt and then saw a spider on my hand.This was not a normal spider….it was huge.Not tarantula big, but it was VERY big with legs big enough to have hair on them.I of course did what any normal 17-year-old teenage girl would do, screamed, flung the spider from my hand to somewhere in the car, stopped the car with the car still running, walked to a nearby doctor’s office (before cell phones) and called my dad.He could have told me to get back in the car and drive home, but instead knowing how freaked out I was…...he left work, drove 20 minutes to where I was, gave me his car and drove my car home.He also drove my car for the next two weeks to make sure the spider didn’t make another appearance.Only many years later as we laughed about it did he tell me how freaked out he was driving the car that day and how many times he thought he felt the spider on him on that long drive home.He later said he set off 10 bug bombs in the car to make sure it never reappeared.Thanks again for that Dad!
As anyone who knew him also knows, he was not only a great dad, but a good person and I am thankful he is finally at peace.I love you and will miss you Dad!