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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Daniel Durgin, 33 years old, born on October 21, 1974, and passed away on April 27, 2008. We will remember him forever.
October 25, 2023
October 25, 2023
Man I miss you brother. Still come across things I wish I could call you and tell you about. I feel your presence at times through Mark Daniel and know it’s you sending signs through him to let me know you’re still there. Love getting to tell him stories about you and let him share with his friends who you were. Look forward to the day we meet again.
October 21, 2023
October 21, 2023
Dan, Today should have been your 49th Birthday. It’s hard to believe everything you accomplished in your 33 years on this earth! When you returned from Iraq in November 2006, you told me you wanted to do three things:
1. Buy a home. Ck done!
2. Finish your Master’s degree. Ck done! Degree awarded posthumously by Sac State University.
3. Get married. Ck Wedding scheduled for May 24, 2008. 

Going to Heaven too soon was never on your list. Ck done.

I’ll love you forever and can hardly wait to feel your warm hugs again.
Mom
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
It is a privilege to learn about Daniel through the many memories and stories shared. I never got to meet him, but I truly have a good picture of him through the memories of his family. He does indeed live in your hearts and will be one of the first people I want to meet when I get to Heaven. ~Russ
October 21, 2016
October 21, 2016
Dan .We still miss and love you. When Dan was a young boy he started to learn all about computers. He mother got him an "Z 60" or something. Most of us did not have a clue about computers but Dan knew they were the furure.
Not sure why but Dan for some reason believed I looked or acted like Captain Hawkeye Pierce on that great TV show MASH. That was special for me because I also was a big Hawkeye fan.
Blessing on your birthday, Uncle Pete
January 30, 2016
January 30, 2016
Daniel was one of a kind. He was that person even at a young age that he would be the teacher and we were his students. He enjoyed being a Navy Corpsman with the Marines and he received two Navy Achievement awards. He also loved to travel, climb mountains and learn foreign languages. Dan had a motto that he lived by: opus,  mereo, et adfero (work, serve, and contribute). Dan was about to be awarded a master's degree in biology from Cal State. I know he Dan is in heaven with God and he is working, serving and contributing.
I love him dearly and miss him very much. Uncle Pete
April 25, 2014
April 25, 2014
Six years and it really does not get any easier. Miss your smile, your laugh, your hugs, your advice and your cooking.
May 2, 2013
May 2, 2013
Elsie,

I remember your anticipation of this joy of your life; although I never knew him I knew his Mom and she was the best! Much love and wonderful memories~you are one lucky Mom to have had such a blessing in your life. Much love!
May 2, 2013
May 2, 2013
Gone but never to be forgotten. My hero and my cousin. Missing you always!
April 27, 2013
April 27, 2013
Elsie, I did not personally know Daniel, but I know his Mom who raised him well.I know you were so PROUD of him for all his Accompliments!!! May God keep you close to him at this time!!! We Thank him for all his Service to our COUNTY!!!!BLESSINGS!!!!LOVE JOE AND SHIRLEY!!!!!
April 24, 2013
April 24, 2013
We were so blessed to have Daniel in our lives for 33 years. Many people do not know someone as wonderful as our Daniel was. He loved to help others, whether as a Corpsman, nurse, friend, or student. Other service members called him "Doc" or "The Professor". He changed the lives of all he met. We miss him and will love him forever.

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October 25, 2023
October 25, 2023
Man I miss you brother. Still come across things I wish I could call you and tell you about. I feel your presence at times through Mark Daniel and know it’s you sending signs through him to let me know you’re still there. Love getting to tell him stories about you and let him share with his friends who you were. Look forward to the day we meet again.
October 21, 2023
October 21, 2023
Dan, Today should have been your 49th Birthday. It’s hard to believe everything you accomplished in your 33 years on this earth! When you returned from Iraq in November 2006, you told me you wanted to do three things:
1. Buy a home. Ck done!
2. Finish your Master’s degree. Ck done! Degree awarded posthumously by Sac State University.
3. Get married. Ck Wedding scheduled for May 24, 2008. 

Going to Heaven too soon was never on your list. Ck done.

I’ll love you forever and can hardly wait to feel your warm hugs again.
Mom
August 6, 2018
August 6, 2018
It is a privilege to learn about Daniel through the many memories and stories shared. I never got to meet him, but I truly have a good picture of him through the memories of his family. He does indeed live in your hearts and will be one of the first people I want to meet when I get to Heaven. ~Russ
Recent stories

Navy Corpsman Shines Among Marines

October 23, 2014

I am proud that Daniel was qualifed and honored to serve as a Corpsman with the Marines.  This explains a little about what that means.  Also, I can proudly say that Daniel received TWO 'Navy and Marine Corps Achievement' medals! 

March 27, 2009

Marine Corps News

CAMP HANSEN, OKINAWA, Japan  — Not every battle can be won. Not every Marine comes out of the fight unscathed. When a Marine finds one of his brethren down on the battlefield, he lets loose a call that has been sounded for decades. "Corpsmen up!"

It was no different for two Navy corpsmen with 3rd Medical Battalion, Combat Logistics Regiment 35, 3rd Marine Logistics Group, who were awarded medals Monday for their actions while deployed with Marines in Afghanistan.

Seaman Russel Crabb, a corpsman with Headquarters and Service Company, 3rd Medical Bn., received a Navy Achievement Medal with a combat distinguishing device for his quick reaction following an improvised explosive device attack.

Seaman Michael Bergeron, a corpsman with Company C, 3rd Medical Bn., was awarded a Navy and Marine Corps Commendation Medal for his efforts to provide medical services to Coalition and Afghan forces while attached to an embedded training team during combat operations.

Joe Rosenthal's famous photograph, which depicts five Marines and a corpsman working together to raise a flag on Iwo Jima, captures the spirit and bond that forms between the corpsmen and Marines in combat.

Bergeron and Crabb see their awards as a result of that bond, one that begins long before the battlefield.

After completion of recruit training, corpsman move on to their military occupational school, known as the Naval Hospital Corps School. There, they receive their basic medical training. Unlike most other Naval occupational fields, corpsmen must go to one more school, the Field Medical Service School at Marine Corps Camp Pendleton, Calif. There, they learn advanced field techniques they can expect to use when embedded with Marines. Skills include communications, land navigation, fighting positions, fire-team movements, patrolling, weapons familiarization and other tactics used in combat.

"This is where we get our first taste of the Marine Corps and what we'll actually be doing out in the field," said Crabb.

The mind set of the Marine Corps begins to take control of the corpsmen in the field service school and continues to grow as they spend day-after-day with the Marines. The relationship growth is mutual among the Marines as well, prodded along by friendly teasing and close-quarters-living.

The bonds remain as the corpsmen move on to their units. However, Crabb says being accepted into a new unit is not always easy.

"Some Marines are hesitant at first, but once you do missions with them, eat with them, break down weapons with them, sleep next to them and hike with them, you just kind of become one of them," Crabb said. "We do what they do as well as the medical stuff so they respect that."

Cpl. Ruben Vasquez, a motor transport operator for the 4th Marine Regiment who was deployed with Bergeron and Crabb said it didn't take long for them to become a part of the Marine brotherhood in Afghanistan.

Working side-by-side produces a transformation in the sailors where Navy blue mixes with Marine Corps green, forging a corpsman of Marines.

"We kind of get corrupted by the Marine Corps, and I like it," Crabb said. "The Marines are so geared towards getting out there and fighting the fight, it gives us a little more ruggedness."

Vasquez said the corpsmen pick up on their new life quickly and sometimes take the lead on the tactical side.

"When they're able to correct us on Marine Corps stuff, like radios and weapons, and at the same time take care of us on the corpsman side, it's impressive," Vasquez said. "We grow with them, because we share experiences and emotions with them."

While in the field, corpsmen are essentially Marines as they patrol, engage in fire fights, clean weapons and do all the things the Marines do on an everyday basis. The difference is the additional care the corpsmen provide for the Marines they fight with.

"While in Afghanistan, we provided medical aid to Marines, Afghan Army, coalition forces and Afghan locals and detainees," Crabb said. "We were doing what Marines do until someone was in medical need."

In combat situations, corpsmen are life-savers, and at the same time can be life-takers. They take and return fire. But most importantly, they listen for the words, "corpsman up."

"My mind set is on the patrol and if a situation occurs and medical assistance is needed you just switch modes," Crabb said.

"We had an IED go off, and Bergeron just grabbed his bag and took off," said Vasquez. "It's things like that, which show the closeness we have out there,"

During combat, a corpsman becomes not just a "doc," but a brother as well.

"If someone is shooting at my Marines I'm going to shoot right back at them," Crabb said. "That's like shooting my family members."

Being a corpsman is arguably the most dangerous job in the Navy, and is by far the most decorated occupation specialty. More than 20 Medals of Honor were awarded to Navy corpsman for actions during battles such as Iwo Jima and Okinawa.

Whether it's in the jungles of Vietnam or Okinawa, the deserts of Iraq or the mountains of Afghanistan, at least one thing has remained the same. Marines know who to call on when they need help in garrison or on the battlefield.

"Having a corpsman is a relief," said Vasquez. "I don't have one doubt in my mind that any of them would've taken care of me no matter what was going on."

 

A Mother's Day with meaning, by Jeff Pelline

February 2, 2014

Published in the Grass Valley Union, May 9, 2008.  Written by Editor, Jeff Peline

Tomorrow, in honor of Mother's Day, we will dedicate both Opinion pages and one extra page to Blue Star Mothers and their sons and daughters who serve or have served in the U.S. Armed Forces in Iraq, Afghanistan and elsewhere. You will read profiles of them, written by their Moms, along with their photos.

All too often we think about war in broad political terms, not deeply personal ones. We have been planning this project since I joined a monthly breakfast meeting of the group at Paulette's Kitchen earlier this year. I was struck with their spirit: a super support network of "everyone who is the same yet so very different." I wish we had a lot more groups like this.

On Thursday, the Blue Star Moms were present at the memorial of Daniel Durgin to present the family with a gold-star banner, honoring those who have lost a son or daughter in war or otherwise while serving in the Armed Forces.

It marked the first time that the Sierra Nevada Chapter of the Blue Star Mothers has handed out a gold star. About a half-dozen Blue Star Moms were present, including Sue Horne, who is a founding member.

"We offer our deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved son, Daniel," Lynnette Ellison, president of the group, said at the memorial. "As parents of other young men and women who served this country with Daniel, we extend our support and strength in the hope that we may help you shoulder your burden.

"Enclosed is the Gold Star banner, this country's only symbol of a family's greatest sacrifice. May you proudly display it in your window, a constant reminder to your community that from your home came one of America's finest."

My wife and I attended Daniel's memorial, because his niece is one of my son's best friends in kindergarten. She was going to be the flower girl at Daniel's wedding later this month. We gave her a big hug at the cemetery and saved her a cupcake from later in the day, when she missed her teacher's birthday and a teacher appreciation day celebration.

Children this age are often too young to grasp the full meaning of death. Like many of you, we've found some children books to help them along, such as "The Fall of Freddie and the Leaf."

Leaves changing with the seasons are used to illustrate the difference between life and death. The book reads: "Everything dies. No matter how big or small, how weak or strong. We first do our job. We experience the sun and the moon, the wind and the rain. We learn to dance and to laugh. Then we die."

In the end, a young child's view of death is so literal. My son created a card on construction paper for Daniel's niece, with all sorts of drawings. On it, my wife drew a picture of the two of them playing together in Pioneer Park, and I drew a picture of them sailing together at Lake Tahoe. My 6-year-old son simply wrote, in his most grown-up handwriting: "I'm sorry your uncle died in a car crash. I love you."

About 400 people turned out for Daniel's memorial at the beautifully remodeled Grass Valley Veterans Memorial Building. An admiral spoke, and at the cemetery, we heard taps, a 21-gun salute and saw the "missing man" aerial flyby. Daniel's mother was clearly touched. The words of the Blue Star Moms stood out as we looked over the oak trees at the Rough and Ready Cemetery: "Everyone is the same yet so very different."

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