November 12, 2020
November 12, 2020
I met Dan at Temple University where we shared film and art history classes. We thrived in the former and dozed a bit in the latter, but always had a good time regardless of where we were. A four-decade friendship followed and he was among the handful of guys I considered a brother-from-another-mother. He was realistic yet optimistic, and had a great laugh. Great taste in music, and I treasure the memories of the shows we saw. I had the honor to be his best man and later, even though he didn't know it, I would crib his notes on fatherhood. He excelled at and loved that role. Dan was highly creative and always encouraged others in artistic pursuits. He had written a good movie script called Raiding, based on his childhood experiences, and it inspired me to write a song. But it was many years before I had the courage to share it with him. When I did, he was appreciative and encouraging. He said it brought him to tears. So, let me leave you with the chorus because it's how I'm always going to feel about Dan: And when I raid my memories / Yours is the treasure I plunder / We were first mates in a lightning flash / And a sense of wonder.