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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one. Daniel Thomas Spalding III was born on May 11th 1982 and unexpectedly passed away August 24th 2017. He leaves behind his son Noah and his sister's Renee and Christine as well as brother Michael, his 2 nieces and 2 nephews, his parents Dan Spalding, Michele and Bud Hodge. He also leaves behind many aunts and uncles, cousins and many friends. 

Daniel graduated from Bayshore High School in 2000 and attended State College of Florida. He was employed at The Sarasota Herald Tribune for 14 years. 

He is missed by so many and will forever be in our hearts. 

If you have special memories you would like to share please share with us.

December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023
Another Christmas has come and we find ourselves missing you so much. We always do but some days are a little harder. We wish you were still here with us. Your son is grown and I wish your nieces and nephews had the chance to know you too. I have a feeling you see them and how amazing they are. I miss you so very much but still know how blessed we were to have you for the time we did. I know you must be up to all kinds of shenanigans with Jason and all of those who have come to join you. What is Christmas like in Heaven I wonder. I will love you forever my Son.
August 27, 2023
August 27, 2023
Can't believe it's been six years. I think of you, Michael and Jason daily and although missed you three are no longer in pain. I have created a small memorial space under my dogwood tree for you, Jason and Michael. RIP boys you are loved and missed dearly.
August 24, 2023
August 24, 2023
Six years later Daniel and I miss you every single day. We all miss you and the joy you brought to our lives. I know you must be in a much better place. Love you forever son!
May 13, 2023
May 13, 2023
Happy Belated Heavenly Birthday Daniel! I know you and Jason are having a good time. You two were on my mind as I sat at a railroad crossing watching all the graffiti pass by and wondering if any were yours. Your Mom has been great strength for me and she loves and misses you.
May 11, 2023
May 11, 2023
Thinking of you today Daniel on what would be your 41st birthday and remembering your birth. All of us miss you terribly every day. I hope you know how much you are loved and missed. I know you have a lot of the best company to celebrate your heavenly birthday. Miss you my precious son.
December 24, 2022
December 24, 2022
Another Christmas without you Daniel! I, as do we all cherish all the happy memories of all the Christmases we had together. I am so blessed to have shared so many. Definitely not enough. We all miss you so very much and hope you are celebrating in heaven. One day I'll be able to celebrate with you again. Love you forever!
August 24, 2022
August 24, 2022
Happy 5th Angelversary Daniel. You are loved and missed by so many. The other day the clouds were arranged in strange patterns at dusk and it reminded me of the graffiti you and Jason did. What joy it brought for a few moments. Wish I would have had my phone to take a picture.
August 24, 2022
August 24, 2022
Five long years have passed since I last seen your beautiful face and smile. I miss your hugs and you coming through the door calling out Mama. We all miss you and your humor although there are times we surely feel it. We feel you near. Love you forever Daniel!
May 11, 2022
May 11, 2022
Daniel there are really no words to describe what I'm feeling today. You would be turning 40 today which is a big milestone. Sometimes I think you are missing out on so much. Noah turning 18! Your nieces and nephews. But I do feel you are watching over us all. Through my own health challenges lately I have felt you near. I know I have much to do yet before I am reunited with you again in heaven. I miss you terribly but know I was so blessed to have you for 35 years. Happy Heavenly Birthday Daniel! I am sure you and Jason will be celebrating and rejoicing in the arms of Jesus. I know it's beautiful and you both are at peace and joyful! I will love you and miss you forever my sweet son!
May 6, 2022
May 6, 2022
Thinking about you and Jason today as Mothers Day approaches. I hope you two are happy in Heaven and I know you and Jason watch over us daily. You are both missed so much, but look forward to being together again one day. I remember the day Jason and I ran in to you at Drug Mart after you came back to Ohio. You two were so excited to connect again, and I loved meeting your son Noah. Was so happy you brought him with you. I remember Noah telling Jason he liked the sunglasses or hat he had on (I don't remember which) and Jason gave them to him telling him to make sure he took care of them. You were a loving Dad and you were so proud of Noah. I will never forget the look on your face when you introduced me to "your son". Know you were loved and you will not be forgotten.
December 24, 2021
December 24, 2021
Daniel I miss you every single day! Christmas is hard but I find comfort and happiness in all the memories we shared together especially as a family. We had some really special times. You loved Christmas! You were the best at gifts. It always amazed me at the time and thought you put into each gift. You were a gift Daniel and I was so blessed to have spent your time on earth as your Mama! Forever in my heart! I love you and miss you!
November 25, 2021
November 25, 2021
Here we are Daniel 4 years later. It's Thanksgiving and we all miss you tremendously! Wish you were here! Jesus has promised we will be reunited again for eternity. Until then my precious son. I love you always!
August 24, 2021
August 24, 2021
Thanks for the opportunity to share your path for a while. It was a great experience.
October 10, 2019
October 10, 2019
I was Dan's first friend when he came to FL. He always had a bright idea and unique style about him. I pray that he is shining down from above with his huge smile and laughing. God Bless Him and His Family and Friends. Many prayers and blessings. Gone way too soon.
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
Every time I come in the kitchen, you in the kitchen...
January 26, 2019
January 26, 2019
I remember Daniel as a sweet, little blonde child, who stayed with us a couple of times while Bud & Michele went out...grandpa Tim would tease him and say "Don't give me no garbage!" and Daniel would throw his hands up and say "Garbage"...then they'd both laugh like crazy...I only regret not knowing him as he grew up...Rest in peace, dear Daniel

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December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023
Another Christmas has come and we find ourselves missing you so much. We always do but some days are a little harder. We wish you were still here with us. Your son is grown and I wish your nieces and nephews had the chance to know you too. I have a feeling you see them and how amazing they are. I miss you so very much but still know how blessed we were to have you for the time we did. I know you must be up to all kinds of shenanigans with Jason and all of those who have come to join you. What is Christmas like in Heaven I wonder. I will love you forever my Son.
August 27, 2023
August 27, 2023
Can't believe it's been six years. I think of you, Michael and Jason daily and although missed you three are no longer in pain. I have created a small memorial space under my dogwood tree for you, Jason and Michael. RIP boys you are loved and missed dearly.
August 24, 2023
August 24, 2023
Six years later Daniel and I miss you every single day. We all miss you and the joy you brought to our lives. I know you must be in a much better place. Love you forever son!
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The Crags

August 24, 2021
The trip to the Crags began in the Firebird. Thats all I will say about that except that the trip up (and down) the US 24 pass was a sacred journey to me and the boy. Mostly Tears For Fears Songs From The Big Chair and speeds we won't go into here. (Quiet, girls).
We wanted to go to the top of Piles Peak, but Barr trail from Manitou Spings had been attempted before, and we wanted to actually make it so we set out for the Crags as a shortcut.
I'm pretty sure it was late June or early July and perfectly beautiful weather for exploration and discovery. With Daniel, the journey was more important than the destination so we were always on the lookout for treasure. We set out up the path and broke off somewhere past the Crags themselves. The only distinctive thing I remember about the forest was a spot where we stepped down into a clearing/valley to find the next hill up was blocked by a mass of hanging moss that I'd not seen before. We had to investigate because we both came up with Elves together. I'm certain we convinced ourselves that there were signs of Elves but they'd heard us coming. So onward we went. That may be where the stick came from....
Anyway, I don't remember much about the rest of the trip to the treeline, but I know we never stopped talking about stuff. Time is fuzzy too, but we did make it to the tundra. That kid went crazy about the sudden change in foliage and I remember him dancing and "bouncing" on the moss. I was becoming rapidly concerned about the sudden drop in temperature. But it was hard to stop a dancing Daniel so we pressed on. But not for long...I was frezzing and the kid suddenly stopped his hooligans and started shivering and holding himself. We stopped at a huge boulder hoping it would shelter us a bit and he looked up at me and said " Come on dad....we can make it", teeth chattering the whole time. I looked up the path and back down the path and said" Come on. No, we can't." He promptly agreed and back down we went.

January 25, 2019

We have so memories so it’s hard to pick just one, but I’ll start with one of you being a protective big brother. :)

I must have been 8 or 9 maybe. We were swimming at the pool in our apartment complex and a girl shoved me under water and held my head under. When you saw what was going on, you quickly intervened and pushed her off me and pulled me up. 

You were always saving me from some kind of altercation (that was probably my own fault haha). 

I miss you every second of every day.  

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