Where do you start when you lose a parent? My dad would say "life's not fair" if we started complaining. Dementia is not fair. Everytime you see someone you are saying goodbye, a little piece each time. It is in our memories they will live on. My dad gave us so many great memories. I will miss my dad's competitive side and sense of adventure. When playing games he wouldn't play easy, but it made us better players. He loved traveling and always had a camera. He loved sharing stories about his adventures. My dad had a work-hard/play-hard mindset. It reminds us to strive for these adventures, to share them with the ones you love, and to live life to the fullest. My dad was always ready to travel. His final words were "I am ready to go." While he set off on his final adventure his "wings were ready, but our hearts were not."