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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, David Ball, 53 years old, born on December 29, 1956, and passed away on March 27, 2010. We will remember him forever.
March 28, 2014
March 28, 2014
Lifting up a special prayer for Dave with thinkfulness that he was a part of our lives. I'm always thinking of Dave this time of year with Spring Training winding down and a new baseball season about to begin. Dave loved visiting Florida this time of the year and I have fond memories of sitting with him at Legends Field, watching the Yankees and talking baseball. Miss you!
March 28, 2014
March 28, 2014
Dave although I just learned of my best friend in my school years death a few months ago and that you have been gone for 4 yrs. was a huge shock .As I sat here reading all the tributes to you and seeing the photos of you and your family I realized how much I missed you .Now with all the plans that are being made for our classes 40th reunion the memories have been coming back every time that I see a post about it on Facebook . Like the time we hunted rabbits at the game lands until dark and a little longer not quite legal but we had a great day of hunting.Or the day we were deer hunting and someones dog that was running loose ran a deer right pass us and neither one of us could even get a shot . Or the time when you drove your moms Imperial and had me wondering how the heck you were changing the radio stations without touching the button and telling me must be a ghost . The great river fishing trips in the canoe from Sayre to Ulster with the beagle . Or just being at your mom and dads watching hockey or shooting pool in the basement and doing push ups for every shot we missed . To Dave's family I wish he was still here for you all and that I could have been part of his adult life , he was a very special person .
   
The years may have taken us apart but in the end of our time here we may all get together and see each other again . RIP My friend I will never forget the time that we shared even in the span of our lives was very short .
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Thank you Dennis and John for sharing your memories of Dave. It sounds like he lived a life always as a good friend, happy guy and outdoorsman.
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
I met Dave when I moved to Athens in 1967. We lived on Maple St. he lived across the street and we quickly became good friends. I have been wondering about Dave for many years. I remember playing basketball in his gravel driveway. We even shoveled snow to play. We has snow ball fights ...he hid behind his big mapla tree and I had mine. My most vivid memory is of how dig his snowballs were. I could be wrong but they seemed to be as big as basketballs. I'm glad Dennis Malone found your site and gave it to me. ...you were and will be forever in my heart. RIP dave, best friend ever.
December 15, 2013
December 15, 2013
I was a very close friend of Dave in elementary and high school we lived just down the street on Maple from each other . We were at each others house all most every day mostly at his . We played basketball in his driveway played football from midgets thru high school. Worked out in his basement and played pool. My step father taught Dave and myself to hunt and we taught each other how to fish. Dave was a great friend to me . We used to float down the river on a canoe from Athens to Ulster fishing with his dog . I remember one of those times floating the river when we were summoned to the shore by a game warden , who asked us what we using for floatation devises as we had left them at the boat launch . He gave us a ticket and said that the dog didn't count as a life saver . His mom was a great lady she would let us get away with a lot . Today after looking on Facebook and asking for years about Dave and trying to find him by contacting people named Ball with no luck . My daughter who knows more about searching found Dave, and to my shock found this page. Dave and I last saw each other in 2004 at his dad Teds funeral. When Dave got married Kathy we lost track of each other as I had moved and was married also. I knew he had got remarried after he and Kathy split up . I'm extremely sorry to hear that almost the whole time I was looking for Dave that he was gone . There never was a greater man than Dave and have missed not seeing him for years . His dad would tell me about him sometimes after I came to Athens to work at Agway for two years as my step dad was dying from cancer and I wanted to be close to help my mom take care of him. but after my step dad passed I returned to Elmira and only heard of Ted's death from my sister who read it in the paper. So that's when I last seen my friend Dave he looked very different from what I remembered him. If anyone sees this I'm very sorry I lost contacted with Dave or as the football team use to call everyone by their dads name back in 1973-74 season Ted . As I have set here most of the day reading the pages on here and seeing the photos I see my friend was what I always knew he would be a great man loved by many . RIP David my friend

 Dennis Malone
March 28, 2013
March 28, 2013
Thinking of Dave this week. Hard to believe it's been 3 years...but everytime spring training roles around here in Tampa we'll remember him and his love of baseball!
December 30, 2012
December 30, 2012
Remembering Dave on this his birthday week. My fondest memories are of spending time with Dave and family over Thanksgiving. We enjoyed having Janet, Kristi, Kristi's boyfriend, Todd, and Scott in Tampa this past Thanksgiving, but we missed Dave's presence...his laughter, his heartfelt hugs and his ability to whip up something extraordinary in the kitchen. We miss him dearly.
December 29, 2012
December 29, 2012
Jay, Hillary and I are remembering Grandave fondly today, the day that would have been his 56th birthday. If we could find scrapple here in Tampa, we'd have it in his honor!
December 29, 2011
December 29, 2011
We are thinking of Dave on his birthday... I was just remembering one of the Christmas days we spent with him. He was such a great entertainer.
December 29, 2011
December 29, 2011
Today, on his birthday, we'll be thinking of Dave and feeling grateful to have known him.
Katie, Jay, and Hillary
March 27, 2011
March 27, 2011
In some communities, funerals are referred to as "Going Home celebrations." So, I guess the best way to remember March 27 is as GranDave's "Going Home" anniversary. Dave, we'll see you when we get home.
March 27, 2011
March 27, 2011
In Dave's memory, we took a long hike today in the brisk March wind, snow still on the ground. Had we been REALLY good, in Dave's memory we would have been wearing shorts. We miss him. We reminisce over Dave-and-Janet experiences about weekly.
March 27, 2011
March 27, 2011
"Love is like a butterfly; it goes where it pleases, and pleases where it goes". Thinking of you and Janet today, and all the fun, adventure and good food that was Dave! Jan
March 26, 2011
March 26, 2011
Just wanted to say I was thinking of Dave today...can't believe it has almost been a year since he left us. He was a wonderful person...and still greatly missed.
March 25, 2011
March 25, 2011
It has been a long year leading up to this week, and with complicated feeling. The main one though is he left the suffering behind as he tackles bigger projects in the good 'ole Dave way, but also left all the great memories for us to share.
December 29, 2010
December 29, 2010
Missing Grandave today on his birthday and always. 
Katie, Jay, and Hillary
December 29, 2010
December 29, 2010
Last Christmas Dave was tired and not feeling great, but still was a great conversationalist, host and chef (via direction on how to braise the beef/vension(?), au gratin the potatoes, etc.) Missing you Dave as always and also during this holiday/birthday time.
December 24, 2010
December 24, 2010
We are remembering Dave this Christmas eve, as it's certain that Janet, Katie, Kristi, Scott and theirs are.  We don't exactly remember what Dave was doing one year ago before now, but he was probably making someone smile, or making someone not despair, or talking about food. Good job! Here's to you, Dave.
September 22, 2010
September 22, 2010
You can't see it, but I'm sure Dave left Mom one of his super duper lovey princess birthday cards on the mantle today.
May 24, 2010
May 24, 2010
Oskar and Hiltraut miss Sven. He and Lena made visits to the North Country fun; what a great couple.

Tilly can speak for herself, but I think she misses Sven too.
May 12, 2010
May 12, 2010
I just saw Mom and Garfield and listened to my old voice mail messages. Didn't realize I had a couple of you on there so heard your voice (boy did you sound good!) Very much missed.
April 12, 2010
April 12, 2010
To Davids family, I am a cousin of Davids and have not seem him in years. He was blessed to have so many that loved him. May God give you the peace that you need thru this difficult time.
April 12, 2010
April 12, 2010
I only spoke to Dave once on the telephone while looking for my friend, Kristi. Dave said she had headed home, but when I talked to her to "tell her we love her." Sounds like that exemplified Dave! What a special person!
April 9, 2010
April 9, 2010
Dave took me under his wing, socially and professionally, when he hired me fresh from college at the Conservation District. Cherished memories include those "Big Dog" shorts Dave wore and weekends I spent with he & Janet.
April 8, 2010
April 8, 2010
Knowing Dave would be at the lake meant fun. I'll miss our morning tea,cutting fire wood,fishing, mostly the camp fires listening to the Twins.
Lake Harriet won't be the same.
April 7, 2010
April 7, 2010
From a friend:There are few really good people that you meet in life and Dave was one of them - truly one of a kind, and genuinely sincere. I wish there was something I could say in remembrance, but Dave's impact isn't easy to put into words...! Just abo
April 6, 2010
April 6, 2010
I'll miss you here, Dave. You had a great impact on my life over the years. More than you knew. I loved your outlook, loved your dry humor. loved all our trips together - but I hated your bannock!
April 5, 2010
April 5, 2010
Eventhough we only knew a small part of Dave on Tues, Thurs and Sat mornings for the last year, we will dearly miss him here in dialysis. He had room in his heart for everyone. God Bless.
April 2, 2010
April 2, 2010
"Truth and Justice will prevail!" That was Dave's motto when we worked together, and, although sometimes said ironically when times were tough, it was truly his loadstar.
April 1, 2010
April 1, 2010
Dave is away for a while. Right now he’s up on the Pine. He’s “sittin” on his ass, either on a log by a campfire or his canoe seat. It don’t matter, he’s got a smile on his face broader then the canyon is wide. A true old friend who knew â
March 31, 2010
March 31, 2010
I remember when Dave called for Janet when I worked for her. He always asked "is my beautiful wife there" or something else so sweet or loving. He will be missed.
March 31, 2010
March 31, 2010
I never had the pleasure of meeting Dave, but when he telephoned for Janet and I answered the phone, we had the most wonderful conversations. Great sense of humor.
March 31, 2010
March 31, 2010
4th of July at White Swan will never be quite the same. We will miss Dave's humor and his ability to play "the game". Lots of great memories.
March 30, 2010
March 30, 2010
I like to remember the time Dave and his dad brought Poinsettias for each of us to the office at one of our Christmas Parties. It was a real nice gesture and a fun time. He was a terrific person.
March 29, 2010
March 29, 2010
We will miss Dave's wild sense of humor and fun. Also his lake art. He was a fine person.

Joanie
March 28, 2010
March 28, 2010
Grandave was and always will be a cherished member of our family--we miss him already.
Katie, Jay, and Hillary

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March 28, 2014
March 28, 2014
Lifting up a special prayer for Dave with thinkfulness that he was a part of our lives. I'm always thinking of Dave this time of year with Spring Training winding down and a new baseball season about to begin. Dave loved visiting Florida this time of the year and I have fond memories of sitting with him at Legends Field, watching the Yankees and talking baseball. Miss you!
March 28, 2014
March 28, 2014
Dave although I just learned of my best friend in my school years death a few months ago and that you have been gone for 4 yrs. was a huge shock .As I sat here reading all the tributes to you and seeing the photos of you and your family I realized how much I missed you .Now with all the plans that are being made for our classes 40th reunion the memories have been coming back every time that I see a post about it on Facebook . Like the time we hunted rabbits at the game lands until dark and a little longer not quite legal but we had a great day of hunting.Or the day we were deer hunting and someones dog that was running loose ran a deer right pass us and neither one of us could even get a shot . Or the time when you drove your moms Imperial and had me wondering how the heck you were changing the radio stations without touching the button and telling me must be a ghost . The great river fishing trips in the canoe from Sayre to Ulster with the beagle . Or just being at your mom and dads watching hockey or shooting pool in the basement and doing push ups for every shot we missed . To Dave's family I wish he was still here for you all and that I could have been part of his adult life , he was a very special person .
   
The years may have taken us apart but in the end of our time here we may all get together and see each other again . RIP My friend I will never forget the time that we shared even in the span of our lives was very short .
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Thank you Dennis and John for sharing your memories of Dave. It sounds like he lived a life always as a good friend, happy guy and outdoorsman.
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Hillary wrote this for her English class...

December 29, 2011

The Last Race

     “Ready, set, go!” my grandpa yelled huskily as he took off down the hill, wheelchair flying.   “Are you sure this is the best idea?” I mumbled doubtfully as I began to inch down the hill. “How else are we going to get there?” he chuckled, a wry smile spread across his face as he took in the scenery. “I say we have Garfield pull the chairs next time,” Grandave said about the cat that he had grown to love. As I sat in the old wheelchair and stared at the large, steep and rocky dirt hill in front of me, I was at first skeptical, but when I saw the excited look on my grandfather’s face all of my doubts vanished. “Grandave” is not the best title for Dave; he is only fifty-two and acts younger, but he has always been a grandpa-like figure to me. He is the person who first took me fishing and hiking. He loves every aspect of nature, especially his garden, which he cares for with tenderness that contradicts his physical appearance. As we passed by stables, and chickens quickly jumped out of our way, I suddenly realized that this could be my last trip spent with Grandave. “Come on! You can go faster than that!” he said in his gruff voice, his words still filled with sincerity, as his wiry brown beard and checkered hunting shirt blew in the cool Pennsylvania breeze like a flag. Staying true to his tough inner mountain man, he never let his sickness stop him and he continued to try to keep me entertained, even when he was confined to a wheelchair. As he zoomed down the hill, as carefree as a young child enjoying the fresh air, the lines of worry and sadness disappeared from his face as they were replaced by a wide, bright smile. “I’m going to win!” he called through the whistling wind as he neared the bottom of the hill.“I know you will,” I said with a smile. I knew that he was not just referring to the race.

"Old Soul"

March 23, 2011

Dave and Mom/Grammy joined Jay, Hillary, and me for a vacation in the mountains of Montreat, NC in 2001.  Hillary was almost four and (this part is hard for me to believe) Dave was only 44--my age now!  He always seemed so wise and so competent to me even though he was only 10 years older.  He helped Hillary catch her first fish that week;  he was determined that she wouldn't miss that important childhood experience--which, if left to Jay and me, she may have!  The adorable picture of the two of them holding a wee little fish is still sitting in our living room.  It's one of my favorites and the look on both of their faces is priceless.

I also love this picture of Dave and Mom--both very relaxed and happy as they watch the sunset over the mountains.  (I'll wager that is probably a cooking magazine Dave's holding :) 

 

4 July 2001 White Swan

January 10, 2011

This is a picture of Dave taken at White Swan upon our arrival near the start of 4 July 2001.  He and Janet were already in place, both looking pretty happy with themselves.  Dave is ready to take on his sisters-in-law, the malfunctioning toilet, the Webers, whatever the lake has to give up this year.  He was a stalwart for the week -- did the 4th, cooked -- watched as ladies drank too much, joined Bill in practicing moderation --- but also did some tricks.  Dave and Janet brought along with them a singing frog, that they perched on top of the afore-mentioned beginning-to-malfunction toilet, which would croak and sing whenever anybody flushed.  Webers stole it of course.  And oh, yes, there was a note written from our house by some of the Weber offspring to their parents:

Note from the hostages: It's Wednesday, Fourth of July in 2001, and Nicole,
Sierra and I are hostage In the Caroon's cabin. So far they are being nice to us
and we are actually enjoying ourselves and don't want to leave. They are loaded with wine and other beverages. Currently the Webers still don't know we are missing and they probably won't realize until dark or by the weekend...

It was one of the best 4th of Julys ever at White Swan and Dave contributed greatly to it.  As usual.

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