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Dear Friends,

On behalf of his family and with heavy heart I announce the passing of Shenou David Cai. David passed away peacefully on October 21, 2017 after three and a half years of brave battle with cancer. He was 54 years old. David leaves behind his elderly parents, his young children, a son and two daughters, his elder brother and many relatives and friends who loved him so very much.

On behalf of his family I would also like to take this opportunity to express my sincere gratitude to all who supported and helped David during his last days in life. Many thanks to his students, especially thanks to Li Songting, Dai Wei, Xu Zhiqing, Zhang Yaoyu and Xiao Yanyang for their meticulous care and companionship.

We set up this memorial website for family and friends to share memories of David.

Yan

October 22, 2017

亲爱的朋友:

我代表他的家人,在此极其痛心地告知蔡申瓯教授去世。经过三年半多与癌症病魔的坚毅不懈抗争,申瓯于2017年10月21日安静地睡去,享年五十四岁。申瓯走了,留下年迈的父母;三个年幼的孩子,儿子恒易,女儿华玄和朦泽;兄长以及许多笃爱他的亲朋好友。

我代表他的家人,借此机会向所有在申瓯生命最后阶段给予支持和帮助的朋友们表示衷心谢意。这里特别感谢他真诚的学生们,尤其是李松挺,戴维,许志钦,张耀宇和肖彦洋,感谢他们对申瓯无微不至的照顾和守候。

我们设置了这个纪念网页。请大家在这个网页上分享你们对申瓯的追忆和思念。

另外,我特别请求申瓯在国内的亲朋好友,千万不要打扰他年迈的父母,以免老人过分悲伤。



2017年10月22日

October 21, 2023
October 21, 2023
Your wisdom and generous spirit still guide us, especially now.
January 21, 2023
January 21, 2023
Hi David,

Today is the last day of the year of tiger and I have thought about you when sending 红包 today in a wechat group.

It has been close to 7 years now I am in China. My interaction with you, although short, was very influential in shaping my life in the last seven years and many decisions I have made. I am grateful that I met you.

I ended up leaving academia by the way, but I am sure you would not mind. You would even probably encourage it. I am happy and as you said to me once that is what matters the most.

Happy new year, I am gonna drink some for you too tonight!
January 19, 2023
January 19, 2023
终于下定决心换个赛道开始新的征程…

多么希望能与您分享我现在的思考和打算。

Miss you so much
October 25, 2022
October 25, 2022
I visited the site of a favorite boulder of David and myself in Los Alamos yesterday. We often sat there, looked at the views across the Rio Grande, and discussed science projects. Sadly the spot has been built on recently. All things pass -- but wonderful memories remain. Peace!
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
I cannot believe it has been 5 years since David's untimely passing.  I often think what his comments would be about these days' unsettling events. Also, when I try to solve scientific problems and don't know what to do, I keep thinking that David would know ... He was a very special person.
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
如果上帝不存在 你已經隨風而逝 如果真的有上帝 你一定是在天堂

上帝把你這麼早帶離這個世界的原因到底是什麼 我能猜到最好的理由是:他看你在這個世上太累了 所以讓你去天堂休息

以你的個性 看到今日的中美貿易科技戰和隱然的軍事對峙 恐怕晚上睡不著覺了

你好好休息 這些事讓我們來處理

在中美對抗的大背景下 中國政府認知到科研的重要性 加上中國的綜合國力持續提升 自然科學研究院蓬勃發展 你的一切努力和付出都沒有白費 我很為你感到高興 你在天有知 也必感欣慰
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
五年了,时间过得好快。时常会想起以前讨论问题的时光,美好,却又触不可及。
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
经历的人和事情越多,就越能体会到您看问题的深刻、您与众不同的人格魅力以及对理想的坚守和执着追求。
October 21, 2022
October 21, 2022
Five years passed, still remember the great lesson by you. We are on the track of the direction you wished us to go. RIP.
October 20, 2022
October 20, 2022
会牢记您当年的教诲,不忘初心。学生很想念您。
October 14, 2022
October 14, 2022
最近工作上遇到了一些瓶颈,十分想念以前能与您探讨的日子。
October 11, 2022
October 11, 2022
Some updates from Earth.

2022 Nobel Prize of Physics went to quantum entanglement. Since then, previously ridiculed quantum mind theory (actually proposed by another Nobel winner) has resurfaced with an quatum entanglement twist, saying that somewhere in the universe exists a entangled soul receiving one's life experience on earth. These words are coming from some established physicists...
There's another weird thing I stumbled upon. The University of Virginia's medical school has a "Division of Perceptual Studies" that focuses on research of near-death experience and reincarnations. The results (discounting cases of pure illusions) can surely make me superstitious if the handling of data (suprisingly abundant) is indeed scientifically rigorous as the lead psychologists said. They also published a few peer-reviewed papers and books but I haven't got time to check their validity.
No harm in believing right, any comment?

Anyway, miss you.
August 19, 2022
August 19, 2022
经历得越多,就约深刻地体会到您当年对我们的教导多重要。

很怀念能与您畅谈人生的经历。

Miss you so much.
April 4, 2022
April 4, 2022
您离开我们五年了,想念您。
October 22, 2021
October 22, 2021
It has been 4 years already, but the memory of David and his generous spirit is still strong. 

Also, belated Happy 18 to Xiaxi
October 21, 2021
October 21, 2021
Cai LaoShi: I can feel but still don't understand death after recently losing an old friend. What does it mean for us scientists? What did it mean to you, and what will it mean to me?

Perhaps a neuroscientific paradigm of the process of death (hopefully, based on computation) can be developed one day. I would be more than interested to read that paper.

---A little student you met six years ago, now writing in Courant
October 21, 2021
October 21, 2021
Today is a good day in Shanghai and a good day to memorialize an old friend.
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
四年了,第一次梦中看到了你曾经的身影,一切都是那么清晰可见。

Miss you so much
September 5, 2021
September 5, 2021
三十五年前的九月初秋,我在埃文斯顿校园里第一次见到你。你英俊的身姿,潇洒的举止,至今在我的脑海里历历在目。如今又是初秋九月,我带着孩子们重回故地,特在此告慰你在天之灵并祈求你的保佑。 想你,爱你。家林
April 21, 2021
April 21, 2021
To Cai's family

Andy Majda and I were not aware of this Tribute site - not until Andy died on March 12, 2021 after a long battle with Parkinson's and his students set up a forevermissed Andrew J. Majda website. So, sorry we didn't know. I come late to write my condolences to you all and let you know how much David Cai meant to us, how close a friend he has been for so many years, how we traveled with him through his illness and still shared many fun moments during his visits to Andy's office during his illness.

Andy and I met you all the first time at the train station in Shanghai upon our return with David from Xian. It was only for a very short time, but I remember it as if it was yesterday. It was such a pleasure to finally meet David's family. The second time we met Jack and David's eldest son at the memorial to David Cai at NYU Courant Institute.

We were very sad loosing David. He was a unique person and dear friend and we often talked about him over the years since. David showed us China and taught us so much of its history, culture, cuisine and beauty that we fell in love with it. Our trip to Xian was a veritable history short course and so fantastic, we marveled how he knew so much of its history. He told us he learned if from his father. An earlier trip was to the Yellow Mountains, which is also unforgettable.

David and Andy were always close friends and enjoyed each other talking about anything from math to life to politics, to eating great food, of his family and kids and so much more. I want to share with you the many photos I've taken on those trips and hope they will be of some help to you.

If there is an afterlife, I would like to think that David and Andy can enjoy and continue their friendship.

Gerta

February 26, 2021
February 26, 2021
每次站在人生的路口,心里总是无比想念您。

Miss you that much.
December 20, 2020
December 20, 2020
我是2020年刚入学的一名致远学院新生,初次听闻蔡先生大名还是在十周年院庆时,知道蔡先生为学院付出了许多的心血。没想到今日竟才听闻蔡先生已经过世!为您和您的家人感到惋惜。我和您虽然素未谋面,但从之前的留言中,我已经对您有了无比的尊敬,感谢您多年来为致远以及自然科学研究院做出的贡献,希望您在天堂一切安好,吾等后辈定不会辜负您对致远的期望。
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
All of us, David's friends, miss his sparkling mind, gentle sense of humor, universal knowledge, and great generosity.  His spirit will forever be among us.

Also, belated Happy 17 to Xiaxi!
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
A memorable and fun-loving human. Thinking of him and keeping his name alive, in the name of chaos theory.
October 12, 2020
October 12, 2020
每年都要来看看您,也是想提醒自己不忘您当年对我们的教诲。
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
一个好朋友是人生中的巨大财富!
July 21, 2020
July 21, 2020
As a student in SJTU,I heard of David from my friends.I mourn for the fall of a star in the sky of physics.
June 6, 2020
June 6, 2020
2020.5/26 交大继续教育学院原院长/电信学院特聘教授,教育技术专家,计算机专家申瑞民也逝世了,享年53,比蔡老师还要早。
June 3, 2020
June 3, 2020
时间真快,转眼三年已快过去。跟您相识在2003年的暑期班。彼时,您白天穿一赤膊T恤授课,晚上请学生们一起去校外喝茶夜宵,畅聊各种北大趣事。十几年了,这些往年旧事历历在目,不知您在天堂是否还记得?
June 1, 2020
June 1, 2020
正值科研压力大的时候,脑海里却常常蹦出蔡老师曾经授课,与学生讨论的一幕幕。多想也拥有您那般的热情与希望。
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
David邻居回忆他规划致远学院的建设 眼中闪烁着光芒 让我想起Simone Severini分享的那张2011年办公室照片 我从未和David在中国见面 知道他忙 不敢去打扰他 在美国我未曾见过他眼中有如那张照片那样的光芒
May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
有幸曾和蔡老师做邻居,那时候蔡先生应该是刚到交大不久。刚开始只知道这位对门家孩子的爸爸几乎不待家里,忙工作每天只睡4个小时。为了不打扰他休息,他在家的时候孩子们都到我家来玩。对门每几个月就有年轻人来住一段时间,这些都是他一位位从国外挖回来的人才,劝他们买房,直到他们找好住处。那年元宵节前和他在小区花园碰到,蔡教授随口出了很多谜语给孩子们猜,我惊讶之余,网上搜索才发现这是多牛的人:高考状元,数学,物理,生物都有建树,书画皆好,游刃有余。简直是人生偶像啊!记得蔡老师说起张杰校长拎着两个西瓜到他办公室和老师们共度中秋,规划志远学院的建设,眼中闪烁着光芒。春蚕到死丝方尽 蜡炬成灰泪始干。蔡先生千古!
October 22, 2019
October 22, 2019
Hello David. My life has changed dramatically since I came to China about three and half years ago, especially in the last two years after you are gone. One thing that has not changed is I frequently remember you. You have left a great influence on my worldview and attitude towards life (and death) despite our very short term interaction.

I am forever grateful. Rest in peace.
October 21, 2019
October 21, 2019
David, time goes fast and it has been two years since you left us. Your impact on our life, however, becomes deeper and deeper.
October 21, 2019
October 21, 2019
时间过的真快,转眼两年了。时常会想起你的谆谆教诲,受益匪浅。希望你在天堂一切安好!
October 21, 2019
October 21, 2019
老师,我很想念你。
October 10, 2019
October 10, 2019
"Some people came into our lives and quickly go.
Some people move our souls to dance.
They awaken us to new understanding
with the passing whisper of their wisdom.
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.
They stay in our lives for a while,
leave footprints on our hearts,
and we are never, ever the same."
September 26, 2019
September 26, 2019
Xiaxi turns 16 today! A handsome young man of 1.8m tall.
April 5, 2019
April 5, 2019
David, the Institute of Natural Sciences has just moved to the new Science Building, I will keep making progress and you are always a role model in my life. miss you.
April 4, 2019
April 4, 2019
老师,又是一年清明节,学生很怀念您,愿您在天堂一切都好。
March 6, 2019
March 6, 2019
意外点开这个网页,但祝蔡老师在另一个世界安好。
February 22, 2019
February 22, 2019
Dear David,
I want to let you know that I recently received the tenure-track faculty position offers from Columbia University and University of Chicago, among several others. I was so lucky to have you supervise my undergraduate research, and I can never forget your earnest teachings on how to do research, how to become a good researcher as well as how to enjoy life. As I launch my own academic career, I am driven to be as encouraging and generous with my future students as you was with me. It is a true pity that I cannot share my delight with you in person when receiving these offers. Wish you all the best in the other world!
Forever,
Haihao
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International Conference on Applied Math and Computational Neuroscience in Memory of David Cai

July 30, 2018
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Brief Introduction

The “International Conference on Applied Mathematics and Computational Neuroscience” at Shanghai Jiao Tong University (SJTU) is dedicated to late Professor David Shen-ou Cai, who passed away on October 21, 2017 at the young age of 54.

David Cai not only made significant contributions in many areas of applied mathematics and neuroscience, he has also contributed to the development of applied mathematics in China with tremendous energy and passion. He played a pivotal role in making SJTU an active player in modern applied mathematics at the international stage.

This memorial conference also intends to bring leading experts in applied mathematics and computational neuroscience together to discuss the cutting-edge research results and explore possible collaborations.

Date

July 24-26, 2018

Venue

601 Pao Yue-Kong Library, Minhang Campus, Shanghai Jiao Tong University

Organizing CommitteeOrganizer
  • Institute of Natural Sciences, Shanghai Jiao Tong University
Co-organizers
  • School of Mathematical Sciences, Shanghai Jiao Tong University
  • Key Laboratory of Scientific Engineering Computing, Ministry of Education
  • School of Physics and Astronomy,Shanghai Jiao Tong University
  • Zhiyuan College, Shanghai Jiao Tong University

Conference held in honor of Professor David Cai

May 18, 2018

Conference was held at CIMS at NYU in honor of Professor David Cai on May 18, 2018.

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