King of the Little Kids
By Judy Szumski Ransom
As a little girl, I always looked up to my brother, Dave, with wonder. I thought he knew everything and how to do anything.
In our family of ten children, I was one of the five younger siblings, referred to as “the little kids.” As the fourth-born, Dave was one of “the big kids” and always welcomed us little kids to tag along in tow for many of his adventures.
The Fish Pond
When the days grew warmer each spring, we would gather ’round the fish pond in the back yard—a small, square concrete pool about four feet deep. Dave would jump in and begin landscaping the annual reptile habitat. We would marvel at how he could turn a bare, concrete hole into a wonderland for all the critters we would catch—a plethora of frogs, turtles, and snakes. He would build them a lush island with grass and plants, and plenty of places to hide from peering eyes.
After he filled the pond with water, he’d announce, “It’s time for a frog hunt.” We would help him gather the supplies into our red wagon—red-mesh potato bags for carrying frogs, a short hose, something to keep slithering snakes in, and a box for turtles.
The Hunt
Dave would lead us downtown and then along the railroad tracks to Keon’s pond. Our little-kid eyes would scan the water and land for reptiles, but no one could match Dave’s eagle eyes.
“There’s one,” he’d say, as we shouted in excited whispers, “Where? Where?” He patiently pointed out the critter until we could see it. We’d try to get as close as possible without scaring it, as Dave stealthily captured it as only he could.
We would hunt for hours until the wagon was teeming with life. I don’t remember us bringing food or water. Our intensity matched Dave’s as we focused solely on our mission—to fill the fish pond for the summer.
The Coveted Prize
Sometimes we were fortunate enough to hear the deep croaking of a bullfrog. When that happened, we knew no one was going home until it was captured. This was where the short hose came into play.
I remember the hunt for one of these rare, giant frogs. As it croaked, Dave searched for it in a small pool of water. This bullfrog was very clever, and I thought we’d have to give up and go home without it. But not Dave. He took out the hose, sucked on it to form a siphon, and drained that little pond until he found the frog. Needless to say, we marched home with our coveted prize.
Watermelon and Squirrels
One of our summer delights was watermelon. We would fill our little fists with watermelon slices and rush to the big maple tree in the backyard. Lodged in its branches was a birdhouse that squirrels had taken over. Per Dave’s instructions, we munched on the juicy fruit and spit the seeds out at the base of the tree.
After some time, we watched from a distance as little baby squirrels scurried down the tree to feast on the seeds. Dave said we could move a little closer each day, quietly watching, allowing the critters to grow accustomed to our presence.
The day arrived when those little babies were eating out of Dave’s hand and crawling up and down his arms. He showed us how to be quiet and still, and soon we had pet squirrels to play with.
The Racoon Habitat
Our father caught raccoons with a have-a-heart trap in his giant vegetable garden. He preferred to prepare them for dinner, which we didn’t particularly like. One summer, Dave somehow convinced Dad to let him keep a baby raccoon that was caught.
There was a huge oak tree in the back yard, with a hollowed-out spot in the base of the trunk. Dave built a cage jutting out from that hole and introduced the small coon to its new habitat. Dave figured out what to feed his new pet and how to take care of it. The little guy loved to run up inside the tree trunk and poke his head out at dinner time.
Once again, Dave provided us little kids with hours, days, and weeks of entertainment, watching that little guy grow up.
The Train Set
As Christmas drew near, Dave would enlist some of my brothers’ help and start working on the table-top train set landscape in the basement. He would design mountains with tunnels out of chicken wire mesh and paper mache. The dried landscape would be painstakingly painted in detail and the tracks carefully laid out—winding around the terrain, in and out of tunnels. Dave would add the finishing touches—trees, railroad signs, plants—until the masterpiece was finished. Our little eyes grew wide as we marveled and shouted, “Wow!” when the train finally raced around the wondrous winterland.
Many Talents
Whatever Dave did, he did it with all his heart. He would spend hours and days making stop-motion movies on 8-millimeter film. He’d set up a sheet on the attic wall and play his creations to an audience of amazed little eyes.
When Dave went away to a high school in Connecticut, Mom and Dad would take us little kids once a month to visit him. We would attend Mass and watch Dave singing in the choir. I never heard anything more beautiful.
Afterward, we would have lunch with Dave and his friends, and he’d play a game with us. My favorite was dominoes. Dave showed us how to carefully build massive domino structures. Then he’d let one of us tip the first domino as we’d squeal with delight and amazement to the swirling clicks of falling dominoes.
Christmas Caroling
One of Dave’s greatest loves was music. I remember one Christmas season, he gathered us little kids in the attic bedroom. It was a rare treat for us to be permitted entrance into the realm of the big kids, and we beamed with excitement. What did Dave have in store for us now?
“Kids,” announced Dave, “we’re going Christmas caroling.” We had no idea what Christmas caroling was, much less how to do it. But Dave’s confidence inspired us to give it a whirl. He patiently taught us parts to sing and put it all together as a master conductor. Dave sang bass, giving a magical richness to our voices.
Once he felt we were ready, we gleefully followed him into the neighborhood on Christmas Eve, going door to door singing Joy to the World and Silent Night. Dave made us rock stars.
Hands down, there was no mistake about it. Our big brother Dave was King of the little kids!