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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, David Hillaire, 67, born on May 13, 1945 and passed away on September 12, 2012. We will remember him forever.

For those of you who were able to join us on October 20th in Napa, thank you. It was a great pleasure to share the laughs, the tears, and the memories with all of you.

Your thoughts and prayers are very appreciated. We will all miss Dave/Dad/Grandpa very much.

September 12, 2023
September 12, 2023
Dad, eleven years later, Pres and I finally got to come back and see your plaque a few weeks ago. Presley has a tattoo of your handwriting. In just the 9 years she had with you, you left such an impression on her. We love you and miss you.
May 18, 2023
May 18, 2023
Happy Belated Birthday my friend. It seems I am always late with the wish. Missing the good old days with you and Bart. Take care. Edgar
September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Dad,
Though this message is over a week late, I thought about you every day not only since the 10 year mark of your passing last week, but also every other day since you passed. We miss you dearly. So much has changed and I miss your voice and your presence. You've been joined now by someone else dear to you. Little Bit got a tattoo of your handwriting from a letter you wrote her that says "I Love Youuuu", just like you used to tell her and write her. I'm so thankful she remembers you and you two had the bond that you did. Our last conversation when I visited is often on my mind. You opened my eyes about so much regarding the importance of self-value. I am thankful for that last weekend and thankful to have had you as my father in this life. Love and miss you, Trin
September 14, 2022
September 14, 2022
My oh my, time has passed so quickly. 10 years of you being gone has passed to quickly. You were a close friend, a co-worker and a person everyone should have as a friend. Missing you and the good times. Take care, Love ya, Mazzo
May 14, 2022
May 14, 2022
Dad,
Im writing a day late for your birthday but I thought about you all day yesterday. Ten years have gone by so fast and there’s so much I wish I could share with you. You were a kind and generous soul and I love and miss you.
May 13, 2022
May 13, 2022
Hello Dave, another year has passed. They seem to go by too fast. Happy 77th my friend. Take care. Love ya. Mazzo.
September 13, 2021
September 13, 2021
Dad, nine years has passed so fast and we’ve missed sharing our lives and experiences with you. It seems you are always with us in one way or another, as we talk about you a lot, have your pictures around and remind the kids how much you loved them. I love youuuuu, always!
September 12, 2021
September 12, 2021
Hello Dave, cannot believe another year has passed and that it has been 9 years that you went to see the lord. You would not believe that we have moved from Calistoga home of 68 years to Folsom. Closer to grand kids. All about family. Missing you my friend. Love ya, Mazzo.
May 13, 2021
May 13, 2021
Dave, my friend, i am finally wishing you a Happy Birthday on your birthday. Missing all the good times and missing you. Take care. Mazzo.
September 14, 2020
September 14, 2020
Hello my friend, another year has passed. It is unbelievable it has been 8 years
since we last talked. Miss those great times we had. Thanks for being such a great friend, dad and grandpa for your family. Miss you, Mazzo.
September 12, 2020
September 12, 2020
Dad, There are so many things I wish I could share with you, talk to you about, and celebrate with you. I know you struggled and you did your best to be there for me through really challenging times. Your dedication taught me how to love my kids through everything. You are missed and loved.
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
Dave,
i seem to always wish you a belated birthday. I guess getting old the memory gets forgetful.. Happy Birthday my friend. I think of you often and of all the fun / good times we had. Take care and we'll see you on the other side at some point. love ya, Mazzo.
May 13, 2020
May 13, 2020
Dad, It would be your 75th birthday today. I think about you often, and we tell the kids your stories all the time. You would be so proud of them. It's been a long while since you were here with us. You are forever in our hearts...
I Love Youuuuuuuuuuu!
September 29, 2019
September 29, 2019
Time marches on. i was late remembering you last year and again this year, but better late than never. Miss you my friend. Take care, Mazzo.
May 19, 2019
May 19, 2019
Happy Belated birthday my friend. It is amazing how the years go by so fast.
Missing the days of fun, but you are not forgotten. Love ya man, Edgar
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Hello my friend. Sorry fore being late. Still remembering the good old days.
You are in my thoughts often. Take care for now buddy. As you would call me,
by for now. Mazzo..
September 12, 2018
September 12, 2018
Six years ago we said goodbye and I still think of you every day. You were so thoughtful with the cards you sent and the constant encouragement. I never realized how much I loved that until it was gone. I've kept all the letters and cards and fondly remember all the times we spent catching up. Wish you were here and wish I could give you a giant hug. Forever your Bug, Trin
May 20, 2018
May 20, 2018
Another year has passed. But my memories and good times are still fresh. Take care my friend, and keep and eye on me. Miss you, Mazzo
May 14, 2017
May 14, 2017
Happy Belated Birthday my friend. Missing you and all the good times
we had in the past. Take care and love ya man. Mazzo..
May 13, 2017
May 13, 2017
Love you Dad. You visited me in a dream last night. Miss you like crazy and wish you could see your grandkids...they are amazing people. You would be 72 today, wish you were here.
September 13, 2016
September 13, 2016
Hello my friend. Another year has passed. I miss all the old days with you and Bart. They were great times. Miss you a lot.
September 13, 2016
September 13, 2016
You are gone but never will be forgotten by all of us who knew and loved you for being a great guy.

Jim Basin
September 12, 2016
September 12, 2016
Dad,
If I could tell you one thing it would be "Thank you!" No one ever tried harder to make a rough situation good for their kid than you did. You are forever in my heart and a part of my soul as I try to parent my own kids. I miss you and love you. Love, Bug
September 12, 2016
September 12, 2016
Dear Grandpa,
   It's been too long and I think about you every day. I miss you and wish we could talk again. I miss hearing your I love you but I'll never forget it. You will always be in my heart.
I LOVE YOUUUUUUU!❤

Love,
Your granddaughter Presley
May 14, 2016
May 14, 2016
Hello my friend. I cannot believe it has been seven years already that you have been gone. miss you and the old, old times. (Mazzo) Edgar.
May 13, 2016
May 13, 2016
Dad,

I've been thinking of you often lately, wishing you could see your grandkids getting bigger and smarter. We still say "I love Youuuuuu!" and talk about you. You are always in our hearts...wish I could call you.

Love, Trin
September 26, 2015
September 26, 2015
Hi Dave, missing the olden days with you. Keep resting and i will see you down the road. Love ya, Mazzo.
September 12, 2015
September 12, 2015
Grandpa,
You always have and always will be my favorite grandpa. You are the greatest friend I have ever had. I miss you and I love youuuuuuuu!!!!
August 9, 2015
August 9, 2015
Always separated by far too many years, I still cannot accept that you are gone too soon...
July 8, 2015
July 8, 2015
Grandpa,
Always thinking of you. You were the best grandpa of all time. I love youuuuuuuu!
May 13, 2015
May 13, 2015
Dad,
Thinking of you today and always. I remember surprising you for your 60th birthday and what fun it was. I love youuuuuu!
Love, Trinidee
May 13, 2015
May 13, 2015
Dave, Missing the good old days with you & Bart chopping, cutting and splitting all that fire wood. Keep resting my friend. Love ya, Mazzo.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
Dearest David, You have held a special place in my heart for over 50 years. You were my first love and I have never forgotten you. The five years we shared together and love we had for each other was forever lasting in my memories. Just learned of your passing today and I simply wanted to tell you... although we never married, you still hold a piece of my heart and always will. Bless you David forever. Pam
June 9, 2013
June 9, 2013
I was on the ship with Dave, many good memories, he was a good friend and shipmate. I visited him some years ago, and was planning to visit him again. Rich Martin  rich27800@gmail.com
May 13, 2013
May 13, 2013
I miss you, Dad...
I just realized that your first and last birthday were both on Mother's Day.
-Love, Trin
November 12, 2012
November 12, 2012
Dad, It has been two months since you found peace. I think of you daily, and miss your voice and your continual words of encouragement. I still expect the phone to ring every Sunday night. It is Veteran's Day, and I wish I could call and thank you for your service. I miss you. Thank you and I love you.
With Love, The Bug
October 13, 2012
October 13, 2012
I remember Dave while he was working at a local lumber company. We worked together for many years. We would cut firewood together with another freind who has also passed on. Dave was a great freind, loving father and husband. i am disappointed in myself for not keeping in touch with him in recent years. Trinidee, I am very sorry for your familys loss. Sincerely Edgar.
October 3, 2012
October 3, 2012
What I'll remember the most of Dave is the love he had for his daughter. I can always tell how proud he was of her, he had good reason to be proud, but he was not afraid to express it. I also remember going up to Napa with Trin and Dave always showing us the best time. He knew how to spoil us girls! You will be missed my Giants fan friend!
September 29, 2012
September 29, 2012
Namaste::: To you Mr Hillaire, for all the wonderful memories. The times when you didn't have to go above and beyond but you did. As I think back to all the fun times that you organized for all the Neighborhood kids. You never allowed anyone to feel left out. Thank you for everything.
September 24, 2012
September 24, 2012
I remember many people from our days at S.C.H.S....but Dave was definitely one of those that really stood out! You would never see him when he wasn't smiling or laughing. My most sincere sympathies go out to his family. Please know that he will live on forever in the memories of those of us he knew back then.
Sincerly, Donna DiGiovanni Camera
September 19, 2012
September 19, 2012
Dave,
You were the only person we knew who sent us a thankyou for inviting you to Little Di's wedding. Good Old Dave.  Always the gentleman. You will be missed.
September 14, 2012
September 14, 2012
There were eight of us that were the closest of friends in high school and now there are only seven. I miss Dave, but will never lose the memories of what a great guy he was and all the fun we all had together whether it was sports, parties, road tips, or just hanging out. May he rest in peace.
September 14, 2012
September 14, 2012
I found out of Dave's passing through my friend Pam Ingersoll,he was a close friend in high school. I didn't see much of him later on in life,though I thought of him and our pals often,my good wishes and love go out to all his family and friends,Dave you are one of the good ones
September 14, 2012
September 14, 2012
I am so sorry for your lose. Dave was/is a shinning star. I was at San Carlos high school with him and will always remember his wonderful smile and loving eyes. Even though Dave and I were only high school friends I did not want to miss letting you know that he was a lovely person. Sincerely, Kathie Ryan
September 13, 2012
September 13, 2012
Dad,
I will always think of you and remember our good times together. You were my first best friend. Thank you for all of the love and support you've given me over the years and for always believing in me. You will always be a part of who I am. I love you.
Love, Trin

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September 12, 2023
September 12, 2023
Dad, eleven years later, Pres and I finally got to come back and see your plaque a few weeks ago. Presley has a tattoo of your handwriting. In just the 9 years she had with you, you left such an impression on her. We love you and miss you.
May 18, 2023
May 18, 2023
Happy Belated Birthday my friend. It seems I am always late with the wish. Missing the good old days with you and Bart. Take care. Edgar
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USS Hermitage Ship Mate

July 16, 2019

I knew Dave when we were aboard the Ship USSHermitage . We spent many good times together on board the ship and at our home port in Little Creek Virginia . I am so disappointed with myself for not contacted Dave earlier . I rememember the time when we were in Vietnam and the ship after engine room exploded . David heroically save the men in the engine room and dove down to open the valves so that the engine room could be pumped out . He was awarded the Bronze Star and I’m very proud of him as many friends and family are . I want to send my condolences to his family and agin am so sorry for his loss. 

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