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David Imig “Celebration of life” June 10th, 2017

The Imig family is hosting a “celebration of life” memorial in honor of the life of beloved colleague, friend, husband, and family member David Richard Imig. The memorial will be located in the Eagles Nest Room, Eagle Eye Golf Course, 15500 Chandler Rd, Bath Twp, MI, 48808 from 10am-12pm on June 10th, 2017.

To commemorate David’s life, the family have created the David and Gail Imig Endowed Research Fund for Family and Food.   In lieu of flowers, consider a donation to this fund to support research in the Department of Food Science and Human Nutrition at the following link:    https://givingto.msu.edu/gift/?sid=3392


As you may know, David was an avid golfer. This is a pastime he relished in with friends and family throughout his life. In memory of this activity, there will also be an optional golf outing in his honor to follow at approximately 1:30pm. Golfers please respond to the RSVP at the following link ASAP so that we can firm up golf details. http://evite.me/jTpuVkG2NN
 


 

March 11
March 11
Oh how I wish that David was still with me. He made me a better person. I loved him so. He was the center of my life. He was kind, bright, thoughtful and was loving our retired life. I think of him all the time and would give anything to have him back. As I get older I am not afraid to die because then I will be resting beside him. A brilliant scholar and wonderful father. He is so missed by so many people but mostly by me.
March 11, 2022
March 11, 2022
Dear Gail, I remember fondly our WKKF meetings with you and David--at your beautiful homes in the Keys and Drummond Island. You and David were the dynamic duo. David was alway funny, gracious, and kind. I have a clear image of the smiles and laughter. Thinking of you and David today.

Warm wishes,
Gayle
July 2, 2021
July 2, 2021
It is your birthday David and we all miss you. We are here on Drummond Island and thinking of fond memories of our time here with you and the birthdays we celebrated for you. You were a wonderful Dad and husband and we all love you.
July 2, 2021
July 2, 2021
Happy heavenly birthday, David. Your footprint on this world is still alive and influential.
March 11, 2021
March 11, 2021
 It s a beautiful day in the Keys. It the kind that David loved for playing golf, boating or enjoying the pool and hot tub. I talked with Rob this morning and he is feeling old and wondering where the years went since he enjoyed golf with David and the other guys. He misses that. We all miss David so much but are grateful for the love, kindness and wisdom he brought to our family and to his students and friends. The BB Spartans will have to get through the Big 10 tournament without one of its biggest fans. But Joanne and Ann and I are doing out best to stay connected during the games the way that David used to and keep the Imig Spartan Spirit alive and well.
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
 
It is Christmas time and the family is all together in the Keys. It is a wonderful time but still with sadness over the absence of our beloved husband, father and grandfather. We think of him and in a way feel that he is with us and very much still a part of our family. We think of him with love and loss but are richer for his time with us. God Bless David.
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
It is the 4th of July weekend when we always celebrate David’s birthday. It is family tradition to be together at the cabin on DI. It is not the same without him but we honor his memory and cherish our special times with him.
  He was a wonderful man and we were so fortunate to have him in our lives. We will always miss him.
July 2, 2020
July 2, 2020
It is always good to recall memories for people who helped us along the way. Dave was one of those Specialists with the knack to encourage Mary and me in our Farm management "Reaching for Results" county training workshops.

Blessings,

Bud and Mary Search
March 14, 2020
March 14, 2020
Time may pass - but the wisdom and footprint of David is everlasting. As we experience a world of chaos with issues such as COVID 19, I listen for the thoughtful words of David to make sense of the world - to understand that this is bigger than we can all imagine, yet, when walking in his wisdom, sense of the chaos is easier to understand. Thank you David, and Gail for bringing such world meaning to our lives.
March 11, 2020
March 11, 2020
To have Dave and Gail come into town was always a highlight of the day. I have nothing but fond memories of love and family. We need to all get together for a big family reunion. Joyful memories are kept near the heart. God bless you
March 11, 2020
March 11, 2020
Once again the grief surrounds me for these early weeks in March. He was such a loving and wonderful man and a great father to Matt and Jenifer. We all share the feelings of loss but go on with our lives with David in our hearts.
 He was kind, gentle and caring man with a wonderful mind which he shared willingly with his students, colleagues and friends. His scholarship contributed to increased understand of marriage and families. We all loved him so.
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019

 Oh dear I miss David so much. He was a wonderful family man and we all miss him. This is the time of year for our anniversary and Christmas celebration which is usually in Cudjoe. We will be together but missing David so much.
November 30, 2019
November 30, 2019
I dreamt about David last night. As a result, I did an Internet search of him this morning, and was deeply saddened to find out of his passing over two years ago. I was a student in the college of Human Ecology at MSU and had David as one of my professors in the 1970’s.

David was special. He was inspirational, thought provoking, and captivating to listen to when I was young and impressionable. He is one of the few professors that I truly admired and learned from years ago.

I am so sorry to learn of his passing so late. The world has lost a special soul. My heartfelt condolences go out to the Imig family.
July 2, 2019
July 2, 2019
It is your birthday and we are on Drummond Island thinking of David and how much we all miss him and wish he was with us. He was wonderful in so many ways, bright, caring, a great dad and husband.
He is always in our minds and thoughts.
He will always be missed by us and our friends. We love him so much!
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
It is hard in someways to believe that it has been two years. There are little things in normal life that remind me of his influence. Seeing advertisements for the Masters is one - his footprints in our lives cannot be fully described by words alone.
March 11, 2019
March 11, 2019
Our family had a wonderful life together. David made it that way with his love and kindness and understanding of human relationships. We keep David in our hearts and will always love and miss him.
July 3, 2018
July 3, 2018
Oh my how we all miss David. He was such a wonderful man. His wonderful love will be missed forever by our family. Gail
July 2, 2018
July 2, 2018
Hi Gail,
I will never forget the great professional help David gave us with the creating of "Managing for Success" and then "Reaching for Results" when I met Mary and we became a team. I am really W. Conard "Bud" Search. My mother told me never to use Walter when I enrolled in school at age 6. Because Walter is on my birth certificate, the US government trumped my mother's wishes and made me Walter Conard Search. Such is life! Bud
July 2, 2018
July 2, 2018
Happy birthday, David. Your legacy lives strongly in those that you touched. Your smile, words of wisdom, and left a void in our daily lives, but not in our hearts.
March 11, 2018
March 11, 2018
The loss of David left a very large void in our family life. We miss his love, his brilliance and sense of caring for us and for his many friends.
However we celebrate the joy of his life and the wonderful impact he had on our lives. God bless our David!
June 12, 2017
June 12, 2017
Dear Gail and family- Please accept my sincere sympathies at the loss of your husband and father. I've had you in my thoughts and prayers since I saw you on campus in April, Gail, and you mentioned this loss. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
March 26, 2017
March 26, 2017
Dear Gail, Jenifer and Matt,
We continue to keep you all in our thoughts. Uncle Dave was such an awesome human being. We enjoyed such fun times with you guys at Michigan State while we were there at school as well as during our trips back to MSU and our trip to the the Keys. Uncle Dave always engaged in such insightful conversations. He was so kind and easy to talk to and always genuinely eager to listen. He will be deeply missed. We hope to see you all soon.
Hugs, kisses & love to you all,
Scott, Sarah, Carson & Colin
March 24, 2017
March 24, 2017
Gail, Matt, and Jennifer,
From that shocking evening when you first called me, through all of the daily travails, the decision and now the loss, Catherine and I profoundly share the depths of loss.
The highlight of our summers was welcoming the Imigs on Drummond, hanging out and sharing life's events, highlights, low ones, health items, kids and sharing life's transitions. David's and my golf games were nothing more than a ruse to be alone and catch up on each other's feelings, shared advice and sharing of very personal feelings of retirement, growing older and growing more graceful
David shared life's perspective with Thomas, shared in Erin and his success, all of which both recall fondly and are now sad.
You have lost a father and husband and I have lost a dear friend who never got to go flying together. I miss David dearly
Love to you guys,
Donza and Catherine
March 20, 2017
March 20, 2017
Gail, our hearts & prayers go out to you at such a difficult time. David's kindness and personal style was always so enjoyable and we feel blessed to have met and shared time with both he & you. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Sam & Helen
March 20, 2017
March 20, 2017
When I joined the faculty at Michigan State in 1996, David was one of the first to welcome me and offer tips and advice. I remember he passed along some wonderful tips on teaching and connecting with students. He was a kind, generous, funny and wise colleague. He was always bright and sunny-- I always thought of him a bit as a movie star. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are remembering David with great fondness and keeping you all our thoughts and prayers.
March 19, 2017
March 19, 2017
It's been a long time since I've seen David - at my retirement perhaps? But I remember him as a gentle man and you two seemed to have it all together. I'm sorry you have lost your best friend and mate but memories never go away. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
Mary and I are so saddened to learn of Dave's passing. Gail you and Dave have been wonderful friends for over forty years. While we haven't been together as often as we would have liked, each time was a great pleasure. I will miss playing golf with Dave on the island. Please stay in touch. Dave's kindness and friendship will be greatly missed.
Keith and Mary
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
I worked with Dr. Imig at MSU on his FCE444 Relationship Scale application, it was my first job here at MSU. He was a warm, friendly, and extremely welcoming introduction to working at MSU. David was passionate about his subject and his students learning. He represented the best this fine institution has to offer, and was a pioneer in online education. It was a pleasure and privileged to have known and worked with him.
March 17, 2017
March 17, 2017
Dear Gail & Family, there are not enough words to describe the lasting influence David had on my life and professional career. He volunteered endless hours of his time with patient tolerance as he helped me understand Family Paradigm Theory at a level where I can (hopefully) carry his legacy. Yet there were so many unasked questions that I will never have the opportunity to ask...David was a kind and gentle man who empowered others through his patient, approachable character. He challenged his Candidates with thoughtful questions that started them on lifetime journeys and quests for greater understanding. My passion for interacting with juvenile offenders with my Therapy Dogs was sparked by David's challenge for me to search for knowledge about brain function that might explain why adolescent's choose risk-taking behavior. David is a legacy that will live on through my personal life and professional career. Thank you Gail and family for sharing him with me throughout the years...
March 16, 2017
March 16, 2017
Gail,
I've just learned of your husband's sudden passing. Although I didn't know David well... I did have the opportunity to meet him at several WKKF meetings... he seemed so warm and genuine. Just like you. Please know I'm holding you and your family close in my thoughts and prayers at this time. Take care, Ann
March 15, 2017
March 15, 2017
Dear Gale & Family , We have such wonderful memories of our times together and have always missed you both Dave & Gayle since we moved from the Keys . We have always considered knowing each of you a blessing as dearest friends and will keep the memories in our hearts forever. David was such a special person as you are Gayle.
This is very sad news and our hearts are heavy. 
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. Sincerely Jerry & Judy Petkewicz ,
March 15, 2017
March 15, 2017
I will always remember the warmth that poured out of Dave every time I was with him. It was seen in his smiling eyes and felt through his close embrace. He had the most special way of making me feel loved and I will always love him in return.

My heart breaks for Gail and their incredibly close family.
March 15, 2017
March 15, 2017
Dave was one of my favorite men I have ever known. He felt to me as a big brother with his wisdom, love, and compassion. I will sorely miss him and my heart aches for Gail and family.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
David and I are so very sad to hear of Dave's passing. In the short time we've known you we've grow so fond of you both. We enjoyed the time we spent with him and will miss him greatly.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
My mother died in January, and I honestly feel more sorrow and pain today after hearing about the passing of my mentor, David Imig. He might have been my "major" professor, but he was also my "major" friend. If he meant that much to me, I can only imagine what he meant to you. He always kept me updated on the lives of Gail, Matt and Jennifer. Please know that the Hoedel family will be here for you in any way possible.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Dear Gail, We have been out of state at a Board Meeting and just received the news about David's passing. Sending heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I remember when you two were dating and we were supporting your relationship! You showed us by example that love can conquer all...and we believed in you and David. We cherished the wisdom you both shared with us in classes and seminars. You both inspired us. With loving memories and hugs, Mary & Ken Wahl
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Dave was such a kind, gentle man. Cindy and I have greatly valued our friendship with Dave and Gail and looked forward to each opportunity to share meals, talk and ideas. I especially valued his counsel in matters before the Property Owners Association and working together to solve them. He also accepted my poor golfing skills and we enjoyed many happy hours on the fairways. His smile, wit and willingness to help will be remembered as we treasure the opportunity we had to be friends with such a dear soul!
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Dave was such a kind, gentle man. Cindy and I have greatly valued our friendship with Dave and Gail and looked forward to each opportunity to share meals, talk and ideas. I especially valued his counsel in matters before the Property Owners Association and working together to solve them. He also accepted my poor golfing skills and we enjoyed many happy hours on the fairways. His smile, wit and willingness to help will be remembered as we treasure the opportunity we had to be friends with such a dear soul!
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Gail, my heart is filled with shock and sadness learning of David's passing. May your family find peace and comfort as you remember and celebrate all the special moments you shared through the years. With love and support, April.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Gail, My heart go out to you and your family. Thoughts and prayers go out to you.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
My thoughts are with you. Really glad I had the honor of meeting David and knowing how wonderful he was!
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Gail, I was just thinking of you last week and am so sorry to hear of David's sudden passing. I was honored to meet him, if only once, and remember him to be as kind as you are. He was certainly blessed with a wonderful family in you, Jenifer, Matt, and your beloved granddaughters. I know you will miss him and keep his love in your hearts always. Thinking of you with love and prayers.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Dear Gail  What a wonderful man. I will miss him. My house is open if you need the space. Talbott Tebay
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Gail and family. Just head of your lost and my prayers and thoughts are with you. As for me I will for always remember David and his great smile and a whole lot of passion for the issues of families that he fought so Valiantly and eloquently. I hope that your family will find joy in the memories that you created with David.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
My deepest condolences to you Gail and to your family. I have a very fond memory of a delightful dinner shared with you and Dave at a Kellogg Foundation meeting in Detroit a few years ago. I am sending you love and peace at this time.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Hi Gail,
Very sorry for your loss. Although I only met him a few times, he struck me as a fine person.
March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
Dear Gail and Family, Carol and I are very sad to hear of Dave's passing. Dave was so very special as a constant companion during junior high and high school: Cushman Eagle, latest model cars, Sherman Lake cottage, Eagle Lake Bloomingdale, each others weddings, and K.C. 50th reunion, etc. So many missed opportunities to meet, enjoy and remember. Our love to you, Bruce and Carol Panse
March 13, 2017
March 13, 2017
Gail, my heart is sadden with the passing of David. He was a tremendous balcony person. That is, he was always cheering for people to succeed. To me, he helped expand my understanding of family systems and the role they play in our lives. His love of life provide a clear path of how to be a good man.
March 13, 2017
March 13, 2017
Gail, Jennifer, Matt - words alone cannot convey how sorry I am for your loss - and can only imagine how challenging these days are for you. David always lit up when he spoke about your lives and work. He will always be remembered for his gentle laughter, his thoughtful questions and systems thinking. Whether on the golf course, in his boat, or over a meal or conversation over dinner or coffee - no one made you feel as special or loved as David.

Thank you David for sharing your wisdom, your guidance, your zest for life, and for befriending me. Your smile, laughter, and love for MSU are immortal. But more importantly, we are all blessed to have been touched by your life. RIP my friend.
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March 11
March 11
Oh how I wish that David was still with me. He made me a better person. I loved him so. He was the center of my life. He was kind, bright, thoughtful and was loving our retired life. I think of him all the time and would give anything to have him back. As I get older I am not afraid to die because then I will be resting beside him. A brilliant scholar and wonderful father. He is so missed by so many people but mostly by me.
March 11, 2022
March 11, 2022
Dear Gail, I remember fondly our WKKF meetings with you and David--at your beautiful homes in the Keys and Drummond Island. You and David were the dynamic duo. David was alway funny, gracious, and kind. I have a clear image of the smiles and laughter. Thinking of you and David today.

Warm wishes,
Gayle
July 2, 2021
July 2, 2021
It is your birthday David and we all miss you. We are here on Drummond Island and thinking of fond memories of our time here with you and the birthdays we celebrated for you. You were a wonderful Dad and husband and we all love you.
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The Epitome of Cool!

March 14, 2017

David Imig was the epitome of cool. He was the envy of everyone. He had the coolest life, the coolest wife and lived in the coolest places. All the professors wanted to have his job. He seemed to come in a little later than most, kept open office hours all day and taught class like it was his living room. I can attest because I spent half my graduate career in his office - 203 Human Ecology. We would talk paradigms seemingly all day. He played golf with me at 7 p.m. during the summer - walking 9 holes on Forest Akers West - where the conversations turned to politics, family and finances. He entered my life about the same time my father died and David took that mantle. He was even in the room when I proposed to my wife some 19 years ago. 

He was so influential and so cool that I made it a goal to play golf with him "at least once a year." For the most part, we kept to this non-spoken agreement. I swear we could solve the world's problems in 18 holes. 

After talking about it for years, I finally invited myself and my family to stay at the "rustic" guest house on Drummond Island. He always talked about how cool the Island was, so something told me that this was the year to do it. I ventured on the ferry in our mini-van toting a wife, four kids and a dog. We went out to a local hang out with the Imig's for dinner, toured the house, looked at his collection of boats and enjoyed the weekend. 

Sure enough, Sunday came and David picked me up in his cool jeep and took me to his cool golf course on this cool autumn day. As usual, we decided what Dantonio should do to save the season and how to handle healthcare. But, mostly, we laughed and talked about our families. It was so cool. 

To be honest, I was anticipating another 10 years on the links, but we both understood that each time could be the last time. As it turns out, this time was the last. And while I am spent the day crying, I suppose spending your last 24 hours playing golf, watching a Key West sunset and taking a walk with your hot wife is pretty cool.  

The last text he wrote me  on February 5 said, "Figured I might lose you. Thanks for calling. Talk later"... I'll hold you to it, my good friend and mentor.  

Marvin Key Memory

March 13, 2017

Dave Imig, and just about everyone else, loves to take a boat trip to Marvin Key.  Sometimes there are 50 to 100 boats anchored, with people partying, dogs chasing tennis balls, men fishing and sunbathers floating on their rafts.  The beach is whiter than white, the sun shines brighter than bright, and the sky is bluer than blue.  Many (really many) drinks of your choice are consumed, a ton of picnic food is eaten and some of the world's problems are solved there.  Actually, I think Garland and Dave solved a few on this day, or maybe they just smiled and laughed until their faces hurt!  A Marvin Key day is the best way to spend time with friends and relax like you have no cares or responsibilities, except to safely get back home at the end of a glorious day and pass out from exhaustion after the best day ever doing hardly anything at all.  I know I'm supposed to tell a story here, but, all I can say is that what happens on Marvin Key, stays on Marvin Key!  If you have never been there, then you need to go there; and to be there with Dave made it the best day ever!

Dave wishes Rob premature "merry christmas"

March 13, 2017

  Over the years I have enjoyed many rounds of golf with David at our Key West Golf course.  The last year or so, a little bit of politics crept into our golf game.  On the 15th hole there is a tree on the right side of the fairway that seemed to be a magnet for Dave's ball.  I would needle him about it all the time.  The tree is trimmed so that as you look at it from the tee all the limbs on the left side are removed and it definitely has a "right lean" to it.  This was too good to pass up, so I named it the "Trump Tree".  I explained to David that this was just a nice way for the Donald to say hello to him.  
Anyway as the campaign progressed, we continued to golf and David continued to find himself stymied  behing the Trump tree. Each time this happened I would ask him to take a closer look at the Trump tree because "I could swear that it was leaning more to the right" each time David was behind it. The last time David and I teed it up he found himself behind the Trump tree...again.  David did not hesitate, pulled out his 160 yard club(3 wood) and absolutely crushed it. Well that ball took off and hit the Trump tree absolutely dead center.    David looked and me.  I looked at him and deadpan said to him.  "I am amazed, I didnt know you were Republican. If you really were a Democrat you would have hit the shot to the "left" of that tree. 
Dave looked at me and said "Merry Christmas Rob"...or something like that. I will miss you my dear friend. 

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