It has been over seven years now since you have passed. People say time heals all wounds unfortunately it does not , The holidays are coming up they are not the same ,they don't have the same meaning anymore. Debbie you made the holidays what they were, you always got so excited around Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas with you it was always about caring and giving to others never about yourself, that's what made them special. Just thinking about you so I thought I would write this little story LOVE YA

It is hard to believe it has been three years since Debbies passing,i miss her more and more every day,i think about her day and night everyday of the week,People say time heals all wounds but i will tell you it is very slow at doing so,Alot of people do not understand but when you have spent a good part of your life with someone and loving them it is not that easy to move on ,I wish she were here even to hollar at me i would settle for that,I know she is here in spirit,sometimes it seems like i  can smell her perfume,Debbies birthday is coming up soon she would be 61

                              A heart of gold stopped beating                                                                Two Deep Blue eyes  at rest, God broke my heart to prove                                                                He only takes the best                                                                                          God knows you had to leave me                                                                                     but you did not go alone                                                                                           For part of me went with you                                                                                      The day he took you home                                                

Today is Debbies birthday she would be 60,so i wish her happy birthday she is always on my mind and i know she is watching over all of us,Love and miss you

It has now been two years since Debbies passing,I miss her more than ever now,it has been a struggle these past two years,they say things get easier but so far it has not been.I wake thinking of her,i go to bed thinking of her,there is not a time she isn't on my mind.I dont want to forget anything about her.I wish she were here, A quote from the memorial i put in the paper,reads  IF TEARS COULD BUILD A STAIRWAY I WOULD WALK RIGHT UP TO HEAVEN AND BRING YOU HOME AGAIN. A quote from Marys memorial says it all, EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE NOT WITH US...YOUR PRESENCE IS STRONG WE'LL ALWAYS FEEL THE LOVE FROM YOU TO LAST OUR WHOLE LIFE LONG.

Today is Debbies Birthday June 14.1953 from a quote i put in the paper for her memorial,She is loved with a love beyond telling,missed with a grief beyond all tears.Happy Birthday Debbie wish you were here.

This is the first year anniversary of Debbies passing,she passed away May 29th at exactly 3:12 2011 the hardess thing you ever have to do in life is watch the person you love so much  take there last breath while holding her hand,it is a picture that stays implanted in your mind forever  and a feeling like no other ,the only consolation is you know that they are no longer suffering from the intense pain and sickness they had,but still, it hurts . Debbie is greatly missed this year by her husband John,Daughters Gina,Mary and son Joe,along with brother Jim and sister Sandy and all there familys,I pray for Debbie everyday as she did for all of us even on her sickess day.If there are truely Angels I am positive Debbie is now one of Gods best! Watching over everyone from above and who knows maybe from down here and helping whoever she can.

Debbie fought a long hard battle with cancer for eight years but never complained once ,she enjoyed gardening,line dancing,camping,decorating for the holidays,most of all she enjoyed her family,especialy her grandchildren and she would do anything for them always putting herself last,Debbie worked very hard all her life,she was a LPN at Brooks Hospital, and also worked for Dr. Richard Millazo she was in the medical field for over 30 years.

Debbie was a wonderful person who put everyone before herself,Debbie was a one of a kind wife,mother,grandmother,sister and friend who i had the honor of being married to twice,I love her so much and truely miss her my life is not the same without her,I have so many great memories of her she changed my life the first time i met her,During your lifetime you meet someone who really stands out and fills your heart with all these emotions and love that stay with you forever and thats what happened the day i met debbie we had our ups and downs as do all people.There is one thing i can tell you there never was and never will be a person that i loved more then my wife Debbie,We had many years of good times some bad but i choose only to remember the good,I wish i had more time with her there where so many things i wanted to do and so many i wish i could say,She is and always will be the only person i will ever truely love,many people dont get the chance to have the kind of love that debbie and i had,i am so greatful that she choose to share her life with me.She was so beautiful and so exciting to be with,I MISS HER SO