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June 16, 2023
June 16, 2023
Hi Deb,
Think about you often. Remember the 'good old days' when you first came to CA with your mom. You were four and my sister and I picked you and your mom up at Burbank Airport. You were sitting there in the lobby on a suitcase waiting for your mom who had gone to make a 'phone call. You were always so smart and capable. Shall miss you always.

Arlene
February 19, 2023
February 19, 2023
Happy Birthday, Deb. Miss 'ya'. Guess you and Niland are 'tooling around' Heaven. Hi to you, Niland and all our loved ones.

Love,
Arlene
June 16, 2022
June 16, 2022
Deb,

Miss our times together and shall always remember you. Love from your 'cuz', Arlene.
June 16, 2022
June 16, 2022
Dear friend
Will always remember our Special times together.
Thank you for your Friendship
Love you and Miss you.
Always,
Niland
February 19, 2022
February 19, 2022
Dear Debby..
Happy Birthday
You are always in my thoughts.
Miss you dear Friend
February 19, 2022
February 19, 2022
Happy Birthday Debby. With love, Frank.
February 19, 2022
February 19, 2022
Happy Birthday, Deb. STILL miss you. Yesterday would have been your and Frank's 44th Wedding Anniversary,
June 16, 2021
June 16, 2021
Dear Debby
You are in my thoughts today as
always
Miss you dear friend!
Dreamed about you last night.
We were having a fun time
together. Lunch included!
Wonderful memories
Love,
Niland
June 11, 2021
June 11, 2021
Deb, I'll always remember my 'cuz'. Miss you and know we shall see each other some day. Cannot believe it shall be six years since June 16th 2015.
February 19, 2021
February 19, 2021
Deb, still miss talking with and seeing you. Yesterday would have been your 43rd wedding anniversary and today would have been your 69th birthday.  (Hope I have that right!) Have a Happy Birthday with your mom, dad, Auntie Vera, Uncle Alex, Elaine, Glenn and Jimbo as well as my mom, dad and sister and brother.
June 18, 2020
June 18, 2020
Deb, your anniversary would have been on June 16th (my computer was 'acting up' so couldn't send a "Love ya' I shall, and do, remember you today, tomorrow and always.
February 20, 2020
February 20, 2020
Debby, I too spent a lot of time this week thinking of our anniversary, your birthday, and our love. Frank
February 19, 2020
February 19, 2020
Deb, today would have been your 68th birthday...and yesterday would have been your and Frank's 42nd wedding anniversary. Still miss you and often remember special times.

June 16, 2019
June 16, 2019
Deb, so happy I was able to drive to Banning to see you one last time not long before you died. Miss 'ya'.
February 19, 2019
February 19, 2019
Deb, today would be your 67th birthday. STILL miss you and the way you cared about everybody. Love 'ya'.
July 21, 2018
July 21, 2018
Dearest Debby, although I have moved on in my life by marrying Sue, I want you to know there will always be a place in my heart for you as well.
Please know you are fondly remembered.
June 27, 2018
June 27, 2018
Deb, miss you to this day. I finally was able to post onto your website today, June 27th...sorry I missed the anniversary of your passing on June 16th. Cannot believe it is four years already. Niland and I talk about the good times quite often.
February 19, 2018
February 19, 2018
Dear Debby,another Birthday without you, missing you as always.
So many wonderful memories of good times together.
I feel blessed to have had your friendship.
Rest in peace dear friend.
Love,
Niland♥♥
February 19, 2018
February 19, 2018
Deb, today, February 18th, would have been your 40th wedding anniversary...and tomorrow, February 19th, would have been your 66th birthday. You have touched many lives and are remembered and missed by so many people--you have left a wonderful mark in the world.
June 16, 2017
June 16, 2017
Deb. you shall always be missed. Elaine, Niland and I reminisce about you often. Elaine and I were just talking about the last Easter we all spent together.

Love,
Arlene
June 16, 2017
June 16, 2017
Time passes so quickly, but Memories last forever.
I miss you dear Debby.
Love always,
Niland
February 19, 2017
February 19, 2017
Happy Birthday dear Debby!
Remembering you with Love, now and always.
Niland
June 17, 2016
June 17, 2016
Remembering you today, Debby. I feel so blessed to have gotten to know you and to be neighbors. Thank you for sharing your sweet smile and positive attitude, even in difficult times. Miss you!
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
Dear Debby,
Today is the Anniversary of your passing. I miss you so much.
I was blessed to have your friendship.
I will remember you always with love.
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
Deb, it's been a year and still miss 'chatting' with you. You are missed by so many, especially me!
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
Happy Birthday Debby, love you and miss you very much, your cuz, Elaine!
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Happy Birthday, Debby! Thinking of you on this beautiful day and remembering the good times we had when you were here.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Happy Birthday, Deb. Elaine, Niland and I often talk about how much we miss you. Until we meet again. Love 'ya'.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Happy Birthday Debby! You are in my thoughts today as always.
I miss you. Love, Niland
June 29, 2015
June 29, 2015
You've just walked on ahead of me 

And I've got to understand 

You must release the ones you love 

And let go of their hand. 

I try and cope the best I can 

But I'm missing you so much 

If I could only see you 

And once more feel your touch. 

 

Yes, you've just walked on ahead of me 

Don't worry I'll be fine 

But now then I swear I feel 

Your hand slip into mine. 

 

Our memories build a special bridge 

When loved ones have to part 

To help us feel were with them still 

And soothe a grieving heart 

They span the years and warm our lives 

Preserving ties that bind 

Our memories build a special bridge 

And bring us peace of mind. 

  (Emily Matthews)
June 24, 2015
June 24, 2015
My Dear Dear Debby, I am going to miss you girl. Although we didn't get to see each other that often after you moved to Bakersfield and Banning, except for holidays, special occasions, and family gatherings, I really enjoyed keep in touch through our telephone conversations, talking about so many things, your adventures, social life, shopping bargains, crafting, your ups and downs, family matters, and you know what a mix bag our family was, and old times. From the day you were born, and until the day you died, there are so many things I will remember. I am so glad that we got to spend Easter together, it was a good day. you put up a good fight, and I am so glad that Frank was there to love and care for you, I will always appreciate that. So rest peacefully Debby and say hi to everyone in heaven for me. Love you and will miss you, your cousin Elaine
June 22, 2015
June 22, 2015
Dear Debby: What a blessing it was to live next door to you and Frank for 10 years! You were always such a sweet, positive, fun person when we were together. Your zest for life was infectious. May God surround Frank and your family with His peace and comfort that only He can provide. John 14:1-3 NIV - "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am." 
We will look forward with anticipation to being with you in our Father's house! We love you always!
June 22, 2015
June 22, 2015
1 Thessalonians 4:13-17New International Version (NIV)


13 Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. 14 For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 15 According to the Lord’s word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left until the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.
June 20, 2015
June 20, 2015
What a joy it was following your courageous journey on FB. Only got to interact with you while long time friends gathered together at the Westside Reunion in 2011. Kind, sweet, funny, loving and Oh So Brave. We have lost a spark of life. Peace of the Lord be with your Family and Friends. Rest in Peace. Marianne Weller Young, La Quinta, CA.
June 20, 2015
June 20, 2015
Dear Debby, you are in my thoughts every day. I miss your voice, and kind words. It was a joy to have your friendship.Love always.
Thank you Frank for taking such good care of Debby through this difficult time. God bless you both.
June 20, 2015
June 20, 2015
My memories of Debby's are so fun. We would play golf together and just laugh and be silly. When she used to live around the corner from my father-in-law I'd go over to see what new craft she was working on. She was a sweet woman and will be missed!
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Debby
The best story teller I have ever known. A good time was had by all when she was around. Always living her life to the fullest and courageous to the end.
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Debby,
Thank you for allowing me into your grand circle of friends--you had a way of making each of us think we were special--but all the time it was really you who were special! You brought so much love and life to all who knew you, filled with such joie de vivre and experiencing life to the utmost. You truly lived and loved with gusto and joy! I will miss you, my friend.
Lis Sierra
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Debby, I miss you but know we will see each other again. I was blessed to call you friend! I am in awe of how you traveled through this battle, you were such a bright light in a dark time. You are missed and I will never forget you dear friend. Love to Frank and family, may God bless you
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Again may I say I'll miss Deb. She was so great at Easter and I'm thankful I did drive to Banning to see her about one month ago. She looked great, just a little tired. I am so happy at the love and care Frank gave to her. He was amazing and always at her side. The only time he'd leave her was to go to the store and then, if he could, he'd try to get someone to stay with her until he rushed back.
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
Debby, I feel blessed to have known you. You are missed but I know your beautiful spirit will be watching over your family and friends until we see you again. Love you. God bless you, Frank.
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
My Dearest Debby,  My tears are flowing as I write this, my heart is breaking . I know you are in heaven and I will see you again. We shared so many childhood memories that I willl never forget so you will always be with me untill we meet again. I love you and you will be in my thoughts forever.
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
Debbie, I am so glad that we met through your cuz Elaine, and got to spend Easter at her house, I enjoyed that day, it was your Day, just to see you with a big smile when the easter bunny had left you and only you a basket, made my day, you fought a hard battle with your cancer, your one heck of a lady. and now you are God's Angel...looking over your loved ones, you will be missed by every one you have touched with your smile...epecially me...thank you for the best easter ever...
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
Dear Debby, it was so much fun getting to know you and Frank at Seven Oaks Country Club years ago. Your personality was always electric and you were a "spark plug" to play with. I am sad that you had such a battle but am so proud of how you were so positive through it all. And Frank, you did an amazing job creating the memorial video for your beautiful wife! My heart hurts for you... Hugs from Gary and I in Bakersfield.
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
Debby, dear Debby, you fought a valiant fight. You were braver than anyone I ever knew. Always thinking of others with your constant positive updates. I am so glad we were reconnected after so many years passed. I am happy that I got to see you again. We are all so saddened by your passing, but we will all meet again. God bless all your loved ones in their time of such great sorrow. Rest in peace you were a special person to so many.
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
I will miss you very much.. I'm glad we where able to have such fun times together and laughed a lot .. You'll be missed very much..
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Dearest Debby, rest in peace, you will really be missed and never forgotten.
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
I will miss you Dear Debby but I am blessed to have had your friendship.
Love you.
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June 16, 2023
June 16, 2023
Hi Deb,
Think about you often. Remember the 'good old days' when you first came to CA with your mom. You were four and my sister and I picked you and your mom up at Burbank Airport. You were sitting there in the lobby on a suitcase waiting for your mom who had gone to make a 'phone call. You were always so smart and capable. Shall miss you always.

Arlene
February 19, 2023
February 19, 2023
Happy Birthday, Deb. Miss 'ya'. Guess you and Niland are 'tooling around' Heaven. Hi to you, Niland and all our loved ones.

Love,
Arlene
June 16, 2022
June 16, 2022
Deb,

Miss our times together and shall always remember you. Love from your 'cuz', Arlene.
Recent stories

Learn a Little Italian!

June 27, 2015

Debby and three friends from The Greens showed up at the Dante Hall on Wilson Road to learn Italian; they subsequently joined the Club for awhile--don't know how much Italian anyone learned, but everyone had a blast! That's where I first met Deb.  
Restare in pace, amica! 

Friends Forever

June 23, 2015

When I moved to Bakersfield in 2002, while waiting for my house to be built, I received a phone call from Debby. She said "do you like to shop?"and when I answered Yes! She said Good!, I will pick you up 

tomorrow, and there she was in her VW the next morning, and off we went , on a wonderful adventure, which began as Toodleing Tuesdays, quickly extending to the entire week. We became close friends, enjoying so many wonderful times together. I will miss you dear Debby, you were always so kind to me, and I was truly blessed to have had your friendship. I will remember you always, with Love 

                         





Remember her as the tough one

June 18, 2015

I met Debbie while going to Stephens Jr High on the Westside of Long Beach.  In those days we all had big ratted hair and Debbie was no exception.  I graduated from LB Poly with Debbie and always remember she was a force to be reconned with.  You Definetly wanted to be friends with her.  Like just about everyone we lost contact and found each other on FB through our mutual love for dog rescue and dogs.  I know she loved her two dogs so very much.  I will always remember how she was so strong in will and spirit and I always looked forward to her posts.

I will miss you, until we meet again.  Rest in Peace sweet lady.

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