Dear Odening Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Debra passing! I think of her as always so strong and fit! ...she was a wonderful math tutor to my daughter Amanda! She was very dedicated to her students and so devoted to her handsome boys! She loved being a mom :) Sending sympathy and love from the Botfeld family.

Dear Odening Family,
We are saddened to hear about Debra's passing. A wife and mother is not replaceable. May you find comfort in loving and happy memories. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Clara and Robert Kinney

I was sad to hear of Debra's passing.  I did not know her well; we only met in person once. We texted often and even when she had a bad day, Debra also asked how I was. I was amazed at her ability to teach although in pain. I would have loved to have had the time to know her better.  My condolences to all.

 

To Campbell, Ryan, Cody, and Chase,

I’m so sad to hear about Aunt Debbie. I always loved talking with her about teaching and running at family get togethers. And I know I would have been able to bond more with her over being boy moms. She always had such a genuine interest and care for how others were doing. I’m really going to miss her. Sending you all love through such a hard time. 

To Campbell, Ryan, Cody, Chase and the whole family-
Debra was one of my favorite teachers at Saturn St. School. Because her sons had experienced the high level of music education in Santa Monica, as I did in my youth in the 70s, she was a great supporter of the instrumental music program. She was a dedicated advocate for her students who I taught, and helped me identify students who she knew needed the participation in music to benefit their lives. She was honest, straightforward, and had a heart of gold. I will always treasure our years of working together doing the job we loved.

I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to know Debra. Such strength and character. Though we had only spoken on the phone a few times I truly enjoyed getting to know her and she continues to inspire me to do better.  Her love for her family shines bright.

Trishe

Dear Cambell, Ryan, Cody and Chase:
I want to extend my sincere condolences on Debra’s passing. I didn’t know her very well, but know she fought a hard battle.
You have each other to cling to and remember the fond memories.
I won’t be able to make the zoom ceremony, but you will be in my thoughts!
Again, my sincere sympathy and God bless you!!

Dear Ryan, Campbell, Cody, Chase;
I was very saddened to hear about your mom's passing, You all have been through so much. Know that you are in my thoughts, during this difficult time.
Luke and Cole have such fond memories of hanging out at your house during those Grant years, Debra always had a houseful. As moms, we would spend many hours watching soccer practices and games together. One thing was sure, Debra loved her boys and was very proud of all of you.
She will be missed.
Donna Rosescu

Dear Odening Family,

When I met Debra, I was going through the most difficult time in my life. I had lost my brother 4 months prior. She asked me if I had any siblings and usually I would have said I have a sister and a brother and then changed the subject, but for some reason, I told Debra what had happened. She was someone I knew I could be honest with. Most people would have been uncomfortable, not knowing how to respond, but not she. She was calm and sincere, her eyes even teared... and I was a complete stranger. We spoke a lot about family. She spoke about you boys and how much she and Campbell loved being together with you more than anything else in life.

Over the last year, I was struck by her bravery and I would reflect on how she is someone to emulate when times get rough. In fact, you all are. I am so sorry. Even from the little I experienced of Debra, I know she was a big person and her loss is leaving a gaping hole in your lives. I am so glad I met her.

Love,

Rosie

Dear Ryan, Campbell and family.
We were so saddened to hear about Debra passing. Her memory as a vivid, involved person with a constant smile on her face will always stay with us. The many hours she volunteered in school, the conversations we shared about our kids, how proud she was with all of you.  I remember the last time we saw her was on 4th of July celebration a few years back at the Santa Monica collage grounds. She wanted to hear all about Zoe and her doings. She had her way of embracing everyone around her. May she rest in peace.