It is difficult to sort out all the stuff of someone’s passing - the paperwork that needs filing, the details that need to be worked out, the decisions that need making, and the emotions that accompany it all. Thinking of what I wanted to share about Denis got me thinking about the meaning of that word SORT. Sort, sorted, sorting, sorts - there are so many ways this word weaves through my memories of him. Sorting stuff literally kept Denis going in his later years. Denis was a hardworking, no nonsense, practical sort of man. Faced with a problem, he would tackle it with all sorts of creative solutions. There wasn’t much that couldn’t be sorted out with a tie wrap here or a length of cord there. I imagine if he heard me say so, he would give me one of his soft, eye-reaching sort of smiles, and I would hear his gently-rolling, sly sort of giggle as proud acknowledgment of his ingenuity! Denis was the sort of man who would step in and help without being asked, and the sort of man who would make personal sacrifices in service to someone in need. He was just the sort of father-in-law that treated me like his own daughter, the sort of father who would toil alongside his son, and the sort of Papa that would soothe fussy babies, freely pass on knowledge, play with, and cheer on from the sidelines his grandsons. He was also the sort to lick off the frosting of a maple glazed donut and put it back on the counter to enjoy later with his coffee in the smallest sort of mug…
Denis was his own sort of unforgettable man, and I will greatly miss him.