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Derek Anthony Carlington went to be with the Lord on July 13, 2018.  He leaves behind to celebrate his life parents David and Peggy (Kuban) Carlington, his brother Jay Carlington and spouse Emily Loftiss, a loving girlfriend Amanda Thomas, and a large extended family. 

 Derek was born on January 8, 1982 at Brookwood Hospital and grew up in Hoover, AL.  A talented musician, Derek’s passion was on display in a variety of instruments – initially playing drums before mastering the bass guitar.  He pursued his interest at Full Sail University where he received a degree in Audio Engineering.  His witty sense of humor and caring heart had a profound impact on the lives he touched as a civilian and as a Police Officer that will never be forgotten. 

 There will be a private ceremony for the family before Derek is laid to rest at the Columbarium at Prince of Peace Catholic Church.  A Celebration of Life reception will follow in the next few months.

 In lieu of flowers, we know Derek would appreciate donations in his memory to the charity of your choosing that benefits children or animals.  The family would also like to extend our deepest thanks and gratitude to the men and women of law enforcement for their tireless efforts.


October 3, 2019
October 3, 2019
Can't believe its been over a year since you passed. Not a day goes by that I don't think of a new reason to miss you. I can't count how many times you've made me laugh until my ribs were sore or how many times you had my back, even when I was wrong. I was incredibly lucky to grow up with you and experience all the craziness of life together. I would do anything to play one more song together but I'm incredibly thankful for the music you left behind. I look forward to seeing you again and hearing how your band in Heaven needs to be heavier...and then I'm replacing the guitar player. Until we meet again, I love you brother.
August 26, 2018
August 26, 2018
I have always thought Very Highly Of Derrick . I have All positive memories of
him ! I’m very sorry for Your loss ! Great Person , Very Talented !
Note:
I met Derrick in JR High , At Simmons Middle School In Hoover Alabama. I believe he was one grade below me. Although I Never knew his older brother Jay personally, I remembered ( 1 grade older than me ) He was a super talented basketball player. . I Moved to Tuscaloosa in high school ( freshman yr) So didn’t Know D high school days, we were reacquainted in college & when he was playing with Rob West & Their Band.  We also got to Know each other & spent some time in recovery process 2010 -2011 ( Any Lengths Resources).

Is there any links online to any of his music? Please email me if So: tjwalls2018@gmail.com
August 3, 2018
August 3, 2018
Dear Dave, Peggy, Jay/Emily and Amanda, No words can express the heart ache of your loss. God Bless you all. Derek has a huge heart and loving soul. I will miss you forever Derek. Love you, Aunt Diane
July 27, 2018
July 27, 2018
It has been many years but never far in our thoughts and fond memories. When I heard about Deke... when I started thinking about all the great times as the kids were growing up, one memory popped up about him. Remember when his nose turned blue. I think we lovingly called him a smurf. Such a sweet and loving child. I know your all were so proud of him. My heart aches for the pain you must be going through.  Know that we are lifting you in our prayers now and in the days to come. Much love to all of you. John and Patsy
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
David & Peggy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. My heart aches for Derek. He has many friends that miss him greatly. Hold on to the good memories & his wonderful smile! Sincerely, Barbara MCCollum
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
Derek and I knew each other from our Sepsis band days from the mid 2000s. I think the world of music lost a true prodigy. Derek had such a great understanding of composing, performance, and teaching music. I am so very sorry that he has left this world. He will truly be missed.
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
I never knew or met Derek, but when I heard that he had been missing, both my wife and I prayed to God for his safe return and prayed for both his parents and love ones. It saddens my heart to hear of his passing, and may God comfort you and your family. Remember that God Will Not Waist Your Pain!
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
Dave and Peggy. There are no words to express how I feel for your lost. My prays are going to you both and the family. God speed  Sending my love
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
Just wanted to say you were a Great neighbor, and Avery and I loved feeding the fish and I laugh about the day we cut down that tree! So sorry your gone, I still haven’t told Ave as I’m not quite sure how to tell her! Rest In Peace my Friend! See u on the other side!
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
What can I say.. We love you Derek. Your funny imitations and your sharp sense of humor. Always laughing with me or sometimes at me.... the way you had patience with the kids. They all adore you too... I'll miss our talks about music, art, or my silly ghost shows... such a big heart! You touched so many people. To know you was to love you.. we will all be together again....
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
I would like to send my thoughts and prays to Derek's family and Amanda Thomas. He was a fun loving guy that will be truly missed.
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
Amanda, just remember, it’s not goodbye, it’s see you later.  Praying for you and the Carlington family.
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
God has a special plan for you. We love you Derek and you will be missed. Please know that you left your mark in this life. We pray for your wonderful family to endure your absence from this physical life.
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
My family is praying for you! You and your family have been there for so many people when they’ve needed help. I hope you and your family know that there are countless people praying for you and are ready to be there for you!

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October 3, 2019
October 3, 2019
Can't believe its been over a year since you passed. Not a day goes by that I don't think of a new reason to miss you. I can't count how many times you've made me laugh until my ribs were sore or how many times you had my back, even when I was wrong. I was incredibly lucky to grow up with you and experience all the craziness of life together. I would do anything to play one more song together but I'm incredibly thankful for the music you left behind. I look forward to seeing you again and hearing how your band in Heaven needs to be heavier...and then I'm replacing the guitar player. Until we meet again, I love you brother.
August 26, 2018
August 26, 2018
I have always thought Very Highly Of Derrick . I have All positive memories of
him ! I’m very sorry for Your loss ! Great Person , Very Talented !
Note:
I met Derrick in JR High , At Simmons Middle School In Hoover Alabama. I believe he was one grade below me. Although I Never knew his older brother Jay personally, I remembered ( 1 grade older than me ) He was a super talented basketball player. . I Moved to Tuscaloosa in high school ( freshman yr) So didn’t Know D high school days, we were reacquainted in college & when he was playing with Rob West & Their Band.  We also got to Know each other & spent some time in recovery process 2010 -2011 ( Any Lengths Resources).

Is there any links online to any of his music? Please email me if So: tjwalls2018@gmail.com
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Love from Aunt Diane

August 3, 2018

I remember one of my visits on Lantana drive.  Jay and Derek were justs tots.  Being a Michigan native, I got a kick out of hearing the wang-tang of Alabama youngsters.  So we made up a game; J & Deek -  I will say a sentence and each one of you take turns repeating my sentence back to me.  Oh the belly laughs, we played that game for hours.  We had so many fun times, just one I remember fondly.  I love you Derek Anthony,  Aunt Diane 

July 24, 2018

Peggy, David and Jay,  I will continue to pray for  you all  and your entire family.  I am so heart broken and know that nothing but prayer and our belief in the almighty will help this pain.  I will continue to live my life so that I will see Derek again in heaven.  If there is anything that I can do to help you all during these sad time, please let me know.  I will never forget the first time I meet Derek.  He was so cute and I just loved his red hair and hazel eyes. He was no more than 8 or 9 years old.   He was always so polite and very quiet.  You and your entire family were the shinning stars to our family when we move here over 29 years ago.  You always treated us like family.  Derek was always with Jay when they came over to our home, and they were the perfect kids.  I love you guys and wish that I could take your pain away.  However, I know I can not so I will pray, pray, and pray without ceasing for all.  Prayer is our key.  Lets get ready to meet all of our love ones one day.  Oh what a time we will have.  I love you all.  Take care.

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