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Derek Anthony Carlington went to be with the Lord on July 13, 2018. He leaves behind to celebrate his life parents David and Peggy (Kuban) Carlington, his brother Jay Carlington and spouse Emily Loftiss, a loving girlfriend Amanda Thomas, and a large extended family.
Derek was born on January 8, 1982 at Brookwood Hospital and grew up in Hoover, AL. A talented musician, Derek’s passion was on display in a variety of instruments – initially playing drums before mastering the bass guitar. He pursued his interest at Full Sail University where he received a degree in Audio Engineering. His witty sense of humor and caring heart had a profound impact on the lives he touched as a civilian and as a Police Officer that will never be forgotten.
There will be a private ceremony for the family before Derek is laid to rest at the Columbarium at Prince of Peace Catholic Church. A Celebration of Life reception will follow in the next few months.
In lieu of flowers, we know Derek would appreciate donations in his memory to the charity of your choosing that benefits children or animals. The family would also like to extend our deepest thanks and gratitude to the men and women of law enforcement for their tireless efforts.
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him ! I’m very sorry for Your loss ! Great Person , Very Talented !
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I met Derrick in JR High , At Simmons Middle School In Hoover Alabama. I believe he was one grade below me. Although I Never knew his older brother Jay personally, I remembered ( 1 grade older than me ) He was a super talented basketball player. . I Moved to Tuscaloosa in high school ( freshman yr) So didn’t Know D high school days, we were reacquainted in college & when he was playing with Rob West & Their Band. We also got to Know each other & spent some time in recovery process 2010 -2011 ( Any Lengths Resources).
Is there any links online to any of his music? Please email me if So: tjwalls2018@gmail.com
My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family. My heart aches for Derek. He has many friends that miss him greatly. Hold on to the good memories & his wonderful smile! Sincerely, Barbara MCCollum
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Dad
him ! I’m very sorry for Your loss ! Great Person , Very Talented !
Note:
I met Derrick in JR High , At Simmons Middle School In Hoover Alabama. I believe he was one grade below me. Although I Never knew his older brother Jay personally, I remembered ( 1 grade older than me ) He was a super talented basketball player. . I Moved to Tuscaloosa in high school ( freshman yr) So didn’t Know D high school days, we were reacquainted in college & when he was playing with Rob West & Their Band. We also got to Know each other & spent some time in recovery process 2010 -2011 ( Any Lengths Resources).
Is there any links online to any of his music? Please email me if So: tjwalls2018@gmail.com
Love from Aunt Diane
I remember one of my visits on Lantana drive. Jay and Derek were justs tots. Being a Michigan native, I got a kick out of hearing the wang-tang of Alabama youngsters. So we made up a game; J & Deek - I will say a sentence and each one of you take turns repeating my sentence back to me. Oh the belly laughs, we played that game for hours. We had so many fun times, just one I remember fondly. I love you Derek Anthony, Aunt Diane
Peggy, David and Jay, I will continue to pray for you all and your entire family. I am so heart broken and know that nothing but prayer and our belief in the almighty will help this pain. I will continue to live my life so that I will see Derek again in heaven. If there is anything that I can do to help you all during these sad time, please let me know. I will never forget the first time I meet Derek. He was so cute and I just loved his red hair and hazel eyes. He was no more than 8 or 9 years old. He was always so polite and very quiet. You and your entire family were the shinning stars to our family when we move here over 29 years ago. You always treated us like family. Derek was always with Jay when they came over to our home, and they were the perfect kids. I love you guys and wish that I could take your pain away. However, I know I can not so I will pray, pray, and pray without ceasing for all. Prayer is our key. Lets get ready to meet all of our love ones one day. Oh what a time we will have. I love you all. Take care.