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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ngochi Derick (aka Pa Ngo) , born on June 17, 1983 and passed away on May 7, 2020. We will remember you forever. You slept in the Lord and are more alive now then ever before.

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13 Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. 14 For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 1 Thessalonians 4: 13 -14.
February 8, 2023
February 8, 2023
Your memory lingers on bro. Keep resting.
May 7, 2021
May 7, 2021
It's been a year since u left bro it still feels like yesterday. E memories we shared r still fresh in my heart I miss u so much biggie words can't express how I feel today bt I know you are in a better place continue resting in the bossom of the Lord..forever in our hearts 
May 7, 2021
May 7, 2021
It's been a long time papi,

It's been over a year. It's a journey which you suddenly ended. Rest bro. Ironically, you are in a better place

Great childhood memories: mom's fufu and Njama Njama, the bamboo chair we used to seat outside inno and Moses their room....

It's a year.

Rest bro.
September 10, 2020
September 10, 2020
No words, no closed chapters, no final memories. I still can't say the words. In my heart that's where I keep you brother - friend.
May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
Adieu Dericko. Ngochi ur demise just taught humanity that we are nothing in the face of the creator. It pains to bury you this young bro. Date thee well till we meet again. ADIEU
May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
Petit frère,

Mon frère, de la haut ou tu te trouves je te dis merci, merci des leçons de vie que tu m as apprises.Merci pour tout car si je suis une meilleure personne , tu n es pas étranger à cela.
Man go miss your njakiri oh boy.
Peace be with you and your soul bro
Less we forget , you shall always be remembered
A jamais tu es vivant dans mon Coeur

Shalom mon Ndoleh bro

C EST DIEU QUI EST FORT


May 19, 2020
May 19, 2020
Ngochi your passing is still a shock to me. My in-law, my loyal and trustworthy friend. I can't believe you are no more. Each time I ride in my car, I think of you, because you made it possible. I gave up on it, but you said you would make it work and you did. For practically nothing. I remember each time I came to pick it up, you'll say boss, you can't pay for the job because the money plenty. So just give anything. And each time I'll give you my anything, you promised me a slap. And I'll laugh and disappear. You were so full of life, loved by so many and always so ready to help. There was no problem you couldn't fix. I'll forever miss you my loyal friend. Am consoled by the fact that you are now in a better place. May God console your beautiful wife and son and everyone you left behind. Continue to rest on boss.
May 18, 2020
May 18, 2020
My Dearest brother and friend Derick,honestly am short of words to really express my feeling right now. But this came as a shock and is still like a shock to me. U could even think about how ur wife and love ones will feel before leaving in such a manner. You were a good husband, brother,friend and neighbour to all,cause u did proved it. All i can say is,in as much as we loved and wish u were still here we know deep down that God our creator loved you more. And for that i say go well my brother and since it is a road to all,do prepare a place for us. RIP NGUCHI
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
This is hard but I have to do this. It is still like a dream to me,I wake up everyday thinking things will be different but it's all the same. You fought a great fight,you were loved by so many,everybody's problem was your problem,you had a heart of gold. I guess God loves people like you that is why he called you to where there is peace and joy. Am glad because you accepted Christ before your passing and know he has welcomed you into his kingdom. The blow hit hard on me because I did not see this coming. You were so young and full of energy,we had plans to better our marriage and enjoy our grey together but God's plan is never our plan and we cannot question him. I don't know what to tell Jayden but you will please make it easier for me. The pain and memories of Thursday 7th May are still very fresh and I don't seem to control myself. Am praying for you and I also pray that you always guide and protect us. You are my hero and am proud of you.
Sleep on and say hi to my mum for me. I love you Derick.
Adieu
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
You left a void in the hearts of your loved ones especially your wife ,you left the sine so soon I know if you had a way you would have done it differently but as you go I wish you Rest In Peace,I wish you watch over your family you left behind,we all feel the pain .you will forever missed rest in peace Ngochi Derick
May 16, 2020
May 16, 2020
Eternal rest grant unto him o Lord, and let perpetual light shine on him. Many his soul and the souls of the faithful departed brothers and sisters rest in Peace .Amen
May 15, 2020
May 15, 2020
Chaiii Ngochi, i lack words to describe the way i felt when i heard of your passing onto eternity.
You were a brother with a beautiful heart. You were there everytime I needed your assistance. You were our allrounder. You knew which botton to press at anytime to put a smile on my face. Even when i did not act well, you still played your part as an elder brother with love.
Ohhh Chingo who will laugh at my first french phrase "J'ai un mille" ......
It hurts to know you are no more but i am consoled you are safe and resting at the bossom of our Lord. I will forever miss you


May 15, 2020
May 15, 2020
With your kindness,friendship and amazing sense of humour. We will never forget your unconditional love towards everyone your path crossed with.

You were always so enthusiastic about everything in life and a wonderful influence to many.

We will miss you more than words can say

Mirabelle & Valery Achatesi
May 15, 2020
May 15, 2020
It's Uncle Ngochi, it's Uncle Ngochi... Has suddenly come to an end... Oh if tears could bring you back Pa Ngo... How your impromptu visits gave life to the kids. They will play and have fun.. Our private caller, who would call us like that again... Oh how we turned to you for all complicated issues in this country... Our comissaire. Where do we start from? You always called to check up on us... On our last call you were shouting at me, stop that madness with illness... Oh how I wish I could see this coming, oh how I wish God could give us another chance. You took us unaware. So full of life and hope. There was nothing that seemed impossible with you.... You leaving us at the prime of your life.
We are still a trusting family, and thanking God for writing these memories of you in our hearts. They will never go away. Best is you are with the Lord. That gives us the assurance, that God being our helper we shall meet again to part no part.
We love you Pa Ngo, prepare a place for us...
May 15, 2020
May 15, 2020
Uncle Ngochi, Pa Ngo,gone too soon, where to? Your life has been one of great impact to many and many still waiting... but you are no where to be found.
A selfless person you were, full of life and bringing joy to the lives of many, known and unknown. Who would have thought you will go this soon? God knows best. I know you are in a better place, in the bossom of our creator. Enjoy His presence bro. We'll forever miss you Uncle Ngochi, Pa Ngo.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
My brother, my son!

Pa Ngo, where do I start. I carried you on my back as a baby and have carried you in my heart since you became a man. Linda finally got to see my tears when we drove back from Clinique St. Hilaire that Thursday pm. You did it man! 

The boys asked me tough questions and Mama’s devastated. Well, everyone really. We are all in pains due to this physical separation. How we prayed, how we stood together at the feet of the cross of our savior for a miracle and yes it did come, just not how we wanted.

That Wednesday when I left the hospital, God put a burden in my heart. I didn’t know what was going on inside but I was super restless. When I got down on my knees, my tears didn’t stop. Oh how sweet what happened next, you boldly received Jésus as your Lord and Savior confessing your sins. Your Father had set everything for you already Pa Ngo. The carpets were rolled before you. If only I knew that, that Thursday afternoon was going to be our last together on this side of eternity, alas! You were strong to the last moment and I am glad that when you breathed your last, the Angels were there to help guide you home.

All praise and glory to Jesus for saving His son! Pa Ngo, one day we’ll be together by the grace of God.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Pa Ngo we miss your impromptu walk-ins! How the kids would scream hysterically with joy each time you appeared in your usual style…unannounced. That was my brother. You did things your way. You brought light were there was darkness; you made things happen when there seemed to be no way out; you knew the world; you went out of your way to assist…

The past few days since you left us (unannounced in your usual style) have been indescribable. While we prayed hard for your healing, and while you showed no signs of giving up, the Good Lord thought otherwise. I know for sure He called you. While we mourn you, I find peace knowing you are in better place.

May we find the strength to someday accept that you are gone forever. My heart bleeds for you little brother. Rest in peace Pa Ngo.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Hmmmm where do I start from.. Nde Ngo like I always call you.. My brother with a beautiful heart..I still can’t fathom the fact that I will not see you again when I come back home.You have always been there for me and my family.There was never a time I needed you around that you will not be there.. You made me look forward coming back home.. The jokes, the smiles , the teasing in awing language chaii.. my fine handsome awing brother with dimples like I will always say.. Who will have my back when I come home? Who will always check on me till I leave.. who will pick and drop me at the airport now that you are no more? Nde Ngo you made sure that I would never forget you by departing on my birthday of all days..You always had a solution to every problem.Cha Nde Ngo you do me ya...You were a blessing to everyone you met.. You will greatly be missed Nde Ngo.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Uncle Nguchi as my daughters will call you,if tears could build a stairway and memories were a lane,we would walk straight up to heaven and bring you back again.You were gone be4 we knew it,no time to say goodbye.Our hearts still bleeds in sadness and secret tears still flow . It's hard to believe you left us.You left a big gab in my husband's life.
But since you'll never be forgotten,we pledged to you today,a Hallowed place in our hearts is where you'll always stay RIP my husband's brother
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
A journey of rememberance as you are welcomed home. I could not still bring myself to accept I will not see or hear from you again. "Boss" how we fondly called ourselves. I just lack words to express the feeling and the void your home calling has created in us. Your selflessness and sacrifices that led to you being the father SOLACE never had. Our lawyer, our police officer the list is long. Though absent, you are very present and very loved and still dear to us. We will forever miss you.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Ngochi, it is hard to believe but yes u are gone. You should have stayed a little more with us Derick Dollar.The thought of the fact that i’m never going to see you breaks me totally. U left my husband heart broken Ngochi. I don’t know who will ask me questions again just to tease me. It is hard to say but go well and rest in perfect peace bro. Forever in our hearts Dede.
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
My brother,my friend, my inlaw its liké im dreaming waiting for someone to wake me up an Say "it was just a dream" You were a good Father,housband an above all a good entertainer bro, its difficult to believe you're gone so soon, go ye an rest in thé peace of thé lord Bro Nguchi Derick.we love you but God loves u most.NGUCHI,FOREVER IN OUR HEART
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
My dearest brother,e only one I will always disturb BT never gets tired of me ..This pain is so deep that I find it hard to express words have failed me this came like a blow no farewell no time to say goodbye ..u were a fulfilled person with lots o goodness which you will show towards everyone n you always discussed freely making alot of people comfortable being with you but e cold hands o death snatched u away ,its hard to believe you are no more but we r rest assured that you are safe in God's hand ..As the Bible says the Lord has given and the lord has taken ..May your gentle soul continue to rest In the Bossom of our master and friend ,Jesus Christ..I will always love u Biggie ..Adieu Nde Ngo
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Ndey Ngo,

My big bro, when I called you that, you would jokingly tell me to call you “Daddy” telling me I’m not your age mate. It’s been a week and I am still hoping that this is a terrible joke. I am speechless, we all are!!!

You were the liveliest of us all. You brought smiles and laughter wherever you went. I did not know that when you dropped me off and asked me to do my best, that would be our last meeting. You kept asking when I am coming home so you could be there to pick me up. You would call to pick on me and tease me, which was your way of checking on me.....

We prayed, you fought... but God knows best. This pill is indeed too bitter to swallow, but we are at peace in the assurance that you are in a better place. You will be missed dearly.

We love you biggie and your Memory lives on❤️❤️
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Ngochie : that's the name I grew up calling u. Great childhood memories. I remember how mum used to cook down in that kitchen outside the house. We all sat outside on the veranda leading to Bro Inno and Moses room. Weh life. Some days were tough but mum was always there making sure we ate and was safe and ready for the next day.

Is a short life; U gone too soon. Am out of words. Till we meet again bro.

Awantoh Derek
May 14, 2020
May 14, 2020
Man comme tu aimais m’appelé tu es partie si tôt mais je retiens de toi un guerrier un homme plein d’énergie avec toujours des idées ; et surtout qui étais une personne qui simplifiais tout avec un grand sens du partage; mais hélas j’ai pas eu la chance de te venir au Cameroun te rencontrer , mais nous étions proche comme des frères ✊✊vas en paix frère je sais que tu es au prêt de tes ascendants mon équipe et moi nous ne t’oublierons jamais . Rest In Peace bro !!!

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February 8, 2023
February 8, 2023
Your memory lingers on bro. Keep resting.
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May 14, 2020
Pa Ngo is a legend! Stories abound of how he selflessly volunteered to help, whenever and wherever he found himself. He was not shy in taking the lead. Alas this also meant going on ahead of his heartbroken mother, wife, children and siblings. Born in Bamenda, he was the third of four children. He was a happy child and was the life of the family. After completing his education, he moved to Yaounde and into business where he established himself as an expert in the field. His friendly nature earned him multiple friends around the world. He married his beautiful Bernice later on and the two have been working to build their family.  

At the prime of life God invited his son to be with Him forever. Even though Pa Ngo loved all of us, there was no way he was going to reject such an invitation. He lives on. Our brother, our son, our husband , our uncle, our Father, our inlaw, our friend,....our lawyer, our  police officer....thank you for the time you spent with us. 


We have our eyes fixed on Jesus so that someday we may experience the blessings of being with you  and the heavenly host forever.


We love you forever.
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May 30, 2020

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May 23, 2020
Alleluia  Derick is free.  
Jesus came and rescued him.Alleluia he is free  Praise the Lord. Jesus came down from above and wrapped him in his arms  of Love .Hallelujah  Derick is free. Praise the Lord. He is with the angels singing praises to the Lord. No more stress, no more sorrow, no more pain ,no more quarrels  no more  fights .Peace ,perfect peace. GLORY TO GOD. 
Jeremiah 31:3b "I have loved you with and everlasting Love and have drawn you with  loving kindness "
Thank you Jesus. 
Derick  the Lord love you too much. You confessed  Jesus as your personal Lord and saviour and was carried  home the next day. You are highly favored. Wonderful  GOD!
Ngochi Derick most loved and favored child of God, you were sentto do God's will in this world but the enemy knew about this great purpose for your life and decided to distract you. The Lord never gave up.He kept knocking and seeking to get your attention .and even came to ask for you in my dream "WHERE IS DERICK" I could not reply and He said "BEFORE I COME AGAIN DERICK SHOULD BE THERE"  I woke up and was so frightened. I called his eldest brother to come with  him.We tried hard to get Dericks attention  onto  God. But the battle was the Lord's and He is always  the winner. On May 4th I was informed of Dericks poor health i asked my prayer cell members that we pay for hisrapid recovery. During prayers the Lord spoke to me through sister Judith "This challenge met  Me before coming to you but I allowed it for a purpose"  I thought that the Lord allowed him to suffer pain and submit to him after recovery. I bought a new Bible which i intended to give him.Derick has never been sick.He had a serious accident once and God saved his life.
Favored child  of God l was just a path for you to enter the world  and played my part as caretaker the best I could.   I love you my son l have always loved you. 
Thank you Jesus  for demonstrating  your loving kindness to your son Ngochi Derick. 
 Peace perfect peace.
Shalom shalom shalom.

Tears in my heart.

May 19, 2020
My friend, my brother, my play mate and grinning partner, I have been running away from the reality of your passing away until this moment I have to write. Ngochi you broke my heart soooo badly bro, it's hard to believe you are no more, not after calling me, sending me airtime, wishing me well and before I knew it you were gone. It hurts my heart soo soo badly. 
    I remember our school days, I remember our atrocities around 2nd tap, I can't forget our yde movements, na Bambili road weh we Waka???? , chaii papa God my heart is broken but I know you have better plans for him up there . I confirm that the good don't stay long on earth. You where an angel on earth, you were sent for a mission and your mission was over so he took you back. Rest in peace sweet brother, plz watch over us from above and prepare a better place for us. I will miss you bro, with a heavy heart I say good night. Mama

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