t's 8AM at Tahoe Northshore and Don and I should be headed for 7-11 to get the paper. It's not nearly as much fun without you Buddy!
September 23, 1931- August 6, 2014
Donald Frederick Dorward, age 82, passed away peacefully in his Oakland, California residence on August 6, 2014.
Don was the son of Frederick and Gladys Dorward, and brother of JaneAnn Dorward Dow, all of who predeceased him. A native of San Francisco, Don grew up in Piedmont and graduated from Piedmont High School. He then entered the University of California, Berkeley where he was a member of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity and graduated with a Bachelors degree in business in 1955. Don served as a Corpsman in the United States Coast Guard during the Korean War.
Don spent the first seven years of his business career at Kaiser Aluminum and Chemical Corporation, where he rose to the position of Director of Advertising and Public Relations at age 30. He then founded Allen and Dorward, a San Francisco based advertising agency with his business partner Francis Allen. As President and CEO, Don built the company to be the largest independently owned advertising agency on the west coast.
Don Dorward served on many corporate boards including Charles Schwab, 24 Hour Fitness, and the Bay Area Sports Hall of Fame and was active throughout his life in many other professional and charitable organizations. He served as Chairman of the Young Presidents Organization and World Presidents Organization, as well as President of the Claremont Country Club and the San Francisco Fly Casting Club. He held leadership positions with a variety of advertising industry organizations including the American Association of Advertising Agencies and AMIN, an international organization of independent advertising agencies. In addition, he was a member of Spyglass Hill Country Club, the Outrigger Canoe Club, the St. Francis Yacht Club and The Bohemian Club. Don’s charity work included The U.C. Berkeley Foundation and the Shriners and for forty years Don hosted a charity golf tournament that benefited the Speech and Hearing Clinic at Children’s Hospital.
Don was an avid golfer and sportsman. A supporter of Cal Athletics and an avid fan of the 49ers and the Giants, he was a 49er season ticket holder from the early days of Kezar Stadium.
Don is survived by Nan White, his partner of fifteen years and his five children, Mary Anne Dorward (husband Rupert Webb), John, Steven (wife Toni), and Charles, Christopher (wife Holly). His son, Robert C. Dorward predeceased him. Don is also survived by five grandchildren, Sarah and Joshua Schenkkan and Bobby, Emily and Katheryn Dorward.
Nothing was more important to Don than his family and friends. His network was far reaching and the personal impact he had on the lives he touched was immeasurable.
At Don’s specific request, a small family memorial service has already taken place. The family will be hosting a gathering of friends to celebrate his life. Specific details for this gathering will be announced at a later date.
Should friends desire, memorial contributions may be sent to the Shriners Hospitals for Children, 2900 Rocky Point Dr., Tampa, Fl 33607
Or the Oak Tree Foundation at Claremont Country Club
ATTENTION:
Due to unforeseen circumstances the party celebrating Don’s life has been postponed. Please help spread this information.
Tributes
Leave a tributet's 8AM at Tahoe Northshore and Don and I should be headed for 7-11 to get the paper. It's not nearly as much fun without you Buddy!
Aloha, Elizabeth
Rex Allen
www.americaswingsagain.com
I had the pleasure of working at Allen & Dorward in the early eighties. Don provided a wonderful, intense and caring workplace. He also enjoyed hosting many high-spirited and fun events for his employees. One such gathering was an Allen & Dorward Christmas Party held at the Claremont Country Club. I wore my grandmother's mink jacket and as I stood at the bar saying my "goodbyes", the jacket caught Don's mother's eye. Gladys tried it on and wondered aloud if she could keep it. Everyone had a great chuckle over that!
Don was a delightful, generous man. I will remember him fondly. My prayers and warmest condolences go out to his loving family.
Kathleen Reynolds
Don was truly one of a kind. My mentor, confidant, counselor, and friend. He always made me feel better about myself, my life, and taught me to live each day to the max and without regret. He will be missed. He will always fill a part of my day with fond memories.
My heart aches for the loss of a legacy. Don Dorward will never be forgotten. He will live on through his children, grand children and with the memories he left us all. Words can't describe the feelings of loss. Big warm hugs to you all.
With love, admiration and tons of Aloha, Elizabeth Russell Jordan
Jim and I knew Don for 33 years. Christopher and our daughter, Erin, were the same age and played together when they were young. We attended church, enjoyed golf, YPO/WPO, and endless conversations and laughter with Don. He was one of a kind, there will never be another.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you,
Barbara Fetherston
I almost always found out that my Dad had come through any health scare or problem after the fact. When I would complain that I could have helped or been of comfort and support to him, he would say,
"I'm not a complainer or a quitter and I didn't want your help. Christ Mary Anne, really, it was nothing. Don't get all emotional on me. I didn't want to bother you with it. As you know I'd rather be out playing golf or on the river fishing than dealing with health crap."
I share this fact to comfort any of you who might not have known that he had been sick with cancer and getting his butt kicked in chemo in recent months and surgery two weeks ago. I didn't even know and I'm his only daughter.
So I know many people are grieving right now, not just me. I thought, in effort to comfort you all, I would share with you my final email exchange with my father just a few days before he died. The subject line was, "I read this and totally thought of you."
At the time I wrote it to my Dad, I didn't know that he would have a heart attack and die only a few days later. At the time I wrote it, I did not know that he not be around for one more piece of his famous barbecue chicken which had a sauce that he and I created together when I was a little girl, I did not know that he would not be around for one last glass of great wine from his amazing wine cellar, or one last "Final Final" of his beloved Irish Coffees.
"Hi Dad,
I read this today and totally thought of you.
Love and XOX
Mary Anne
"FRIENDS ON THE JOURNEY OF LIFE
At birth we boarded the train and met our parents, and we believe they will always travel on our side; however, at some station our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone. As time goes by, other people will board the train; and they will be significant i.e. our siblings, friends, children, and even the love of your life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum. Others will go so unnoticed; that we do not realize that they vacated their seats. This train ride will be full of joy, sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. Success consists of having a good relationship with all passengers requiring; that we give the best of ourselves.
The mystery to everyone is: We do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must live in the best way, love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are. It is important to do this because when the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.
I wish you a joyful journey on the train of life. Reap success and give lots of love. More importantly, thank God for the journey. Lastly, I thank you for being one of the passengers on my train."
My fathers response to this was:
Thanks- very nice!
Love,
Dad
So in the end, these were my last words to my father, Don Dorward, and his in return to me. I loved my father dearly, as I know all of you who knew him did.
I am deeply grateful to Nan White, who was his companion and love for his last fifteen years. When I saw my Dad last, he told me that he had waited his whole life for Nan and I know he flourished in her great company and from her amazing cooking. My father would have been dead a long time ago if it hadn't been for Nan.
So, in closing, I am grateful to my Dad for all the fun times and all that I also learned from him, as I know all of you are. I hope that wherever he has gone now, he is having a big party with my dear brother and his beloved son, Bob (affectionately known as Bobby D to many) and his mother Gladys (affectionately known to all as Glady.)
I hope you all will raise a "Final Final" glass of your favorite wine or cocktail to my father, Donald F Dorward and sit around for awhile telling your most favorite stories of him. He was a Giant of a man. No one will ever fill his shoes.
With Love and Gratitude to you all of you whom he loved,
Mary Anne Dorward
Ecuador
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t's 8AM at Tahoe Northshore and Don and I should be headed for 7-11 to get the paper. It's not nearly as much fun without you Buddy!
"Commadore Don"
My family and I have been going to The Northshore for 42 straight years and just returned from another wonderful Tahoe vacation. Every year we're at the Lake I remember fondly my friend Don who was always there with a ready smile and the offer to "come have a drink on his deck". I and others were always ready to participate and all the while Don made all of us feel welcome and like he was your best friend. Don was also in charge off the buoy field an important job at The Northshore since it was always a "loaves and fishes routine" with high demand and limited supply. Don always took care of his friends me included and a close in buoy was better and safer as we all began to age. Like a lot of us Don kept his woody at Sierra Boat and Dick Clarke and Pat Began were very fund of him as well. This year George Hill, Mike Ross, Jack Schumacher me and others remembered Don and all the good times we had. We all agree that Don in his 80+ years lived a full and robust life. I am glad to have been a part of it and we all miss our friend........!!!!!
Randy Leathers
MY BEST FRIEND
How do you say goodbye to your Best Friend? I first met Don through the introduction by Zook Todd at the Mission Ranch forty five years ago. It was the Sour Mash !! Over the next 45 years we shared golf at Monterey Peninsula, Corral de Tierra, Tehama, Spyglass, Claremont and The Bobby D. We shared Shing-A- Lu as partners at Claremont in our yellow rain slickers with vodka and wine and winning and losing. We shared our passion for the Giants and our long history of tailgates , wine and nibley mix and 49er games. We shared our friendship with Clint Eastwood and our stories and times with him. We shared politics and our concerns, if not distress, for the direction of our state and our nation. We shared the lives, aspirations, successes and trials of our children and grandchildren. We shared Tahoe and Northshore and golf, boating,"Wet Woodies"and barbeques and cocktails on the Deck. We shared fishing and the SFFCC, the fish plants, the traditions, the history DVD, the days and discussions on the porch because "fishing is about more than fish". Then there was always an Irish coffee and then "one more". We talked as Don was preparing to leave the hospital and he assured me " I'm not letting the Old Man in"! Don was more than a brother to me, he was my Pal .