Christmas at the Wagner's
Growing up, Christmas was a very special time. Our parents taught us the true meaning of Christmas, the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. But with two parents that were both very competetive and perfectionist, you can only imagine the time spent on decorating and ensuring their children had a big Christmas. The 4 of us would be so excited, Todd more than the rest of us. Our tree always had to be flocked. As a child that process seemed to take forever. We were glad when they invented the cans of spray snow, which later replaced the flocking process. Decorating was always so much fun, it was a time to reimenise about the memories of each ornament. They always went over the top and saved all year long for Christmas. Dad would work extra side jobs to ensure it would be big. They always hid the "special" presents and try to lead us to believe we had opened everything, only to surprise us with more. Christmas morning, we would wake up at 3 o'clock am and go and wake up mom and dad. Please, can we go open gifts now. They would ask for 30 more minutes of sleep. We would go back our room and repeat this process every 30 minutes until 5 o'clock am, when dad would finally get up. We never realized they were up until 2 o'clock am setting up the gifts! It was forbidden for anyone to go out to the living room and get a sneak peak of the tree and gifts. Dad wanted to capture that moment on camera. Although, I am pretty sure Todd and Jason snuck out there quite often. So the 4 of us would have to wait in my parents room while dad went out to the living room to set up the video camera and get the lighting just right. Dad never set the camera up the night before, and we would be stuck in the room in anticipation as he would eww and aww about all the presents under the tree. It would take another 30 minutes for him to set up the camera. It felt like hours as a child. Then, when dad was finally ready, we had to line up, youngest to oldest. I was always first! We would walk down the hallway and into the living room. Dad would be smiling behind the camera and would capture the moment. Mom was always sitting on the couch with her legs and arms crossed smiling. They made our Christmas' memories so special for years to come. Over the years, things changed quit a bit. My more recent memories of Christmas is the anticipation of my own children excited to drive to Pennsylvania on Dec. 26th every year. We would arrive to the greeting of Grandpa. He always had candles lit and all the candy dishes around the house were full. He would come down to the van and carry our luggage up. Kathy would cook us dinner. Then, we wait for my siblings to arrive. We would sit around in the same big living room and open our presents. Kathy became the photographer over the years. She was always prepared and we never had to wait 30 minutes for her to set up. I love you dad and thank you for making Christmas such a special time over all the years.