November 5, 2019
Don was best man at our wedding in 1972. Six months later he accompanied us on a ski trip to Zermatt where he convinced Ingried to try escargot. It turns out she loved them and we had Irish coffee and escargot every night thereafter at Elsie's bar. It was a bad snow year and some Swiss weren't fond of Americans. Don was scheduled to stay two weeks but left two days early due to inhospitable treatment by lift operators and waiters at the Butterfly hotel. We had better ski experiences in New England.
Don was nine years younger than me so our childhood development was out-of-sync. One common thread was our friendship with Suzie Stammer; she was our sister. Don and my life converged when our older daughters were born two weeks apart, our second daughters within two days. Our families interacted periodically during their childhood as we moved to California in 1976. We got together every three or four years either in California or Connecticut along with David and his family.
The three Sigovich brothers played soccer at Staples High School in Westport. Don's passion for soccer continued with his love of English "Football", especially the English Premier League and Arsenal. I was fortunate to spend ten days at home with Don between his first and second hospital stays; we watched many European matches as it was playoff time during this period.
Don introduced me to French wine when he brought two bottles of Chateau Haut-Brion to a Christmas dinner in the 70's. I don't know how much they cost, but I haven't had a first growth Bordeaux wine since that Christmas. He also introduced us to Tito's which was good since Ingried developed Celiac disease a few years later and she needs gluten-free liquor. We were fortunate to travel to Paris and Bordeaux with Don and Elizabeth where we shared our love of French cuisine and wine.
Don went through a rough period with his divorce, but was fortunate that he and Elizabeth found each other. We loved Elizabeth from our first meeting and always enjoy our time together. We are thankful for Elizabeth's love of Don and support of his may passions. We are thankful for Louise, Eliza and Sarahs friendship and love of Don. He was blessed to have them in his life. At least one, and generally two or three of them, were at Don's side from the day of his first stroke to his last breathe.
Don's love of art and passion for his work were unending. We always made it a priority to visit his studio during our trips to the East Coast. He was eager to discuss his projects, show us his reproductions and demonstrate his equipment. He was proud to show us the books that contained his reproductions, especially one of Ronald Lauder's art collection. I accompanied Don on two studio visits after his first stroke. He struggled a bit, printed several copies until completed to his satisfaction. He was tired but still the perfectionist! We didn't know it at the time, but these would be his last studio visits.
You really, really appreciate what you had when you lose it. This is certainly the case for me with regards Don. I had a great brother who taught me a lot about passion; passion for art, music, Croatia heritage and travel, wine, scrambled eggs, English football and much more. Ingried and I look forward to continue sharing these passions with Elizabeth, Louise, Eliza and Sarah for years to come. Don and I spent a fair amount of time together, especially in the last ten years, but it wasn't nearly enough. I will miss him dearly. RIP Don.
Don was nine years younger than me so our childhood development was out-of-sync. One common thread was our friendship with Suzie Stammer; she was our sister. Don and my life converged when our older daughters were born two weeks apart, our second daughters within two days. Our families interacted periodically during their childhood as we moved to California in 1976. We got together every three or four years either in California or Connecticut along with David and his family.
The three Sigovich brothers played soccer at Staples High School in Westport. Don's passion for soccer continued with his love of English "Football", especially the English Premier League and Arsenal. I was fortunate to spend ten days at home with Don between his first and second hospital stays; we watched many European matches as it was playoff time during this period.
Don introduced me to French wine when he brought two bottles of Chateau Haut-Brion to a Christmas dinner in the 70's. I don't know how much they cost, but I haven't had a first growth Bordeaux wine since that Christmas. He also introduced us to Tito's which was good since Ingried developed Celiac disease a few years later and she needs gluten-free liquor. We were fortunate to travel to Paris and Bordeaux with Don and Elizabeth where we shared our love of French cuisine and wine.
Don went through a rough period with his divorce, but was fortunate that he and Elizabeth found each other. We loved Elizabeth from our first meeting and always enjoy our time together. We are thankful for Elizabeth's love of Don and support of his may passions. We are thankful for Louise, Eliza and Sarahs friendship and love of Don. He was blessed to have them in his life. At least one, and generally two or three of them, were at Don's side from the day of his first stroke to his last breathe.
Don's love of art and passion for his work were unending. We always made it a priority to visit his studio during our trips to the East Coast. He was eager to discuss his projects, show us his reproductions and demonstrate his equipment. He was proud to show us the books that contained his reproductions, especially one of Ronald Lauder's art collection. I accompanied Don on two studio visits after his first stroke. He struggled a bit, printed several copies until completed to his satisfaction. He was tired but still the perfectionist! We didn't know it at the time, but these would be his last studio visits.
You really, really appreciate what you had when you lose it. This is certainly the case for me with regards Don. I had a great brother who taught me a lot about passion; passion for art, music, Croatia heritage and travel, wine, scrambled eggs, English football and much more. Ingried and I look forward to continue sharing these passions with Elizabeth, Louise, Eliza and Sarah for years to come. Don and I spent a fair amount of time together, especially in the last ten years, but it wasn't nearly enough. I will miss him dearly. RIP Don.