Don Kress was initiated into the Nu Chapter of Delta Tau Delta at Lafayette College on October 20, 1955. In Easton, Pennsylvania he found a group of men he would call brothers for the rest of his life. In his first year as a Delt he chaired the chapter's highly successful 50th anniversary reunion weekend. He then served as house manager, vice president, and a delegate to the 1956 Karnea, Delt's bi-annual convention.
Following graduation in 1958, Don joined the U.S. Army and was stationed at Fort Harrison in Indianapolis Indiana which is also where the Fraternity's national office was. He called Al Sheriff, Delt's Executive Vice President, who invited him for a round of golf. Al suggested that Don reinvigorate the New York City alumni club which he did upon his return from the Army. He was elected Eastern Division president in 1967 which included a position on the Arch Chapter, Delt's international governing board. During his term the Karnea was held in his hometown, New York City. Don served as the Karnea Chairman for the 1968 Karnea—a Karnea with deep historical significance.
Don again joined the Arch Chapter in 1974 when he was elected international treasurer at the Tan-Tar-A Karnea in Missouri. Don served two terms as international treasurer. He followed his service as treasurer with four more years as international second vice-president, two as international vice-president and then was elected the 37th international president at the 1984 Karnea in Columbus, Ohio. He believed that the best way he could be president would be by truly understanding the men he was serving and the challenges they were facing. During his term, he promised to visit each and every one of 120 chapters personally—a commitment he fulfilled while making 175 visits to chapters and conferences during his two years in office.
Following his service on the Arch Chapter, Don remained in service to the Fraternity. He served as the chapter advisor for the Nu Chapter until it closed shortly thereafter. He then campaigned consistently to restore the chapter which regained its charter in 2016. Throughout the years, Don has served as mentor or house corporation officer for various other chapters, including Beta Lambda Chapter at Lehigh University, Rho Chapter at Stevens Institute of Technology and Delta Delta Chapter at the University of Tennessee.
For the last 15 years Don has served as one of the three members of the Distinguished Service Chapter Committee, an appointment earned only by the very few who, during many consecutive decades of beyond-the-call of service to the Fraternity, more than distinguished themselves as leaders, loyal and trusted fraternal brothers, and gentlemen.
Concurrent to his Fraternity service Don was a stalwart of the Delta Tau Delta Educational Foundation. Don began his service to the Foundation in 1981 by forming the Investment Committee - a team he would be part of for the following 40 years. Don used his acumen and training as a securities analyst to guide the growth of the Delta Tau Delta Educational Foundation which now has more than $24 million in assets. He also served on the Foundation Board and remained involved until 2014, when he became a Life Director. Despite what many would characterize as being retired from the board, he continued his active involvement and service to the foundation.
Don was both a professional icon, accomplished in his chosen field and sought after for his financial expertise, and a man who could immediately connect with young Delts in a way that was unassuming, and authentic. He could seamlessly transition from helping the Fraternity plan its new Foundation, or adjust its investment strategy, to helping a young undergraduate president figure out a thorny problem back at his chapter.
Often, Don would step away from a session to take an important call from a client, or equally likely, to huddle with a Delt or a small group of Delts, giving counsel on anything from matters affecting the fraternity, to personal questions, to career counseling. He helped many Delts throughout the years in each of these areas.
Don’s profound belief in the importance of being present prompted a Sunday evening trip from central New Jersey to Lafayette College in Easton, Pennsylvania to meet with the undergraduate chapter. He attended the entire chapter meeting, asked questions, listened closely, shared his experiences, and told the men how proud he was of them and the chapter. He then departed for Connecticut. This was April 2019 and at 83 years of age, Don's last in-person Delt meeting. A fitting capstone to his lifelong belief in the value of fraternity.
Always the humble servant Don was best known for his zest for life. Whether it was taking a zip line across a gorge or driving down the highway, life with Don was always an adventure.