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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Donna Gayle Cucunato - wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend - born on September 9, 1941 and passed away on October 22, 2011, surrounded by her family after a brave battle with ovarian cancer.  In awe and gratitude, we will love and remember her forever.

The memorial service for Donna will be Saturday, November 12, at 10:00am at the Fish Interfaith Center at Chapman University. A reception will follow immediately outside in the Attallah Piazza.  Parking is available in the Orange Lot accessed via University Drive or the Lastinger Structure located off Walnut between Glassell and Center.  Please note no parking permit is required on this day.  

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Donna's memory to the Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center for Ovarian Cancer Research at mskcc.convio.net (go to Ways to Give/Donate Now/Ovarian Cancer) and/or The Cucunato Movement Education Scholarship Fund at Chapman University.  For The Cucunato Scholarship Fund please contact Pattie Sobczak at 714.532.7702, pdillon@chapman.edu or send by mail to Pattie Sobczak, DOD, College of Educational Studies, One University Drive, Orange, CA, 92866.

  

 

 

September 11, 2023
September 11, 2023
Happy Birthday, Donna. It has been 12 years since you passed and were welcomed into Heaven. What a wonderful, beautiful presence you have always been in my life. You have always been special to me......so many wonderful memories. You continue to inspire me, dear friend. Much Love to your family.
September 9, 2023
September 9, 2023
A life well lived but you left us too soon. We Miss you Donna
September 9, 2023
September 9, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday Mrs Cucunato!
Your family continues to grow and make you proud. Beautiful legacy and testament to your love of family❤️
October 23, 2022
October 23, 2022
Donna, my dear friend….you remain in my heart always as a very special friend. Someday we will meet again. In the meantime, I have wonderful memories of our friendship and our times together.
September 9, 2022
September 9, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday Mrs Cucunato! You are missed & loved more than ever. As your family here grows, so too does your beautiful legacy. God bless you.
September 9, 2021
September 9, 2021
Happy Birthday, Donna. It seems that it was just the other day when we met in a class at Goldenwest College. We were young mothers then. Can it be possible that this many years have passed by since then!! I continue to miss you and think of you frequently. I will always treasure the times we had together. You touched my life and continue to do so. Happy Birthday in Heaven, dear friend.
September 9, 2021
September 9, 2021
On this milestone birthday year, your love lives on and your legacy grows with the birth of your first great granddaughter. May she always live by your example of grace, share your faith in God that brings peace, and dance with the same joy you brought to so many. Happy 80th Birthday Mrs Cucunato! You are loved and missed beyond measure.
September 9, 2020
September 9, 2020
Happy Birthday, dear friend. I know God’s angels must be celebrating you today, with thankfulness, that they have your beautiful spirit there with them. I miss you, your smile, your wisdom, your positive, giving spirit and the special friendship we shared. Thank you for our friendship and for having blessed my life.
September 9, 2020
September 9, 2020
Often think of the treasure that was Donna Cucunato. She saw things in people when we were in doubt about ourselves. She was the most positive, gracious person I’ve ever known—beautiful inside and out.
September 9, 2020
September 9, 2020
Happy Birthday Mrs Cucunato! This year has been particularly strange with the global pandemic - no doubt you’d be helping others, staying optimistic, and tending to your garden of life with love and light. Your legacy is alive and well in your amazing girls.
September 9, 2019
September 9, 2019
Happy Heavenly Birthday Mrs Cucunato! Your family was enveloped with your warm sunlight, beauty, & love as you watched over them in Italy this summer. I continue to be grateful with all my heart for my friendship with Carrie - she carries you with her wherever she goes & I know you would be so proud.
July 26, 2019
July 26, 2019
I just learned of your passing and I'm so very sad. My daughter and granddaughter was trying to help me remember the positions of ballet, in which Mrs. Cucunato taught me. As a little girl, I grew up on Cherry Street in Westminister, CA, and twice a week I would walk around the corner to dance class in Mrs. Cucunato's backyard on her patio. Such fond memories. She was so elegant and beautiful! She taught us girls, how to conduct ourselves in a lady-like manner. She would have a treasure box full of goodies that if we paid attention, she'd let us get one toy. She even had us perform for our family and friends in her backyard, on the patio for our recital. Christa and I were in the same class at Schmidt Elementary, and she was so petite and beautiful, like her mother. I remember Christa being a very talented dancer too!

Thank you for helping in molding me at such a young age (1972-1975), and giving me life-long advice, through your dance classes!!  Your memory will forever live on in my mind!
October 22, 2018
October 22, 2018
I think of you often and am so grateful for the friendship we had. You embodied everything good. Your wisdom, grace, faith and creativity touched me deeply. Love to you, my friend.
September 12, 2018
September 12, 2018
You loved and are beloved - thinking of you on your 77th Birthday! Just enjoyed a weekend w/Carrie in Park City & continue to be grateful to you for raising such a beautiful daughter & friend.
September 9, 2018
September 9, 2018
Think of Donna often and how wonderful and supportive she was of me as a colleague and friend. She was a jewel in every respect.
October 23, 2017
October 23, 2017
Dear Friend, I think of you often and will always cherish the memories of our friendship. It is one that endures forever. I will see you someday in Heaven.
October 22, 2017
October 22, 2017
Carrie's mom, or Mrs. Cucunato, to me, was a beautiful, graceful and kind woman. Both of her daughters, Carrie and Krista, are just like her. You did a good job Mrs. Cucunato and of course, Mr. Cucunato - you were a large part of that as well. You are missed Mrs. Cucunato.
September 14, 2017
September 14, 2017
Donna was a blessing, a woman of grace and beauty. I saw her picture yesterday and was reminded again of how much I miss her and how much she blessed my life. Chuck, Carrie and Christa...I send my love to you all. 
I look forward to seeing Donna again in heaven.
September 9, 2017
September 9, 2017
Happy Birthday in heaven Mrs Cucunato! You are missed more than you can imagine. Your life here with us still inspires and your appreciation of God's goodness in nature and in people lives on thru Carrie - she sure has a great eye for style and garden design and all things naturally beautiful. Just like all your girls. And she is a true & loyal person - I have you & Mr C to thank for raising my amazing friend. I still smile every time I see a butterfly because of you & I always will. xoxo Love Pam
March 13, 2017
March 13, 2017
I was in Donna's dance classes and department at Chapman College (It wasn't yet Chapman University yet) from 1978 - 1980 and then again about 1983-1984. Donna's religious faith was a shining example that I could be a Christian and dance, even though I was very conflicted about it at the time. Her level of professionalism and the highest of standards pushed us to be as good as we could. Even though she was much older than her students, here stamina and focus at the time were greater than mine. All told, I now have something like 8 or more years of college. Despite all the professors I've had, Donna still stands out on the top of my list as the best of the best. I've never stopped thinking about her and being thankful for having known her.

I was just re-watching the movie musical Cinderella with Leslie Ann Warren and I was remembering that Donna was in some movie musicals so I looked her up thinking I might find an IMDB listing for her, but then I found this memorial site. It is very sad to hear that she has past, but to see her so memorialized by those she touched is very heart warming.
October 23, 2016
October 23, 2016
Donna....5 years since your passing and the "footprint" you left behind still lives on. Continuing to inspire those fortunate enough to have been touched by you. We all miss you dearly.
October 22, 2016
October 22, 2016
Dancing at Chapman continues to be amazing and Donna made it so! But never the same without this beautiful soul.....
October 22, 2016
October 22, 2016
You are, & always will be, forever in our hearts... each dance, every butterfly, each curious student, your beauty in both daughters and granddaughters who carry your generosity, & your example of faith and everlasting love with Chuck...you continue to make a difference & I am grateful to you
October 22, 2015
October 22, 2015
I cannot believe it has been four years already. Sadly, life goes on, just not as well as when you were here. Miss you!
September 10, 2015
September 10, 2015
Happy birthday, dear friend. I know your light continues to shine in many peoples lives, including mine. I thank God for you, and that you were part of my life.
September 9, 2015
September 9, 2015
Happy Birthday in Heaven, Mrs. Cucunato! I think of you so often - what a beautiful life, a blessed life. You influenced so many of us without ever knowing how much. Your spirit is felt whenever I'm with Carrie... you and Mr. Cucunato raised your girls with grace, integrity, and true beauty. Your legacy carries on forever in them and I'm forever grateful for our friendship. With love and prayers always...
September 9, 2015
September 9, 2015
Donna . . . I think of you so often. Even in your passing, I continue to be inspired by the wonderful, caring, amazing individual that you were. You left this world much too early, but your spirit, inspiration & kindness continues to live on, because you made an impact & difference in all those lives you touched. You are deeply missed.
September 9, 2015
September 9, 2015
Happy Birthday, Doona. Think of you often and miss you always.
September 9, 2015
September 9, 2015
When I realize I am overwhelmed and need a little grace in my life, I often think of Donna - such a loving and gracious human being. I miss her but she left wonderful memories for so many of us.
September 14, 2014
September 14, 2014
Chuck, Carrie & Christa,
I can't believe it's almost been 3 years. I think of Donna often and the wonderful role model she was to so many. Her "heart" lives on, guiding so many of us on being a better Mom, Grandma, Wife, Friend and Neighbor. She was a truly exceptional person. We miss her dearly & each of us are better persons for having known her.
September 13, 2014
September 13, 2014
I love you so much and miss you every single day mom. It's still so hard to believe you're gone. You were taken much too early and our family will never be the same. I am so grateful to somehow feel your presence and spirit all around me each and every day... Happy birthday week in heaven.
September 9, 2014
September 9, 2014
Donna......a wonderful friend, an inspiration. I continue to think of you often and treasure the memories of you and our friendship.
September 9, 2014
September 9, 2014
Donna was for me a mentor and an friend, someone who generously gave of her time to help me in taking over a class she had once taught. Her generosity was demonstrated in other ways as well. One spring, she invited faculty from Chapman over to her house for a get together. She set us free in her garden, cutting flowers and arranging them in the beautiful vases she had. This was a quintessential moment--a real illustration of the camaraderie she helped to nurture among us all.
September 9, 2014
September 9, 2014
The world became an even better place 73 years ago today when this beautiful person was born and shared her love and numerous gifts with all of us. She is deeply missed. Mr Cucunato and Carrie and Christa are honoring her legacy (literally in her garden) and spiritually by their grace and faith every day in the way they live fully and genuinely. Happy Bday in heaven Mrs Cucunato
December 23, 2013
December 23, 2013
Cara zia, ho appena ricordato i giorni trascorsi con te e la tua splendida famiglia durante il nostro viaggio di nozze. Momenti indimenticabili, impressi per sempre nel nostro cuore. Grazie...we love you, Alessandro e Maria Antonietta
October 23, 2013
October 23, 2013
Cara Donna, I was talking about you with a colleague on Sunday- while participating in The Walk To Defeat ALS and in support of a producer/friend who has this disease. It seems only fitting to have been doing something of service on the 2nd anniversary of your transition. Surely that was you dropping by to say hello. Penso a te e alla tua famiglia.
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
Donna, your light continues to shine in my life. You were such a special woman and friend.
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
I will be at Chapman's "American Celebration" gala in a few weeks, & I'll be thinking of your beautiful, creative mom/wife/grandma the entire time! She is truly missed, but never forgotten. Keeping all of you in prayer always.
October 22, 2013
October 22, 2013
Hi Donna. It's been already 2 years since you flew up to the heaven. Every time I see butterflies, I think of you and say "hi, Donna", and I feel your smile. I miss you, and I love you.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Thank you friends for your kind thoughts and words about my mom. We miss her so much every single day... she was the light of our lives.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Mrs Cucunato lived life with such passion & grace. She continues to inspire all who love & miss her so much. Remembering her gift to this world on her birthday & sending my love to all the Cucunatos
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Tanti Auguri in ritardo Donna = Happy Belated Birthday! Just a week ago, something reminded me of my dance days at Chapman. I'm sure it was you dropping by to say hello. Grazie di cuore! Sending good thoughts to Chuck, Carrie and Christa.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Donna, remembering you on your Birthday. I'm dancing with the Palm Springs Follies now. I always forget you're a Virgo but I should have known as I'm a Taurus. We both love to garden. Best wishes and love to all.
September 9, 2013
September 9, 2013
Happy Birthday, dear friend. I miss you and think of you so often. You continue to be a bright light in my life. Blessings to Chuck, Carrie and Christa.
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
Donna, I have been thinking of your big smile everyday this past year. I feel you still encourage me from up there. I love you, Donna !!
October 23, 2012
October 23, 2012
I celebrate the day I met Donna. We were young Moms going to Goldenwest College. She touched my life. I treasure the memories of our times together. I think of her frequently and will always miss her.
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September 11, 2023
September 11, 2023
Happy Birthday, Donna. It has been 12 years since you passed and were welcomed into Heaven. What a wonderful, beautiful presence you have always been in my life. You have always been special to me......so many wonderful memories. You continue to inspire me, dear friend. Much Love to your family.
September 9, 2023
September 9, 2023
A life well lived but you left us too soon. We Miss you Donna
Recent stories

The Most Graceful Person I Ever Knew

September 6, 2016

I fondly remember this trip to Northern California with a very small group of determined dancers.  We visited schools and community centers and spread the word about Chapman's dance program.  I was one of two guys and hardly a dancer at all.  I had aspirations of being a singer then but Donna found a use for me anyway and I did my best to learn the moves and keep up.  I retrospect, I was pathetic, but she as patient and supportive.  Donna taught me the importance of being professional and giving it your all -- even when your all ain't all you'd like it to be.  We made it through that January trip to San Francisco and back somehow.  I'll never forget how she drove that van, with all of us in it down Lombard street.  My happiest moments at Chapman!
-- David Oliveras 

My Memories of Donna

December 29, 2011

I met Donna and Chuck about 3 years ago through their daughter I dated. I still remember the first time I met them as if it were yesterday. They immediately treated me as if I were part of the family, which by the way meant I was not full at the dinner table till they felt I was full. The meals that Donna and Chuck prepared were something I looked forward to more than they will ever know. I had the opportunity to spend some of the holidays with them over the past few years, and on those days it was ping pong with Donna and Bocci ball with Chuck. Shorty after meeting them, they realized I am pretty handy at fixing things around the house, and I was able to repay them for all the great food and company they shared with me. I will never forget the big smile on Donna's face when I would show up at the house with the home made organic chocolate chip cookies, she really did light up the house.

I have done work for lots of people over the years, but none will ever stand out like Chuck and Donna. When people hire you to do work on their house, they sometimes micromanage you to the point of regreting you took the job. I can honestly say that this special couple treated me exceptionally well and with so much respect, that I would look forward to helping them and fixing things for them. I probably wished on more than one occasion that something would break at their house just before dinner so I could sit with them at the dinner table.

I was at the Cucunato's earlier today doing some work for Chuck. Normally Donna and Chuck would be out gardening together, but today it was Chuck as I drove up to the house. I know things will never be the same for the family and many others that Donna touched, but the memories of her will never pass. God only knows why Donna was taken so soon from Chuck and the rest of the family.

 Donna, thank you for always treating me as if I were part of your family, I will never forget it.  

Henry Canales

 

    

November 8, 2011

Dear Christa,

How extraordinary and lucky is our freindship? All of our friends that grew up together since High School has always loved and adored you, and your Mother.

She was so beautiful, and so well respected. Her positive attitude, her passion for dance, and her example of a great mother has been past down to both you and Carrie. I am so poud to have you in my life and see how Amazing the product of your parents is in you, and now in your daughters. You are definatly an extention of who she was and your family makes this world a better place.

I know your Mother and mine are looking down on us with a huge smile knowing that we will go on and continue to make them proud of us with our choices in life. We love our moms so much and we will all be together again some day...

DONNA.... God Bless You for being the person you were. You will be missed...

Clark Romo and Ed Romo

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