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The sunshine dimmed April 23 as the world lost one of its shining lights. Donna Marie Weaver, a longtime Bay Area real estate professional, succumbed to her three-year fight with a rare form of breast cancer and passed away peacefully in her home surrounded by family. She was 42.

She is survived by her dedicated husband of 21 years, Johnie Allen Weaver; brother John McCreadie of Auburn, Calif; sister Theresa Snyder of Modesto, Calif; and nephews and nieces, including her latest niece and namesake – Chloe Donnamarie Weaver – who was born March 24.

Family and friends will forever remember Donna for her positive spirit that was always accompanied with a luminescent smile; her desire to always put others ahead of herself; and her sensitive honesty and sensible, well-heeled advice that others always sought from her. She was a trusted realtor who specialized in escrow management, respected by colleagues and clients alike.

In the words of one friend: “You taught us all a lot about love, life and friendship. You always kept it real . . . You were one of a kind!”

Donna Marie McCreadie was born Oct. 7, 1969 at Eden Medical Center in Castro Valley and grew up in Hayward. She graduated from Mt. Eden High School in 1987. Her parents – James and Mary McCreadie  – preceded her in death. She always had a special place in her heart for dogs, and is survived by her beloved American Eskimo, Jada.

While contributions to organizations to help combat breast cancer are always appreciated, Donna requested remembrance contributions be made to the Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (SPCA). If you are so inspired, contributions can be made by clicking here.

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January 1, 2013
January 1, 2013
Our first Christmas without you, Donna, has been incomprehensible. While the halls were all decked, they seemed empty without your smile lighting up the room, without your laughter trailing down the hall and without your clever quips to warm our souls. You will forever be our missing gift during the holidays. We all miss you so very much.
December 30, 2012
December 30, 2012
Johnie called me today to inform me of your passing, and I am so very sad. You fought a strong and solid battle not sure what the final day would be. I remember when we met to talk of Jada and shared so much in common, it was crazy. I too got diagnosed and reached out to you. You were there for me with words of wisdom. I will never forget your friendship and warm heart. Thank you Love
December 15, 2012
December 15, 2012
Donna, It is my first birthday with out you here. You know i am not one to like my birthday. I am so greatfull for Mike and Troy who took the time to make it such a great day but once I am by myself It is hard to stop crying for you. I miss you so much..Wish you were here!!! Knowing you would want me to keep living life to the fullest is all that keeps me going. Love you!
October 31, 2012
October 31, 2012
Donna, today I really miss you. There are so many things I need to talk to you about but I can't. How I wish you were here. Miss you so much.
October 8, 2012
October 8, 2012
Happy Birthday Donna, Hope you have a good time up there with Aunt May & Uncle Jim. Love to you all  your big cuz Annette <3 xxxxxxxx
October 8, 2012
October 8, 2012
Happy Birthday Donna forever in my thoughts

Love Moira xx
October 7, 2012
October 7, 2012
Happy Birthday to my 'lil sister. You are deeply missed just a little more on this memorable day. I still recall Dad waking Theresa and I 43 years ago with the news we had a baby sister. Little did we know at the time you were the best thing ever for our family. Happy Birthday, DC. I love you so very much.
October 7, 2012
October 7, 2012
43 years ago today at 6:35 AM my gorgeous wife Donna was born. Thanks to James and Mary for bringing this wonderful person into the world. Her love and companionship was a gift that I will cherish forever. Her kind ways and beautiful smile always brightened my days through the years. Donna, I would give anything to have you back. Love you!
October 7, 2012
October 7, 2012
So many times you are in my mind...Today, all day, I kept thinking of your mischievious smile and contagious giggles...You will live on in the minds and hearts of all you touched with your sweetness, honesty and wisdom. Love you, my sweet girl.
August 28, 2012
August 28, 2012
Was thinking of you today...they are saying we will have blue moons this week...I know I will be able to see your smiling face among the stars
August 24, 2012
August 24, 2012
Starting four months ago today, every day and night has been a struggle! There hasn't been a minute that you haven't been on mind! I am so lost without you my DEAR SWEET FRIEND! I am so sad I don't know what to do at times! You were the BEST FRIEND & you sister in law anyone could have! I MISS & LOVE you so VERY MUCH! My heart hurts so much that its taken this long to come here! LOVE YOU!!
August 5, 2012
August 5, 2012
Love love lover you! I will miss you forever and always <3
August 5, 2012
August 5, 2012
Aunt Donna, Still thinking about you everyday, how could I not? You were and still ARE my number one role model. I can still hear your laugh in my head, one of the best things about you was your laugh. You had so much insight in life I always admired how you knew everything and anything about life, it amazes me still. If I grow up being half the woman you were I will consider myself lucky!
August 3, 2012
August 3, 2012
A friend, teacher, neighbor, a beautiful and true person. You were an inspirational friend.I admired the strength and positive attitude you modeled. I will forever be grateful for our friendship and life lessons you taught me and my family. Amazing...is all I can say. I feel grateful that we were friends and I miss you terribly.
July 12, 2012
July 12, 2012
Donna we only met for a short time,but we always will remember a lovely, happy,caring young,lady,who made us feel a very special Aunt and Uncle in our thoughts
                    Norma and Robert
June 26, 2012
June 26, 2012
Aunt Donna, you were one of the most important people in my life, and the best aunt anyone could hope for. I will miss your wisdom, your smile, your laugh, and your big, warm hugs that made me feel like everything in life was perfect, even if for only that small second. I always knew that I could turn to you for anything, and I often did. You helped shape who I am today. Love you forever!!
June 20, 2012
June 20, 2012
I have come to this site time and time again and every time I try and write something I can't see through my tears. How can you express in less than 400 characters how much you meant to me, how much I appreciated you & how amazing you were. I thought I had more time to talk to you, to find out your favorite bands,your favorite colors. You were my "go to" girl and I will miss you forever!!
June 11, 2012
June 11, 2012
My friend you have touched so many people in this world with your kindness and that beautiful smile i will miss your visits to the salon and all we shared talking about everything you were a joy im fortunate to have you in my life and Johnie this was totally a beautiful tribute of your best friend and wife you both are amazing.
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
Candle lit by Joan Alvarez on June 7th 2012

Donna, Some people give hugs, Some people give help. You gave your all. Your kindness touched my heart. You will be missed Donna.
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
(5) A friend, a confidant, a child, a girl, a woman of substance, an intellectual, sarcastic, amazing and deep, thought-provoking, loving, wonderful friend. I know how much you always loved your sweet Mom and your funny, spirited, accented Dad!  Rest in peace my sweet friend and be reunited with your family and may the universe be so kind to us that our souls shall meet again.
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
(4) girl I spent so many nights giggling over who-knows-what with!  Now that you've passed from this realm of reality, I'll never know what that giggling was about because you were always "my memory" keeper and I was always amazed by your ability to recapture time in a rapturing way. But here's what I will remember and keep in my heart forever...  what you are to me.
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
(3) and I know that is what our friendship was about. The spoken and the unspoken could exist together in harmony. Though, OK, let's face it, there wasn't much that was left unspoken by you.  You always knew how to love with abandon and provoke the same way.  Damn you for leaving us, we all miss you so much.  Donna Marie McCreadie Weaver, my childhood friend,
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
(2) middle and the kind, tender love that you brought to the world. You always knew the right answer and, shit, the right frickin' question, too.  Damn you for that!  Love you for that!  I'm sorry I couldn't write this to you in a letter or tell you this while you were still here, while you were alive, but I know that you know, in your infinite wisdom, that I wanted to say it
June 7, 2012
June 7, 2012
(1) Donna,
What can I say? I thought it would last forever and that you would always be here.  I mean really here, physically, for me and the collective us that loved you so much.  You were always the rock, the one who was on solid ground and didn't second guess anything, though we were always on to your soft, squishy
June 5, 2012
June 5, 2012
Hi Donna, your memorial is beautiful. Filled with so much love. Johnie, you've honored your wife with so much love, pride, spirit, and integrity. I wish you well, knowing the road is going to be long, an the void you feel will remain deep, until your memory starts to fade. Always remember, life is about love and being loved, you were loved. True love has a sustaining power. Take care!
June 5, 2012
June 5, 2012
John, thank you for sharing this beautiful memorial site with me of your beautiful beloved wife Donna who will live on with you forever in your heart. My sincere condolences my friend. You will be our prayers that God continually gives you strength and courage one day at a time, one step at a time. Love and prayers, Lesa and family.
May 26, 2012
May 26, 2012
"My sorrow is deep for my cousin I did not meet.
I have asked Archangel Raphael up above to care for Donna and give
her my love".
May 22, 2012
May 22, 2012
Hello everyone we will be having a celebration of Donna's life please visit her facebook page to see details please do not leave messages here......I see your smile everyday Donna and it brings a smile to my face...we miss you terribly for so many reasons, you taught so much to so many in the time you were with us
May 22, 2012
May 22, 2012
Donna I'm so glad we met. You were an amazing women and I'm so glad to call you my friend. I will miss you dearly. Seems like yesterday we were both preparing for our weddings. I love you and miss you my friend.
May 22, 2012
May 22, 2012
Although many miles apart, you were always in my heart. Our brief encounter many years ago left a lasting impression of the wonderful person you were. Love always . Your cousin from Scotland Annette
May 22, 2012
May 22, 2012
Johnie,

My wife and I are in tears watching this beautiful tribute to your wife! If there is anything we can do for you please let us know. You and all of your family will be in our prayers!
May 19, 2012
May 19, 2012
My dearest Donna,

There are no words to express that you are not here any more. You are the love of my life, You are the person who watched my back always. You are my confidente and you are my rock and you are my shoulder to stand on. You are with my always.
May 18, 2012
May 18, 2012
There are only two words to describe Donna...THE BEST.... she was the Best friend anyone could have ever dreamed of, the Best confidant, she always gave the Best advice, she loved her husband the BEST, she was simply the BEST at everything she did!
May 13, 2012
May 13, 2012
Donna, I wish Heaven had a phone. So I could hear your voice again. I thought of you today, but that's nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. All I have are memories and a picture. Your memory is a keepsake from which I'll never part. God has you in his arms, All of those who knew you have you in their hearts.
May 13, 2012
May 13, 2012
I was lucky to have you as my sister. Our relationship was special and I would not have traded it for anything. You were always there for me with sound advice, a wicked sense of humor, and most of all, unconditional love. I will miss our countless hours talking about everything and nothing, mainly about my (our) children. I will miss you more than words can express. Love, love, lover you!
May 12, 2012
May 12, 2012
My friend, we shared very precious moments that will always be in my heart and memories. You were far more advanced than many of us on this earth. You were a gift to us all. Your foresight - astonishing, your love - rewarding, your advice - invaluable, your laughter - contagious, having you in my life-priceless. I'll miss you more than words can say. Love you!
May 12, 2012
May 12, 2012
Donna, you will truly be missed. We will always remember your kind ways and larger than life smile. The love that you and Johnie shared is one of a kind and will never be forgotten. I remember the conversations we had about the world and politics and your unique perspective on life, a perspective that was always thought provoking. Thank you for the 26 years you were a part of our family.
May 5, 2012
May 5, 2012
Donna, Love of my Life! You were my whole world and I am lost without you by my side. The last 26 years of my life have been astonishing because I had you to share them with me. You were the most kind, understanding, selfless and loving woman a man could ever hope for; I could not ask for a better partner in life. I will forever love and miss you all the days of my life.
May 5, 2012
May 5, 2012
Donna, You amazed me daily with your thoughtfulness, your caring and your tireless love. You made me proud to be your husband every day. I am so greatful I had you in my life. Love you.
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April 23
Missing you my beautiful friend! Twelve years of missing our chats and your wonderful laugh! ❤️
October 7, 2023
October 7, 2023
Happy Birthday Donna!! If you were still here Carl, Mathew , Jamie and I would be heading to your house to celebrate you! Instead, I will go thru the memory box you left me and relish in the memories we shared. I miss you so much! Love, love, lover you!! tc
April 23, 2023
April 23, 2023
11 years and not a day goes by that I don’t wish I could talk to you and see you! Your friendship was such a blessing in my life. Wishing you were here to watch Jordan grow (and your wisdom to get me through these teenage years ). Love and miss you beyond measure
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Missing you.....

April 24, 2013

It doesn't seem like it has been a year since you left this world to go to a better place.  If I didn't truly believe that I was going to see you again this would be so much harder.  The hardest part of you not being here is knowing how much pain Johnie is in.  You were and are his world.  You touched so many lives in such a deep way that sometimes we get lost in the chasm left behind by your passing. I love and miss you and look forward to the day we can chat and ponder others...

Picture in my Tool Box

February 16, 2013

This picture was taken at a VIP real estate meeting in May 1990. It was sent to Donna as a postcard in the mail. I loved it from the moment it came in the mail. I was so proud of her. I took it to work and kept it in my tool box ever since. It was torn and scratched after 23 years so I had to photo shop it up so it looks presentable.

August 5, 2012

I remeber she was having trouble walking this day, she had her cane with her I believe, and she still came out to see me! Love her for that!

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