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This memorial website has been created to give Helga's friends an opportunity to record their memories of her and the stories that she shared with them. Please feel free to add yours.

Helga Smith (nee Reinhardt) was part of a generation that had a determination, resilience and character that we rarely see any more.

Born in Niederpoyritz, just outside Dresden in eastern Germany to an English mother and German father. Her sisters were Erica, Sonja and Wilma. She also had a brother who died in childhood. Wife of Ronnie Smith and mother of Andy, Billy and Anthony. She is survived by her 3 sons, 4 granddaughters, 6 grandsons and 2 great grandchildren.

In 1947 Helga moved to England to marry Ronnie Smith. As a married couple, they settled in his home town of Stockton-on-Tees. Subsequently, the couple were blessed with 2 sons, Andrew and William. Sadly, in 1963 Ronnie died and Helga became a single parent.

In 1976, Helga became one of Jehovah's Witnesses. She served faithfully In Stockton Congregation for 42 years.

Helga had an indomitable spirit. When she felt something needed doing, she did it – regardless of health or age. Despite numerous requests to move into sheltered housing or, later on, a care home, she would not be moved. Her desire was to remain at home with her trees, the birds and squirrel in the garden and her cat, until she died. Andy and Anthony are very grateful to Billy for bringing her shopping on a daily basis, allowing her to fulfil her wish. On Saturday 29th December, she was found to have passed away at home, exactly where she would have wanted.

Her sons were, obviously, saddened by her death. Shortly afterwards, Andy, despite not sharing his mother’s beliefs, wrote to Anthony, “I hope her faith supported her ‘til the end.” Well, it absolutely did. Death held no fear or dread for Helga. She knew that Jesus described death as a sleep. Just as Martha said to Jesus about her brother Lazarus, “I know he will rise in the resurrection on the last day,” Helga was absolutely confident that she would awaken in paradise on Earth. Like the Apostle Paul, she could say, “Death, where is your victory? Death, where is your sting?” She can now rest in peace with her future reward secure.

December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
Its been 5 years since Omi went to sleep. Every year, when the anniversary comes around, I find myself on this website reading through all of the wonderful memories people have left about my wonderfully mad grandma.

I wish I could tell her that we live in Germany now, and how her great grandchildren, who she would've loved, speak German.

I miss her so much. Her random collection of stuffed teddies and animals sitting neatly on her sofa. Her cabinet which proudly displayed pictures of her nearest and dearest. I miss being sent Readers Digest and dairy milk caramel, knowing just how.much effort she went to, to show us she thought of us and cared. I miss her wonderful cackle and watching her demolish fish and chips. I miss the whistle of her hearing aid and I miss her hugs.

Please keep writing your memories, they mean so much to us x

March 4, 2023
March 4, 2023
Anthony and I were best friends during schooldays, and his mum was extremely kind to me. I am terribly sad to read of her passing and ascension. A very pleasant, considerate and compassionate lady of faith, and immeasurable kindness.
Deepest and most solicitous condolences to all the good family……

Now cracks a noble heart. Goodnight sweet princess and let flights of angels sing thee to thy rest….
January 10, 2019
January 10, 2019
My earliest memory of Helga is when I was about 13 or 14 and going to with my family and Helga to visit Anthony at Durham University. We drove up after the ministry one Saturday and Helga assured my dad she knew where we had to go once we had parked the car. Well, we did make it, eventually. Only after we had fought through some shrubbery and walked for what seemed at the time miles along the grassed area at the back of the Halls of Residence with Helga peering through windows on the way! I can still see her in my mind's eye leading the way with her handbag over her arm saying "it's this way...not far now".
Over the years I have spent a lot of time with Helga. We have worked together in the ministry many times as we have been in the same group. She was so faithful. Always out, come rain or shine. She was kind and generous to me too. She once made me some multi coloured pot holders for my kitchen. She felt my grey and white kitchen was too plain! She gave me Burdock root to make in to a tea to help my back aches. Her knowledge of plants and herbs was amazing. She regularly brought chocolate to the meetings for our family and I know ours wasn't the only family she did that for. Only a short while ago she brought us some brambles she had picked. Helga was not shy in voicing her opinion and I have been on the sharp end of her tongue on more than one occasion. But, I always knew where I was with Helga and I liked that. I shall miss her. Her chuckle, twinkly eyes and above all her faithful example.
January 10, 2019
January 10, 2019
Dear old Helga x having spent many journeys down to Brigg with Helga to see the Smith family Robinsons, as a young child all I can remember is her rubbing her painful knee repeatedly, and I mean the whole 2 hour journey there.......and back again! Thinking about this little odd memory of Helga makes me realise that even though In a lot of pain from sitting in the car for such a long time, she still wanted to do it to see her loving family. Putting in the effort she could to see them, despite being in pain. See you soon Helga x

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December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
Its been 5 years since Omi went to sleep. Every year, when the anniversary comes around, I find myself on this website reading through all of the wonderful memories people have left about my wonderfully mad grandma.

I wish I could tell her that we live in Germany now, and how her great grandchildren, who she would've loved, speak German.

I miss her so much. Her random collection of stuffed teddies and animals sitting neatly on her sofa. Her cabinet which proudly displayed pictures of her nearest and dearest. I miss being sent Readers Digest and dairy milk caramel, knowing just how.much effort she went to, to show us she thought of us and cared. I miss her wonderful cackle and watching her demolish fish and chips. I miss the whistle of her hearing aid and I miss her hugs.

Please keep writing your memories, they mean so much to us x

March 4, 2023
March 4, 2023
Anthony and I were best friends during schooldays, and his mum was extremely kind to me. I am terribly sad to read of her passing and ascension. A very pleasant, considerate and compassionate lady of faith, and immeasurable kindness.
Deepest and most solicitous condolences to all the good family……

Now cracks a noble heart. Goodnight sweet princess and let flights of angels sing thee to thy rest….
January 10, 2019
January 10, 2019
My earliest memory of Helga is when I was about 13 or 14 and going to with my family and Helga to visit Anthony at Durham University. We drove up after the ministry one Saturday and Helga assured my dad she knew where we had to go once we had parked the car. Well, we did make it, eventually. Only after we had fought through some shrubbery and walked for what seemed at the time miles along the grassed area at the back of the Halls of Residence with Helga peering through windows on the way! I can still see her in my mind's eye leading the way with her handbag over her arm saying "it's this way...not far now".
Over the years I have spent a lot of time with Helga. We have worked together in the ministry many times as we have been in the same group. She was so faithful. Always out, come rain or shine. She was kind and generous to me too. She once made me some multi coloured pot holders for my kitchen. She felt my grey and white kitchen was too plain! She gave me Burdock root to make in to a tea to help my back aches. Her knowledge of plants and herbs was amazing. She regularly brought chocolate to the meetings for our family and I know ours wasn't the only family she did that for. Only a short while ago she brought us some brambles she had picked. Helga was not shy in voicing her opinion and I have been on the sharp end of her tongue on more than one occasion. But, I always knew where I was with Helga and I liked that. I shall miss her. Her chuckle, twinkly eyes and above all her faithful example.
Her Life

Growing up in Germany (1922-1947)

January 8, 2019

Dorothea Helga Reinhardt, known as Helga (the Saxony tradition is to be known by the name preceding your surname) was born in Niederpoyritz, just outside Dresden in eastern Germany, to an English mother and German father. Her sisters were Erica, Sonja and Wilma. She also had a brother who died in childhood.

At the start of WWII, she was just 17. Yet it was Helga who made a rudimentary bomb shelter for the family. Despite being of questionable strategic value, Dresden was bombed mercilessly with almost 4000 tonnes of high-explosive bombs and incendiary devices in February 1945. During one such raid, Helga pleaded with a young soldier to get into the shelter with her family. He declined as he was not allowed to leave his post. When the raid was over, the young man had been spread all over the garden by a bomb. It seemed likely that Helga’s industriousness had saved her family’s lives but she always remembered that young soldier with sadness..

Also, at that time, Helga worked in a factory that produced highly flammable photographic film. At one point, a bomb had come through the roof of an office and landed in a leather chair – it did not explode – another close escape.

At the end of the war, as the Russians moved into Germany, Helga and Wilma fled for the West, experiencing life as refugees. Showing great initiative, Helga secreted 2 flags in her pants – one British and one German – so that she could wave the appropriate flag depending on which soldiers they saw. Nevertheless, at one point, they ended up in cells overnight. They had been arrested by American soldiers; she needed bigger pants for more flags. Eventually, though, they reached the west, where she met and fell in love with an English soldier named Ronnie Smith.

Coming to England

January 8, 2019

In 1947 Helga moved to England with Ronnie and, as a married couple, they settled in his home town of Stockton-on-Tees. Subsequently, the couple were blessed with 2 sons, Andrew and William in 1948 and 1949 respectively.

On 19th December 1951, the family moved from Barrett Street in Portrack to Radstock Avenue in Roseworth - where Helga stayed for the rest of her life. The moving vehicle was a horse drawn cart belonging to Tommy Burr, the local coal man. The furniture was a second-hand double bed, a Victorian bed chair for Andy and Billy, a second-hand easy chair and a wireless. Ronnie, Helga and little Billy sat up front with Tommy and and Andy sat in the back with the rubbish. The rest of the street was still being built so Ronnie was able to collect bits of wood from the building site so that they could have a fire. 

 Sadly, in 1963 Ronnie died and Helga became a single parent.

Faithful to the End

January 8, 2019

A massive change came in 1970, when she started studying the Bible with Jehovah’s Witnesses. For various personal reasons (not just stubbornness), it took her 6 years to dedicate her life to Jehovah God and she was baptised during the Edinburgh District Convention in 1976. From that time on, she developed a reputation as a faithful member of Stockton Congregation, where she served for 42 years until her death.

Until relatively recently, Helga would never miss a meeting. When Anthony was a child, if she was ever ill on a meeting night, he would expect an evening at home watching the telly. But she would always say “I just don’t feel right if I miss a meeting.” She was equally diligent with the ministry. In her 60s, she visited Andy while he was working in the Shetland Islands. She took the opportunity to increase her ministry, placing dozens of pieces of literature in seldom-worked territory. She also started a Bible study with Marilyn, who later became her Christian sister. Even at about 90, she would be seen visiting her regular calls with magazines in her shopping trolley, completely independent and using the bus as transport.

Helga's faith supported her to the end. Death held no fear or dread for Helga. She knew that Jesus described death as a sleep. Just as Martha said to Jesus about her brother Lazarus, “I know he will rise in the resurrection on the last day,” Helga was absolutely confident that she would awaken in paradise on Earth. Like the Apostle Paul, she could say, “Death, where is your victory? Death, where is your sting?” She can now rest in peace with her future reward secure.

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Some of my memories of Helga…

January 10, 2019

Helga was a hardy and resilient character. I remember her telling me how as a young girl she had to break the ice on a stream to access water. She was fiercely independent and would often refuse a lift in a car as she could just as easily, in her mind at least, take 3 hours and 7 buses to get to the same destination without putting you out. You will realise that I exaggerate here, but if you knew Helga, you’ll realise I’m not that far from the truth.

Helga was a kind lady who loved nature. Often on the ministry I would ask her to name plants and flowers for me as my knowledge was limited – if prompted she would produce the Latin names. She loved trees and animals.

Helga had a great sense of humour and an infectious laugh with a sparkle in her eyes. She didn’t mind translating some of my daft sayings into German.

Helga was a very faithful minister who was one of those who could be always be depended upon to be out supporting the local group. If she wasn’t present, then you’d know something was up.

Helga was a practical person in many ways and quite handy with a chainsaw!

Helga loved her accordion.

Helga’s faith was strong and without doubt this sustained her during hard times. She is sure to be rewarded while she waits in Jehovah’s memory.

My Sweet Grandma

January 10, 2019

Our Omi.

A few words come to mind when I think of my grandma; Courageous, strong willed, caring, faithful and wonderfully odd! 

We'll miss her quirky characteristics, like feeding the animals better than she did herself, the whistling of her hearing aid that never seemed to have batteries, her sweet little chuckle at everything we said and her incredibly strong faith that saw her through to the end. 

As Oskar touched upon, our KFC trips, fish and chip afternoons or a carrier bag of chocolates at the end of a visit were some highlights of our childhood, safe to say Omi is where the Smith appetite has come from. 

We were fortunate enough to go to Dresden with Omi and although we were young, that is a trip that will bring a smile to our faces whenever we think about it, and learning about her life there was fascinating. 

She touched the hearts of so many and we are so grateful for the memories we have with her. 

Her family, friends and brothers and sisters will miss her dearly. 





A loving grandmother

January 10, 2019

Our grandma was one of the strongest people I have ever met. She was the epitome of determination. At the same time, she was a humble and loving woman. Even if she didn't say it out loud, her love was shown in her actions. 

I will always have fond memories of our compulsory trips to KFC and the gifts of flakes and Cadbury caramel chocolate every time we visited along with the occasional meal at the horse and jockey.

Her love of nature was one of her most famous characteristics. I have never seen anyone love a squirrel that much, to the point of buying special nuts off the internet to feed it. Whenever we offered to get her some shopping, the main thing she would ask for was chicken breasts for her cat!

She was also well known for her trust and faith in Jehovah and the promise found in the Bible. She didn't fear death as she saw it as a deep sleep, waiting to be woken up in paradise. We as a family and her congregation look forward to that time.

A kind, faithful and extremely peculiar woman, she will be truly missed among our family.

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