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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Douglas Libretti 50 years old , born on February 19, 1968 and passed away on December 19, 2018. We will remember him forever.

February 19, 2019
February 19, 2019
It's your birthday. First time in 44 years I won't be getting a happy birthday back in 2 days time. So strange. Still can't believe you are not here. I hope you're having a wonderful birthday with Sam, Michael, and grandma - and your Littlejohn family members, too. Love you.
January 12, 2019
January 12, 2019
Dearest Doug, I remember the first time we met after you joined the family. You were so sweet and quiet, compared to the never ending energy of the Libretti household.  It didn’t take you long to fall in step with the girls and Michael. You always remained a sweet, sweet Soul. When you were older, I  loved listening to your stories and loved when you visited with Sam. I will never forget your wonderful laugh.  I am still absorbing your untimely death, and I am overwhelmed by your selfless gift of giving life to 5 others in need. You and my father had a special bond, one I know he treasured. My hope is that the Libretti men are together in heaven, watching over each other. Doug, until we meet again, your sweet soul is in my prayers.
January 9, 2019
January 9, 2019
Doug,
You and Sam taught us a wonderful life lesson: “90% of life is showing up!” I will always remember the dedication to family you showed at every Libretti family function, especially at 38 Rock Spring Road. Personally I am grateful that I got to share those sentiments with you in person at Lily-Max’s graduation. Rest easy Doug. Fair winds and following seas.
BC
January 7, 2019
January 7, 2019
Saddened to hear of Doug's passing. He was, and remains, a special person from my past. Frozen in time...Best, JK
January 6, 2019
January 6, 2019
"Perhaps there are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy."
                                     Rest in peace, Doug

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February 19, 2019
February 19, 2019
It's your birthday. First time in 44 years I won't be getting a happy birthday back in 2 days time. So strange. Still can't believe you are not here. I hope you're having a wonderful birthday with Sam, Michael, and grandma - and your Littlejohn family members, too. Love you.
January 12, 2019
January 12, 2019
Dearest Doug, I remember the first time we met after you joined the family. You were so sweet and quiet, compared to the never ending energy of the Libretti household.  It didn’t take you long to fall in step with the girls and Michael. You always remained a sweet, sweet Soul. When you were older, I  loved listening to your stories and loved when you visited with Sam. I will never forget your wonderful laugh.  I am still absorbing your untimely death, and I am overwhelmed by your selfless gift of giving life to 5 others in need. You and my father had a special bond, one I know he treasured. My hope is that the Libretti men are together in heaven, watching over each other. Doug, until we meet again, your sweet soul is in my prayers.
January 9, 2019
January 9, 2019
Doug,
You and Sam taught us a wonderful life lesson: “90% of life is showing up!” I will always remember the dedication to family you showed at every Libretti family function, especially at 38 Rock Spring Road. Personally I am grateful that I got to share those sentiments with you in person at Lily-Max’s graduation. Rest easy Doug. Fair winds and following seas.
BC
His Life

The long-form obituary for Doug that we could not make any shorter

January 5, 2019

DOUGLAS CHARLES LITTLEJOHN LIBRETTI, 50, of Fort McMurray, Alberta, Canada passed away on Wednesday, December 19th, 2018 after an automobile accident. He was surrounded by 2 of his adoptive sisters and thirteen members of his biological family. 

Doug was born February 19, 1968 in Emerson, Manitoba, Canada to Wallace and Esther Littlejohn of the Ojibwe Roseau River Anishinabe First Nation. He was adopted in 1975 by Gennaro and Mary Libretti of Madison, NJ. He grew up cherished, and deeply loved by his parents and 8 siblings. Doug excelled in school and sports, especially diving. 

He graduated with BA in Liberal Arts from St. John’s University in 1992. He settled in Manorville, NY with his partner Sam Calsacola and enjoyed cooking, community gardening, and time with friends and family. In 2007, Doug pursued cooking as a career. He began as a prep cook with Sodexo Inc. at Western Connecticut State University before becoming Catering Lead and then Second Cook for Horizon North Camps and Catering in Alberta, Canada. His work ethic became well-known and he was lauded as the Top Aboriginal Worker at Horizon North in January 2018. He loved the new people he met every rotation, and learning about their lives and backgrounds. It was perfect for Doug—cooking and sharing great food and great stories and using his gift for making people laugh, full-on-face-hurts-belly laughter. His professional goal was to work at the Horizon North mining camp in the Arctic. After significant training and certifications, he arrived for his first rotation at the Mary Mine in Nuvaska, Canadian Arctic on November 22nd. He had just returned home the morning of the accident. It is a solace to know that he experienced the culmination of all his efforts and the satisfaction of attaining his goal before he passed. 

Doug loved to people watch and was a great story teller, with a gift for making people laugh. He would set goals and tenaciously work to achieve them. He wanted to read more and experience more—so he did. He was an avid and eclectic reader, poring over authors from Benjamin Franklin to Chief Shingwaukonse. He was an amateur photographer, bead-jewelry crafter, and nature walker. He never did get to run with the bulls, but he rode a mechanical one. He even took up diving again—sky diving that is. He was quirky, loved the inane, took chances, and took joy in simple pleasures. He believed people were more important than things and will be remembered for his caring, gentle soul. His generosity in life followed him death—as an organ donor, he saved the lives of 5 people in need. 

Doug is survived by the Libretti and Littlejohn families who loved him immensely: his devoted mother and father, Mary and Gennaro Libretti of Naples, FL; his 7 sisters: Anna Clark (Craig) of Scotch Plains, Maria Duffy (Mike) of Little Silver, Gina Glancy (Joe) of Westchester, PA, Lisa Montgomery (Tracey) of Bonita Springs, FL, Donna Cooke (Bob) of East Hanover, Andrea Libretti (Ed) of Florham Park, and Nina Petitt (Ted) of Chatham; sister-in-law Ann Libretti (Michael) of Chatham; and 16 nieces and nephews; his 4 biological sisters: Marlene D. Henry, Jo Anne Littlejohn, Marina Littlejohn, and Theresa Rivet; and 2 brothers Michael Littlejohn and Gene Night Thunder; and nieces and nephews too numerous to count. Doug is predeceased by his brother Michael Libretti; his partner Sam Calsacola, his biological parents Wallace and Esther Littlejohn, sisters Rose Goodwin, Doris Antoine, and brothers Wesley, Aurthur, and Ernest Littlejohn. 

After a 4-day Ojibwe spiritual ceremony, Doug received his native name—Neegaanaga Wabik—which means ‘he who stands in front’ and was buried near his biological parents. Mary and Gennaro Libretti said “He was separated from them as a child, it is only right that he returns to them now.” A Celebration of Life Mass will be held for Doug at 10am, Saturday, February 2, 2019 at St. Vincent Martyr Church in Madison, New Jersey.  

Doug believed that stories keep the world revolving—live your story,don’t miss out. 

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Another brother playmate through the woods gone too soon...

January 6, 2019

Doug, I remember when you arrived.. as I knocked on the back door hoping someone would be around to play a round of Capture the Flag, a visit with Mrs. Forest or a bike ride to the Madison Community Pool for swim or dive team practice.. I hope I helped welcome you into the arms of all of those Libretti girls, as a nearby neighbor showing up for fun -there was usually someone to hang with -thank God. I remember thinking, finally, a brother for Michael, both resting now in peace. A real Indian with dark skin. I loved dressing up as an Indian for Halloween as a kid. You were the only Indian I ever knew. I loved running through the woods with you and the girls.. You were a natural. Your laughter was infectious. What a graceful swimmer & diver you were. A natural for gymnastics, back yard swings, hanging out at the Y or walking home from St. Vincents in the good ole days. Your journey, special and not without bouts of sadness and teenage confusion about life. I kept up on the stories of your time with Sal and Canada. Perhaps, your number was up, for God had another plan for you, apparently. Another other worldly job. I was so glad I grew up next to your family on John Marshall Lane through the woods. I'm sorry I never got the chance to meet your other family and hear about stories on the reservation and your most recent bucket list trip. I hugged & laughed you when you were home & I'm so happy I have you in my heart. See you in the woods, my friend. You were loved by so many. My condolences to all of my Libretti sisters, especially to Mary & Gerry, losing another one can not be easy.

Doug, Dougalee!

January 5, 2019

My dearest Doug, 

  1. I’m still numb in knowing you are physically gone from this earth. And I search to my childhood memories of when you first came into our lives at 7 years old. How scary that must have been as I think back. But you let yourself be you, running around with your cape on, being Superman. And what a SUPER GUY you were! I was floored with all of the absolutely beautiful Facebook posts from old st vinnies and MHS friends. And that’s no exaggeration and probably an understatement. For it was unanimous as to what a gentle, kind soul you were and the impression you made. when I think of your given burial name from the tribe - ‘he who stands in front’ - it is most apropo, as you made such an impression. I will be forever grateful to Andrea for keeping you tethered to the family as you made your way north; for convincing you to come home at times, especially in June for the graduations. That will always be my lasting and happy memory, with of course, your bellicose laugh!  And may you be rousing it up with laughter with Sam,Michael, grandma and all of your loved ones.  God bless you, Doug. Your spirit lives on and I hope you saw me doing the smudging in your honor! Until we meet again. I love you so

Doug's Journey

January 5, 2019

Doug. You were the one who came to my home when coming home into town. I was so honosred loved. I loved

 hosting you and having amazing laughs and fun filled stories about our lives. Bad times included and you always believed in telling it like it is, a lesson learned in trusting my instincts No holes barred. You read people soooo well it was crazy. A gift indeed. I treasure that you got to know Jade and Jaclyn so well, and loved that you loved Ed.  Your words and letters and cards mean the world to me and I will always treasure things we shared about having 2 families , life , PBR , grandma and more.  Will miss u forever my bro. Till we meet again on the other side.

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