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This website was created in memory of my brother, James Dustin Barnes who was just 29 years old. In looking for the right thing to say in this opening, I realize that there is nothing right or wrong to be said. Dustin was many things but above all else he was a son, a brother, and a bestfriend. He will be missed more than a few simple words can express, but my hope is that with this webpage his memory will last forever. Thank you for visiting this memorial page and remembering my brother. Please also visit the HIS LIFE section for more on my brother and information on a fundraiser we are having in honor of his memory.

February 27
February 27
Dustin

Miss u and think of you everyday, I will see you again one day I know it! With all a dads love! Leave a light on for me.

Dad
December 27, 2023
December 27, 2023
Love you miss you so much , mom let’ us all know about birthday!

Dad
December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Happy 37th birthday Dustin! I love you and miss you every day.
November 5, 2023
November 5, 2023
I miss you so much and my heart aches, with all the things we missed together.
Your Nephew is so beautiful, and God has blessed us with him. I can't tell you how much mom misses you every day. The pain will never go away but one day we will see you again.

Love
DAD

May 14, 2023
May 14, 2023
So it’s mothers day. It’s always a hard day for mom so I hope you can send her some extra love and peace today. Crazy it’s already my second Mother’s Day. Can you believe it? I’m someone’s MOTHER. Gage is incredible, you would love him. I think he’s going to be a lot like us as kids. He’s so athletic even for his age.  Loves being outside more than anything. He is obsessed with water. Dad even built him a pond by the barn. He gets mesmerized by dads fishing shows on tv sometimes, so I imagine he will be his best fishing partner before too long. Anyways, I just wanted to check in. If there’s one thing being a mother has taught me it’s that the days are long and the years are short. Time is never what we think it will be and all that matters in the end is the people you love. Family. We miss you Dustin. I wish more than anything we could go back but Gods plan for our lives is always better than the one we could ever have for ourselves. I pray that you are at peace in the heavenly eternity where you feel nothing but love. Keep watch over us Love you
-Raven & Gage
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Dustin ❤️ We all miss you and know you’re ok with your grandparents celebrating. Your nephew, Gage is beautiful as you! We will see you again, love Darlene
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
Happy Birthday Dustin. It’s your 36th! We love you and miss you everyday! Love you so much
December 26, 2022
December 26, 2022
Wish you were here, miss you and will see you soon! Do not wait up for me! Happy Birthday

Love Dad
October 23, 2022
October 23, 2022
Gage is so much like you ! Fearless , smart  Sweet , courageous, athletic! Luv u miss u
August 1, 2022
August 1, 2022
You would love your nephew
He is such a gift!

Love you and miss you so much

Dad
March 19, 2022
March 19, 2022
Love u and miss you, Heart is hurting today!

See ya one day, love you was listening to Zack Brown

Dad
February 27, 2022
February 27, 2022
Thinking of you today. I can’t believe it has already been 6 years. Miss you buddy.
February 3, 2022
February 3, 2022
Hey big brother,

I’m sorry I haven’t checked in here lately. Life kept going but you’re never far from my mind. I’m watching you’re nephew sleep right now… Gage is getting so big and he’s changing so fast it’s truly mind blowing. He is 4 months this week and FULL BOY. Mom has me terrified with all her wild stories about you as a baby and kid. Far too many stitches and blood, but I think I’m going to make a pretty good boy mom. I hope you like his middle name after you and dad. I wanted to keep the tradition going. Gage James really wish you were here to meet him. We’re going to fly to GA to see mom and dad in a few weeks. I can’t wait to take him on your 4wheeler. I’ll be thinking of you when I do. Love you always Dustin. Keep watch over mom and dad for me, they miss you more than you will ever know.
December 27, 2021
December 27, 2021
Happy 35th Birthday! We miss you so much . Even though your not here on earth, your always in our hearts. Love you dearly
December 27, 2021
December 27, 2021
Love you and miss you

Don’t wait up for me yet

Dad’s
October 24, 2021
October 24, 2021
Wish you were here every day. Love you so much
October 24, 2021
October 24, 2021
Your sister has a beautiful baby boy. He’s named after you and your Dad! You are so missed and loved.
August 29, 2021
August 29, 2021
Thinking about you just wanted to look at all the photos and feel your presence. I know you are out there looking over your mom and I miss you.
Raven is going to have your Nephew in a few weeks and I am not sure how I am going to react but am excited. I am gonna ask you to leave the light on for me. I know I will see you again one day!

Love DAD1
July 28, 2021
July 28, 2021
i just dreamed of you today and it felt real when you held my hand..thank you for still checking out on me and for everything you shared. May God bless your family and keep them safe in this pandemic.you are truly missed.
May 8, 2021
May 8, 2021
Just thinking of you. Miss you so much  Love you always.
March 1, 2021
March 1, 2021
Love and miss you and still can not come to grips with the pain sometimes


Anyway Don't wait up for me

Love DAD
February 27, 2021
February 27, 2021
Its been 5 years today that we lost you and it feels like yesterday. Miss you every day . Friday the 26th 5 years ago was the last i saw you. I remember every detail as if 1 min ago. You are always loved and the memories are treasured forever. I am so sadden your not here,but grateful for the years we had. Love you so much, and see you soon.
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
34 years old and I would wish a thousand times a day had been me and not you! Miss you so much and Mom and I are spending some time this week with your sister! Look forward to seeing you again one day!

Don't stay up and wait on me'

Love Dad
November 26, 2020
November 26, 2020
This time of year brings back so many special memories . It will never be the same with out you here. Miss you terribly and love you always.
Happy Thanksgiving you are so special .
August 23, 2020
August 23, 2020
Dustin

Been a while since I visited you and it is not because do not think of you.
I miss you everyday and have so many memories that are good and some regrets. Mom and I are together and working on a place I know you would love, Miss you are love you hope to be with you one day!

Don't wait up for me and leave the light on!

Dad
April 7, 2020
April 7, 2020
One of my favorite bands, Scary Kids Scaring Kids, just released a very unexpected single. I say unexpected because their lead singer passed away years ago. Anyways, they got the lead singer of Saosin, another one of my favorite bands, to provide vocals and make a tribute to their lead singer and best friend. When I heard the single, tears were flowing down my face and I couldn't stop them. I had to share these lyrics with you...one day we will see your face again, dude.

Scary Kids Scaring Kids - Loved Forever

My mind, racing
Eyes wide, I'm sleepless again
I try and try to fight but I can't pretend

This part of me is gone
Taken too soon

The night turns into dawn
But in the darkness I can still see visions of you

We're still holding onto hope that one day we will see your face again
We still sing those songs you wrote
Reciting every line
Word for word
Note for note

On the outside we are fine
But behind fragile eyes
Tired and broken
I only wish I could understand
I didn't know what else to do
I thought that leaving would get it through to you

We're still holding onto hope that one day we will see your face again
We still sing those songs you wrote
Reciting every line
Word for word
Note for note

And while the city sleeps in flames
I'm still laying wide awake
And even through my darkest hour
Your blood runs forever

I hope you're finally free again
Set sail towards the sun
Wish I could tell you one last time
That you're loved forever
Loved forever
Loved forever
You'll be loved forever
Loved forever

We're still holding onto hope that one day we will see your face again
We still sing those songs you wrote
Reciting every line
Word for word

I'm holding onto hope
I'm holding onto hope
I'm holding onto hope
I'm holding onto hope
February 16, 2020
February 16, 2020
It’s Febuary and it’s seems like yesterday you were just a little fella, I miss you and Birthday coming up. Forgive me if I don’t stop it that day it’s tough. Know you are with grandma and grandpa. Love you and think of you everyday

Dad
December 26, 2019
December 26, 2019
Your 33 today! Hard to believe its been 4 years since you left us. Think of you
every day and thankful for the years and time we had. Miss you terribly and love you more than anything.
December 26, 2019
December 26, 2019
Dustin

Being your Birthday today it made me think about you always saying it kinda sucked because it was day after Christmas. I can’t remember them all but I do remember some great ones...
Spent time with Raven this week and she misses you believe that, and I think about You everyday ..

Save me a spot so we can catch up-and grandpa I am sure is with you! I will stop in from time to time to check in, don’t wait up for me! Love DAD
December 26, 2019
December 26, 2019
Happy birthday!!! Seems like just yesterday we were hanging out, playing some xbox and just letting time slip away. Around now we’d be planning a NY Eve / birthday bash. Miss ya, dude...more than you’ll ever know.
November 27, 2019
November 27, 2019
Dustin your always in my heart and on my mind. Think of you every breathing moment.Life here will never be the same. Your so loved and missed.
August 12, 2019
August 12, 2019
Met 'Tank Bruno' 5 level black belt! today It was like seeing you thru his eyes!
You are so special and had so much more to give! Love you deeply forever
July 14, 2019
July 14, 2019
Love you Dustin, I’ll forever have you in my heart.
July 9, 2019
July 9, 2019
Miss you, World is not the same without you!
Don’t wait up for me!
Love Dad
July 4, 2019
July 4, 2019
Miss you so terribly. Another Fourth of July with out you!
Love you
June 4, 2019
June 4, 2019
Dustin,
I miss you so much and the pain comes still at the strangest times and I know you are watching over your mom and she misses you so much as I do.
The last 3 years have been difficult but your laughter and the joy you gave me will be with me
Until we meat again. Love you and
Don’t wait up for me.
Dad
May 27, 2019
May 27, 2019
Happy Memorial Day Dustin, Never the same with out you. Love you so much
March 4, 2019
March 4, 2019
More time passes the more I miss you. love you so much
February 28, 2019
February 28, 2019
Its hard to believe yesterday the 27th made 3 years since you left us. Miss your smile, jokes, contagious laugh and that big heart . You are deeply missed and loved. We will see you again.
December 26, 2018
December 26, 2018
It’s your 32nd birthday! Happy Birthday. Just give anything to tell you in person. Everyone misses you and life on earth will never be the same. Love to you always
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
Merry Christmas Dustin you are so missed. Love you
November 22, 2018
November 22, 2018
Happy Thanksgiving Dustin,
Will never be the same with out you. Think of you every moment in every day!
Love you always
November 18, 2018
November 18, 2018
It's been two years since you were taken away.
My memory of that day is no longer clear,
but I know the pain can not be washed away with tears. Your mom and I miss you
You are everywhere I look, the sky, the clouds,
a running rivers, waves in the ocean
Now in God's arms you are safe.
Never again will I see your face.
But the photograph in my mind will never be erased.
In time, I'll see you
Until then my Son, your Spirit is with me always.
My memories are keepsakes
From which I'll never part
God has you in his keeping
I have you in my heart.
Although your presence is gone
And you cannot be touched
I thank God for the memories
They will have to do until we see you again.
I will stop by once and while but don’t wait up for me.
Love Dad
September 2, 2018
September 2, 2018
Its September and been a while since I wrote anything , not because I do not think of you and miss you everyday just been going through a lot.
I miss you so much and thought about the September’s on the sound and it’s about time for football season. They says when you loose a child you never recover and that’s a fair statement the pain never leaves and all the things you missed breaks my heart. I will see you soon enough and we can catch up but you live in my heart until then. I will stop by from time to time but don’t wait up for me.
Love Dad
May 28, 2018
May 28, 2018
I can’t believe 4 yrs ago today I walked into that crowded bar and somehow you made me feel like I was the only girl there ❤️ Miss you Dustin, every adventure I go on is for you!
May 20, 2018
May 20, 2018
Miss you every day, every moment. Love you so much
April 20, 2018
April 20, 2018
I felt you in my heart today and I miss you so much the laugh and the jokes. I will see you soon . Before you know it!

Don’t wait up for me
Dad!
April 1, 2018
April 1, 2018
Happy Easter Dustin! Miss you so much.
Always thinking of you. Love you
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February 27
February 27
Dustin

Miss u and think of you everyday, I will see you again one day I know it! With all a dads love! Leave a light on for me.

Dad
December 27, 2023
December 27, 2023
Love you miss you so much , mom let’ us all know about birthday!

Dad
December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Happy 37th birthday Dustin! I love you and miss you every day.
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Jessica

February 6, 2021
I never thought that you died you got mad at me for some I said u are so stubborn not to talk to me anymore till I found out u past away . I wish I didn't get stubborn too and fallow my heart and accept that I was happy with you I love you this thing should never happen if I should just be with you 100% . 
March 4, 2016

This reminds me so much of us and how we thought, how we live. We will miss you so much!! You will always be a part of our family, forever missed, forever loved. 

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