The Fulton Hotel & Salon
I got a call from the local physiotherapist on SaltSpring Island 10 years ago to come in for an interview with a client who needed to transition from acute care to the next level. I was tasked to introduce movement, the gradual return to life, & maintain independent living. Suffice to say I passed the interview & spent the next 10 years seeing Margaret every week on Mon/Wed/Frid’s @ 11am. As the Manitoba farm girl, she was quite philosophical about pain, recovery, daily existence & doing whatever it took to get better.
Early on I shared that I lived in a geodesic dome & that clinched the deal between us. Margaret was a huge Buckminster Fuller fan having seen him speak on the grass @ Jericho in the 70’s, & having an ephiphany at that time. I am honored to have her copy of Bucky’s book in my collection & will always cherish it.
The Fulton Hotel & Salon
I don’t know anyone, young or old, who had as many guests as her. She hosted hundreds of people. Overnight, over lunch, over the phone, over a glass of wine...
Everybody wanted a piece of her, & it was wearing on her as she couldn’t say no.
Quite remarkable to have students from 30,40, & 50 years ago calling her up or dropping in to talk.
My role expanded over time, as required. We liked to call it the ever increasing job description. From computer tech, handyman, chauffeur (yes miss daisy), & the family tree memory back-up. I also enjoyed being the queen’s taster throughout the changing seasons as we ate our way around the neighborhood on our mid day walks quoting prose as the situation demanded & greeting passersby with a wave & a smile.
A common interest was our love of Nature & the marine environment with the appropriate literary quote to fit the occasion, "nature is never spent".
At the end, & I was with her on another sunny walk to the duck pond when she had a stroke, & she was ready to go. My task was complete, keeping her in her own home @ her upstairs desk with the lovely view down the harbour.
She had had a “good run”, “a full life”, “no regrets”.
May we all be so lucky to find a way out when the time is nigh....
With the utmost respect,
Kinesiologist, ol'buddy & friend,
Bruce Grey
SaltSpring Exercise Therapy