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With gratitude to God Almighty for a life well lived, we announce that our wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and friend, Mrs. Ebunoluwa Kofoworola Balogun (Nee Daramola) of Mopa, Kogi State, Nigeria went to be with The LORD on June 24, 2020 in Houston Texas.

Due to the current public health crisis, a private home-going service was held in her honor on June 29, 2020.

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June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
From Michael Osho

Aunty Ebun,we the entire people of Okeguru -Mopa, ( your grass-root home,) mourn your death and pray that God will comfort your husband and children you left behind. We say ADIEU until we meet to part no more at Jesus' feet. where Revelation 21:4 .will be fulfilled. 

Babalola Osho ( for the family).
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
Words failed me while thinking of what to write about Mama Balogun. The news my family expected was that Mama would soon come back to Nigeria and that we would celebrate the next Calvary Princes and Princesses (CPP) Anniversary together.

Mama related with us at three fronts and made us special. Firstly, as a member of Ebenezer Baptist Church, Eleyele, Ile-Ife; Mama and Baba Balogun are our Patrons - The Calvary Princes and Princesses. Secondly, as one of the former students of Baba Balogun, both Mama and Baba continue to give us good counsel; and thirdly as In-Laws when Mama realised I came from Idoani where her first daughter got married into. 

Mama always in company of Baba, a cherished couple worthy to copy, made sure they were present at our occasions both weddings and graduation of our children and would shower us with gifts. Mama took our children as her grand children. Mama would not be in a hurry when she visited our family discussing at length. Mama was a rare gift from God - Ebunoluwa, a name our daughter shares with her.

Mama Balogun was energetic, frank, neat, lovely and loving. Your legacies will live on Mama. You are ever cherished and your memory lives on in all of us who loved you. Never to be forgotten.

We pray that God will comfort Baba, Prof. Balogun. May God strengthen Baba and the family.

Prof. & Mrs. PELEMO
OAU, Ile-Ife
On behalf of our entire family.
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
Your death came to us as a rude shock. We have been looking forward to your return after the pandemic.

You were a grandmother to me, took good care of me when I was pregnant with my first child and was sick, She bought all my son's Toys and she was never tired of giving.

I loved you so much that my daughter bears Kofoworola Ebunoluwa Mfon, I will miss your motherly advice, beautiful gists, your unique sobo, food recipes and many more.

You will forever be in our heart Mummy Kofoworola Ebunoluwa Balogun. I pray that the Lord rest your kind soul and comfort us all.
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
Then I heard a voice from heaven say, “Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.” “Yes,” says the Spirit, “they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them.” (Revelations 14:13)

1. We testify that she knew and confessed Christ as her Lord and Saviour and therefore died in the Lord
2. We testify to her labour of love to her husband, her children, her grand-children, her relatives, her friends, the underprivileged, and indeed every one that crossed her path.
3. We testify that her deeds has started following her and will be remembered for wisdom and guidance in her children and those she has impacted until Jesus comes.

Auntie Ebun fondly called 'forever 21' by our children was ageless. She related to both young and old seamlessly. She was vivacious and bubbly. A great woman of sterling character. Bold, forthright and will speak the truth no matter whose ox is gored . She played out her Social Work profession perfectly helping everyone and anyone that needed and will accept help.

We thank God for knowing her and pray that God will comfort her beloved husband Prof Ekundayo Balogun and sustain her children Profs Yinka & Toyin Olutoye, Chris & Folake Bamgboye and your grandchildren.

Auntie Ebun has fought the good fight, she has finished the race, she has kept the faith. (2 Timothy 4:7)

May her soul Rest in Perfect Peace .

Akin & Foluke Olafimihan
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
With true gratitude to God for a life well spent. Thank you Prof for your dedication to caring for others and the way you touched every life privileged to have crossed your path. Rest on in The Lord, and May he grant the fortitude to bear this great loss.       My sincere condolences to you Daddy, Yinka, Toyin, Folake and the entire family.
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
I was honored to visit Mrs. and Mr. Balogun in their beautiful home in lfe. She embraced us immediately and her energy was magical. Her love and kindness so genuine and generous. I'm forever grateful for my brief but oh so unforgettable encounter with this true angel.
Rest in peace!
June 30, 2020
June 30, 2020
My Beloved Auntie Ebun has gone home to be with the Lord. Always forgiving me for not calling nor visiting her beautiful retirement home at Ile Ife. I remember my first contact with my ebullient and ever-cheerful Aunt at Staff Quarters on campus in 1984, where she gave me the story of my life from birth till then; with an uncanny memory of virtually every family from Mopa and their peculiar traits. A living encyclopedia of information about people, with a high sense of humour. Her home became a haven of succour and love from the rigors of the lecture halls. Even a second stint in the university gave me another opportunity to garner wealth of knowledge from her experiences in life. She gave me a tour of their newly built retirement home with details of each item of decoration and date of purchase even before I was born. Never a boring moment in her presence with laughter. A rare Gem has gone ahead of our future. I can imagine her welcome party in Heaven. Uncle Prof Daramola, Kola, my mum, Dad, siblings and all the wonderful loved ones that have gone ahead of us all. The Holy Spirit comfort my beloved Uncle and Mentor, Prof Balogun, Children and grandchildren. We shall see her again in Christ Jesus.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Our Dear Auntie Ebun,
We give glory to God for your glorious exit. You were simply loving and lovable. I cannot forget your loving care for me and especially my husband and my daughters Olivia, Anne and Elizabeth each time my husband brought them to Ife. They had all kinds of fruit juices and many other goodies prepared for them . We bless God for your exemplary and impactful life. We will remember your many acts of kindness to us. May the good Lord uphold and preserve the family you have left behind in Jesus mighty name.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mrs Balogun was a kind but firm mummy. The ultimate social worker and Mother hen to all the children university of Ife staff quarters . Going next door to Toyin’s house for her birthday/Christmas party was always great fun. I pray for Gods comfort towards all the family she has left behind. Good night mummy. From The Abiodun’s your next door neighbor.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
It a heavy heart that I have to write a tribute to Mrs. Ebun Kofoworola Balogun. No. Not so soon after the passing on of our dear Mrs. Aderonke Amao with whom she both played great roles as mother/grandmother to me and my children.

We have been together since 1975/76 with our families sharing common names (including my sister - Kofo) and have been maintaining very good relationships among ourselves. When my father passed on in 1979 in Ibadan, I could remember how she surprised me with snacks (my favourite doughnuts) for the Christian Wake-keep. She always played prominent roles at all our family events. To say I shall miss her is an understatement. Her passing on is most unexpected - not with her energy, which is noticeable in all aspects. One of my consolations is that we chatted on phone all through until she was hospitalised. I cannot recount how much involved she was in my family life, including the maintenance of my home in Ile-Ife.

May God be with her loving husband, Prof. Ekundayo Balogun, the children and grandchildren - the Olutoyes and Bamgboyes. God will surely console all other relations and friends.

From

Mrs. Yewande Ekundayo-Adedeji.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Aunty Ebun,

‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all’. Proverbs 31:29 (NIV). We will miss you ... and the tasty doughnuts. Rest in Perfect Peace Aunty.
Jesus Saves!

From

Toyin Ekundayo-Rotifa
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mama Balogun, you shall be dearly missed. Rest in peace for you have completed the race.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Dearest Mommy, you touched multitudes, you impacted my life immensely. Your energy was unstoppable, a force of nature! Your care and love was a shelter from life's storms. Your presence and warmth will be sorely missed. I thank God for the wonderful memories of you and take solace in knowing you have gone to a much better place. Continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord, even as you live on in our hearts.
June 29, 2020
Some fond memories of you aunty. Remember on my wedding day (25th June 1977).We woke up and waited for the lady to make my hair.She never turned up. You immediately became my stylist. Taught me that nappies were tired differently between boys and girls.
You taught me not to throw away any part of pineapples.Just last year l learnt to add cinnamon sticks to my zobo drink.(Sorrel drink).You were also there when my son got married .Thanks for your love.
Till we meet to part no more
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
I met Mama Balogun at Ebenezer Baptist church Ile Ife. We later became close when I joined United sisters society.
Mama was also a financial member of Women's missionary society of the Church. Even while strong and out of the country Mama still paid her full dues for WMS 2020 .
Mama was generous , kind and a cheerful giver . Mama Ebunoluwa Kofoworola Balogun, you shall be greatly missed. Sleep on in the Lord till we meet to path no more . From Mrs victoria Popoola , the President WMU of Ebenezer Baptist church Eleyele Ile Ife .
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
It is not how long the race is that matters but how well the participation is. Mama could have lived another 100 years and not touched a single life. She did 80 fabulous years and touched so many lives positively. She left a wonderful legacy. Loved ones do not die. They forever remain in the memory of the living. May be memories of how she impacted our lives be our comfort.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
We met in 1975 (45 years ago) as next door neighbours on Sijuwade Estate before we all moved to OAU campus. Mummy Balogun and her friend, the late Mrs. Aderonke Amao were big sisters to my Mum, Yewande Ekundayo- Adedeji at OAU and Ebenezer Baptist Church. My siblings and I looked up to you as our Big Aunty.
You had the most beautiful house on OAU campus. Toyin’s birthday was Christmas party for us on campus and we all looked forward to it.
I was so touched when Mummy Balogun came to support my family at Ijebu-Ode in April 2018 after Kola passed away. Mummy is selfless and a treasure indeed.
Good night Mummy Balogun.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Ebunoluwa I will cherich your memory forever as a loving very caring and faithful friend and sister.You were my friend for over sixty years and You remained beautiful.You radiated love and was ready to pursue whatever you believed in to the very end .I pray that God take care and comfort my dear brother and the rest of the family.I am confident you are resting in the bossom of the Lord .Goodnight till we meet again.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
It was really shocking to hear of your demise. Mama Balogun was a great social worker and justice crusader. I remember running into mama at Ebenezer Secondary School, Ile-Ife, while she was supervising a project. She was energetic and was always ready to help people. I also remember with nostalgia your advice to me and my wife when you visited our house in the company of Baba Balogun. You enumerated the values of a good relationship both at home and at workplace. In fact my wife sees Mama Balogun as a symbol of bravery and courage (an epitome of motherhood). You will forever be in our memory. Sleep on Mama Balogun. Adieu.
Prof. Marcus A. Eleruja, Dean, Faculty of Science, Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mummy Your passing away caught me with deepest surprise. I will MISS you always, your memory will for ever be great for many good things you have taught me.
You asked last time before you travel to United State, to got you some peanut butter which I did and am still waiting for you
Contrary, you have agreed on the call of Almighty God. On that note, I have just little to say; No one can question HIM. please rest on in HIS Bosom Amen
          Your son Dan Moses ,U. "Nicon-town Lagos"
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mummy,
Knowing you, loving you, and trusting you is a treasure
Being your close companion, as you executed your charitable projects was a rare privilege
As a social worker, you lived your life to glorify God
By showing mercy and kindness to others.
You served the less privileged, with joy
And used your leadership position as a laudable platform to speak for the voiceless in the society.
Your mission was always to champion a just and righteous cause
This is your lasting legacy
This is how you will be remembered forever
Till we meet again, to part no more……….

Wumi Alabi
ARCSSTEE,
OAU Campus
Ile-Ife, NIGERIA
June 29, 2020
"Life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced." You have lived your life; you have experienced the reality. I will always remember you for your elegance and composure. Rest in peace ma.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
I have known Grandma Balogun since I was a little child. Her and grandpa's house on Rd 13, OAU staff quarters was one of the few houses I had visited with my parents and siblings when we were still so young. Whenever my parents tell us that we would be visiting 'The Baloguns', we were always so happy and would be restless until it was time to go see them. Their house was one of our favorite places to visit then because of the whole ambience (very clean and smells good), the food and snacks we would eat and the swing we would climb and play with. I can never forget her signature cookies and doughnuts.

Years passed and I went to the university, we relocated to another state so I didn’t see her for a long time. In 2016, I was back to Ile-Ife with my children for my graduate study. Grandma still amazed me as she would make her tasty doughnuts and the best zobo that I have ever tasted and she’ll bring in large quantities for my children anytime she’s aware that we are around and I would tell my kids that I have been eating Grandma's tasty doughnuts since I was their age.

It didn’t end at that, she was always willing to host us and whenever we get to her home, it’s always a feast with plenty food and snacks (delicious cakes) to eat and we would ask who helped her prepare all these and she’ll say I did all by myself. She was so strong, energetic and bubbly and I was always so happy whenever she visited us.

What amazes me most was how often she would check on my parents. She never left them, she became their mum after they both lost their mums years ago. She would come over and make everyone laugh, I used to call her my dad’s gist partner because of the way they would talk for hours about their mutual friends and their old secondary school mates. She was indeed amazing, loving and awesome. It’s still like a shock because she never seemed like someone in her 80s to me but like a 58 years old because of her fashionable personality. You will forever be in our hearts ma.

I love you Grandma and I’ll miss you so much!!!
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mummy, I was shocked when I heard about your demise last week but I know you are resting with the Lord now. My mum was looking forward to when you get back to Nigeria for your usual gists and visits. You were a good friend to the family especially when my dad passed on, you always take it upon yourself to check on and make sure my mum is okay and fight off anyone who dare disrespect her. I used to call you “Mrs Balogun the no nonsense lady” and my namesake Ebunoluwa. The last time I saw you was in 2011 and you didn’t even age then. Thank you for your help in 1992 when I needed it in America so as not to be homeless. May the Lord comfort Daddy, Sis Toyin and Folake. May your gentle soul rest in peace. Condolences from Sola, Tayo, Kanmi and Funke.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
For a moment, the future looked bleak but then came a shining light, illuminating the darkness and calming my fear.

Dearest Mum, thank you so much for everything. I hate to say goodbye, but surely you are in a better place.

We pray God will strengthen and comfort Baba and the entire family.

From all of us, rest in the bosom of your saviour.

Good night mummy.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
How are the mighty fallen The news ofyour death came as shock to me this afternoon through my daughter a friend of your Folake at the Ife Staff School in the 70s We lived as neighbors on Road 17 of the Staff Quarter in the 70s We also worked together in the hospital You are an angel There was nothing too big for you to help the needy Your time food clothes and above all your LOVE you shared for the lowly and neglected Surely you are reaping it now in Gods Paradise God will console your devoted husband Toyin and Folake Adieu sweet sister Rest in Perfect Peace
Mrs Yinka Olubajo
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Tribute on behalf of Professor I.F Adeniyi.

Adieu Our Quintessential Grandma Ebun Kofoworola Balogun

To the family of Funso and Aderonke Adeniyi, it has been a great blessing knowing and being closely associated with the family of Professor Ekundayo and Mrs. Ebunoluwa Kofoworola Balogun who we all most fondly refer to as Grandpa and Grandma Balogun respectively. The association dates back nearly four decades and we have always blessed the human and divine connections that birthed it. Indeed, this unique couple and senior friends are icons of good living and role models to us in many ways; notably in their personalities, family relationship as well as service to humanity and to God. It’s therefore a rude shock and devastating blow that the cold hands of death snatched away our beloved Grandma Balogun on Wednesday June 24, 2020. 

True to her name, Ebunoluwa, Grandma Balogun was indeed a special gift, a rare gem from God Almighty to humanity, particularly many of us whose lives she has positively impacted. Grandma was richly endowed and well equipped for her service and roles on earth. With her robust personality, bubbling energy, vigor and radiance, she livened and lit up the environment and people around her. She was a true lover of nature and the environment, with one of the most beautiful flower gardens around. Above all, Grandma was very charitable and generous. She was also a fantastic cook and delightful entertainer. By our family rating, Grandma prepared the best casseroles, zobo, doughnuts and cakes to mention a few. From the aforementioned, it’s obvious we shall greatly miss our beloved Grandma Balogun physically, but she will forever live in our hearts.

We thank God Almighty for her remarkable life and times and that this will live long after her. May light perpetual continue to shine upon her soul in Jesus mighty name.

Prof. Funso Adeniyi
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
I’ve known mama since I was a child, I remember always wanting to follow my parents to visit her and baba because I loved how kind they were and the homely atmosphere they created. She was a special woman, not once did she appear frail or drab, I’m still yet to meet anyone as high-spirited, at that age, as she was. she was a woman I aspire to be like.
I will never forgot mama’s presence and assistance at the beginning of my freshman year in university, she helped me navigate my way through the process of changing my course—a process which was enervating and confusing for me—and made it seem easy, she reassured me severally that I’d be fine, she was my backbone … this I‘m eternally grateful for.
I miss her terribly, she was a fantastic person and the loss of her is felt deeply by so many.
Rest in peace mama, thank you for your care, support, love and everything, your memory will live on within us.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
This is to commiserate with the Balogun, Daramola, Bamgboye and Olutoye families on the passing on of Mummy Balogun.
Mummy was a rare personality, a model who lived an unusual life of love, openness and selflessness with notable simplicity. She was a woman of substance and had style in everything she did...be it fashion et al. I remember her stilettos which she dropped some years ago on medical advice and went for lovely flats! She was ever ready to give you gifts. We will miss the house parties, the homemade zobo to mention a few.
Mummy and Prof made a good pair, a partnership many admired.
Can these be easily forgotten?
This is to wish her soul sweet repose in God's bosom. May God comfort daddy, the loving children, the sweet grandchildren, the families and loved ones now and always. Amen.
Sleep on...
Tony & Laide Akintomide.
OAU,
Ile-Ife.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
I cannot express my shock on watching your photograph and hearing about your demise as the last news on the Nigerian Television Authority,(NTA) yesterday night, 28th June. I was planning to come to Ile-Ife, next week to visit you. Alas! this is not to be anymore, I cannot explain how I got on the list of your numerous Associates for the last ten years. You were always visiting me, and most of the times you will leave a note and gift on my door. This I have interpreted to be as a result of your training as a social worker and Christ-like nature. You were so loving that I wish I had moved closer to you many years earlier. I commiserate with daddy, Professor Balogun and all your family members. I will miss your selfless and caring nature. You attended my inaugural lecture and promised to attend my send forth party, but you could not make it because you travelled home. Auntie one can write volumes on your friendly attitude. Adieu auntie, I wish you a very perfect rest in the bosom of your creator whom you served so faithfully.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Aunty was indeed a force of nature. I remember when I got to Ife the first time and had some issues getting my registration through. Auntie showed up grabbed my hand and took me to the front of the line to get it done before the deadline.

There were so many instances like this through my stay in Ife where Auntie showed up like a superhero for me and gave me the words I needed to hear to get me through things.

Aunty Ebun was a second mother to me and I will forever be grateful for the role she played in my life as I dont think I would be where I am without the role she played.

Rest in peace aunty for your will live forever in our hearts
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
We received with a rude shock the news of the demise of Mama Balogun. We cannot query our God who knows best. We are thankful for the time we spent together. Our thoughts are with Papa Balogun and the rest of the family. May her sweet soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.  OLUTOYE FAMILY
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Aunty Ebun has let her foot print in the sands of time with her compassion for and selfless service to others. She will be missed but will live on in our hearts. 

May the Lord sustain Uncle Dayo, her children and grandchildren. Amen.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Saw her for the first time at Dominion Chapel Houston.Mummy was always elegantly dressed. I remember how she and Daddy would be both seated on the couch at the church's foyer while waiting on their children after service and she always had a smile for everyone that stopped by to greet them.
May her soul rest in peace and may the God of comfort console Daddy and the entire family. Amen!
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Words can not describe the emptiness I felt on receiving the news of your passing.
I remember the first time we met in my Principal's office ( Mrs A.O.L Adeniyi.) You told me to be good and never to lose focus of who I am.
You are a great mum to mummy Adeniyi, and a devout confidant. You stood by her like a rock and always ready to fight for her. You were more than a friend to mummy Adeniyi. You are a woman with good spirit and you interacted with everybody alike without discrimination.
Life is quite cruel. In my day dreams, I get the feelings that you would be back soon. How I wish this is for real. So this is life! Your soul and love that you gave to many, will never die.
God's will we must accept, rest in peace mama Balogun.
Abrifor Constance
(O.A.U.I.S COUNCELLOR).
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Our deepest condolences to the Olutoye and Bamgboye families.
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Mrs. Balogun. We had the pleasure through the years of meeting Mummy when she would visit her daughter Fola and her family in Connecticut. She would accompany her and the family to church and always had a warm smile and kind words for us.
We saw her last when at Fola's surprise Birthday celebration where her love for her family was evident. Little did we know that would be our last meeting.
We know she had a staunch faith in Jesus Christ and she is rejoicing in His presence.
May God enfold you in His warm embrace. Mummy Rest in Peace.
With Love and respect,
Yaaba and Chris Diaba.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Dearest "Mummy TB", as we friends of Toyin called you, while in Medical School in Ife, in the 80's. We were very shocked & saddened to learn of your demise. Thank you for all the love, kindness, empathy, and nurturing you showered on us throughout medical school......... we secretly called you the "ultimate mother hen" , we will always remember your scrumptious cakes and doughnuts! Though we still mourn you, we have decided we need to CELEBRATE your wonderful and exemplary life. I am glad I saw you recently at Ife (Prof. IKTs inaugural lecture), as well as at your grandson, Yinka junior's wedding last year in Houston, and got one last 'strong hug' from you. May the good Lord receive you, and may perpetual light shine on your soul, AMEN. REST IN PARADISE, Mummy TB !! From Chinwe (aka Helen Ugwu)
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Only remembered by what we have done,
Only the truth that in life we have spoken,
Only the seed that on earth we have sown;
These shall pass onward when we are forgotten,
Fruits of the harvest and what we have done.
Grandma and Mummy Balogun, the news of your passing on to glory left us with pain in our hearts but, we are rest assured you have gone to be with the Lord. You left us with Beautiful memories of your Infectious smile, Your caring, loving and nuturing heart of a Mother. Your Charm brightens the day of every soul that comes Your way, and We must also admit Your Beauty, Elegance and Love for nature speaks volume. Your Legacy lives on forever in our hearts. Rest on Beloved and May the Lord Comfort The BALOGUN Family and Us all Griefing of GRANDMA/MUMMY BALOGUN Passing on to Glory. Amen

On Behalf of The OLOBA Family Ile- Ife, Nigeria & New York, USA
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Ma. My earliest memories of you are from visiting your home on Road 11 (that always smelled of something baking)...

The fondest memory is of the first time I saw and ate aniseed on a burger bun... It was at yours... Aniseed... those little things... Who would've thought...? I guess that's why they say "it's the little things that count...".

Rest well Ma. It is well deserved...
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mummy Ebunoluwa Balogun, a virtuous and loving woman.
You are sorely missed. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Sweet Aunty I saw you last when we went with the Solomon's to Kwara for a wedding. I shall miss your candid advice and love. Goodnight dear God will give Daddy and the children the fortitude to bear the loss. Odigbose. Mrs M O Layokun
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Our deepest condolences to the Balogun, Olutoye and Bamgboye families, from the Aro family in Missouri. Aunty “Mummy Balogun” was like another mother to me, during my brief stays in Ile Ife early in University and on return for an elective at the Teaching hospital. Her hospitality and her ability to it take upon herself to make my concerns and troubles hers, be my advocate and ensure my welfare was amazing, and this is the story of so many others. No you cannot go hungry around her! Her seemingly boundless kindness and generosity, jovial and uplifting personality and intelligence were truly unique. I believe God sends us people like her who are one of a kind to show us how we can be better people, and to cherish and nurture all those who cross our paths. May God comfort the entire family and give you sweet memories of her well spent and magnificent life. You have all been a blessing to us. We know Mummy rests in the Lord, and thank God for sending her to touch our lives. 

Ranti Aro
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
From Esther Idachaba

With a heavy heart I struggle to write this tribute. I never dreamed of doing this, at least not now. But I have to now. Mrs. Ebun Balogun, Mama Toyin as I usually called her, the friendship between the two families started in late summer 1967 in Hyde Park, Chicago Illinois. I had no idea that the friendship would be a life long journey.

The news of your passing on hit like a bullet and shattered me. Who could have known that our meeting and staying together in Lagos last September (2019) would be the last time of our seeing face to face! What can I say at a time this? All we are left with are memories. Can I ever forget what you did for me? You took and cared for Achenyo, a baby of under a week old when I had to go to the hospital on admission. But that was you, compassionate, caring and loving. Throughout the years of our friendship, I never heard of you being sick. You were such a vibrant, energetic woman, never a dull moment with you. But the Lord wants you home and so we have no choice but to say farewell Mama Toyin. May the Lord who has called you home be with all those you have left behind. May He protect and comfort your dear husband, Toyin, Folake and their families and the rest of us all. Rest in Perfect Peace.

Esther Idachaba
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mummy Balogun!
It’s taken this long because the right words fail me. You were so energetic and youthful I thought you would be with us the next 15 years at least. Someone said to me they couldn’t believe you were past 80!
You were a true example of the Biblical virtuous woman. You were loving, giving, kind, disciplined, resourceful, joyful, strong, God-fearing, I could go on and on...
You loved God and you loved all people especially the disadvantaged. You told me the story of how you became so passionate about fighting for those that were oppressed. You organized a (DBMM) mission trip in Ife and took part in other trips. You took care of the whole team making sure we were well fed. You were truly one of Gods Generals.
Mummy Balogun you have left a wonderful example to all of us your children to follow. What a remarkable legacy! All the testimonials are evidence of your life of impact.
Our heartfelt sympathies and prayers for Daddy Balogun, the Olutoye’s and the Bamgboye’s.
In the midst of our sorrow there is joy in knowing that mummy is translated to eternal Peace and Joy. She lives forever in the hearts of us all and in the presence of her Lord and Savior. It’s goodnight to Mummy Balogun. Rest on in glory
From the Oladute’s
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
From Deacon J A and Deaconess F O Ogunwuyi

A PAINFUL SEPARATION
It is unbelievable that your last visit shortly before you travelled to the US and our long discussion via whatsap was going be the last.
You were a beloved sister and friend. Knowing you on our getting to OAU Ile- Ife in September 1978, through my friend late Mrs Aderonke Amao was most outstanding and astounding because you were very warm and affectionate radiating true, pure, genuine love.
You dissected information and probed to get the facts looking before you leaped into any issue. You committed yourself wholly to justice and fair play. You had no time for unwholesome associations. Very Frank and straight forward.
You pursued to logical conclusion any cause you believed in like getting the Computer Centre for Ebenezer Baptist Church Ile Ife.
A rare gem, a true great friend who stayed through the thick and thin seasons of life. Constant as the Northern 'Star.
You were an example of a true mother and wife not allowing challenges to stand in your way to train and care for them. An outstanding role model. Frank,fearless, energetic, outstanding, genuine, humane, selfless, loving and caring. A beautiful life.
Will definitely miss your visits and our genuine heart to heart discussions. So long, farewell, have your deserved rest and peace with your Redeemer.
Your darling husband and constant companion is definitely missing you. The Almighty God will console him, Toyin, Folake and their dear husbands as well as all the grand children and relations.
REST IN PERFECT PEACE LOVE YOU.

Deacon J. A. and Deaconess F. O. Ogunwuyi
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
My dearest Aunty Ebun, i was shocked at hearing your passing on to the great beyond. You were a wonderful person to me,although when I was a child I feared you greatly yet had a lot of respect for you. I remember when every weekend mum will drop me off at your house at OAU ile-ife and i would play when u are not around but when you came I was so quiet till mum came to pick me up.
I remember your words of encouragement to me in 2009 when I called you.
My condolence Uncle Dayo, Sister Toyin and Sister Folake, I believe Aunty has gone to a better place and I do believe we will all meet there to part no more in the mighty name of Jesus Christ Amen.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Grandma Ebun Balogun was truly a gift to everyone who came across her. She was kind-hearted, fearless, charming, fashionable and took interest in everyone's wellbeing. I always marveled at how strong and agile she was, being involved in so many charitable works, yet never failed to show up at our family gatherings, with trays of her signature doughnuts, cakes and kegs of zobo drink, which were undoubtedly relishing.

I enjoyed accompanying my mum to visit her, as there was never a dull moment with her and this also gave us an opportunity to re-admire her well beautified surroundings and nicely decorated kitchen. Grandma's thoughtfullness came through as usual, when she volunteered to plant flowers around our new home in Ife, because she knew my mum greatly admired hers. She single handedly planted and nurtured them, and the flowers beautifully surround our home today, courtesy of her green fingers.

Since hearing the news of her passing, my emotions have been mixed. Tears, for I know she is gone never to attend any of our future family gatherings and laughter, for I know she is planting some Golden Tulips as she walks along the Streets of Gold leading to her final abode.

Sleep on Grandma, Sleep on my mum's confidant and friend, it was a pleasure going through part of life's journey with you.
Odaaro ma! Odoojo ajinde!!
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
Mummy, mummy as l fondly call you, words alone cannot express my heartfelt pain on your exit. You were such a loving and caring mummy. I was looking forward to seeing you in Nigeria when l learnt of your travel, so that we will welcome you back to the United Sisters' Society. I recalled the warm working relationship l had with you when you were the Chairperson of our Society as your Secretary. When l informed Tunmise of your exit, she was dumbfounded. I, however, bring to mind Apostle Paul's words in l Thessalonians 4:13. I pray that the good Lord will console daddy Balogun, the children, grandchildren and the entire Balogun family. Sleep on, sweet mummy, until that glorious morning.
June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
My dear Aunty
 
You are truly appreciated and sorely missed.
I have such lovely memories of the special role you played in my life.
When all hope seemed lost over 40 years ago, you made sure my birthday parties were celebrated alongside Toyin's. In addition to this
I always looked forward to those endless sleepovers I spent in your home.
Thank you soooo much.
At my wedding you contemplated putting on both head-ties (Geles) since you were closely knit to both families.The list goes on......
Aunty, you are one of a kind.A rare gem. Full of love.Always buzzing with so much energy. A genuine Giver.A Blessing!
You have indeed left an awesome legacy.

Rest in His Perfect Peace
Much love
Mausi Adewakun





June 29, 2020
June 29, 2020
I felt the shock that you passed on when the sad news came to me. I am grateful to Almighty God for showing me a very organized mother and grandma, loving, wonderful, forgiving, straightforward, hardworking... I wonder where she got her energy from in her life time. May your gentle soul Rest In Peace Mummy Balogun.

Adebowale Adenrele-Orishabiyi
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Happy posthumous 85th birthday GrandmaB. We have treasured memories of you that brings smiles to our faces. Your place still remains unfilled. Rest in peace Mummy. 
December 30, 2023
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Auntie Ebun, it's just like yesterday that I was chatting with you on the phone but have no idea that was going to be our last conversation......Today would have been your Birthday and you would have been busy preparing delicious dishes and cakes and all kinds of goodies, as your tradition is but death snatched you away from us just like that. However, death cannot erase your memory from our minds.  Therefore, my dear auntie, you live on in our hearts and we know that you are resting with your Lord and Savior. I believe we will see again in the sweet by and by at Jesus feet, to part no more, so let us comfort one another with God's Word of hope and assurance of life after death. 

Sleep on Auntie Ebun, we love you, but God loves you Best.

Fron Angela Bola Benson  Nee: Omolokun
December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
Aunty, Hardly a day passes without my making reference to you. You are forever missed. If you were not resting in the Lord and still with us, we would have had one of our insightful conversations after giving your birthday greetings. I thank God for the awesome relationship we had. I am still enjoying the blessing you were in my life.
Love you lots.
Her Life
June 27, 2020
Born in Ila Orangun, Osun State Nigeria on December 30, 1938, Mrs. Balogun attended Holy Child College Lagos, Queen’s College Lagos and Baptist Girls High School Agbor, Nigeria.  She obtained her undergraduate degree at Virginia Union University in Richmond, Virginia, USA in the 1960s where she played an active part in the civil rights movement of the time.  Her activism led to a career in social work where she had been an unflinching defender of the oppressed, a champion of the under-served and a promoter of social justice. She obtained her Masters in Social Work from the University of Wisconsin, in Madison, Wisconsin. She continued to reflect these ideals even long after her retirement.  She impacted many lives through her work at the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife, Nigeria, the university hospitals, and numerous other projects in schools as well as career development centers in the city of Ile-Ife and around.  A dedicated member of Ebenezer Baptist Church, Ile-Ife for over 45 years, she was actively involved in the Church school and projects.  She supported visiting missionaries and was well known for her hospitality.  To have known Mrs. Balogun is to have experienced her infectious energy, love of life, no-nonsense stance, can-do attitude and a general commitment to, and investment in, the lives of everyone she met. She fought the good fight, has finished her race, and is resting in the arms of our Lord.

She was preceded in death by her brother Professor Taiwo Daramola and her son Kolawole Balogun.  She is survived by her husband of 54 years Professor Ekundayo E. Balogun, her daughters Professor ‘Toyin Olutoye (‘Yinka) and Mrs. Folake Bamgboye (Chris), grandchildren – Dr. Oluyinka Olutoye II (Adedola), Olutomi Olutoye, David Bamgboye, Lizabeth Bamgboye, Rebeka Bamgboye and numerous other “children”, nephews, nieces, family and friends.  She will be sorely missed, but all our lives have been made better by her impact. We rest in the comfort that she is spending eternity with Jesus Christ.




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A Star goes Home

June 29, 2020
I couldn’t hear enough about Aunty Ebun as soon as my parents and siblings arrived from their sabbatical year at the University of Chicago in 1970. She was the younger sister mom never had, a bundle of energy, a go-go person who is never daunted by the most challenging situation. When she got to visit, I was in boarding school and missed meeting her. I kept trying to picture her in my mind and, with all my broad imagination, I was not prepared enough for the real Aunty Ebun when we eventually met.

August 1981, I just arrived with my husband in Madison, Wisconsin after our wedding the same month. I got a call from Aunty Ebun, telling me the story of my life and that she was holding a wedding reception for us the following Saturday. My husband comes in and my first question was, ‘Who is this Mrs. Balogun here in Madison? ”He told me his version - Mrs. Balogun is the mother for all Nigerian students at UW (University of Wisconsin). I told him we have been mandated to attend our own wedding reception the next Saturday at her house.and his answer was - I hope you told her yes, because no one says ‘No’ to Mrs. Balogun. It took me aback and I wondered why no one will say no to her but, I soon learnt that was because she exuded love to everyone around her and constantly made herself available to help others.

I was still wondering who this Mrs. Balogun is - she knew so much about my me despite never having met me, knew each of my siblings and parents so well, and now wants to hold a wedding reception for my husband and I in Madison, Wisconsin and I can’t say no?. Next, I picked up the phone and called my dad in Nigeria to inquire about this Mrs. Balogun. He was excited that I would finally get to meet the Aunty Ebun they had always talked to me about. When I told him she was holding a wedding reception for us, his answer was ‘that sounds like what Ebun will do’.

Come the Saturday, we headed to the Balogun’s residence in Madison, WI and virtually all of UW’s Nigerian community was there for a lavish reception. I was overwhelmed that someone I had never meet would go to that extent to celebrate my husband and I. That was only the beginning! Aunty Ebun was constantly in my life, checking on me, asking about my siblings. She never tired of following up on us and encouraging me in every aspect of life. When I needed to take my board exam in Richmond, Aunty, Toyin and Yinka were all on deck to support me. Whenever she visited Toyin & Yinka in Houston, I was sure to get a call and when I would go visit, I got all the pampering needed to last me till the next visit. Her mission was hospitality and caring for others and she was ever accommodating and loving. She was endowed with extending grace and kindness to everyone she met.

Talk about her energy, I'm yet to find another human being that's a match. In 2013, my daughter proposed to collect data for her MS. Thesis from OAU Hospital in Ile-Ife. Once I told Aunty Ebun about this, she went to work, got in touch with all the officials needed to get approval for the study at OAU hospital and sent the feedback regarding the procedures for her to follow to get approval. When we arrived at Ife, I could not keep up with the speed with which she moved around to get through through the process. I opted to sit back, watch her in action, knowing for sure that she'll get job done excellently. I enjoyed being pampered while admiring how she had harnessed nature in her beautiful home. In 2010, she shouldered part of the arrangements for my brother’s wedding and got things ready before my arrival in Nigeria and in 2017, in spite of schedule conflicts that she had expressed to me, she still showed up with Uncle Dayo and Toyin at my son’s traditional wedding. It was a surprise how she juggled the schedule to be there for my family and the other event but it was no surprise that Aunty Ebun will do whatever she needed to touch each person.

Aunty Ebun has been more than I imagined; selfless, energetic, compassionate and relentless in seeking to help however she could. She gets wind of a need and off she goes, garnering all her energy and resources to help even before she’s asked. Her sense of humour was a magnet that not only drew people to her, but often helped to lighten whatever burden one might have been carrying. She had a word of encouragement foe each situation.

Chuck Palahniuk said ‘The goal isn’t to live forever, the goal is to create something that will.’ Aunty Ebun certainly has left her footprint in the sands of time. She has impacted my life immensely, and I am sure the life of many others. She has left us a legacy that holds her dear to each of her hearts and has touched many lives. As Buddha said, ‘Neither fire nor wind, birth nor death can erase our good deeds’ while Mother Theresa claimed that ‘Death is nothing else but going home to God, the bond of love will be unbroken for all eternity’.  Aunty Ebun will always live in the hearts she has touched and will be greatly missed. One thing is certain, her legacy will surely live on as she rests with her Savior. The heavenly star has now returned home after beaming her light on this world.

Sleep on Aunty and enjoy your deserved rest. May the Lord uphold and sustain Uncle, your biological children, grandchildren and the numerous other children that you have cared for. Amen.

June 29, 2020
Mrs Balogun was a family friend. Very loving woman and friendly. I could not believe it when I saw her at my 50th btd. She travelled all the way to lagos from Ife. May her soul rest in peace. 

‘No man is an island,

June 28, 2020
by Anu N
‘No man is an island,
Entire of itself.
Each is a piece of the continent,
A part of the main.
If a clod be washed away by the sea,
Europe is the less.
As well as if a promontory were.
As well as if a minor of thine own
Or of thine friend’s were.
Each man’s death diminishes me,
For I am involved in mankind.
Therefore, send not to know
For whom the bell tolls,
It tolls for thee’.

John Donne (1572-1631).

It was only last year, on the 22nd of June, to be precise that Aunty Ebun was in the thick of activities to lay our mother, Mrs Hannah Olambimpe Obaro, her cousin by blood but Aunty in practice to rest in Ayetoro Gbede, Kogi State, Nigeria.
Now, one year and a week later, Aunty Ebun has transitioned to join her!

How greatly diminished we have been in a year as human beings and as a family.
Uncle Dayo, your grief and sense of voidness will be the greatest. We can only imagine.
‘The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living.’
(Marcus Tullius Cicero)
Though cousins by blood, but Auntie in practice, Aunty Ebun, your life continues in our memories. We pray that the good Lord will let all the good seeds that you have sown germinate and endure. May the Lord help your offsprings and families fulfil their destinies

Uncle Dayo, the all powerful God will uphold you.
OLU and AYO OBARO and FAMILY.

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