I believe I will start at the beginning.  When Eddie came into Susan's life I was instantly a fan.  He was always kind, respectful and loving.  I knew he was the 'one' and hoped Susan did too.  They were young and starting their life together and it was beautiful to watch.  As I sit here this morning I am thinking about what brought us so close to each other.  Was it delivering Bassett Hound puppies int he middle of the night?  Was it taking Zachary in the middle of the night because they did not know what else to do with a colicy baby.  I would walk and rock Zachary while Mom and Dad got some sleep.  As time went on Kade was welcomed into this precious family and I was so proud for them.  I always thought of Eddie as an 'old soul' and looked up to the man, husband and father he was.  I place Eddie on my perfect husband, father and man of God list.  I must say that list is very short.  When the boys were young they would sometimes stay with me while Mom and Dad had a night out or sometimes on their tight budget a night in.  Mostly Susan would call and ask if I could take the boys for the night but sometimes Eddie would make that call saying he wanted to surprise Susan.  I was always available no matter what.  Over these last 10 months I have watch God's hand in the lives of this precious family.  I don't know that anyone else could have faced this horrid disease with the faith and grace these four have shown.  I know this strength comes only from God and their walk with him.  I know not to ask 'why' but I can't resist the desire to do so.  I know this is His plan.  I know He will continue to hold Susan, Zachary, Kade and all the other loved ones in his warm embrace.  I know there will be days ahead that are dark and that is a part of the process.  Everyone greives in their own way and that is within God's plan.  Dear Susan, hold each other tight and know so many people are continuing to lift you up in prayer and that will never stop.  I will for the rest of my life carry Eddie in my heart.  I Love You ALL So Dearly.       

I remember years ago Uncle Eddie, Aunt Susan, Zach, and Kade came and visted us in Virginia. While Eddie was here he replaced the locks on our house and I'm sure he pulled weeds and did anything else he saw that he could help fix, because these kinds of things that others might consider chores or work were just a reflex to him. Over these past couple of months I've read and heard countless stories of the nice things Eddie has done for people without even needing to be asked, like hanging a bike up in a family owned coffee shop or doing yard work for a family friend. He did all these wonderful things not only because he was a kind person, but because he was a doer. There was always something that needed to be done or someone that needed help, and it was usually Eddie doing it.
Several weeks ago I was talking to Eddie on the phone and I remember him seeming frustrated at not being able to do a lot of things. He said that he had been spending a lot of time just sitting and thinking about things and how this was an odd change for him. I bet he spent all that time thinking about his friends and family, and all the things he wish he could have been doing instead of sitting and thinking. He had this extremely rare trait of having kindness as a reflex. I'm not sure if this is something that is innate or can be learned, but it's a trait that everyone should strive towards and it's something that I'll aim for. 

In 2014 the Vitter and the McMahan clans finally went on a long overdue family vacation to the Outer Banks. One of my favorite memories of the trip was when we all took out the kayaks and paddleboards and paddled our way a mile or 2 towards a nearby lighthouse. This is a picture of Uncle Eddie and Aunt Susan in their two-person kayak, I'm sure Eddie was doing all the rowing while Aunt Susan pretended to row and worked on her tan.