Mom, today you would have been 84. You died so young. U didn't get to see me grow up which is good cuz I have made lots of mistakes. I have learned from them and I just wish u were here to help me. During the years u have been gone, I graduated and got 3 degrees and three cats. I was diagnosed with MS, which I thought was the worst thing that could ever happen to me, but actually dads death was the worst. I get very upset and jealous of my friends whose parents live to be 80. U left me way too early and dad died at age 64. Way too soon.I love and miss u everyday. Happy Birthday in Heaven Mom.

Since you have left this earth to become a angel, grandpa, uncles Barry, John,Chuck and Stanley have died. Only your sister is alive and I don't talk to her anymore so you will have to check on her yourself. Alex Finsel your Godson was in the military and has done very well. Also brother James is well too. We keep in touch by Facebook. Sue is now living at our house. Dan redid it so it would be easier for her. He closed off the upstairs and garage. I don't like it and I will never live their again. I live on the Southside and have a really nice place. A lot has happened since you passed. I graduated high school and received my AAS at SUNY Delhi. I worked for 3 months as a vet tech before being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. That was the only time I was glad you were not alive to see it. It was rough Mom, but I survived thanks to Our God Almighty. I have changed a lot since then and I only hope that you would be proud of me. I have made a lot of bad choices, as you know, but I am trying to recoup from them and live the way I was meant to.
I miss you every day and I have done many things I deeply regret and I hope you will forgive me. Until next time. Love ya

Every time I see my nephews I think of how proud you would have been of them. Jayson and Geoffery are married with kids of their own. Jenifer has 2 boys with red hair. lol. Dan had 2 boys Max and Danny. Steve also had 2 boys Logan and Mason. You would have loved your grandchildren and great grandchildren. Chuck became a minister and works at Berean Bible. Geoffery followed in his footsteps and is also a minister in one of the Carolinas. He and his wife Liz have 3 girls. Jayson and his wife Nicole live in Pennsylvania and have 3 boys. I had moved to Pennsylvania right after your death but came back, kicking and screaming (trust me) after dad died. I loved Pennsylvania, right in the heart of Lancaster. I think of you often and how much you would have loved my little place. I am now back in Binghamton living on southside. Remember I always wanted to live in our house. Well that didn't happen. Sue lives there now. She is doing ok. She divorced Bob shortly after your death and then married another Bob but is now dating a guy named Danny. Our family is huge now and dan usually hosts family gatherings. O and Dad died in 1993. Im hoping you guys are together in heaven watching over all of us. You did good Mom raising all of us. Love you and miss you to the moon and back infinity.