This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Edward Lau, 31, who passed away on March 14, 2016 surrounded by loving family and friends. He is remembered by his wife, Asuka; his mother and father Edith and Wilson and his sister and brother in-law Sandi and Andre.
Known for a big heart, a zest for life, an obsession for climbing and a belief that all fears can be conquered, he inspired every person he happened across during his journey in life around the world.
Ed, you made memories around the world and will be dearly missed. There are simply no goodbyes. Wherever you are, you are always in our hearts.
Tributes
Leave a tributeEvery year on my birthday I knew to expect the words "happy half birthday to me" from Ed on my FB wall. Some quirk of fate had us spaced exactly 3 1/2 years apart and it was a running joke that never got old. And this year I'm missing that post. Smart mouthed and witty, but he never forgot my birthday.
I always believed that everything happened for a reason. For better or for worse. I'll say again that if I could I would have rewritten history so we wouldn't have to be here today. But at the same time, Ed's memory makes us realize that we need to enjoy and live life to the fullest; to love beyond capacity, and to always be kind no matter what because kindness matters.
For his love, and his spirit, and to memories never forgotten; miss you, love you, may you continue to chase your dreams in the sky. Happy half birthday to you.
"For the last few days I have been stunned by the passing of a friend. A week prior, I saw him in the hospital. Although he was in an induced coma, I was sure he would get better and recover enough so that we could go climbing in a few month, or AT LEAST have a chance to speak. It is VERY difficult to accept his departure because he was a very rare breed - I NEVER witnessed him being dishonest, mean or negative in ANY way. We spent hours and hours talking about the life, things completely unrelated to climbing, work, the past, present, the future and of course we spent many days climbing in beautiful places like the Yosemite Valley, Tahoe, the High Sierra and Indian Creek. Based on all that, I'd say it is close to impossible to come across people who are as sincere, thoughtful, positive, hard working, kind, trusting and even innocent in a way. Happily married, well-educated, fit, with a lot of passion for climbing, Calgary Flames hockey and seeing what else is out there around the globe (he loved to travel!).
No matter if you follow organized religion, a cult, are an atheist, spiritual or don't really give a shit, it is sad to lose friends who should have another 60+ years on earth. Such events lead one to wonder about the meaning of life - the ultimate question for many. What are we here for and what comes after? The truth is that no one really knows...Why do things happen? Because they could, because they will in the future. Unfortunately none of Ed's friends or family can hang out with him in person, but we sure can improve by adopting and sharing some of his spirit, it would make the earth a better place.
Again, we are reminded HOW fragile the life is. Even for the healthy, fit and AWESOME people, there are no guarantees. No matter how badass or angel-like you or your friends are, the days are limited. It is easy to love the dead, but don't forget to appreciate the living. Personally, I value the lessons our friendship taught me and am sad it took an event like this to consider how lucky I am that our paths crossed in Yosemite in the fall of 2010. Climb on Edward Lau! I learned a lot from you..."
Eddie, I love you, I miss you and I am very proud of you ....
Kathleen and I are so sorry to hear of Eddie's passing.
Our hearts are heavy and saddened.
There are no words to express our deep sorrow and shock.
My fondness memories are listen to his piano practices and getting my ass kicked shooting hoops in your driveway when he was around 10.
Rest in peace our friend.
I knew Eddie since he was a young boy, as he studied piano with me for many years. Eddie was diligent, attentive and quietly determined to learn. He became a skillful player.
What I hold so dearly in my heart are Eddie's surprise visits. His last surprise visit was with Asuka several years ago on Christmas Eve. Around our kitchen table we talked and ate for many hours. Dear Eddie and Asuka, my family and I will remember you forever.
Marie and Dick Stein and family.
Today, it is exactly one month since you passed away. I have tears everyday because you meant so much to me. Everyday, I look at your pictures and am heartbroken - you just turned thirty one and had a successful career and a lovely wife. I wish I could have told you how much I love you before you went into coma.
All relatives and friends have broken hearts because you always offered help to people who need help, you spent time with friends when they were down. Your friends explained to me why you are well liked by people around you.
Even though every word is splashed with tears, I am very proud of you , my son , because you know the importance of love and friendship. True love and friendship are the best gifts in life. Love and trust are what give our life meaning.
You have given us true love and friendship. You have a big heart.
I enjoyed sharing my visions and insights with you because you are my son and a trusted friend.
Edward, it is my honour to be your father and your friend. Even though we say goodbye, spiritually, we are always connected. Your picture is always in my wallet.
Love you, for ever.
Dad
I'm so sorry to hear of Edwards passing. I can't imagine how difficult it must be. I'll be sending you my positive thoughts and prayers. I hope in time you may find strength in cherished memories and love.
Warm Hugs, Christine Black
We felt your recent loss of Eddie who has left at such a youthful age. The pain that no word can describe! We are so sorry for this terrible loss, your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
May you find the courage and strength to move forward in peace to know that his life was well-lived. May you find the comfort of the beautiful memories from his extraordinary spirit and smile, all survive in time of sorrow!
With our deepest and most heartfelt condolences,
Florence & Eric Yeung from Edmonton
I was shocked and so saddened to hear of Edward's passing. May the care and love of family, friends and colleagues give you some comfort and peace in the weeks ahead. Edward is in my thoughts and prayers.
Dennis Hale
I am very sad to hear about Edward. I hope there is some small comfort in knowing that your colleagues and friends are thinking of you.
Juli Sacco
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
So sorry to hear of your loss,
Mary Pelland
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. It is very sad indeed to loose someone so young and in the prime of his life. We wish you peace and comfort in this time of sadness.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you,
Vida & Victor Dix-Cooper
Leave a Tribute
Every year on my birthday I knew to expect the words "happy half birthday to me" from Ed on my FB wall. Some quirk of fate had us spaced exactly 3 1/2 years apart and it was a running joke that never got old. And this year I'm missing that post. Smart mouthed and witty, but he never forgot my birthday.
I always believed that everything happened for a reason. For better or for worse. I'll say again that if I could I would have rewritten history so we wouldn't have to be here today. But at the same time, Ed's memory makes us realize that we need to enjoy and live life to the fullest; to love beyond capacity, and to always be kind no matter what because kindness matters.
For his love, and his spirit, and to memories never forgotten; miss you, love you, may you continue to chase your dreams in the sky. Happy half birthday to you.
Please be patient.
An homage to a life well lived ….
A diehard Calgary Flames fan
https://forum.calgarypuck.com/showthread.php?t=153526&page=11
One user posted that Eddie had contributed 22,000 postings. This may not include the former name of this site nor may it include Eddie’s former user names which had been morphed at least 2 times. More than one postings even suggested to have the site changed to his user name. To celebrate his birthday, I have chosen a camcorder clipping on Eddie, the goalie playing hockey on the driveway and a few screen shots of the tributes to reflect Eddie’s legacy! Happy Birthday, my beloved son! (Both video and tribute screen shots are added to the gallery)