Tributes
Leave a tributeNot a day passes by
that you don't cross my mind
Not all of you departed
When you left earth behind.
You were gone before we knew it
and only God knows why.
It broke our hearts to lose you
the day God took you home,
But you didn't go alone brother,
for part of us went with you.
In our hearts there is a place
that only you can hold
filled with loving memories
more priceless than gold.
We will meet again someday
in a better place (you would've hated the last year!)
I thank God he made you
our brother while you were here on earth.
You are forever in our hearts, Ed.
-Tonya
Another year has gone by and I’m happy to tell you that your daughter Sarah has grown into a lovely young woman and she has all of your best qualities. I’m sure you are with her in spirit and always will be her guardian angel. Gin and I miss you terribly. It’s not the same without you and whenever we’re together, we bring up something funny you did or a memory. We were just talking about when you threw rocks into Mr. Eckhardt’s pool. He suspected you all along. That’s because you were a terrible liar. The other thing we laugh about was when you and Tim decided to throw a dart at a bullet and it exploded and nicked your ear. Of course, Dad didn’t feel sorry for you, he just said ‘Jesus Christ! What were you thinking?’ Ha. Fun times at the Purcells. Miss you brother❤️
I am sitting in my home office looking at the river, remembering the many days Ed and I spent exploring the shoreline, invariably falling in the water at some point. Those were the days when parents knew exactly where you only after you’d shown up at the dinner table.
We served Mass together at St. Ann’s Church, played baseball together for your Dad’s Little League team, caught crayfish from “Cool Brook” together, trapped small mammals with Lewis Eckhart together, fished together below the Glass Factory Falls, rode our bicycles together to the Riviera Theater, picked backyard apples together, ate ice cream cones together at the Tastee Freeze and we even fought each other on occasion.
(Obviously, that was before Ed grew to his full size, or I might not be here to write this.)
I suspect friendships at that age were based on geography as much as affinity, but we obviously sought out each other almost daily. Actually, most of our adventures started the same way-me knocking on the back door of your house and your Mother calling upstairs for Ed.
We largely went our separate ways after I moved a few miles away at age 13. But, about 5 or 6 years later we reunited for a summer as employees of the County Highway Department. I’m proud to say we immediately began acting like eight year olds who were foolishly entrusted with publicly owned heavy equipment. Details shall remain secret.
I remember the grown up Ed as a gentler and more thoughtful version of his much younger self, though he still was not above getting involved in mischief, like me.
Thank you for sharing Ed with me. Our friendship provided memories I will carry forward forever.
My condolences to you.
Mike Frey
Eddie - you are gone too soon like your brother Tim and your sister Margaret. The saying that only the good die young is so soon.
Seemed almost like a contest. Time does fly and we need to hold onto the memories of the good times in Barryville and Yulan.
It doesn't seem fair that your family has suffered so much and three lives were taken way too early. I have a lot of questions that need answering when I pass on.
Florence and I are praying for strength and peace for your family.
We were next door neighbors to the Purcell family in Barryville and our shared childhood lives were a combination of Sports Illustrated and Field and Stream. Ed was a vital part of that and i am so sorry to hear of his passing--way too young. My condolences to all who were part of Ed's life--childhood and beyond.
The Comiskeys
forever in my heart.....☮❤️
When I thought about sharing a memory about Ed, I honestly couldn’t find a place to begin. That’s the problem and the blessing of childhood friends. They are so woven within one’s fabric of self that it’s hard to find the beginning because are a part of who you were, and who you are. That is how I will always hold Eddie in my heart. He was such a strong, beautiful guy who you could count on in a variety of areas (!) who had a good sense of humor, a strong connection to family, and was also bound by his love of nature. And of course, a love of the strong fast car! When I think of Ed, the scent of a fresh, crisp Northeast fall follows this memory. It is with this scent of fall, that I will hold in my heart as distinctly his. Love to all of you… Mo Petkus
Love Kerri and Katie
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Delaware River Experience
I have been sifting through memories of times we spent together perhaps looking for a funny one share. Ofcourse, I was involved in the toad business and felt as though I had made few power moves that rated at the top { hiding in a 5lb tub of Scallops.} I also think the Jello was my idea, but these clever moments don't really compare to the practical jokes you played on other people. So longer story short, my mind wandered more into the territory of how connected to nature, the woods and sporting you were. I first remembered a nice wingshot you made, grouse hunting, in the woods behind The Emerson's at the end of Varney Road. A great moment to share with a friend,as wingshots without a dog invoved, are very challenging indeed. So that was a great memory but not the one I was really searching for. Last week a great memory surfaced. One that still fills me with respect and awe. On a warm summer day in Barryville looking for relief from the heat we { Ed, Ginny, Nick and myself} rented a raft or tubes I don't remember exactly and headed down the Delaware. The awesome part comes now! Ed didn"t get in the raft. He wanted to swim along so he could explore the bottom of the river looking for treasure lost by canoeists when they capsized. That he did!!! I swear Ed could hold his breath 3 times longer than any other human being. We went for miles with Ed disappearing below the surface for what seemed like way to long, only to surface thrusting some treasure high as he could in the air so we could see it. A lawn chair at one point. Ed was one with that river with it's Eel, Helgrammites, giant Carp, etc. I had never witnessed anything like that and never would expect to again. That was stunning Ed ! Thank you for that display of natural connectedness. I won't ever forget that afternoon. Peace and Love, Randy Lane
So I learned the gift of the gag from working with ed one time while I had the carburetor off a vehicle at the shop ed kept repeating to me "rumor has it those things smoke bad when you rebuild the carbs on them me being young had no clue what he was talking about but sure enough I fired that thing up and it filled the entire shop full of smoke all the while ed stood back by his tool box laughing see I told you those things smoke bad little did I know as I was contemplating what I had done wrong ed had dumped half a quart of tranny fluid down the opening where the carb went when I wasn't looking .then and there I started plotting my revenge and a couple weeks later my opportunity for pay back came ed had the heads off a Ford pickup belonging to the local ford dealer when he wasn't looking I dumped an entire quart down the exhaust pipe and waited for him to finish finally I'm gonna get him back well just as he's finishing up I look over and exclaim hey rumor has it those things smoke bad when you have the heads off ed just looks at me and smiles that sly smile of his and fires it up it's sitting there running huh no smoke well I didn't realize that exhaust has gotta get pretty hot before she'll start smoking but boy didn't she smoke it filled the whole shop full of thick smoke only problem was two sales guys from the dealer who owned the truck happened to be there while this was going on one of them say to the other wow hope that's not one of ours me and ed just laughed it took a road test almost all the way to freeport to clear that thing out filling both lanes of Rte 1 with smoke ya me and do kept everyone on their toes that year. Me and ed hit it off right from the time we met guess there's truth to the saying birds of a feather.but sad to say ed moved on we stayed in touch for awhile but then life came ed moved out of state children were born and we lost touch for along time.id see genny at the supermarket and always asked her hey how's ed doing we'd chat and then off to finish shopping very recently after much pressure from family I caved and got a Facebook account and the first old friend I searched was ed and low and behold there he was should have done it along time ago but my own stubbornness stopped me.we chatted caught up it was nice after all those years.imagine the shock when I open Facebook to learn wow Eds gone I can't even believe it .rest in peace ole friend some day we'll meet again who knows maybe those things smoke real bad when you rebuild them in heaven
Ed....the muscular kid with the blonde hair and blue eyes. Always a gentle soul, yet loved to laugh! I remember one Halloween there was an old bathtub across from the Eldred Inn just sitting there. Ed and a few others decided to lift it and put it under the light in Eldred. Just as they got it under the light, along comes a car! Ed slides down inside that deep, claw foot tub, hoping that the car doesn't stop....it didn't, but you should have seen the look on his face! Eddie, leaving black marks with his boots on the wood floors in the classroom. Peeling out, like he was driving a car...noise and all. Eddie...mooning the cars following the bus around town before the bonfire at the school.
I think my favorite story that Mike tells about he and Eddie is their rides to work at Ed Smith. Every morning, the one driving that day would call the other and make sure they were up. Mike said they would go as fast as the car would take them down 97 up the hill to the Hawks Nest and into Port Jervis. One morning one of the old guys that worked with them said, "Come on boys, tell me, when was the last time you went 100 mph?" Eddie turned to the guy and said, "What time is it?" Eddie was with Mike when they flipped the Duster on Route 55, out by Fox's garage. Mike and Eddie going to English Town to the Drag Strip. The Weinie Wagon. (I posted a picture of it.) And how can I forget how Mike talks about how every night Ed would wipe every one of his tools down and line them up in the tool box before they left.
Mike and Eddie had not been in touch in many years. Niether knew what had happened to the other. When I moved to Charleston, WV, we found Eddie on facebook, got his number and kept in contact with him via phone conversations. It was like all the years melted away. Mike and Eddie were best of friends, and Mike misses him horribly. Every day he makes a comment about Ed. We had planned for him to come and stay with us for a visit. We are just so very sad that it never happened. We love you, Ed! Wish this was just a dream, but save us a place. See you on the other side, Ed!