February 28
February 28
Happy birthday, sister. Rest well.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Mrs Effie Bondzie Ayayee, 63, born on February 28, 1952. Effie after a brief illness passed away in Johannesburg on October 7, 2015.
She is survived by her husband, Dr. Ellis Ayayee and three children Deede, Ayitey and Korkoi.
Effie will forever be in our hearts and minds.
Burial and Funeral Arrangements are as follows:
There will be no wake keeping
Saturday 12 December, 2015 (at Trinity United Church, East Legon – Accra)
7:00 am: Pre-burial service - the body will be laid in state.
9:00 am: Burial Service.
Final Funeral Rites and cultural performances begin immediately after the Burial Service.
Sunday 13 December, 2015
9:00 am: Thanksgiving Service at Ebenezer Methodist Church, Madina.
12:00 pm: Reception at Armed Forces Officers Mess, 37 Military Hospital, Accra.
MHB 517
Simply trusting every day,
trusting through a stormy way,
even when my faith is small,
trusting Jesus, that is all.
Trusting as the moments fly,
trusting as the days go by,
trusting him whate'er befall,
trusting Jesus, that is all.
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February 28
February 28
Happy Birthday, Effie! Your memory lives on!
October 7, 2023
October 7, 2023
Effie,
Today, on the eighth anniversary of your passing, we honor your memory and continue to carry your love with us. We miss you deeply, and you will never be forgotten. Da yie, ae!
Today, on the eighth anniversary of your passing, we honor your memory and continue to carry your love with us. We miss you deeply, and you will never be forgotten. Da yie, ae!
October 7, 2023
October 7, 2023
Hello Sister,
On occasion of the eighth anniversary of your passing, i want you to know that we are still thinking about you. I was recollecting one of your favorite meals; tatar (fried soft plantain) and aboboy (beans) and how much you liked that food. May the Good Lord grant you eternal rest peacefully in His bosom.
Kwamena
On occasion of the eighth anniversary of your passing, i want you to know that we are still thinking about you. I was recollecting one of your favorite meals; tatar (fried soft plantain) and aboboy (beans) and how much you liked that food. May the Good Lord grant you eternal rest peacefully in His bosom.
Kwamena
October 7, 2023
October 7, 2023
Incredibly another year has rolled by.
Nothing happens without us wondering what you'd have done or joked about the excesses you'd have gone into.
We see traits of you in your granddaughters- the turkielekie walk and all and we know you'll always be with them and us.
It is well.
Nothing happens without us wondering what you'd have done or joked about the excesses you'd have gone into.
We see traits of you in your granddaughters- the turkielekie walk and all and we know you'll always be with them and us.
It is well.
February 28, 2023
February 28, 2023
Hello Effie,
I wish you a happy birthday. May the Lord continue to keep you and watch over you. Rest well.
Kwamena
I wish you a happy birthday. May the Lord continue to keep you and watch over you. Rest well.
Kwamena
February 28, 2023
February 28, 2023
We remember you all the time but on a day like this we like to put it down in words. We still cherish you and you remain in our memories all the time. Happy Birthday, Effie!
October 7, 2022
October 7, 2022
Hello Sister,
You are gone but not forgotten. Rest well. Da Yie!
You are gone but not forgotten. Rest well. Da Yie!
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
Forever in our hearts
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
It's a day we used to celebrate with joyous flirtations.. But no more..
The curfew still tolls the knell of a passing beauty. Never forgotten by the deeds you have done Effie Bondz.
The curfew still tolls the knell of a passing beauty. Never forgotten by the deeds you have done Effie Bondz.
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
Hello Effie,
It just struck me that you would have been 70 year old today. How time flies! At times I wish we can peel the curtains to see how you are doing. But we carry on, knowing that you are in safe keeping because we have entrusted you the Lord's care. I have been thinking lately about some of the jollof rice you used to make. They were delicious. Sleep well, sister. Da Yie!
It just struck me that you would have been 70 year old today. How time flies! At times I wish we can peel the curtains to see how you are doing. But we carry on, knowing that you are in safe keeping because we have entrusted you the Lord's care. I have been thinking lately about some of the jollof rice you used to make. They were delicious. Sleep well, sister. Da Yie!
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
You're always on our minds, especially on a day like this. Rest in peace, Effie!
October 7, 2021
October 7, 2021
Effie, this quote by Dr. Joanne Cacciatore captures how I am feeling today in remembering you: "There are days when your absence is the loudest silence I've ever heard" Day Yie sister!
October 7, 2021
October 7, 2021
Your memories will always remain with us. Rest in peace, Effie!
October 7, 2021
October 7, 2021
As the curtain draws to a close
A new chapter slowly opens before our eyes
We scan the pages and involuntarily count the years
Six solid years, unbelievable but true
We have grown, we have multiplied and have promised ourselves not to unlearn the lessons on living as a family.
You are sorely missed Effie
A new chapter slowly opens before our eyes
We scan the pages and involuntarily count the years
Six solid years, unbelievable but true
We have grown, we have multiplied and have promised ourselves not to unlearn the lessons on living as a family.
You are sorely missed Effie
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
You will always be on my mind. Today, I join others as we fondly remember your birthday .
Other friends have crossed over since your departure but yours was just too soon.
Happy birth anniversary to you Effie
Other friends have crossed over since your departure but yours was just too soon.
Happy birth anniversary to you Effie
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
I wish you a happy birthday deat sister. May the Lord lift His Countenance on on you and bless you in Heaven on this special day. Da Yie !
February 28, 2021
February 28, 2021
Happy birthday my one and only handmistress. You were the first headmistresses of Association International School JSS branch. You taught us soo much. Especially how to talk, walk, sit personal hygiene. And lots of hymns. I do sing some to my kids.
I also remember some canes you gave to the class for not marking 70% of our internal mock. The whole class was on . Through all this the class of 1990 all came out with flying colours.
One thing I will never forget is your SMILE and LAUGHTER aaaaaa, its very contentious.
Madam as we affectionately call you, I have come this far by your principles and I say continue to rest in the bossom of our Lord and master Jesus Christ.
Gone but not forgotten. Forever in our ❤
Gabriel Ababio
Samuel Andrews
Asare Kwesi Addo
Michael Tampsopa
Ernest Martins
Ebenezer Lartey
Grace Bandoh
Theresa Yamak
Susan Qudorwor
Andry Abbew
Ama Sena
Julian Nartey
Juliet Ofori
Rukaya Tofaloi
Esther Mensah
Patience
Cynthia Kumi
Akyee
Above names where the first batch of AIS JSS class of 1990. We salute you Madam. Till we meet again. We say rest well.
I also remember some canes you gave to the class for not marking 70% of our internal mock. The whole class was on . Through all this the class of 1990 all came out with flying colours.
One thing I will never forget is your SMILE and LAUGHTER aaaaaa, its very contentious.
Madam as we affectionately call you, I have come this far by your principles and I say continue to rest in the bossom of our Lord and master Jesus Christ.
Gone but not forgotten. Forever in our ❤
Gabriel Ababio
Samuel Andrews
Asare Kwesi Addo
Michael Tampsopa
Ernest Martins
Ebenezer Lartey
Grace Bandoh
Theresa Yamak
Susan Qudorwor
Andry Abbew
Ama Sena
Julian Nartey
Juliet Ofori
Rukaya Tofaloi
Esther Mensah
Patience
Cynthia Kumi
Akyee
Above names where the first batch of AIS JSS class of 1990. We salute you Madam. Till we meet again. We say rest well.
October 7, 2020
October 7, 2020
SOMEONE IS MISSING
Let this be a loving reminder
That someone is missing today.
Someone our hearts still hold on to
(despite these 1826 days or 5 years)
As we travel along life’s way.
Someone who made life much easier
For all those whose paths did cross her’s.
Someone who won’t be forgotten,
But cherished from Year to Year.
And now as we pause and reminisce
Let us fondly recall how dearly each of us adored her.
And how she loved us all in her own special ways.
It is well……Epatanyo
Adapted from Genies’ poems.
Let this be a loving reminder
That someone is missing today.
Someone our hearts still hold on to
(despite these 1826 days or 5 years)
As we travel along life’s way.
Someone who made life much easier
For all those whose paths did cross her’s.
Someone who won’t be forgotten,
But cherished from Year to Year.
And now as we pause and reminisce
Let us fondly recall how dearly each of us adored her.
And how she loved us all in her own special ways.
It is well……Epatanyo
Adapted from Genies’ poems.
October 7, 2020
October 7, 2020
It is 5 years now since you passed on. Memories fade over time, but you, my sister Effie, are not a memory because you are part of me. Rest in peace (Da Yie) Effie.
February 29, 2020
February 29, 2020
It is not easy to forget you, Effie. Rest in peace!!
February 28, 2020
February 28, 2020
Happy birthday sister. I trust you are in God's safe keeping. Even though the years keep rolling on, your memory in our lives has not faded. Da yie!
February 28, 2020
February 28, 2020
Not forgotten, the trail you blazed for the family.
The investments we made together are reaping their benefits.
Trust you are able to peep over the demarcating line and say it was worth the while.
The investments we made together are reaping their benefits.
Trust you are able to peep over the demarcating line and say it was worth the while.
October 7, 2019
October 7, 2019
The love that you showered upon us will never be erased from our memories. We dearly miss you.
October 7, 2019
October 7, 2019
We miss you, Effie, as we still struggle with your absence. Your sweet memories, however, keep rolling in our minds to provide some consolation...
Enjoy your rest in our Father's House!
Enjoy your rest in our Father's House!
October 7, 2019
October 7, 2019
Hello Effie,
And so it is 4 years today when you suddenly left us to be with the Lord. Wherever you are, may you continue to sing with the heavenly choir: "Trusting Jesus that is all" You are in good hands with Him. Da Yie!
And so it is 4 years today when you suddenly left us to be with the Lord. Wherever you are, may you continue to sing with the heavenly choir: "Trusting Jesus that is all" You are in good hands with Him. Da Yie!
February 28, 2019
February 28, 2019
As we celebrate your birthday in this realm, I am painfully aware the vacuum created cannot be filled. 2019 is packed with nuptial celebrations. Your role is being taken over with measured restraint. That should put a smile on your face about your uniqueness. Happy bday dear.
February 28, 2019
February 28, 2019
Hello Sister,
On your birthday, we remind ourselves that we commended you into the Lord's Hands when He called you home. We trust that you are resting peacefully in Him. Da Yie!
On your birthday, we remind ourselves that we commended you into the Lord's Hands when He called you home. We trust that you are resting peacefully in Him. Da Yie!
February 28, 2019
February 28, 2019
You are still very much alive in our minds, Effie. Thanks for the memories. Rest in Peace.
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
I know you're in the Light Eternal and free from the pain and care of the world you left behind.
Look down on your loved ones and comfort them when they're secretly overcome with sadness.
When they need me I'll be there for them though I cannot take your place. This is the promise I made you and intend to keep .
Look down on your loved ones and comfort them when they're secretly overcome with sadness.
When they need me I'll be there for them though I cannot take your place. This is the promise I made you and intend to keep .
October 7, 2018
October 7, 2018
Hello Sister,
I was chatting with a friend yesterday and I made a remark that today will be the 3rd anniversary of your going home. My friend was surprised that it's been three years now. He said the three years have come so quick. Yes the wheels of time are churning and gradually the days are merging into months and the months merging to years. Nevertheless, no matter how time passes, the memories of you never fade. I trust you are resting in the Lord. My warmest greeting to Uncle and Auntie. Da yie!
I was chatting with a friend yesterday and I made a remark that today will be the 3rd anniversary of your going home. My friend was surprised that it's been three years now. He said the three years have come so quick. Yes the wheels of time are churning and gradually the days are merging into months and the months merging to years. Nevertheless, no matter how time passes, the memories of you never fade. I trust you are resting in the Lord. My warmest greeting to Uncle and Auntie. Da yie!
March 1, 2018
March 1, 2018
In the words of one brilliant lyricist, the memories are rolling in our minds...Rest in peace, Effie!
March 1, 2018
March 1, 2018
We celebrate your birthday
even though you’re gone ..
Precious memories, of You
can’t help, but live on.
Happy Belated Heavenly Birthday
even though you’re gone ..
Precious memories, of You
can’t help, but live on.
Happy Belated Heavenly Birthday
February 28, 2018
February 28, 2018
I wish you a happy birthday, sister. I trust you are resting in the arms of the Lord.
February 28, 2018
February 28, 2018
Happy Heavenly Birthday Mum!! <3
October 7, 2017
October 7, 2017
Quand s’éteint la plus belle des lumières, les yeux sont inondés de larmes. L’enfant déboussolé perd le plus précieux de ses repères: sa Mère chérie. Mais l’amour maternel jamais ne disparaît. Une fois donné il s’inscrit dans l’éternité. Tu as été la meilleure directrice d’école que j'ai eu de mon enfance. Merci infiniment!!!
October 7, 2017
October 7, 2017
Today is the second anniversary of your going home, Effie. I remember receiving an early morning call from Korkoi. She said: "....my daddy wants to talk to you". Then Ellis gave me the sad news and the bombshell.
We miss you. I miss you. You have left a unique void and space that only you can fill. We have trusted you into the arms of the Lord while we treasure memories of you in our hearts. Da yie sister!
We miss you. I miss you. You have left a unique void and space that only you can fill. We have trusted you into the arms of the Lord while we treasure memories of you in our hearts. Da yie sister!
August 1, 2017
August 1, 2017
We have had so far, as at first August 2017, 6800 views at this site. Am eternally grateful to family and friends who continue to keep her memory alive and the candle of her life burning bright. Let's keep it that way and God bless.
February 28, 2017
February 28, 2017
Today is the 65th anniversary of your birth. Sadly you are not here to celebrate with your loved ones and numerous friends. Nevertheless, nothing can erase your memories from our minds. Rest in Perfect Peace, Effie!
October 7, 2016
October 7, 2016
Rest in peace, Effie!! Your memories still remain with us.
October 7, 2016
October 7, 2016
Dear Sister,
It is a year now since the call came that you have passed on. You are still in our thoughts and sorely missed on this one year anniversary of your passing. I hope and trust that all is well with you because we left you in God's hands. Please extend my warmest greetings to Uncle and Auntie.
Your brother, Kwamena.
It is a year now since the call came that you have passed on. You are still in our thoughts and sorely missed on this one year anniversary of your passing. I hope and trust that all is well with you because we left you in God's hands. Please extend my warmest greetings to Uncle and Auntie.
Your brother, Kwamena.
July 15, 2016
July 15, 2016
Slowly but surely we are coming to terms with your departure. Others have gone before BUT YOU ARE SOLELY MISSED FBONDS.
March 4, 2016
March 4, 2016
Rest on in the Father's arms, dearest mum and mentor.
March 3, 2016
March 3, 2016
Your memory lives on! Rest in peace, Effie.
December 15, 2015
December 15, 2015
When we lose a loved one here on earth, we gain an Angel in heaven that watches over us. May you take comfort in knowing that you have an angel to watch over you now. We extend our most sincere condolences to you Uncle and your family.
December 12, 2015
December 12, 2015
Tribute from Georgina Boansi of Abelenkpe JHS. They who tread the path of labor do the holy will of God. This was the favorite song of my headmistress. Mrs. Bondzie Ayayee. You were really a mentor and you made me enjoy every bit of my profession.Now the laborers task is over grant your weary ones eternal rest. Damirifa Due. Due ni amanihunu.
December 11, 2015
December 11, 2015
It is very difficult to believe you're no more with us. I remember you for the charisma with which you thought the school anthem "Hail Association School..." at assembly. You nurtured me for the most of my formation years. You will be forever missed. Rest in the bosom of the Lord Mrs Ayayee.
December 5, 2015
December 5, 2015
...you hosted me well at ur home wen I was left at school n my parents had not come for me. Bath me, dressed me up in Korkoi's clothes... Wow... I felt I was home... Dinner was served shortly after my parents arrived at ur home with Osikani and had to leave ..., since den I realised you were more than a headmistress... You were a mother to the entire school. Ensuring that discipline was maintained and fair treatment to all students irrespective of ur family status, you stood by us in all situation, gave us all the love and support we need, motivated us to give out our best..... I cldnt believe my hears until Korkoi confirmed it... May God keep you safe in his blossom... Rest In Perfect Peace.., Mrs Ayayee
December 2, 2015
December 2, 2015
With tears streaming down all I can say is THANK YOU mummy. No words can express how I feel about you. Farewell!
November 18, 2015
November 18, 2015
Fffie:
Your memory can never be erased from our minds, just as in life it was not easy to forget you. We can't understand why you had to leave so soon. Da yie! Nyame mfa wo nsie!
Someday all suffering will cease. Our tears will dry up permanently, and we shall be safe in God’s arms forever (Rev. 21:4)
- Theo & Pat Acquah
Your memory can never be erased from our minds, just as in life it was not easy to forget you. We can't understand why you had to leave so soon. Da yie! Nyame mfa wo nsie!
Someday all suffering will cease. Our tears will dry up permanently, and we shall be safe in God’s arms forever (Rev. 21:4)
- Theo & Pat Acquah
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February 28
February 28
Happy birthday, sister. Rest well.
February 28
February 28
Happy Birthday, Effie! Your memory lives on!
October 7, 2023
October 7, 2023
Effie,
Today, on the eighth anniversary of your passing, we honor your memory and continue to carry your love with us. We miss you deeply, and you will never be forgotten. Da yie, ae!
Today, on the eighth anniversary of your passing, we honor your memory and continue to carry your love with us. We miss you deeply, and you will never be forgotten. Da yie, ae!
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Mrs EffieBondzie-Ayayee akaMrs Ayayee No 2-in our hearts always.
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Noxxy, keeping the candles still burning.
Year 2 in Johannesburg: shattered but not battered
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February 28, 2023
by ellis ayayee
Once in a lifetime, someone comes into your life that you really connect with. We called you mum, fbonds and the business woman. With all our beings we know you came and fulfilled your purpose.
We were fortunate to have you. Thanks for all the tough years we spent together, the joys and skills we imbibed. Thanks for being part of our lives. And on your birthday anniversary we salute your memory.
We were fortunate to have you. Thanks for all the tough years we spent together, the joys and skills we imbibed. Thanks for being part of our lives. And on your birthday anniversary we salute your memory.
Unforgettable :5 years on Mrs AyayeeNo2
October 8, 2020
We the family remember 2015. We recall the good times we had. We remember you when we have new Events and wonder what elaborate Effieish plans you'd have put in place. I know and believe you celebrate with us-how could you not with your zest of turning the most mundane occasion into a mini-party - be it having old friends over to eat- fufu. 'Uncle Paul' remembers. Jessie remembers the funtimes and the squabbles. Grant remembers your $50 pɛ tax whenever he visited. We ALL have our remembrances. Continue to send the Grandbabies-even in multiples. Don't forget to send us boys to create other Mrs Ayayees.
March 1, 2020
You have transformed and entered a world unknown to us but we remember you always-especially on your Birthday.
Cheers.
Cheers.