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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ekemezie Emeka 71 years old, born on October 23, 1949 and passed away on December 4, 2020. We will remember him forever.

Funeral Details
https://www.hansenspear.com/obituary/524914/dr.-joseph-ekemezie-emeka/wall/

Viewing 
Saturday January 9, 2021 from 7:00 am to 10:00 am at Hansen-Spear Funeral Home, 1535 State Street, Quincy, IL 62301. Please bring a mask if you plan on attending the visitation.

Funeral Service
Saturday, January 9, 2021 at 10:00 am at Hansen-Spear Funeral Home with Rev. Joe Zimmerman, OFM officiating. Please bring a mask if you plan on attending the service. To attend Dr. Emeka's service remotely (or to view a recording for up to 90 days), please join us by using the following link: 
https://client.tribucast.com/tcid/36276229

Burial
Saturday, January 9, 2021 at St Charles Memorial Gardens, 3950 West Clay Suite 200, St Charles, MO 63301.

Memorial Fund
We appreciate everyone's support during this difficult time. Dr. Emeka's death was unexpected. Flowers are welcome; should family and friends desire, contributions may be sent to Dr. Emeka's memorial fund. Donations collected will be used to assist Dr. Emeka's family with final arrangements. 

Memorial contributions may be made to the following:
Zelle – ubakaemeka@gmail.com
Cashapp – $AniemekeEmeka
Paypal – ofloemeka@gmail.com
Google Pay – ubakaemeka@gmail.com

Check payable to:
Aniemeke Emeka
613 Meadowlark Drive
Quincy, IL 62305
January 12, 2021
January 12, 2021
Aniemeke,
I am so sorry and shocked to hear of the passing of Joe. Recently I was hoping to run in to him and discuss the look of his home. I always enjoyed Joe and the times we played tennis together. I appreciated his humor and funny laugh. I also enjoyed working with him as a colleague. He definitely will be missed.
To my shock I saw your address and we just might be neighbors.
My prayers are with you.
Bob Mejer
January 9, 2021
January 9, 2021
Dr. Ekemezie Emeka was a warm, joyful, wonderful and very generous man.

He would be greatly missed by all who knew him.

May his Gentle Soul rest in perfect peace and the Good Lord grant his family the strength to bear his loss

Aloysius Anaebonam, PhD
Burlington, MA
January 9, 2021
January 9, 2021
Dear Uncle Ekemezie: Your wittiness and generous spirit to family and friends will remain with us. You were always quick with a smile, an encouraging joke, and wisdom. You will be sorely missed.
From your in-law, Jide
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021

Joe (affectionately called) had such an energetic, cheerful and enthusiastic spirit. His memories continue to live with us today. More than thirty (30) years ago, our parents from Liberia had the opportunity to live with Joe and our sister, Emma. During their visit, our parents expressed how they were well accommodated. They mentioned being treated with compassion and kindness. The kindness of Joe and Emma left an indelible mark on their hearts. The generosity they exhibited was profound.

Our parents are now deceased but their sentiments, memories, and kindheartedness they expressed about Joe continue to linger in our hearts today. Joe was naturally a God-given, sympathetic, and caring man to everyone he encountered. He loved people, and people loved him. We regret not expressing enough how much we appreciated him when he was alive for his kindness toward our family. As we celebrate his home going we are reassured that he is being rewarded by our Lord and Savior. Rest in peace Joe as we continue to pray for your peaceful home going.

-Levi Johnson for the Johnson family-
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021
Professor Joseph Ekemezie Emeka was my friend from our teenage years. (It's still awkward and difficult to refer to him in the past tense).
We met at Anam, Nigeria in 1968 during the Nigeria-Biafra war when most people left the cities for rural homelands.
The friendly and boisterous nature of Ekemezie made him to become friends with many, including yours truely. He soon got group's together among them the "Iheleme" boys with their frequent get together at the "Jew Cabin " at Okpokpo. Even before our university years, he had several groups (clubs) where ever he was. I remember during the high school years, his friendship tentacles extended across state line from Asaba in then Bendel State ( where he attended the popular St Patrick's College) to Onitsha in Anambra State. His frequent visits to me at the "ruins " at old market road, Onitsha; group visits to Akunne-Ogbe-Ndida, willie-opalangada, papa ray & papa emma, etc, etc. Ekemezie always lived life to the fullest hence the nickname' chairman of the good time boys (nna ndi idle civilian).
Joe came to USA a couple of years before me but when I came, he received me with open arms and shared his apartment with me for a year and half. The good old years at 316 N. Edwards. He was a very giving person and will share his last dollar with you not minding. He helps all. His red mustang convertible ,then at Western Illinois University, was always taking people places that his other name became "Emeka mustang" at Western Illinois University (western). He was friends with students and faculty alike at Western
Joe had a strong leadership capability. He was the go-to person when the university wanted to pass information to the foreign students
Ekemezie's easy going personality and organizational abilities kept him indispensable at groups that he belonged to. Consequently each group had a unique name for him such as " Ibaramus Ijairo", Tony Thompson E. Or simply E'mezie.
Dianyi (ol boy) Ekemezie, you will be greatly missed by your family and many friends. I am still processing the fact that you are gone. I am sad, very sad.
May the Almighty God receive and protect you soul.
To Ezeanata, Emma and the rest of Prof Joseph Ekemezie Emeka family, please accept our condolences. Your Patriarch did his job by getting you where you are today as contributing members of society. Maintain his legacy. "Ndo ni umu m".
To the entire Emeka Onochie family of Anam, Nigeria, may the good Lord give all of you the fortitude to bear this great loss.
To my good friend, E'mezie, Ibaramus, Tony Thompson E., GOOD BYE.
Be a good and effective advocate for us, your family and friends ,before God Almighty.
REST IN PEACE.

From: Dr. Mbanefo Onyeka
Anam, Nigeria.
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021
I met "Dr. Joe" as a sophomore at Quincy College in a calculus class. While I liked math a lot, his love of learning, math, and life were an inspiration. I loved every one of his classes and it was an honor to have him until I graduated there as well. I saw him a few times after graduating when coming back to QU for homecoming, but not as much I would have liked to. I would love to hear him tell stories about growing up, coming here from Nigeria... From all the adversity and challenges in his life, he was so positive and a great role model. I will cherish those along with his laugh and his ability to find love and joy in life, no matter how tough things get.

And I know that his influence was not just felt by me, but there are many other lives that he has made better. In speaking to people that studied with him or under him, most mention that they remember his smile and his laugh more than anything, and also his passion for learning and life.

There are just a few people in my life that have really helped me form my core values and outlook on life. Dr. Joe is one of those rare people. For the short time that I was his student, it was truly a privilege. Thank you so very much for all you have taught me. May you rest in peace and those whose lives you touched continue to be inspired by you and share that inspiration and love.
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021
An IROKO tree had fallen, your smile will be missed but I will forever cherish the time and memories you had left in me.
  THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING!!!
January 8, 2021
January 8, 2021
Chief Dr. Joe Ekemezie Emeka, Afu enyi amalu enyi 1 of Anam mba Issa Duka as I fondly called you.
 I’m still struggling to accept of your sudden demise.
 Your love for football(soccer) brought us together at the Annual Springfield international soccer tournament, ever since then you had became a father figure,uncle, brother and a confidant to me.
Your frequent calls,text messages to me to check on me and my family and to joke with me and discuss what is going on here in the US, Nigeria, Anambra state, Anam and Achalla in particular which is the area we both came from. Your love and care for others was second to none.
The void you left in my heart ,in the heart of your family members, loved ones and friends will be hard to fill.
 My goings to the Springfeld international soccer tournament will not be the same for me again without you there because I always looks forward to seeing you, eating, joking and chatting with you.
Your presence will forever be missed but your Legacy will live Forever on....
We love you but God loves more....
 We loss you on the earth but the heaven received and added another SAINT to their Midst.
Adieu Papa! You had ran a good race. We will someday meet to part no more.
MAY YOUR EVER GENTLE SOUL REST IN PERFECT PEACE, AMEN!!!
January 5, 2021
January 5, 2021

Joe Emeka was a huge part of my husband's student days at Western Illinois University, Macomb, IL. in the early 1970s. As I heard it, Joe -- gregarious, funny, loud and generous to a fault -- was the center of the social life and an instigator of many parties for homesick fellow students.

For years, I didn't know Emeka was his last name. I thought the "Joe" was simply to set him apart from all the other Emekas in my husband's (an Emeka, too) circle of friends. He was my husband's friend, and he became mine, too.

Joe Emeka was the go-to guy among the small band of Nigerian students in Macomb. He was the one who seemed always to have a pack of cigarettes or a six-pack to share or the time to drive someone to the grocery store. He drove a Mustang that seemed always to be going to or coming from Quincy or Springfield or someplace.

On one of those trips, Joe, who apparently had discovered a rock band called Alice Cooper, decided to share the music with his passenger, my husband. Of course, they were not listening to the radio and so failed to hear the tornado warnings until the sky turned ominously dark and a howling wind drowned out Alice Cooper. Joe parked the car. For the first time on that ride, they sat there in silence, scared to death. My husband says that was the closest he ever came to a tornado in Macomb, and he never let Joe Emeka forget that he nearly killed them both because of Alice Cooper.

I never met Joe Emeka in person, but over the years, he became more than a voice on the phone. There was laughter in his voice, an energy and enthusiasm in his greeting that lifted up the spirit. "Eii, nwaye Ghana, how is my brother?" he would begin a conversation. I would turn the phone over to his "brother," and they would chat on and on, reminiscing, sharing the trials and tribulations of their academic careers and updates on family life.

In the past year or so, when he learned that his friend's health was failing, Joe made it a point to call in every month to check up on him and encourage us. And without fail, he would have a recommendation for some Nigerian comic or other that we absolutely had to watch on YouTube.

We did not get a chance to say goodbye. We did not expect a text message announcing that a friend and brother has slipped away.

Joe Emeka, rest peacefully. You made such a difference in the time God gave you here.

Emeka and Laura



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January 12, 2021
January 12, 2021
Aniemeke,
I am so sorry and shocked to hear of the passing of Joe. Recently I was hoping to run in to him and discuss the look of his home. I always enjoyed Joe and the times we played tennis together. I appreciated his humor and funny laugh. I also enjoyed working with him as a colleague. He definitely will be missed.
To my shock I saw your address and we just might be neighbors.
My prayers are with you.
Bob Mejer
January 9, 2021
January 9, 2021
Dr. Ekemezie Emeka was a warm, joyful, wonderful and very generous man.

He would be greatly missed by all who knew him.

May his Gentle Soul rest in perfect peace and the Good Lord grant his family the strength to bear his loss

Aloysius Anaebonam, PhD
Burlington, MA
January 9, 2021
January 9, 2021
Dear Uncle Ekemezie: Your wittiness and generous spirit to family and friends will remain with us. You were always quick with a smile, an encouraging joke, and wisdom. You will be sorely missed.
From your in-law, Jide
His Life
December 26, 2020
The late Dr. Ekemezie Joseph Emeka was born to the late Mr. Ogbuevi Emeka Onochie and Madam Iyom Anedu Maria Emeka (nee Obiorah Nwadegbu) in Umueze Anam in Anambra State, Nigeria on October 23, 1949. He was the youngest of four children. At birth, he was known as Ekemezie Emeka. Upon completing catechism and being baptized in the Catholic Church later in life, he chose the name of his favorite Saint, Joseph. His father died on January 7, 1953. At the time of his father's death, Ekemezie was just 4 years old. Mike, his immediate elder brother was 11. Nnodu, his sister, was 16, and his eldest brother, Igwe John Emeka was 21.

Like many children growing up in the community along Omabala (River Anambra), Ekemezie would set fish traps and assist the family with farming. This type of work usually leads to a life of becoming a skilled fisherman or manual farmer. At a young age, Ekemezie disliked manual farming in the intense tropical sun and leaned towards fishing. He became quite adept and enjoyed fishing throughout his lifetime.  

In the community during that time, attending school was not compulsory. However, Ekemezie’s father discerned his intellectual ability at a young age, thereby advocating for his access to schooling. Ekemezie moved from the farm settlement to the main village where the community school was located and became known as “umu akwukwo,” which translates to “Intellectuals in training.” While attending both high school in Awka and St. Timothy’s College Yaba, Lagos, Ekemezie excelled in academics.

In the meantime, he was forced to withdraw from school when the Nigeria Civil War broke out in 1967 and moved back to the village. After the war in 1970, he attended St. Patrick's College Asaba to complete his studies. While in school he discovered his passion for Mathematics. He also enjoyed playing and watching sports, especially soccer and tennis, and would later prove to be an excellent tennis player. Upon completing his high school education, Ekemezie left for the United States to pursue higher education as an international student.

He completed his Bachelor of Science Degree in Mathematics from Western Illinois University in Macomb, IL in 1975. In 1983 he earned his Master of Studies Degree in Mathematics from the University of Missouri in Colombia, MO; followed by his Doctor of Philosophy in Mathematics Education in 1985. While attending the University of Missouri, Dr. Emeka held the title of President of the Nigerian Students’ Union. Soon after earning his Ph.D., Dr. Emeka accepted a position as a Mathematics Professor at Columbia College.

The deceased met his wife, Emma Emeka, in Peoria, IL during his brief attendance at Bradley University. She was a foreign exchange student from Monrovia, Liberia. Their journey began with his request for her to dance after meeting at a party.  While getting acquainted, she became attracted to the spiritual connection they shared through their in-depth conversations. They were united in holy matrimony on November 4, 1978. The union was blessed with six children, four boys, and two girls, who affectionately referred to him as “Papa”.

In 1990, Dr. Emeka and his family moved to Quincy, IL where he joined Quincy University’s faculty as an Assistant Professor of Mathematics. He was promoted to Associate Professor in 1994. Then in 1997, he assumed the responsibilities of Chairman of The Division of Science and Mathematics. In 2000, he was appointed Vice President for Academic Affairs and returned to the classroom as Professor of Mathematics in 2002.  In 2011, he retired. While at Quincy University, Dr. Emeka helped revise the mathematics curriculum and was instrumental in increasing the number of students choosing mathematics as their major field of study. 

In retirement, Dr. Emeka loved to spend time with his family and friends. He as a loving husband, father, and grandfather. He enjoyed reading for leisure and listening to his favorite records. In 2018, he returned to the classroom as a Mathematics Instructor at John Wood Community College, a testament to his endearing love of mathematics and education.

The late Dr. Ekemezie Jospeh Emeka joined the Lord on the 4th Day of December 2020. He leaves to mourn his death, wife: Emma Panie Emeka; children: Onochie Ezeanata Emeka (Donna Kay Emeka); Nnabuife Oyene Emeka; Aniemeke Ubaka Emeka; Chikwado Uchenna Emeka; Okwuchelu Anedu-Florence Emeka Dada (Akorede Saliu Adeboye Alani Dada); Chioma Monique Emeka; and grandchildren: Olivia Adaeze Emeka, Andre Malik Chukwuma Emeka, Noah Alexander Jideofor Emeka, Otavian Kenechi Emeka, Maelyn Margaret Emeka, Owen Ifeanyichukwu Emeka, Zayden Evans Emeka, Lola Nkechie Emeka, many nephews, nieces, cousins, and a community of loving friends.
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