For me Elisabeth Misner will remain the soul and spirit of
BNI. As that’s where I first met her in 2012 Convention at the Gala and I
remember how with a childlike spontaneity she said, “I love this Indian wear’,
she was referring to the sari I wore for the Gala, seeing her excitement I asked
her if she would like to try it sometime and she said she would love to.
I remembered to take that as a gift for her in my next
convention visit in 2014.To be honest, I was a little nervous not sure how she
would take it, as it was only our second meet and I only hoped and prayed she
liked it, although it was a special handmade collection but I wasn’t sure if
she would like it too. Usually it’s quite tough to get time during a packed convention.
I realized that for sure she would be in the BNI foundation session and I took
it for her there. It’s a different thing that thanks to this reason I got to
understand BNI Foundation better. At the end of the session I mustered the courage
and gave it to her.
I cannot forget the thrill on her face and that gave me more
courage to say I could help you wear it now if you wanted and that was it…She
made me stay till the end of the session, she then called Ivan to join in the
room. While I helped her put on the Sari, she cooperated all smiles at the crowd gathered and at the
end of it she looked so beautiful with the colors matching her eyes. We all
took happy pictures (one of them attached here) and she said, “I feel like a
princess, so let me add same attitude to my elegant dressing” and she took Ivan
by arm and walked with chin up taking the round of the entire open networking
area.
What was equally heart-warming was Ivan watching the entire episode
with bigger smile on his face and eyes lighting up seeing Elisabeth’s happiness
and the way he expressed by continuously saying “Thank you” as they both walked
away like King and Queen declaring their love for each other.
That day, Elisabeth taught me a very important lesson, that
we have the power to make a gift priceless by the way we receive it, and make
the giver feel special. All we need to do is express with love, with
authenticity, with appreciation. You also give in how you acknowledge the gain.
It was not just this gift, but every gift I gave her, she received
with the same joy and I have a story for each one of them. I remember even in
the last convention she said I wait for your gifts as they are so thought
through. Once she even posted on fb to show where she placed the gift.
I am very selective about gifting and take pride in making
it customized, personalized, meaningful and that was enough to fulfill me whether
the other person acknowledged or not, but Elisabeth showed how authentic receiving
can make gifting a magical memory in the heart causing bigger fulfillment. I am so glad I got to let her know this in
our meeting at convention last year. I am grateful for all the sharing,
learning of every meeting, cherished memories, collected moments that made me
feel blessed knowing her.
I feel since she promised to support through everything, she
became an angel just one thought away. A cherished soul…love you Elisabeth
Misner for being you.