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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Elohor OTOLORIN Nee BIUWOVWI, 42 years old, born on June 4, 1973, and passed away on March 25, 2016. We will remember her forever.
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Rume Daniels
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My Egbon,
Its that time of the year where i am overwhelmed with thoughts of you. I miss you so much and i am sure having you around would have been very different.

I miss our chats and long conversations. I miss our prayer times and iron sharpen iron moments. Those have been really hard to replace.

I have not spoken to or seen Esther yet, but i know she is gtowing up fast into a beautiful, intelligent, passionate and compassionate young woman, who will ultimately impact the world.

May your seed be mighty on the earth.

Yout memory is blessed.
Say hi to Pops and Mum.

RD.
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March 25
Dear Elohor, you have been in Heaven for 8 years but you will be in our hearts forever. Continue to rest in Heaven. Love and miss you so much Sis ️
June 4, 2023
June 4, 2023
Happy posthumous birthday in heaven big sis.Today would have been your golden jubilee birthday the big 50 and we would have been having a big one by now. It still seems like a dream. But I know you're heaven smiling down at us. I miss you soooooo much and I thank God for your life. We would continue to celebrate you sis. Continue to RIP till we meet again xoxoxo
June 4, 2023
June 4, 2023
Happy Birthday in Heaven my darling Sister Elohor. Miss you so much and more than ever…even now. I celebrate you today and always. You will never be forgotten. Your legacy lives on. Love you forever Lolo!
Rume Daniels
June 4, 2023
June 4, 2023
Hi Egbon, Happy Posthumous Birthday.

How I miss you so much. Miss the long phone calls/conversations and prayer times. Miss your giggles and laughter. Miss you asking about what's new and everything else.

How's the choir in heaven?
You must be with them, soprano singers right? 

Well, keep resting.
And may your seed be mighty on the earth. Amen.
March 25, 2023
March 25, 2023
WOW!! It's exactly 7years today since you left us. We really miss you and wish you were still here with us. I miss you singing, your peaceful smile and lovely aura. I wish you were so I could update you on my life so far. I know you're in heaven smiling down at me and also praying for us. Hows mummy, daddy Eric and all our loved ones? Continue to bask in heaven's choir till we meet again. You remain forever green in my heart
March 25, 2023
March 25, 2023
Dear Lolo,

Today marks 7 years since you left us for Heaven. Miss you so much Sis and lately I have been wishing you were here. I know you are happy with Jesus and singing with the Angels like you did before you left. Thanks for all the prayers. Please keep interceding on our behalf. Dipo and Esther are doing great. She is a God-fearing, Blessed, loving and happy child. I know you know this. Love and Miss you Sis. Continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus till we meet again.

Your darling Sissy,
Tarhe.
June 5, 2022
June 5, 2022
Hello sis, i can't belive its 6years down the road since you left us. You would have been 49years old today.......its been a very long one adjusting to life without you. We miss you sooooooo much. Hmmmmmm I wish you were here now to hear some gist lol I know you would love. Hows heaven? Hows mum, dad and Eric? I'm sure you're basking in heavens choir now, just the way you like it. You remain ever green in my heart till we meet again. Continue to RIP my darling sister........I love you forever ♥️
June 4, 2022
June 4, 2022
Happy Birthday in Heaven Dear Lolo! Love you sooooo much and miss you dearly!
March 25, 2022
March 25, 2022
Hmmmmmm.......how time really flies big sis! I miss you everyday, I love you soooooo much. I wish you were still here with us. We love you but God loves you more and HE knows why. You remain ever green in my heart.......continue to RIP till we meet again ❤
March 25, 2022
March 25, 2022
Can’t believe it’s been 6 years already! Love and miss you everyday Sis. Continue to rest in Heaven till we meet again…never to depart! We pray for Esther and Dipo everyday. Please continue to intercede on our behalf. Love you forever my darling Sister Lolo!
June 5, 2021
June 5, 2021
Happy Birthday in Heaven our Darling Sister Lolo! Sorry we didn’t post here but we celebrated your life…and we posted in the family group, your FB dedicated group and on Social Media. I know you see it all, like you said before you went to be with the Lord. We miss you so much but we are stronger knowing that you are with the Lord. Thanks for your prayers and intercession. You see that we pray for Esther and Dipo every single day! Thanks for being there always and still. Love you forever, Angel Lolo! 
June 5, 2021
June 5, 2021
Happy posthumous birthday in heaven dear sis. I miss you so much........wish you were here with us. Continue to RIP till we meet again ❤
March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
Good Friday March 25th 2016, i was sleeping alone in the room, laying on my side of my body with my hands stretched out almost dropping out of the bed. All of a sudden i was woken up by the gentle stroke of something like a feather touching my hands and immediately captain and ruby started barking in a very unusual manner for close to an hour. This happened about one hour after midnight. I stood by the window looking outside the window trying to calm the dogs. I finally managed to drag myself to bed and in the morning we went to çhurch and finally arrived home later in the evening. Then the news of your death which they were looking for a way to tell me since morning was broken to me. My heart was broken and i didnt take it well. 
As i gradually began to accept it as months went by, i realised you came to say goodbye to me the morning yóu transitioned exactly the same time the dogs were barking. Oh how i miss you so much, how i wish i could wind back the hands of time to do some things with you, to tell you how much i love you. I decided the best way to accept your death is to tell myself you went on a journey and we would hook up later. I miss you so much my darling big sis and i love you. I have decided to stop asking GOD why?  Because he knows our beginning from the end and he loves you. I know you are in heaven smiling down at me and singing with that beautiful voice of yours in heavens choir. Continue to rest in perfect peace till we meet again big sis.......you remain every green in my heart and may the souls of our dearly departed RIP AMEN
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021
My dear Sister Elohor, exactly five years ago you went to be with the Lord. The night before, you rejoiced, sang praises and prayed with Mum, Esther and I. You were very happy, energetic and full of life. The next morning u were gone. I will never forget mum's scream. I'm sure u heard me praying & begging u to wake up. I lay beside u in denial until they came to take u away. I thought I was going to die. A part of mum died. Watching her mourn for you was very painful. I can only imagine the pain she went through, losing her first child & Best friend. Today i celebrate you Lolo. I thank God for sending an Angel to us & for giving me the opportunity to be ur Sister. U came to this world to serve God & win souls for Christ. U always put God first, others next & yourself last. U were a blessing to me & many. Your legacy still lives on in me. I am strengthened by the fact that u are in Heaven now. I know this because Mum & I witnessed your beautiful multiple transitions! U saw Heaven before u saw death. You said it was very beautiful. You saw dad and now mum is with you, no doubt. I know for a fact that u are my guardian Angel because I always feel your presence around me and you appear to me several times in my dreams...even last night! I also know that you can see this message cos u said this during a transition & I quote; "we can see everything." Lolo I know u see what's going on. Please continue interceding for us. I miss talking to u. I am happy u are in Heaven. Today I celebrate you! Thank u for dedicating your lifetime to God & humanity. Thank u for choosing to love & forgive. Thank you for being selfless. I love & miss you so much. I am stronger now by his grace. Please Mum & Dad I love and miss them. I celebrate three of you! Your legacies will continue to live on in me. Thank u for everything my dear Sister and friend. We pray for Dipo and Esther everyday. We love and hope to see them soon. Please intercede to God on behalf of this world. I love you forever Lolo!!! #elohorliveson #beautifulmemories #sistersforever
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021
My darling big sister....... I am not sure I can describe my feelings right now......I wish life had a pause and rewind button. I would ask God for just one last time with you. I would do a lot better and right because now I know better. I miss you sooooooo much Lolo, your gentle and sweet nature. I met a lady in my class Jumai who reminds me soooooo much of you. She has your aura, gentle smile it's just soooo spooky but I am drawn to her, I told her about my sister and she has been like a big sister to me and very motherly and protective. Today I celebrate your life and would always remember your words of wisdom
I miss you so much and wish you didn't have to go because a lot changed after you left. But I know God knows better and let it be this way. Hows heaven? How're you dad and mum doing? I miss you all today and always, keep on praying for me like you always have done big sis. Continue to RIP till we meet to part no more on that day AMENNNNN ❤❤❤❤
June 4, 2020
June 4, 2020
Happy Birthday in Heaven my darling Lolo. Miss you soooooooo much! Love you forever!
March 25, 2020
March 25, 2020
My dear Sister Elohor, exactly four years ago you went to be with the Lord. The night before, you rejoiced, sang praises and prayed with Mum, Esther and I. You were very happy, energetic and full of life. The next morning u were gone. I will never forget mum's scream. I'm sure u heard me praying & begging u to wake up. I lay beside u in denial until they came to take u away. I thought I was going to die. A part of mum died. Watching her mourn for you was very painful. I can only imagine the pain she went through, losing her first child & Best friend. Today i celebrate you Lolo. I thank God for sending an Angel to us & for giving me the opportunity to be ur Sister. U came to this world to serve God & win souls for Christ. U always put God first, others next & yourself last. U were a blessing to me & many. Your legacy still lives on in me. I am strengthened by the fact that u are in Heaven now. I know this because Mum & I witnessed your beautiful multiple transitions! U saw Heaven before u saw death. You said it was very beautiful. You saw dad and now mum is with you, no doubt. I know for a fact that u are my guardian Angel because I always feel your presence around me and you appear to me several times in my dreams...even last night! I also know that you can see this message cos u said this during a transition & I quote; "we can see everything." Lolo I know u see what's going on. Please continue interceding for us. I miss talking to u. I am happy u are in Heaven. Today I celebrate you! Thank u for dedicating your lifetime to God & humanity. Thank u for choosing to love & forgive. Thank you for being selfless. I love & miss you so much. I am stronger now by his grace. Please Mum & Dad I love and miss them. I celebrate three of you! Your legacies will continue to live on in me. Thank u for everything my dear Sister and friend. We pray for Dipo and Esther everyday. We love and hope to see them soon. Please intercede to God on behalf of this world. I love you forever Lolo!!!
June 4, 2019
June 4, 2019
I miss you so much sis I wish I could rewind back the hands of time to tell you so many things and fix so many things. Happy posthumous birthday in heaven sis, you remain forever green in my ♥️♥️
June 4, 2019
June 4, 2019
Happy Birthday in Heaven my darling sister, Elohor. Love and miss you so much Angel Lolo. #elohorliveson #happybirthday #myguardianangel #sister
March 25, 2019
March 25, 2019
Dear Lolo, I can’t believe you have been gone for exactly three years today! Time truly flies! I remember it just like it was yesterday. Me, you, Mum and Esther singing, dancing and worshiping God the night before. Your beautiful Smile and the way you were glowing. Adjusting your oxygen as always in the middle of night and waking up to Mum’s scream in the morning...one I will never forget. You know she couldn’t live without you. Today as I remember you, I am thankful to God for the life you lived and for the legacy you left behind. I am thankful that he gave me the opportunity to spend the last five days of your life with you...and for all the beautiful memories we shared. You had a great sense of humor, you were filled with so much love, forgiveness and you worshipped God till the end. I realize that it could have been worse. We watched your transition phase, you saw heaven before you saw death. You said it was beautiful. I am thankful to God that you are in Heaven singing with the Angels in everlasting Union with Dad, Mum and all our loved ones who died in Christ. Even though this was not our plan, God always has the final say. I surrender. Please continue interceding on behalf of your family. We know that God has answered those prayers. It is settled. I am beyond Blessed to have had you as a Sister...and now, our Guardian Angel. Thanks for EVERYTHING. We Love you FOREVER! #loveandmissyousis #sistersforever #elohorliveson
March 25, 2018
March 25, 2018
My dear Sister Elohor, exactly two years ago you went to be with the Lord. The night before, you rejoiced, sang praises and prayed with Mum, Esther and I. You were very happy, energetic & full of life. The next morning u were gone. I will never forget mum's scream. I'm sure u heard me praying & begging u to wake up. I lay beside u in denial until they came to take u away. I thought I was going to die. A part of mum died. Watching her mourn for you was very painful. I can only imagine the pain she went through, losing her first child & Best friend. Today i celebrate you Lolo. I thank God for sending an Angel to us & for giving me the opportunity to be ur Sister. U came to this world to serve God & win souls for Christ. U always put God first, others next & yourself last. U were a blessing to me & many. Ur legacy still lives on in me. I am strengthened by the fact that u are in Heaven now. I know this because Mum & I witnessed your transition & it was so beautiful! U saw Heaven before u saw death. U saw dad & now mum is with you, no doubt. I know for a fact that u are my guardian Angel because I always feel your presence around me & u appeared to me several times in my dreams. I also know that you can see this message cos u said this during your transition & I quote; "we can see everything." Lolo I know u see what's going on. Please continue interceding for us. I miss talking to u. I am happy u are in Heaven. Today I celebrate you! Thank u for dedicating your lifetime to God & humanity. Thank u for choosing to love & forgive. Thank you for being selfless. I love & miss you so much. I am stronger now by his grace. The only person I am mourning at this moment is mum. Please tell her I love & miss her. Please tell dad I love and miss him too. Your legacies will continue to live on in me. Thank u for everything my dear Sister and friend. The last time I saw u in my dream I wanted to go with u but u refused. Since then, you haven't appeared to me again. Pls come back na...lol! Please intercede to God on my behalf Sis. U know what I am going through. PS: Don't worry, i am not coming home now...but one day, we will reunite never to depart again. I love you Lolo!!!
March 25, 2018
March 25, 2018
It's so tough big sis, please continue to pray for me. Dad left 7yrs ago Mum just left us to be with you in heaven on the 12th of March this year, she never got over you. She was counting down to your remembrance .Now I miss you both badly, I feel so lonely and I find it difficult expressing myself. I still cry when I think of you and I pray for Esther your baby. It is going to be alright by GOD'S grace. Your love and kindness dwells in my heart and you remain forever green in my heart, with your assuring warm smile and lovely voice, beautiful memories of you is all I have to hold to. Till we meet again, continue to R.I.P singing in heavens choir with mummy. I love you soooooo much but GOD loves you best....
June 4, 2017
June 4, 2017
Happy Birthday in Heaven my darling sister Elohor!!! I miss calling you. I miss our conversations and sisterly chit chat. I have so much to share with you...but I know you are watching over me and still interceding to God on my behalf. I am always happy when I see you in my dreams. I feel your presence around me daily. Thanks for being there for me...still! Thanks for being the best big sister ever!!! Your legacy lives on in me. Lolo, i really love and miss you so much!!! #happybirthday #happybirthdaysister #happybirthdayinheaven #iloveandmissyou #elohorliveson
March 25, 2017
March 25, 2017
Exactly a year ago March 25, 2016(Good Friday) our dear Sister Elohor went to be with the Lord. It's been a painful year, Month and a very emotional day for me especially since I witnessed her transition. I spent the last six days of my Sister's life with her and watched her sing with the Angels and tell us how beautiful Heaven is, she even saw our dad! So many things were revealed to her. The night before she passed away mum and I lowered her bed and we all sang praises to God. She was very happy watching me, mum and her daughter Esther sing and dance. Even when her CD player suddenly stopped working that didn't stop us from rejoicing to Kirk Franklin's "My Life is in your hands" and Donnie McClurkin's "That's what I believe" and "Great is your mercy." She seemed contented and happy. We went to bed and as usual, I slept at her right hand side and mum at the foot of Elohor's bed. It was an usually quiet and peaceful might. I woke up to check on her and ensure that her oxygen was intact. It was and she was fine. The next morning mum woke up screaming. That was it. I was in a state of shock and confusion for a long while. I asked her husband and also the paramedics to perform a CPR but they said it was too late. I lay beside her and hugged her, whispered in her ears, begged her to beg God to let her come back. I kept praying and waited for a miracle. Then they came and took her body away and that's when I knew this was real. I screamed and wailed when she was put in the body bag and as we escorted her outside. The beautiful part of this story and what I really want to share today is that my Sister Saw Heaven before she saw death. Heaven is real and that's where she is now. If you die today where are you going? Please secure your salvation. Elohor we love and miss you so much but God Loves you more. Butter and i pray for mum, your husband and daughter Esther daily. I wondered why you were called considering how faithful you were to God but the reason has been revealed to me now. Rest on my dear sister Lolo and keep singing with the Angels till we meet again in Heaven someday. I miss you so much and I will always love you
June 7, 2016
June 7, 2016
Hmmm! How do I describe Elohor. She was an exceptional friend, an exemplary of a Christian sister, her resilience is second to nothing. Elohor was good to be with. The last time she spoke with me, she said she was now in UK and i was happy for her, I never knew that would be the last time. Elohor you will forever be remembered for your dedication and commitment to God and His work. Sleep on beloved till will meet and part no more.
June 5, 2016
June 5, 2016
Elohor, I don't even know where I should start from. But I feel so cheated that I am just knowing about your passing on. So many things to say but girl, you were STRONG!!! Very stubborn too I must say but definitely with a will of steel and able to go on despite everything.
Thank God for Jesus in your life, for photography, for Dipo and definitely for Esther. You made the sacrifice for her and i know God would honour you by her success in the future. I pray to meet her sometime in the future.
I'm sorry I wasn't very visible in your last minutes. Thank God for your mum and her faith and strength. Thank God you are in a better place. Do say hello to my mum for me
Love
Dr Sarah (I cld never stop u from calling me that)
June 4, 2016
June 4, 2016
Dear Lolo, as we mark your 43rd Birthday today the 4th of June, we remember you and thank God for a beautiful life well spent. You were truly an Angel on earth. We love and miss you so much. There are no words to describe how I feel anymore...but I am happy you are are with the Lord. Happy Birthday in Heaven our dear sister Elohor!!!
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
Love you and miss you sis, your legacy lives on....she whispers HALLELUJAH!!
May 22, 2016
Hmmmm. With a heavy heart and in total submission to the will of God, I accepted the news of your demise. You were a rare gem, I remember our secondary school days. Your dear sister Rita was my classmate and friend and it took me a while before I knew you were real siblings.
Your disposition then was that of a caring and doting mother not a older sibling. You were too mature for your age. You were a humble and reserved person.
I remember a day I walked home with you and Rita and you were quiet throughout the journey while Rita and I were chatting away, all you did was smile and gave approving nods.
That was my first time of coming close to you and I formed an impression about you instantly.
The news of your death brought tears to my eyes and the memories of the quiet, loving angel I knew started flooding back. The first question I asked was WHY IS IT THAT GOOD PEOPLE DO NOT LAST LONG. The answer I got has been my consolation ANGELS ARE BETTER OFF IN HEAVEN. Continue to rest ANGEL. We miss you but God loves you more than we do and he decided to keep you with him.
REST IN PERFECT PEACE ANGEL ELOHOR.
May 22, 2016
May 22, 2016
You will forever be in our hearts. Rest in perfect peace Eloho.
May 22, 2016
May 22, 2016
Dear Eloho. I physically met you only once but you left a strong impression on my mind that one time. The sensitivity of the issue will not allow me share on this platform. But one thing is sure, you are a kind hearted christian lady with lot of morals to show for it in a time where it is difficult to identify christians by their fruits. i loved you. i love you now and ill love you even more anytime i remember that my first daughter is ur namesake. You lived out your name and you were indeed sweet to all who knew you. Rest on, my dear.
May 21, 2016
May 21, 2016
My dear sister Elohor, where do I
begin? Writing this tribute is the most difficult thing I have ever had to do. Even on this final deadline day I am asking God for
the strength.

My sister Lolo, you were an angel on earth. A God send. A virtuous woman. A saint. An Angel on Earth.

From childhood you have always been very loving, caring, protective and humble. You always put God first, others next and yourself last. You kept certain things to yourself because you didn't want others to worry and you always looked out for me, right up until you went home to God. You
were very loving and protective to your family, friends, loved ones and everyone you encountered. Always concerned about your siblings, always wanted the best for us, always praying for us and ensuring that we were on the right path with God. I remember when dad went astray and you would both have discussions about the word of God...I smile now because he gave his life to Christ before he passed away and you saw him in heaven a few days before you left us.

You lived a life that exemplified Christ. You loved. You forgave and you died without any grudge in your heart.

I came here to be a part of your healing process, to encourage and inspire you and Mum like Jeff and I had been doing on the phone....but I didn’t know I was coming
to say goodbye to you. Looking back now, I know that you knew. Yes you did - because the medical report you refused to send to me last year after I found out and wanted to visit...you instantly verbally authorized your doctors to send to me - even when you knew I was going to defer my college admission just to visit you. I rejected that report. I thank God for expediting the visa
procedure inspite of all obstacles and giving me the opportunity to see you again.

I will forever cherish the last six days I spent with you; feeding you, holding your hand as you would squeeze mine so tight like you never wanted to let go! Hugging you, kissing you on the forehead, telling you I
love you, carrying Esther up to lay her hand on your head and say a prayer for you, tell you she loves you and hug you every morning, mum and i worshipping, praying and studying the word of God with you, when you called your husband "Dipo Baba o" two days before you passed on and held on to his hand and looked into his eyes so lovingly and you smiled, all the chit chat and sisterly gossip we shared, everything you told me in confidence. How I would just say "whatever" when you bullied me lovingly and you would respond "duh", and we would both laugh. Thanks for believing in me and standing up for me, vouching for me till the end.

I will never forget all the memories you shared and all the requests you made.

Apart from the vision God gave me in a dream, you showed me the signs from the day I arrived. It was very obvious that you were singing "hallelujah" with the angels in heaven. You told me on day two that my sister Elohor was dead. We refused to believe; that's why we were always rejecting it. But looking back now, I know that God took you away from all the pain and heartache of this world and I am comforted
because I know that you are in heaven singing hallelujah with the Angels.

The day before you passed, Esther and I danced and sang praises to God by your bed while you smiled happily and sang
along; then suddenly the CD player stopped working and refused to work again. I remember your excitement when I
asked if you remembered Kirk Franklin's song "My life is in your hands". You replied "Of course" I played it via my iPhone and we all sang and prayed along with Mum. We also
worshipped with Donnie McClurkin's "That's what I believe" and "Great is your Mercy" and went back to Kirk Franklin's again. You sang along. You couldn't stop
saying hallelujah....and Amen. You knew. That night you slept peacefully and the next morning you were gone. I refused to believe...I stayed by your side, held your hand and prayed, I kept on telling you to ask God to let you come back to compete his work on earth - testify in the assembly
of his people for the salvation of souls through your healing and also remind him about Esther. I kissed your head
and lay beside you until they came to take you away. We prayed for you and I escorted you to the car. That's when reality struck. It's still very surreal.

I hurt and cry only because I will miss you but I am happy because you are in heaven and I know I will see you there one day. Your mission on earth is complete and that's why God allowed this.

Your legacy of peace, love, forgiveness and deep rooted Spirituality will live on in me and I pray it will also live on in anyone who knows you and anyone who reads this tribute.

I thank God for blessing you with wonderful family and friends globally, whom love you so much. These doors never closed since the day I walked in and even in your death you are a super star. Everyone who has come to visit or called has something good and positive to say about you. You are a shining light, you are a super star.

I love and miss you, my “Lolo the Principal”.

Thank you for waiting for me.

Your life is in God's hands now and I know know you are watching over us now. Please continue interceding on our behalf.

See you in heaven someday.

I miss you dearly and i love you with all my heart.

Your Dear Sister,

Arientarhe Biuwovwi-Nash.
May 21, 2016
May 21, 2016
We are so sorry for your lost Rita. Our sincere and deepest condolences to you and your family. May God strengthen you in this difficult time.

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My Egbon,
Its that time of the year where i am overwhelmed with thoughts of you. I miss you so much and i am sure having you around would have been very different.

I miss our chats and long conversations. I miss our prayer times and iron sharpen iron moments. Those have been really hard to replace.

I have not spoken to or seen Esther yet, but i know she is gtowing up fast into a beautiful, intelligent, passionate and compassionate young woman, who will ultimately impact the world.

May your seed be mighty on the earth.

Yout memory is blessed.
Say hi to Pops and Mum.

RD.
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March 25
Dear Elohor, you have been in Heaven for 8 years but you will be in our hearts forever. Continue to rest in Heaven. Love and miss you so much Sis ️
June 4, 2023
June 4, 2023
Happy posthumous birthday in heaven big sis.Today would have been your golden jubilee birthday the big 50 and we would have been having a big one by now. It still seems like a dream. But I know you're heaven smiling down at us. I miss you soooooo much and I thank God for your life. We would continue to celebrate you sis. Continue to RIP till we meet again xoxoxo
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Elohor the quiet; Elohor my friend

June 5, 2016

Elohor!!!!
Our friendship dated back to UI. From Queens Hall. I.remember meeting your sisters and being surprised. You so quiet, they so bubbly.
....your decision to stay in the BQ. Kai! U get strong head sha.
Your non-assuming ways. Kai! U hardly ever make a request. For you to voice out, it must have gotten really bad. You managed shaaaaa. Even after the decade of friendship, you still won't come out freely. You never wanted to inconvenience anyone. Ever so courteous. 
From your days at Glory Tabernacle to City of David.
The photography bit was a nice twist. I didn't see it coming. Really really nice.
Dipo, marriage... I missed out on most of that fun. 
The pregnancy, Wow!!!! Praise the Lord!!!. The Dilemma and your firm decision.
You had a way of cutting me off when I came with my medical jargons or strong opinions that you didn't want to hear and then finding me where u dropped me off. That was your style and I accepted it. I guess that is why I assumed your silence was 'as usual'. I didn't realise God had taken my friend to be with Him. 
Back to the nice stuff - spending nights in my house; Esther's birth and first year. I followed up very closely and had many of her pictures. Thank.God for Rita who posted the video on the Facebook page.
One can't describe Elohor easily. You were all encompassing. Your love for God; your faith was your foundation. No one dare comes near you talking negativity. You won't tolerate it. I'm sure your Drs and caregivers can write an epistle about it.
I had wished I could reach out to Dipo before now cos I know like I told you dt it cld not have been easy for him. I.trust God to heal him completely. Oh!!! I continually thank God for him in your life. A pillar of strength for you. And your mom's coming was just what you needed. I guess everybody always needs their mother. Hahaha. Even when we don't want to accept it. Her coming calmed you and made you feel more at rest.
I missed out on your last moments and I have no one to blame but myself. Many times I wished I had a visa so I cld come meet you esp when you were not replying my messages.
Ah Elohor, fine I knew this moment would come and tried in my little way to prepare you but I'm not very sure I was prepared. I love you girl. There is so much one can't write and esp on a public domain but thank God for your life. For the things you taught me esp about motherhood, for your church family who kept Esther some of those times you were in and out of the hospital. For Rita, through whom I got to know and who provided a media for us to keep your memories alive.
Just last month, my sister Egbe was asking for your phone number. She hadn't heard from you and you were in her heart. What I didn't know was that your earthly phone number was no longer relevant. I haven't been able to get myself to tell her, my other siblings and parents that you have gone home. Maybe I would after this.
How is Heaven like? I'm sure you've fit in so easily there, singing and praising God. Thank you Rita again for this medium. I don't know what else to say. Thank you Rita.
 

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