Aunty Emily Aig-Imoukhuede
We will never see you smile again
Aunty Emily, we have heard, has sadly left us. It’s still hard to wrap our heads around that fact, which like a batch of well mixed cement, hardens further and further into the endless abyss of certainty. Our family’s memories of her, spanning almost seventy years( Millicent Jibowu and Aunty Emily were at Saint Anne’s school Ibadan in the 50s) will paint the full spectrum of shared moments,from her days in Ibadan with Mr and Mrs Jibowu, our late husband and father Kayode Jibowu, who was a good friend of Uncle Frank Imoukhuede at the University College Ibadan and whom Aunty went on to marry, through to the early days in Lagos in the seventies, when the families that had resulted from the Acquaintanceships of the ibadan years were fledgling and boisterous, grew and widened through the eighties when their roots found ground water, to the Nineties and noughties where young generations came to bloom and their own acquaintanceships from amongst the offspring of the initial families, matured and started to result in another new generation with the whole cycle of life starting to repeat itself. All we remember, and thoroughly thank God for, is the honest smile of a classic lady completely unafraid of expressing emotion. What a glorious role model, what a privilege that in the community that it takes to raise children, Aunty Emily played a very major part in ours. Our interactions were fleeting but always of a rich and deep quality. Earths loss is heavens gain Aunty, selfishly of course, we want you back. Alas, there’s no reset button to make that happen, so we shall never see you nor feel the warmth of your infectious smile again.
Thank you for sharing your life so unselfishly, rest in perfect peace Aunty Emily Aig Imoukhuede
Millicent, Remi, Toyin and Fola Jibowu