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This memorial website was created in memory of Emma Kuzmich, born on August 21, 2006, and passed away on February 13, 2019.  

Emma's life will always be cherished, she will live in our hearts forever. 
Emma, you are forever loved.
May 22, 2023
May 22, 2023
It was so wonderful to catch up with you and Jeff and talk about Emma this weekend. What a blessing to have so many signs of presence…forever missed but never forgotten 
August 24, 2022
August 24, 2022
Emma has been and will always be in our hearts. Sending our love. ❤️

Love,

The Washo Family
August 23, 2022
August 23, 2022
What a beautiful tribute to sweet Emma. Thanks for sharing this. She was so happy always and an inspiration for all of us.
August 21, 2022
August 21, 2022
Happy 16th birthday, Emma! Even though we never got to meet you, we feel as though we know you, from all of the stories that your parents have shared, and from the special signs you have given while we are with your family. You were definitely with us on that hot early summer day in the strawberry field, when both Coco and Franny found your heart-shaped berries and brought them straight to your mom to see. ❤️ You are treasured and continue to bring smiles to all of those that knew and loved you, and also to those of us who have had the privilege of coming into your family’s life more recently. Your legacy continues to burn warm and bright!
August 21, 2022
August 21, 2022
Dear Emma,
You are cherished and missed by so many of us. Your love and light continue to shine so brightly!

“Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.” (1 Corinthians 13)

Happy Heavenly 16th Birthday!
August 21, 2022
August 21, 2022
Happy Heavenly Birthday, Dear Emma. I’m so sorry we never had the honor of meeting you. Your beautiful family, our dear friends now have shared your spirit and life with us and I feel as though I know you. You touched so many lives in your time on earth and continue to do so. Sending all my love today and always.
August 21, 2022
August 21, 2022
Our dearest Emma,

Not one day goes by that we don’t think of you. So many special ways that you are keeping the connection, in heart and spirit. You are always so strongly with us.

Today, on the day of your 16th Birthday, you are so strongly with us.

We know you can feel our love and our heart. You are so deeply loved, and remembered. 

Remembering the special light and energy in your eyes and your tender smile, your love for everyone and everything around you, your otherworldly strength and peace.

Your light is still shining strongly, we feel it and we know it.

Forever loved, and forever with every heart and life you touched.


Mom, Dad and Ella
February 13, 2022
February 13, 2022
Wow - so many ❤️‘S still showing up - what beautiful messages - I love the new posts showing how Emma is visiting us in so many unexpected ways - thank you for sharing her love and vibrant energy with us - and the poem was so beautiful too  She brought us so much joy - in such a short time. Reminding us the best way to live! 
September 24, 2021
September 24, 2021
I just do not possess the words to convey my feelings to you Alex, Jeff and
Ella. I thank you so much for sharing with Amy and I. The memorial is beautiful - a wonderful tribute to an amazing daughter and sister. I continue to keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
August 30, 2021
August 30, 2021
Athough we met very briefly, but I felt the positive energy around the family, and you. Your positive energy will live on and will impact more people's lives beyond your time and space. Hundreds of Thai villagers are among them already. Thanks Emma, I am sure more people will become better because of you.
August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
Que de belles photos et souvenirs avec Emma , ses nombreux amis et sa famille. Elle a eu une vie pleine de joie et de bonne humeur, à son image.
On ne l'oublie pas et pensons souvent à elle.
Eva , Chiara et Christina.
June 29, 2021
June 29, 2021
Dear Jeff & Alex,

What an amazing and loving tribute to Emma! I enjoyed reading about her life and seeing the pictures and wonderful memories of her growing up. I wish I would have had the opportunity to meet her. Emma was fighter - I can't believe the courage and strength she showed especially at such a young age. The many signs Emma has sent you brought me tears of joy knowing she's by your side. Sending you love and prayers!
June 28, 2021
June 28, 2021
We were fortunate to meet Emma in our neighborhood. She enjoyed meeting our dog Siggi, who sat, shook hands, and spun for Emma. She was a bright and happy girl and was excited to try new things. She visited my research lab with some friends and they explored chemistry in augmented reality. It was great to have her visit and experience something new with friends. We knew her too briefly, but she lives on in our memories.
June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
Emma, though she only attended one summer with Camp Good Days, left an impact on all those around her.
June 25, 2021
June 25, 2021
This is beautiful, Emma's class of 2024 will not forget her. She is with them as they finish up their Freshman year. We hope you feel her class supporting all of you.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Dear Jeff, What a wonderful way to pay ongoing tribute to Emma and the positive impact she had on so many lives. I met Emma a few times when she came into the office with you. She was so curious and eager to help with what you needed to get done! Emma's warmth, kindness, and spirit lives on forever... 
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Jeff, this is a beautiful tribute to Emma. I never got to meet your daughter but I love hearing your stories of the messages and signs she has sent to you. I hope this site brings you comfort. I am honored that you shared it with me. -Lea
June 18, 2021
June 18, 2021
This website is a beautiful collection of memories and a wonderful testament to the essence of Emma, her life, her love, and her ongoing spirit. Emma's love for life is quite evident as well as her ability to be fully present and engage in all the world has to offer. Her creativity and passion really do stand out. Thank you for sharing her gifts and her ongoing legacy. May you continue to feel her presence and love and be comforted by all the love that surrounds you.
June 18, 2021
June 18, 2021
Tang Family (Zhenzhi, Lizhen, Angel and Howard) miss Emma a lot!
June 18, 2021
June 18, 2021
Dearest Emma, You are missed every day. I think of your bright smile and your harmonious energy--always making people feel happy.

Dearest Alex, Jeff, and Ella, thank you for the work to create this website--a beautiful gift to honor Emma, and also, it is a gift to all of us who knew and loved her. Thank you.

Love,
Susan
June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
Thank you for sharing this wonderful photo gallery with us—a true labor of love and cherished memories. Thank you for inviting us in.
June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
Jeff, Alex and Ella,
Thank you for sharing this incredible site and continuing to gift us with Emma. Wow-there are so many precious photos, stories and works of art!! Emma made quite her mark! It seems that in her short time on this planet she achieved so very much. You can feel her joy, her grace, her strength, her talents and her love all right here. What a special, gifted girl who keeps radiating love (of course she would send hearts)!! But I confess, my favorite are her lists! A girl after my own heart. I love a good checklist...and that Mother's Day one just made me smile. How precious!! Did she wash your shoes, Alex? :) Lots of love to you all. Carrie, Dave, Jack, Lily and Charlie Archer
June 13, 2021
June 13, 2021
Anyone who had the privilege of knowing Emma knows that she was truly special. Her incredible strength, genuine humility, unwavering care for others and tremendous love for her family serve as examples for all of us.

Despite being stricken with cancer and undergoing the difficult treatments that followed, Emma never complained, never expected anything special, always seemed to find a way to put others before herself and remained a loving daughter, big sister, granddaughter, niece and friend.

While you were taken from us much too soon, you will live on in each of us as we demonstrate strength in the face of adversity and choose humility, caring and, above all, love.

-Roger & Jody DeBell
June 13, 2021
June 13, 2021
What a beautiful little girl you are Emma - your blue eyes - so bright and big - full of curiosity and love for everyone you came across (including every pumpkin, pet or rose pedal you happened upon!) Although you only got 13 short years on the planet - you made the most of every opportunity - and by the looks of all the photos here - so did your mom and dad :-) Thank you for sending so many hearts and smiles and signs to share your smile from above with us. We look forward to giving and receiving a Huge Hug from you when we are together again! Your candle burned with such a beautiful light - I'm sure you brought all that joy with you to Heaven - I can't wait to see what you've created with that wonderful imagination of yours! So looking forward to meeting you in person once again! 

And to Jeff and Alexandra - putting all of Emma's drawings and photos and signs you have received here for us to remember her by is the best gift ever! What a great way to see all the special moments you captured - and to share them with the rest of us. I LOVE this tribute - full of so many treasures - you had a wonderful 13 years with her. The overwhelming sadness of not having her with us today is eased a little by so many beautiful pictures and drawings and stories. Emma's life, although way too short, was still fully lived and loved in the care of your beautiful family. These pictures show Emma fully engaged - completely enjoying everyone and everything she came across - serving as a reminder for the rest of us to take full advantage of the life God has given us! Blessings and thank you so much for putting this memorial together :-)

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May 22, 2023
May 22, 2023
It was so wonderful to catch up with you and Jeff and talk about Emma this weekend. What a blessing to have so many signs of presence…forever missed but never forgotten 
August 24, 2022
August 24, 2022
Emma has been and will always be in our hearts. Sending our love. ❤️

Love,

The Washo Family
Her Life

Emma, Forever Loved

February 13, 2021

Emma entered our world on August 21, 2006.
She was a very sweet, gentle, highly-sensitive, vibrant and beautiful spirit, she loved everyone with all her heart, and everything around her.  To an extent that we have rarely seen before.  
She had a strong spark and brought immense joy every day of her life to her family and friends. She had an amazing mind, a beautiful soul and heart; she was passionate, humble and kind.  It felt like every day for Emma had to be lived fully with all its beauty, genuinely, always with a smile, until the last day.  
Emma remains an inspiration for her exceptionally courageous battle with cancer for over a year.  Despite the incredibly intense treatments she received every week, Emma had a strength and grace beyond words, and beyond anything we have ever seen.  
We miss her dearly every day, but she has filled our hearts with endless love.  Her beautiful spirit still shines brightly, it is always with us and continues to inspire, encourage and enlighten.
~ Emma will forever be in our hearts, she is forever loved ~
We hope this can be a place that will bring many wonderful memories to everyone who knew Emma, or crossed her path.  A place that connects everyone who knew her, or met her, just the way Emma loved to connect with everyone
Thank you for connecting and sharing your memories.

A Season of Firsts

February 18, 2021
Emma was born a little earlier than expected, and left all too early as well.  Maybe this is why she always seemed like she absorbed life so deeply, never expressing boredom or tiredness, always thoroughly enjoying everything she did and discovered.  Maybe because at her soul level she knew she had such little time. 
She was extremely observant, since she was a baby.  People always marveled at her captivating stare and focus, being able to seemingly look right into people's souls.  She was literally brimming with curiosity, the desire to touch, taste, explore and make sense out of a world that was unfolding at every moment. 
Emma loved books since she was a baby.  Her eyes would always so intently look at the books on our bookshelves, then she would point at them, and make sounds when we would pass them.  As if she knew that she would soon become a voracious reader. 
She loved songs, languages, and could speak French and English with natural fluency and ease. She loved her family, friends, animals, foods, nature and deeply enjoyed all the seasons. She loved it all, downloading all the sensory experiences into her being and radiating it back out to the world.  
This was the season of firsts: her first smile, her first crawl, and her first step, a time of pure magic.
Photo album:
Baby stage

Foundation

February 18, 2021
Once Emma was mobile, and could walk, the world exploration expanded, and she kept taking it all in, with such endless genuine joy.  This was the season of trips, stretching from casual strolls around the block to overnight flights across the Atlantic Ocean to see her grandparents in France who, because of health reasons, could not travel overseas to see her. 
She explored and thoroughly enjoyed all foods, especially cheese. She started to connect with other children, and she always seemed wise beyond her years.  She enjoyed going to preschool, loved books, stories, puzzles, drawing, playing, running, and climbing the jungle gym at the park. She loved everything and everyone.  
Her language skills really began to form, in French and English, she would make adult-like sentence connections in both languages.  She even went to a German school on Saturdays for a short time.  
She loved to constantly draw and write. Her drawings were always very detail-oriented and she would complete them very quickly.  We are including some of them in the photo albums as well. Her creativity is reflected very strongly in her drawings.  Her imagination was endless, her creativity was flowing.
She loved music and wanted to learn piano very young. She started before she was 5. She also loved to sing, she joined a children's choir, The Mozart Children's Choir, and she danced in the Nutcracker.  
She epitomized the entire spectrum of creative discovery.  It was these precious years that became the foundation for what would come next.
Photo album:
Toddler years
Recent stories
February 13
February 13...  We love you, Emma, and miss you dearly, every day.   You are always loved and remembered by so many.  Your name showed up in two unexpected moments the past days, in such a beautiful way, in writing, right in front of our eyes.  So that we could see, since we cannot see you with our eyes.  Always signs, always "coincidences"...  You are on the other side of the veil, but our love and connection remain so strong, and forever special.
This morning we received a message from your close friend, on the other side of the world, and simultaneously, from a dear teacher in your elementary school, and family friends in Strasbourg.  The love connection is so strong.  Rina from Japan was writing a message, and I was writing at the very same time to her, without us knowing.  And many friends wrote, everyone remembers you.  Such special and meaningful "coincidences".  All of this happening at the same time, we all felt the connection, and the timeless love.
It feels as if you were with us yesterday still, and you still are.
There are many stories we would like to share.
You are so loved, you have touched so many lives with your spark and your loving spirit.
With all our love forever,

Mom, Dad, and Ella

Remembering your 16th Birthday

February 13, 2023
February 13… You were going on 13.  You left on the same day as your grandmother, a 13, on the same year.  How is it possible?
A few years have passed, and it feels like yesterday.  Many hearts are still coming our path… And your strong, beautiful spirit is still strongly with us, as well as with those whose path you crossed.  Never forgotten.  Always inspiring.
We miss you dearly Emma, and forever will keep your spirit and heart with us.  A big heart, an extra big heart. A spark that is still shining today, just in a different way.  Know that you are always remembered, the veil that separates us is so thin at times, especially when signs come on our path.
We will post more incredible hearts that came across this year.
But above all, we have to share an extra-ordinary story that will forever mark our lives. An amazing moment that happened on Emma’s Birthday, which magic continued to spread over a week.
Emma would have turned 16 on August 21. Something amazing happened on that day.  
First, we have to mention that two days before Emma’s birthday, one of her teachers sent me a special message, sharing that she was thinking of Emma, and that she always thinks of her on her birthday, because her daughter’s birthday is the day before.  It is very special and always very touching to hear from people who remember Emma, we are grateful for those connections. 
She told me that she took her daughter to see a big field of sunflowers near us.  She said they were  beautiful, and in full bloom.  This is the first time that someone mentioned those sunflowers to us, and suddenly I remembered that I always wanted to take Emma to see those sunflowers, but since we were never in Rochester at that time of year, we never could.  How I wished we would have taken her, she loved flowers, and she would have absolutely loved them.
Jeff, Ella and I went to the cemetery on Emma's birthday.  It was raining before we went, but while there, we had a little window of time with no rain.  Afterwards, I felt that we should go to see those sunflowers near us, and take Emma with us, in our heart.  We thought that Ella would enjoy seeing them as well.
Ella had to stop by home after the cemetery, and I remember telling her and Jeff that we had to leave as soon as we could, since the sun came out and we didn’t know how long it would last…  A feel that we had to be there…
The sun was still out, and when we arrived by the sunflowers, the beauty was unfolding before our eyes.  The lighting was just stunning, the sun making them look even more beautiful, with a magical feel.  Shining like your spirit.  
It did rain before, but not when we went there.  I went out of the car while Jeff and Ella were parking.  I was walking towards the sunflowers, and in front of me happened to be a family with two small children.  Two girls.  I saw the mother taking her phone towards me, asking if I wouldn’t mind taking a picture of them.  
Jeff came next to me with Ella, while I was taking the picture.  He overheard the mother calling her little girl, but I was so focused on taking the picture, that I was not paying attention to what she was exactly saying…   When I was done, Jeff asked her: “What is your daughter’s name?”.  He thought he heard the name, but could not believe it.  She said: “Emma”.  Jeff and I looked at each other, stunned... Emma?!?  The family was Japanese...  What are the odds?  One of Emma's best friends who moved back to Japan is also Japanese. 
What are the odds, right at that very same time when we arrived?  And among all the names that exist… Emma?  
The girl was about five or six years old, and her mother was holding the baby sister.  The girl had a flower in her hair and Emma loved to wear flowers in her hair too at that age.  The girl looked at us with a big smile, she almost looked like Emma…
Amazing moment… What are the odds of something like this happening on the day of Emma’s birthday, her special 16th birthday?
The magic of that day does not stop there.  We were originally going to gather just a few of Emma's closest friends on that day, but since it was going to be a rainy day, we decided to postpone it to a few days later.  We had to plan with the weather accordingly.  We chose a day that looked clear to gather outside.  One couple who knew Emma since she was born, and happened to be with her in some key moments during her illness, was not able to join us, because they were on a trip in Europe.  When I told them that we were postponing, in case they were back, they said that on that day they were planning to be in Strasbourg just for a few hours.  Interestingly, just on that day, around the same time, after traveling through different countries.  Maybe a way for Emma of telling us that she is with us...
We recalled that when we shared the postponing with Emma's piano teacher, who is also Japanese, she said that maybe there was a reason.  And it turned out to be that way.  If we would not have postponed the event because of the weather, we would not have gone to the sunflower field on that day.
This was all truly incredible, that everything unfolded in that manner last minute.  We thought that was amazing, and truly a sign of Emma.  But then what happened a few days later was getting even more astonishing.
During our gathering, we also managed to face time with Emma's special friend in Japan.  She happened to be available just for about an hour, before leaving on a trip to another city with her family.  It was so touching to see everyone connect.  At the end of that evening, when everyone left and everything was done, despite the exhaustion I felt I had to share the special day of the birthday with Emma's friend.  When I sent her the message, she immediately replied and said that just before receiving my message, her mother drew her attention to a sign they just passed...  A big sign, in Japan, just at that very same moment...  A sign that said "Emma"...  I was stunned.  She then left for a few days with her family.
Couple days later, I took Ella to her piano lesson.  She has the same teacher Emma had, who is from Japan.  Right when we came in, my phone rang.  A message came in, and it was Emma's friend from Japan.  She had no idea Ella had her lesson at that time.  She said she had to write because she had something special to share, something that happened on Emma's birthday.  When I read her story, tears ran down my face, it was truly astounding.  
Her friend said what happened was phenomenal, and she said she would like to share the story on Emma's website.  I offered to write ours first, to have a better idea of how everything happened, but with different circumstances arising end of Summer and in the Fall, we are sharing it now.  
Emma’s friend will soon share her story as well, of what happened to her on Emma’s birthday.  
With all our love forever, Emma.

Hearts on your 16th Birthday

August 21, 2022
When we opened Emma’s laptop today to write the tribute on her 16th Birthday, the picture of a heart opened up from the messages…. A beautiful and magical one….
There were several on our path today, beautiful and special.  Emma’s spirit keeps shining strongly…

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